Compliments on weight loss

Over the past few months, I’ve noticed how often people compliment my already skinny friend on losing around 5-8 kg. She mentions it to me all the time, people keep noticing her weight loss and compliment her on it.

I’ve been losing quite a bit of weight myself (around 20 kg), yet nobody seems to notice, let alone compliment me on it.

Sometimes, I can’t help but overthink it and wonder why this happens. Why is it that when someone who is already slim loses a few kilos, people are so quick to notice and praise them, whereas when someone who is overweight loses weight, people often don’t acknowledge it or offer the same encouragement?

It seems like people are much more likely to celebrate a smaller person losing a little weight than someone who is overweight making significant progress. Why is that?

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What’s one thing you’re grateful for that makes your weight loss journey easier/possible?

I try to stay grateful for the things that are helping me along my weight loss journey, especially on days/weeks when progress feels slower (or nonexistent lol). One huge thing I’m grateful for daily is having a job that's mostly remote. This allows me to get my workouts in before work, during my lunch or immediately after work most days. This morning, I was able to take an hour walk around my neighborhood before I started my day. And I’ll do a real workout during my lunch break.

I previously worked fully remote for over 5 years.
Then I ended up having to go back to a hybrid schedule, and I was spending 3 hours of my day commuting to and from the office! In addition to having to wake up 2.5 hours earlier in the morning to get ready for work, plus commute 1.5 hours to work each way. My company also went through some significant changes, resulting in a lot of people in my department getting let go. The extra work was piled onto us remaining employees. So I would get home around 7, and then have to log back on and keep working for 2-3 extra hours most days.

During that time, I completely fell off the wagon with weight loss. I used to workout in the time right before or after work, but now I was spending that time commuting. I also went from regularly getting 6-8 hours of sleep down to 4-5. I also stopped cooking as much and started eating a lot more takeout. I stopped counting calories. Everything was going downhill. I gained 15 pounds in a year of extreme stress!

I’m super grateful that I left that toxic company and was able to find another job that’s mostly remote. Now I have the time to get back on track with my weight loss/workout routine, and I definitely don’t take this extra time for granted.

What are you grateful for?

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If you consider yourself "lightly active" in TDEE calculators, please tell me about your activity levels.

I (F5'6", age 26) am currently at 145 lbs, down from 180 over the course of this year. When I began my journey in January, I had long been sedentary and so calculated my deficit with that in mind - which was at the time quite modest, I was eating 1500 cals with about 1880 maintenance.

My regular habits have changed a lot over this year and while at the beginning I was regularly meeting 10k daily steps I have averaged to about 6-7k daily which I'm happy with. For the last few weeks, I've also recently incorporated strength training twice a week (~1-hour full-body sessions) which I see myself managing to stick with. I realized I should likely increase my calorie intake so bumped up to 1600 for a couple weeks and still saw weight loss. Thinking I may want to take a temporary break from fat loss (would like to eventually be back to about 135 lbs to be in the middle BMI range for my height) to focus on muscle gain because I've been seeing more hair shed than usual which I know often means underfueling, and I don't want that.

Would you consider 6-7k daily steps and twice weekly strength training "lightly active"? My job is sedentary and I currently don't do any cardio other than walking. If you calculate using this parameter please fill me in about what your activity levels are like (and if you're my height would be curious what your maintenance cals are). A TDEE calculator is suggesting my maintenance at that level would be 1945 which seems so high, but that might be because I'm just so used to 1500-1600.

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Just endlessly chasing losing weight while neglecting resistance training will not get you the dream physique

Please, please, please for anyone on their weight loss journey - do not neglect your resistance training and protein, and get into the habit now rather than waiting to get smaller first. I found out the hard way myself that just dropping the calories and the weight endlessly will not end up where you want.

For reference, I used to be very sedentary, and just continually dropped the cals and upped the steps to get from 110kg to 52kg (5foot10) and still just ended up looking like a sad, emaciated, and shrunk down version of my obese self - rather than the athletic/lean look I imagined. I had no muscle on my frame, and probably lost a fair bit during the weight loss, and was terrified of upping the calories in case I gained the weight back. I am testament to the fact that you can be underweight and still have a high body fat%.

It's taken over a year of solid gym work and eating more than I was comfortable with get back up to 80kg and a decent foundation of muscle to the point where I am ready to finally go back onto another weight loss phase now.

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Slipped and gained again

I had a health scare a few months ago that helped me finally take charge of my weight loss. I’m 38 F, 102 kgs, 158 cm. Have been on the heavier side ever since I hit puberty at 11 yo, but have gained the most weight (almost 40 kg) in the last 6 years after covid.

Now I have always struggled with binge eating and have certain trigger foods.
Back in June after my health scare, I began my weight loss journey again (the nth time).. and was very focused for the first time ever..

I was the heaviest at 110 kgs, lost 11 kgs and finally came down to double digits.. I was doing so well, I felt better and more energetic, strength trained and felt so strong, it showed on my body and everyone noticed and commented and I was really riding a high.. but then mid of August I got diagnosed with an autoimmune, this was followed by some family issues too and I was under immense stress for a few weeks.. Caved in and binged a few times, and then completely slipped up.. now I have been on a binging cycle, I’m sure my labs would look like shit again, i feel bloated and so defeated.. I’ve gained 4 kgs

Every night I promise myself tomorrow will be better and every morning I do the same binging..

I’m so down and exhausted

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I have no support system, well on this weight loss journey

Hey yall, so for some context i’m a 21 year old male. I am 6’3” and around 260lbs.
I have been overweight my whole life to put it bluntly, around April something clicked for me and I started doing strength training again and really consistent for months at the gym. But I took a break over summer cause I was working 4 jobs and didn’t have the time or the energy. I started back up again in September and was doing ok I won’t lie but was working out at least 5-6 days a week, whether it was yoga, strength training, or swimming. This past week and half tho has been a lot and I haven’t gone to the gym. My schedule has been a mess and I wasn’t getting home till 3am a lot of days, I was traveling to Boston for concerts, I had plans with my friends and school work. I am now on fall break tho and have been taking this time for me. Tomorrow I’m gonna hit the gym as I don’t have time today. But I’m scared, I don’t really have a support in my life of someone I’m doing this with or for other than myself. I’ve always been my own support and it can be really hard sometimes. I have friends and family and people in my life who get it but I don’t really know even how to use the support I do have. I just I want to feel healthy and good and my body which is something I don’t do now if I’m being honest with myself. I don’t know maybe this whole post is me babbling but it’s just hard and I needed to get it out somewhere where people may understand me

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Nothing else worked?

I'm 5'9, male, at 165lbs rn and I've been in a 1350 cal diet for a month now. Beforehand, I tried 1800 cal, and 1500 cal. All same activity level and no weight loss at all. Afterwards had a period of eating freely with my weight stalled at 173lbs.

Workout weights for 4 times a week and cardio which is a mix of jogging, incline walking, and 10k step days.

None of the precious diets worked and the only thing that I finally am seeing a result in is a 1300-1350 cal diet. It has been said a million times here that it's not enough but what else can I do really? Stuck to 1800 for a month and 1500 for a month too with no results whatsoever.

Now with this new diet I have made sure to hit 140g protein every day and supplement creatine to minimize muscle loss.

So far I have been taking measurements and they all lead to fat loss. Belly size drop, definition starting to appear, and veins are popping.

Also energy levels throughout the day and while training are great, my strength in the gym is consistently going up. I don't feel hungry at all my meals are filling.

I am seeing no negatives here at all contrary to what is said online.

With all that in mind, is what I am doing actually fine if results are showing and no side effects have been felt?

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