Sunday, November 11, 2018

The little things matter too.

I always need a reminder that small victories are just as great as small victories. Here are ‘small victories’ i have witnessed in my 6.5 month journey.

I am eating less then what i used to.

I order water when i go out to eat instead of pop.

I track my food daily, even if i know i went over my limit.

I haven’t gone a week without working out.

My gym time and performance has changed!

I used to struggle 1/2 through planet fitness’ 30 minute express work out. I now can complete it. On the arc trainer, when i first started it took me 30 minutes to go one mile on 20-20 (height/resistance) just this past Wednesday, i did little Over 3 miles in an hour.

I CAN LAST AN HOUR ON THAT MACHINE NOW!

Although i haven’t lost anything in a few weeks, i also haven’t gained any of it back!

I can walk longer distances before going out of the breath!

Other people are noticing my weight loss.

I have muscle, which makes carrying things easier. (Helped my mom move! And did not feel exhausted afterwards)

I got resized for my bra, as I’ve struggled with having a proper size my entire life. As, my band size being huge, and the cup being small, i could never find a bra my size. Now, i am down 5 inches around, and have a proper size that fits!

As great and exciting as big victories are, the small victories are just as great! Just need to remind myself this.

Just cause things aren’t changing fast on the scale(if not at all) other changes are still happening.

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How do I get over my fear of gaining weight back?

I’m a 22-years-old female, starting weight was 230+ pounds, currently hovering around 165 pounds. I’ve been ‘maintaining’ for awhile now, fallen off the wagon if you will. I’m not at my goal weight, but a hell of a lot closer than I once was. Just needed a break.

I’ve always struggled with anemia, but recently I noticed I was out of breath with tasks as simple as climbing a flight of stairs. I’m not the most athletically fit person, but this was unusual for me. After some deduction, I realized that my menstrual cycle was far too heavy and the likely culprit of my low iron levels.

I saw my doctor, who recommended a couple different forms of birth control. She said we really had to “turn my periods off” for a few months, so we could catch up. She said she knew I wouldn’t like a lot of my options, but I was at the point where I didn’t have much of a choice.

She really wanted to try Depo-Provera, a birth control shot that lasts three months. She thinks that it would be my best option. She did warn me that it can cause weight gain. I told her about my history (I hadn’t seen her before my weight loss) and how I was especially apprehensive. She was agreeable, but still recommended it as my best option.

As of now, we agreed to try oral birth control pills, but she doesn’t think I should be on them long, as she doesn’t think it will be my best solution.

How do you guys get over the fear of weight gain? All this hard work down the drain. I know I have to put my health first and ultimately will accept it if I have to, I’m just having a hard time getting there.

Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated!

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The beauty of measuring weight loss in more than one way...

I gained a pound since my last weigh-in, but I've also been extremely bloated and had a few drinks the other night at the urging of my boyfriend (I did count them, but drunk snacking made me go over calorie-goal by about 500 calories)... So it was to be expected that the scale would go up. Plus I'm due for my period in a couple days, which has always shown a weight increase on the scale for me historically.

I was still feeling really bummed.

I am so happy today that I decided to take measurements. I took my first measurements the day before Halloween, so it's been a little under two weeks. Well, I took them again today after seeing the sadness on the scale and... I've lost inches EVERYWHERE except for my thighs! And the kicker, I lost THREE inches on the smallest part of my waist, and TWO inches on my mid- and lower- waist AND hips. I didn't wear a bra while I did the first time, so not judging chest losses, but everywhere else showed inches lost. Arms, calves, waist, hips, even my neck (what?!).

I am feeling much more motivated and like the gym is making a bigger difference than I realized. Things are getting tighter, I'm getting stronger, my body is getting smaller (even if not lighter at the moment, lol), my endurance is better...

Seeing those inches lost was exactly what I needed to get through my little scale upset this morning.

If you are trying to lose a lot of weight like I am and haven't taken any measurements... I highly recommend you start!

I'm very glad I did.

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Researchers: Another confusing claim!

Another day, another headline tells us higher fat content makes mice fat! Or maybe it doesn’t? Or maybe it’s only mice?

Some might think that the researchers are just making names for themselves. Or, that it was a double-blind study and thoroughly peer reviewed so it’s unassailable. Others will say That the journalists covering the study aren’t treating it fairly, or completely. Or that the study is, or isn’t, repeatable. And on and on.

Information, countering information, disinformation, agendas, counter agendas...it’s enough to make you want to give up and stay fat.

But guess what? If you’re on this forum, you’ve found the antidote. The truth. The truth about successful weight loss is CICO + patience + ups and downs + support. It is trial and error, constant re-dedication, humility, and small victories.

And no one will make any money off of you. You will learn moderation and control. And you will learn about how to love and forgive yourself over a long period of time.

Edits made for clarity.

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[Vent] "You should now find a partner"

Good morning (at least in my time zone).

This isn't directly about my weight loss, I just need a place to vent and I'm sorry if this is not the appropriate sub.

Long story short: I was overweight since I was a teenager (I'm mid 30s now), started losing weight at the beginning of the year with 130kg and I'm around 73kg for more than a month now. I'm happy about my weightloss and I'm really looking forward to the results of my last checkup (they'll come in tomorrow), so that's not the issue here. What is, is a discussion I had with a neighbour yesterday. I know that I'm overthinking this, but my head spins and I want to simply write it down somewhere and try to get this out of my mind.

So I have been single for a very long time and my last relationship ended badly, due to severe differences when it comes to having children. I had an FWB for years, but that also ended badly as she started to push it towards a relationship (she knew from day one, that it's never going to happen). I'm like 95% of the time happy being a single. I gives me a lot of freedom, I have my own cozy place, a nice job and a steady income and I can do whatever I want with my free time. But there are some moments (like this morning) when I think, that waking up besides somebody who makes me smile would be a nice thing too.

But back to this discussion I had: I was just taking the trash out and an old lady started talking to me. She was asking if it's really me, as she haven't seen me for months and I look so different. We had the usual talk about my method, how long it took, the benefits and the side effects, so just the usual smalltalk. All of a sudden she started talking about meeting women. It's a bit weird to begin with: She has no idea if I have a partner and it could also be, that my interest is not only in women, but yeah, it was just some casual smalltalk. She then started saying things like "Oh, you'll now easily find a partner and start a family"... I know she said this because she wants to be nice, BUT IT FUCKING HURTS! Yes it might be absolutely true, that it's easier to attract others when you're in shape, but that's not all. My social life is shit as I have abandoned it for several years because of work(ing abroad). I'm slowly getting back into it but it's not very easy and sometimes really frustrating.

My godmother said something similar some weeks ago, she always calls my weightloss a "project" and said "Your next project should be finding a girlfriend"...

It's not directly related, it's not that easy, it's not like I'm not trying and it's none of your business... AND IT HURTS.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 11 November 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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What were/are the most frustrating aspects of losing weight for you, and how did/do you overcome them?

I am really curious about this question — it seems like everyone is struggling with slightly different aspects of weight loss. Sharing our frustrations with one another does a few things in my opinion:

  1. Different people have different solutions to the same problems from which we can learn from.

  2. Being aware of potential pitfalls and challenges makes it easier to overcome them once we’ll face them.

  3. Writing about your challenges forces you to think through and verbalise the challenge and if you dig a little deeper, the root of the problem. Take it one step further and you can think about creative ways how to solve it.

For me, gaining momentum is the most frustrating part. Once I hit my macros, ditched the sugar etc. for a couple of days it is smooth sailing but getting there is always a bit of a struggle. I haven’t found a great solution for this yet (streak apps don’t work). I might try rewarding myself disproportionally for getting the first week right, knowing that afterwards I won’t need a reward as big anymore as I identify the value of staying on track.

Besides this, spontaneity is a bit of a frustration for me. Sometimes I won’t be home in time or leave to a social gathering or so after work and I’m out of food. Not having snacks with me at all times that I can track from a calorie standpoint sometimes throws me off.

What are your frustrations? And how do you solve them?

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