Tuesday, April 25, 2023

How do people treat you after weight loss?

I’ve lost 60 lb. I’m proud of myself and feel great. It never crossed my mind whether people treat me differently because I’m overweight. And then the other day, it finally hit me.

I work in the office building. Offices from the second and third floors share the one break room. I usually don’t interact with people from other offices but I know everyone’s face. So, this guy who has been passing me for the last three years, never said a word to me, not even a hello, suddenly approached me and was like “Hi, my name is John Doe, I’m from the third floor. I’ve never met you, so I decided to introduce myself.” We chatted a little bit and he was surprised to hear I’ve been working here for three years. He told me they often go out on Friday night and I can join a group if I wish.

Last Friday, I went out with everyone. Turns out, there are many people who go to happy hour, half my office was there. When I got home I actually sobbed. I know I know, I felt sorry for myself and angry. Angry because I was invisible before. I was invisible because I was overweight. The guy who walked by me Monday through Friday for the last three years didn’t bother to introduce himself to fat girl.

The vent is over

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Monday, April 24, 2023

How did weight training change things for you?

I’ve been counting calories on and off for a few years now and I’ve maintained my goal weight (F, 5’7”, 128 lbs) for a while. Before I got pregnant 1.5 years ago, I was doing Pilates 5x per week, and I had some nice tone however I’ve never been lean. I’ve always been flabby and have a good amount of excess fat that sits on my abdomen and inner thighs.

I know part of this is also loose skin. My total weight loss was 50 pounds and my skin was never genetically tight. However this is also a body recomp issue I think. I want to start heavy lifting but part of me wonders if I need to lose more weight. I know objectively I’m really low on the weight scale for my height but my body doesn’t reflect it physically. I do not have body dysmorphia, in fact, I really love and appreciate my body especially after having my son but I also really want to get a lean look. It’s a fun goal.

I’m curious how lifting changed things for people on here. Thanks!

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Never ending hunger days

About once a week I’ll have a day where no matter what or how much I eat, I just feel like I’m completely starving. I’ll eat and eat and eat and I never feel full. I drink plenty of water as well in between, but I just have this overwhelming hunger that I can’t satisfy. And what I am eating are good, healthy and fulfilling foods (usually chicken and rice, salads, veggie sandwiches, beans, eggs and avocados - things like that) but that one day of over eating on calories usually equates to negating all of the positive weight loss I’ve had for the rest of the week. So even though the rest of the week I’m following my plan and in a calorie deficit, the one day I get this hunger craze it just erases all the positive progress. Does anyone else struggle with this? What do you do? I need tips! Thanks in advance

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How do you snap yourself back into your good habits after relapsing into your old bad habits?

I (M38 SW:336, CW:301, GW:205) lost 40lbs over the last 6 months and had been making a slow steady weight loss. With stress ramping up at work last week I gave myself a pass to just eat whatever I wanted and I’ve literally chewed my way through 5lbs of progress in a week and lost the ability to say I’m under 300lbs.

It’s an ego hit to feel this weak willed after so much effort. How do you all get yourself back on track after having a relapse? Particularly when the rest of your life is stressing you out. How do you avoid giving yourself ‘passes’?

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My weight loss has been less than half a pound a week for the last 4 months and I am good with that! Focused on lifestyle changes vs temporary

I finally saw 150 today. I have been trying to get myself down to 145 for YEARS! I just struggle past 155. The last small amount has always been the hardest and I feel like I would give up when I would hit 155.

My weight loss journey has been a constant fluctuation for the last 7 years. Switching from an active job to sedentary was brutal on my body and weight. I know that weight loss is a journey and not just a short diet. All my changes are intended to be lifestyle changes, not temporary. I also work out quite a bit for my own mental health and well-being so my changes may not be for everyone.

So here are my changes.

  1. I paid attention to the foods causing me problems and eliminated them from my diet.

Details: I knew dairy always made my throat hurt and wheat/gluten caused minor skin problems. However, I gave those foods up 100% and so many other health problems went away (I will stick to the weight loss ones on here). For my body, I lost a couple pounds of bloat within the first few weeks, then finally I was able to start putting on muscle. I have struggled with absorption issues for years so putting on muscle was a struggle. So long story short here, if you know a food causes you problems, you may want to look into that more.

  1. I am not eating out as much at sit down restaurants (especially dinner)

Details: of course restaurants closing and my diet changes above restricted me a lot. When I would go to a sit down restaurant I would order an appetizer and a meal. This was mostly just weekends, but I am realizing how many more calories I consume just sitting at a restaurant. I still do takeout, but for some reason it’s easier for me to stop eating when I get full and put my food away at home. I also don’t have an appetizer.

  1. I gave myself a NEW exercise goal

Details: I play sports every year and without that I had to get creative. Now that my diet changes gave me more energy my daily run went from 3 miles to 5-6. So I said screw it and did a half marathon and trained for 3 months. That break in my routine made me push myself differently. This also made me work on my body and force myself to stretch and work on weaker muscles (I.e. my hip would ache on long run days and I would know that I needed to strengthen it to get to my goal)

  1. I got a fitness tracker and integrated it with my fitness pal.

Details: I am usually good putting exercise into my fitness pal and underestimating it. Now the watch has made it easy to track, more accurate, and is nagging at me to do more. The goals and challenges supplement my own goals. I found my half marathon training program in it which got me motivated to keep at it.

  1. Walking is keeping me sane during all this.

Details: I have added a 1-3 mile afternoon walk. Just so I am not cooped up all day. Pretty simple.

  1. Hanging with friends outdoors and not at some bar.

Details: we used to go to the bar and grab drinks and sit around. Now it’s hiking, walking, outdoor yoga class practicing/hitting a ball around.... that’s been huge. It’s so easy to get into a routine where you sit around and drink and consume calories. Now we are doing something active (still drinking afterwards a bit but we are up and doing things)

  1. I put on muscle and added strength training

Details: I had some before but as I mentioned before I didn’t gain much muscle until I fixed my diet. I ate protein, but my body struggled to use what I ate because some foods were not working for me to put it right. Once I saw the muscle come in it was addicting! The scale didn’t budge, but I focused on my arms and shoulder definition. New definition in my legs. The scale totally plateaued during this time, but I didn’t care because my body was changing!

Figured I would share my changes for this year in case anyone else comes here and see people losing a ton of weight and feeling the struggle of that end point.

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I finally made it into the 160s!

I am so beyond proud of myself. If you had told me earlier this year, that by September I'd see a weight on the scale I haven't seen in over 3 years, I'd think you were crazy or way too optimistic for my taste.

But I did it! https://imgur.com/a/W4kOGnv At the end of May, I jumped back into my weight loss journey, and since then, I've lost a total of 28 lbs. I still have a ways to go, and It's going to take me a while yet to get to where I ultimately want to be, but I will get there. I absolutely believe that now.

I know that some days, weight loss feels like its seriously dragging its feet. Just keep faith in the process. You'll get there! I'm only 10 lbs away from moving into the "overweight" category on the BMI scale from "obese", and that goal used to seem unattainable. Now it's within arms reach.

I just wanted to share this awesome victory with you guys! Thanks for reading and celebrating with me!

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Sunday, April 23, 2023

Those of you who’ve yo-yo dieted for years, and then finally lost weight and kept it off, what changed?

I’ve been losing weight and gaining it back (plus some) for 15 years now. I’m sick of it! Most recently I lost 30 lbs and kept it off for 6 months. Then I had some health issues and gained 55 lbs 🤯.

Recently every time I “start” my weight loss journey again I can’t be bothered to continue because a voice keeps telling me it doesn’t matter, since even if I manage to lose weight I’ll just gain it all back again.

Hence my question. What changed for you? How were you able to keep the weight off long term?

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