Saturday, June 19, 2021

I'm 18 and losing mobility. This is my breaking point.

Hi everyone. This post is humiliating to make (to say the least) so please keep negative comments either constructive or to yourself. This account isn't a throw away but it will be used solely for weight loss documentation (fingers crossed).

I'm 18F and I've struggled with weight and crippling insecurity my entire life, but it didn't develop into a full-blown ED until around the time I was turning 16. As a kid, I was chubby but insanely active and always outside (gymnastics, on the trampoline, running, walking, etc.). When I got to around 7th grade, it went downhill. I was insanely depressed to the point I missed over a month of school and went online. I stopped going outside, stopped wearing anything that wasn't 5XL and black, and didn't think about my weight because I was too depressed to. I stayed isolated in my house, wanting to die and barely leaving my bed until the spring I turned 16 (2019). I developed an incredibly restrictive eating disorder and lost probably over 50+ pounds by September. I got my shit together, got a job, got my driving permit, but inside I was obsessing over calories, falling over when I stood up, crying over dinner, and so far into my ED that those thoughts still find me. In the fall, after eating 300 cal/day for months, I started binging. I was probably around 130, and had ate my way up to 190s by February 2020. Over the last year and a few months, I've relapsed a few times, but ultimately gained even more, not binging out of control so much as just not caring and using food to feel better.

Now, at my highest weight of 235, the physical effects are getting to me. Cars are less comfortable (I can still fit, obviously, but they're uncomfortable). I took a few (slow) walks a few weeks ago and my heart rate got up to 150+ which terrified me. Yesterday I was in the shower and standing up was way harder than it should've been because my legs are so big and awkward. I haven't worn anything my size since I was 12, but I have been recently and found out I'm a 2X/size 22. That's one size down from the absolute biggest they carry in plus-size retail sections like Target. I'm almost too fat for plus-size clothes. I'm just constantly uncomfortable and insecure, and I've got a LOT better but I still don't like being seen in public. I feel like now, at 18 and a month, I'm too old for this. I've got to get it together. I have plans and goals for myself that I cannot achieve without getting my shit together. I can't live like this anymore.

So, after all my struggle in the past with it, I'm losing weight. I don't expect it to be easy in the slightest, but I'm too old and I've been through too much to let this take any more of my life from me. Please don't give me diet advice. I know all the tricks, all the diets, everything. Trust me, having an ED and obsessively using google tells you pretty much all you need to know and way more. I've ordered a punching bag and gloves for cardio and to take my anger out on something. I also ate meat for the first time since 2014 a few days ago, and haven't since but I think I'm going to try and work it back into my diet (as long as it comes from local and ethical sources). I don't have a calorie goal right now, but I'm in the process of making one that won't ultimately lead to an ED relapse or binge (this will be the hardest part lol).

TLDR: I've struggled with weight and insecurity and depression my entire life, but now, at 18, I'm getting my shit together because I can't live like this anymore. :)

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Exercising in Summer: 5 Moves for Easy Weight Loss

Summer exercising means it doesn’t have to feel like exercise: You’re enjoying the outdoors, walking on the beach, riding bikes with the kids, and moving because all that sunshine demands it.

While many people try to lose weight “in time for” the hot months, being on a weight loss journey during the sunny season gets all that bonus calorie burn. Summer exercising can help you lose the weight so you feel great, reduce disease risks, and reach your goals by fall.

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Even if you usually hate to exercise, you’ll love these options. Here are five easy ways to turn fun, outdoor activities into bonus weight loss this summer:

1. Switch up your pace, even just a little.

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One of the best ways to burn fat while exercising is to perform interval training, alternating higher-intensity bursts of effort with lower-intensity resting periods. It’s a process used by elite athletes and every day dieters, and science shows that it works: According to the Journal of Obesity, many studies have found that this kind of training is better at burning fat than continuous pace exercise. It’s the secret behind HIIT classes, where exercisers sweat it out at almost maximum effort for short bursts.

But this is the summer! Take it easy, and you can still get those interval benefits: Just change up your walking pace a little bit every minute or so. In one study published in Biology Letters, scientists found that when walkers performed faster bursts, increasing their pace by just five inches per second, they burned up to 20 percent more calories during their walk than other participants who strolled at a constant pace. Try it: If you’re out walking, try picking up your pace for 30 seconds, then go at a slower pace for 30 more. Continue in this way throughout your walk.

2. Get strong on a park bench.

summer exercising

While you’re out walking, get stronger! This is a great time to exercising into your summer routine. Strength training increases your bone density, staving off osteoporosis, raises testosterone levels in men, and can help keep your metabolism humming—since lean muscle burns more calories at rest than fat does. And while you may have seen studies in the news showing that cardio is better for weight loss than strength work, strength training is great for maintaining weight loss and staving off fat gain. In one study by Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, 20 minute sessions of strength training helped fight “age-related fat gain” around the belly.

If you’re hoping to spend more time outside, there’s good news: You don’t have to get under a barbell to get stronger. A park bench can provide the help you need to turn a walk or jog into a strength-building session. Try these three moves:

  • Elevated Pushup:
    Place your hands on the seat of the bench and assume the classic push-up position: Arms perpendicular to your torso, your body forming a straight line from head to heels. Maintaining this rigid body line, bend your elbows to lower your chest towards the bench seat. To protect your shoulders from pain and injury, keep your elbows relatively tight to your sides rather than flaring them out at a 90-degree angle. Press back to start. Go for sets of five push-ups, aiming for 20 or more total in each session. Too hard? Use the back of the bench instead of the seat.
  • Bench Squat:
    Stand in front of the seat of the bench with your feet about hip-distance apart, toes pointed slightly out. Push your hips back to control your descent and sit down without using your hands. Keeping your weight in your heels, stand back up without using your arms. Go for five sets of five squats to start. Too easy? Stand up next to the bench and do full squats, holding the edge of the back of the bench for support.
  • Bench Step-up:
    Stand with the bench in front of you. Keep your torso upright as you place your right foot on the bench and press through your heel to bring your left foot up so you’re standing on the bench. Return to the ground, and repeat with the other leg. Go for five sets of five on each leg. Too hard or worried about your balance? Instead of standing up on the bench, alternate just lifting your foot and placing it on the bench. You’ll still be lifting your leg up higher than you do while walking or climbing stairs.

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3. Take a dip in those warm summer waters.

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Swimming has actually been found to make exercisers gain weight: In one study published in the American Journal of Sports Medicine, over a six month period, exercisers who continually increased the amount they ran or cycled lost 17 and 19 pounds, even with no restrictions on their calorie intake. Swimmers in the same study gained five pounds. And that seems like no surprise: When many exercisers finish swimming, they’re ravenous.

But not every study agrees: In another study published in The Journal of Sports Medicine and Physical Fitness, of 38 middle-aged obese women, those who swam lost the same amount of weight—13 pounds—as those who walked. The difference may have been water temperature: After immersion in cold water, people are hungry, according to the International Journal of Sport Nutrition and Exercise Metabolism. In the study where swimmers gained weight, the water was colder than in the study where they lost weight.

That’s good news for summer exercising: Warmer water! So if you love to swim or just want to take some pressure off your joints, a workout in the pool can be just as effective as land-based movement for losing weight.

4. Go for a nice, long ride, walk, jog or hike.

couple bike riding in the summer

Short bursts are all the rage in fitness because those intervals are more efficient than cardio at a continuous pace, according to the Journal of Diabetes Research. But that doesn’t mean longer workouts don’t work at all: With shorter work, you just burn more calories in less time, which is great for slipping in a quick workout when you’re busy with work, taking the kids to school and a million other responsibilities.

In the summer, though, you may have more time for a leisurely session—and you may like it more. Exercise that you enjoy is more likely to be exercise that you actually do…which is why finding something you love is key. Grab your family and tour your vacation spot—or your own town—on a longer hike, walk or bike ride. And you may find that stubborn fat does come off: A 2014 study found that while shorter intervals were more efficient exercise, they were not better at redistributing fat than a continuous pace—the leanest athletes swear by walking or light biking, known as “low-intensity, steady state” (or “LISS”) cardio.

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5. Want to run? Head for the hills.

summer exercising

When many Americans think of summer exercising, their first thought is to go for a run. But hitting the pavement can cause injury: In one review of 17 different studies, published in British Journal of Sports Medicine, researchers found that between 19 and 79 percent of runners suffered injuries during the course of the studies. Older runners fared worst, getting hurt the most often.

If it’s been a while since you’ve gone for a run, try starting out on a hill. The shortened stride actually makes the movement safer for your hamstrings, and it can be easier on your knees. A hill also makes interval training easy to do: Run up the hill for your high-intensity burst, then walk down for your rest period (running downhill can be tough on your knees). Repeat five times to start, and work on adding more intervals over time.

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What I learned losing over 100lbs and then gaining back 60.

Currently in the process of getting ahold of myself. I've stopped the weight gain and actually lost about 10lbs in a few weeks with sporadic, inconsistent effort.

I'm enacting a plan to work my ass off and get back to my pre-quarantine routine, with more focus on weights and less on cardio, from July 2021 to July 2022, then I'm going to try and make a career move that I need to be in shape for.

I started at 385lbs graduating high school at age 18. I got down to 196 in 2018. It was a new life. However, I got lazy. Between 10/2020 and 3/2021, I gained 60lbs+. I was in a bad relationship and living with him, working from home sucked, just basically everything sucked, and then my pants didn't fit me, which sucked more.

What I've learned:

  1. If I don't feel like exercising, it's okay. I have one flat foot and need to give my feet a break sometimes. But it is imperative that I keep my calories under control.
  2. I am not going to fast. It works for some people, but not for me. I can't make it more than a couple days, and I have far too many "last hoorahs" and "I'll start tomorrows". The first time I lost my weight was just exercise and calorie restriction - I've already done it and I know what works. Get it together.
  3. I have depression. I tend not to identify with it, I'm not on medication and I'm not in therapy. A lot of days when things are good, I don't have depression. But when those seasons of darkness come, I fall very low and have a very hard time on my own. Reaching out to others for help rather than isolating is key to my survival with this illness. And it is an illness, I'm not making it up and I didn't do it to myself. Sometimes things are just really really hard.
  4. On a lighter note, strength training is really important. When I was my most slim, without clothes I looked like the loose skin monster from Pan's Labyrinth and it was no bueno. Looking at men who are 6'4" and get down to 190-200 post on reddit, most end up having some muscle definition to fill them out, but I really do not. So I want to make sure I'm taking an approach closer to body recomposition, because I don't just want to be slim, I want to have a good shape.
  5. It was always about being thin at all costs, the first time around I was overly restrictive sometimes. Four months ago I took my dad to the ER with heart failure from an unhealthy lifestyle. He and his father were the same age as we are when he made the drive with my grandpa, only he died that night. This really impacted me and made me realize that the goal is not to be as thin as I possibly can. But to be healthy so I can live past 60 and avoid things like diabetes and high blood pressure as an older adult.

I'm turning 27 next month. Losing weight made me feel young. I lost that in my weight gain, I think it's because my features aren't as sharp. I want to look and feel young and enjoy my life. This is going to be my year and I'm going to achieve what I've always wanted. I've made an appt with a mental health therapist for the beginning of July and intend to go weekly. I don't want any medication but I am happy to talk to someone.

Just wanted to post this to see if someone else might relate. Weight loss is one thing, gaining the weight back is a whole other thing!

Pro tip: as you lose weight, keep a trash bag in a closet full of your favorite larger clothes. Just in case. If I've learned one thing over the last several years of weight fluctuation, it's the expensive cost of clothes.

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Best Workout Routine Recommendations That You Use?

I’ve gained most weight in my lower abdomen, love handles, and chest. Some in my legs as well. I’ve been dieting hardddd using my fitness plan. But I’m extremely motivated and feel like I can get results way quicker. Is there any recommendations for a 5-7 day workout routine that you guys use to build muscle and lose weight? I’m 6 ft 178 pounds. I started at 184 pounds two weeks ago, i’m sure most my weight loss is water weight but I really want to get the Abs I had a year and a half ago and the chest too. Done with the bullshit and letting myself go. Any suggestions? It can be a very hard routine or a beginner routine. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

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i am lazy

i am 16 and i weigh 120 kgs i wanna get slimmer but i dont know how to i dont know what exercises i should do i dont know what food i should i eat(i am vegetarian) whenever i tell my parents to get me anything to help me for weight loss (like keto food or something)but they dont get it.i am tired of all this i really need help some days i just feel like ending things i cant do anything unless someone pushes me and guides me to do something i spend hours online trying to find out about what food i should i eat or what exercies i should do but i dont find anything if i find a good website they ask for payment which i cant pay cause my parents think that its all fake i am tired of this i really need someone to help me and guide to what should i do to lose weight

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NSV and SV: STILL on TRACK

I started my weight loss journey for my 3 time when I reached 86kg/190 lbs - and counted as obese.

This time however I decided to try another route: fasting.

For context: I've been doing CICO before, and sure lost weight I did also gain binge eating problems that made me gain more than I managed to lose. And I relaised that it was the counting and constant thought of food that made it happen.

And I'm now at 79kg/175 lbs - I am now only overweight!!! (My SW) First time I lost this much and still able to continue!

My NSV is that I haven't binged at all - yesterday I had the food to push down in me; but I didnt eat half of what I would do during a binge. I AM SO HAPPY!!!

To add, my pants fit normally again.

How I did it? Fasting - I know it's not for everyone. But doing some 36hours fast, some 48h and a 72 hours fast while taking electrolytes. It made me eat healthier when I eat, and lets me lose the kcal.

Note: I do not recommend fasting to people who havent read enogh about it, people who don't understand the importans of nutritious food when you do eat and people at lower weights. I was obese, and have a lot of fat left too lose.

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Need advice on losing 25 pounds faster

Hi everyone! I’ve been trying to lose weight for three weeks now and I’ve been losing two pounds a week so far. I’m a 5’2 female and currently weigh 129, started at 135. I’d like to get to around 105 (I’d say 100 but I’m not sure if that’s healthy) by the time I start freshman year of college, which I think I’m on track for. However, I’d also really love to enjoy summer in a body I feel better about, so I was wondering if anyone has advice on speeding up the weight loss so I’m at my goal or at least a lor closer by July and August. I’ve been eating 1200 calories a day, and just started reducing that to 1000. I’m basically sedentary, but I do walk around 10k steps on maybe one day a week. I’ve heard that losing more than two pounds a week is unhealthy, so I’m not sure if adding more exercise would even matter, or if I can reach my goal faster at all, but any help would be appreciated.

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