Monday, August 24, 2020

Maintenance Monday: August 24, 2020

If you've reached your goal weight and you're looking for a space to discuss with fellow maintainers, this is the thread for you! Whether you're brand new to maintenance or you've been doing it for years, you're welcome to use this space to chat about anything and everything related to the experience of maintaining your weight loss.

Hey gang, here's your weekly discussion thread! Tell us how maintenance and life in general is going for you this week! And if you missed last week's (or simply want to reread), here's a link.

If there's a specific topic you'd like to see covered in a future thread, please drop a comment or message!

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Starting over...again...how many Day 1's can one person have?

Female, 29, 5'7, highest weight 337, current weight 325, goal weight for now is 299, ultimate goal weight is between 180-200.

Morning y'all. This post is a difficult one to make. I'm on the edge of 30 and firmly on the wrong side of 300 lbs. I have struggled with weight my entire life - literally, when I was born my aunt told my mom she shouldn't breastfeed me so much because of my "chunky" thighs. I was put on my first diet at 9 years old. Around age 11-12, that same aunt would feed me half-portions of dinner then make me swim for at least an hour to burn it off. In high school I was in marching band, which is very physical, and would restrict myself to a single piece of fruit all day. Suffice it to say I have never had a healthy relationship with my body or weight loss. Ironically, when I finally told my doctor about my severe restrictions, he callously told me, "well, you're too overweight to be diagnosed with an eating disorder".

Now I'm at a crossroads. I started binge eating in my early 20s to cope with stress after my mom was diagnosed with brain cancer and I had to move back home to take care of her. Mom's okay now, thank goodness, but I'm still dealing with the aftermath of my choices. I gained over 100 pounds due to eating mostly fast food, and a lovely combination of depression, anxiety, and just general I-don't-wannas kept me from exercising. I know what needs to be done - CICO, food scale, etc. - because I've done it before. I HAVE tried to lose weight, but it's never stuck. I've always fallen back into my binge eating ways.

My husband and I have been married almost 3 years and we want to start a family; however, I am so overweight that I fear a healthy pregnancy would be unlikely. As I'm nearing 30, that fear is compounded. I know it will take quite some time to lose what I need to lose. I know it will also take time to establish a HEALTHY relationship with weight loss. So here's to Day One, again. Any inspiration, tips, tricks, helpful hints, memes, cat photos, or encouragement are always welcome.

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Weight loss for DVT recovery

Last week I was in the ER with the most excruciating leg pain I’d ever experienced. I was diagnosed with deep vein thrombosis (a blood clot) and put on blood thinners immediately. One week later, I’m still reeling from the experience. The statistics on DVT are disheartening to say the least and it’s possible that my body has been irreparably damaged from this.

The doctors have officially classified the cause of the blood clot as unknown and seemed reluctant to say it might’ve been caused by my lifestyle. But doing some independent research, it definitely could’ve played a role (although I will add that anyone can get a blood clot like this, even athletes).

Since being overweight can complicate the recovery process, I’m trying to bring myself down from 180lbs to 150lbs (I’m 5’3 and my BMI puts me in the obese range right now). I want to do all I can to give my body the best possible chance at healing from this.

I was here a few years ago too but regained the weight I’d lost :( I know it’s possible, though! So here we go again.

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6lbs until my goal weight but I'm stopping myself from getting there!

Current stats:
F, 23, 5'9. SW: 154lbs CW:136lbs GW:130lbs

So I gained a bit of weight over this last year since September, about 14lbs in total, in April I made it my goal to lose the excess weight, which I did quite quickly and I was back to my regular weight of 140lbs. I've always had the goal weight of 130 because my lowest weight was somewhere between 125 and 130 and I really liked how I looked back then. I've been pretty motivated, probably the most motivated I've ever been to lose more weight and I've been really excited to get down to 130. (I just wanna disclaim that I know I'm not fat, I just think being on the thinner side is what I prefer aesthetically.)

Problem is, I find a lot of enjoyment out of 'pre planned binge days' I guess some would call them cheat days. I just love getting loads of food with my partner and pigging out for a day (or two sometimes) and I really genuinely enjoy it. Problem is, it's completely stunting my weight loss. I don't gain any weight, I've stayed at somewhere between 136/137lbs for a while now, it just doesn't come down. I'll spend the whole week really on my diet and I'll lose a pound and be really happy, only for it to go right back up after the weekend.

It's like I'm stuck in this cycle, I either give up my cheat days and sacrifice my happiness for a while until I lose the last bit of weight or I keep on in this cycle of being frustrated.

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I've lost 20lbs! Here's how I did it

20F | 5'9" | SW 229(ish)lbs | CW 206lbs | GW 150lbs

Hi everyone!

Since I've lost about 20 pounds now, I thought it would be a good time to reflect on what helped me get to this point.

All my life I felt like my weight was something I could not control, and it would just skyrocket upwards at every doctor's visit or school health check. But now, I feel like I'm some sort of supernatural being because for the first time in my life, I'm consistently losing weight! Read on to see how I'm doing it :)

First, I had to take a serious look at my eating habits. What exactly was I doing wrong? I had had several unsuccessful weight loss attempts before, where I would at most lose a couple of pounds before giving up because it was "too hard". It was also very disheartening to go on the scale and see the same number as the week before even though I thought I had been doing so well.

This time around, I was honest with myself and correctly identified my biggest problem. Distracted eating. I was to the point that I could not start eating without having some tv show lined up that I could watch while I ate. And once I started watching said tv show, I would go ahead and get another plate of food. And then some ice cream. And then maybe a cookie. And another cookie. You see where this is going.

Once I realized this was my problem, I started eating my meals at the kitchen table with no distractions. No phone, no iPad, no magazines. I had to work hard to understand that eating and watching videos were two separate things.

Now I get to actually enjoy my food instead of scarfing it down in a matter of mere minutes.

I eat about 1750 calories a day, sometimes less if I'm not that hungry and sometimes more if I'm really active that day. And yes, I still have the occasional movie night snack while I sit on the couch. I'm not a robot lmao

I eat pretty much the same foods as I did before, just in different quantities. The 80/20 method of proper food versus sweet treats works pretty well for me. I've also just learned to really listen to my body and it helps that now I actually feel my hunger cues, instead of craving a Netflix + food binge (and mistaking that craving for actual hunger). And let me tell you, eating is way more satisfying when you're actually hungry!! Who knew?!

Now I'm not saying everyone needs to do what I do, by any means, but I am urging you to take a good look at your habits and identify your specific problem areas. This was key for me, and I know this because I have never, ever lost 20 pounds before.

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I need help with weight loss. I’m losing my mind and have been stuck in the 190’s for 2 months and not losing anything and feel like giving up.

I’m 28F and the scale is currently reading at 197, last weighed myself at 193 about a week and a half ago. I’ve been eating about 1200-1500 calories a day with one of those Beachbody workout programs. I’m getting frustrated because I gained 4lbs instead of actually losing weight and I feel defeated and feel like just giving up. If anything, I should get my butt back into the gym in the mornings and do more. I just feel defeated at this point though that I haven’t been able to break 190 for the past 2 months and I’m getting frustrated.

Once/if I lose this weight and reach my goal weight, I don’t ever want to have to go through this again. I feel like I’m doing all the things wrong to lose weight. Not working out enough, not eating healthy enough, etc. I can’t blame how grew up, because I can’t keep blaming how my mom and brother eat. It’s my own choices in food. I’m not sure if it’s the types of food that I’m eating that’s causing me to gain weight/not lose weight? I have no idea. At this point I feel like I’m going on a crazy rant.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 24 August 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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