Thursday, July 25, 2019

1/3 of the Way to my Goal and a BIG Mental Milestone

SW: 344lbs TW: 299lbs GW: 210lbs Method: Renaissance Periodization Simplified Diet templates and Walking

Hey everyone! I am a 39 year old, 6'5" male. I could not find a really good before / after comparison but I am happy with my results so far. I started my weight loss journey after a divorce in 2018, the stress of which left me at my highest ever weight of 344 lbs. I moved into my own place and once the "funk" cleared, I started with small steps. I started with the standard RP templates but found that they were not really for me. I saw incremental results but my compliance was all over the place due to the scheduling and occasional lapses to take my mind off of things and then the holidays.

When February rolled around I was at 322 lbs. RP was having a sale on their Simplified Diet templates so I took a stab at it. I started at the Base plan and have continued to see results on the Weight Loss 1 plan. I can also report that (most likely due to the significant increase in veggies) that my lipid panel from April was a stark improvement from the October one, taking me out of a number of "danger zones." I guess it is both a good thing and a bad thing...I lost the weight but I will have to go and get new templates since I have lost roughly 25 pounds since I got the first set.

I have also been incorporating a walk several times a week, and it feels like every time I go things get easier. My feet used to hurt extremely badly after a walk and now I can go a full hour with no foot pain to speak off. I get a walk in most weekdays now and want to start getting in a nice, long dedicated walk on the weekends going forward.

All that said, I stepped on the scale this morning and it registered a solid 299.00. Setting my next intermediate goal at 275 with the hopes that I can hit it by the end of the year. Keep it up, everyone!

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NSV: overate a ton of bad food yesterday for the first time in weeks of healthy eating. Literally felt sick and still don't feel good today. Can't believe I used to eat like that all the time.

For full context, I'm in Utah. There's a holiday here on July 24 called Pioneer Day that the mormons celebrate. It's such a significant holiday here that as a state employee I got the day off. However, there's a joke among non-mormons that gained popularity years ago where we call the day "Pie 'n' Beer Day" and simply celebrate the holiday with a slice of pie and cold beer.

My parents, who love throwing parties and are suckers for a good pun that involves alcohol, make a HUGE annual party for Pie and Beer Day. At least 50 people show up with all kinds of pies for the pie-judging contest and my parents provide a shitload of beer. There's also pizza, fruit pies, and moon pies available, on top of tons of other dips and snacks and backyard games. Throwing a good party is what my parents are best at.

Anyway, yesterday I worked out, ate a small breakfast, and had a ton of vegetables and watermelon all morning to leave me a lot of calories that night to go a little overboard(about 1400) to be exact. I track how long I have a great diet streak, and i was currently at 18 days straight of not going over And I definitely didn't eat as much as used to back when I was fat and lazy, but I'm sure I went way over throughout the day. Pie, pizza, snacks and beer. Now that I literally track every single calorie I put in my mouth, it was weird to feel like my old indulgent self, where I'd see delicious food and just be compelled to eat it with zero thoughts of the consequences.

Only had two slices of pizza, 3 beers, and small samplings of many snacks and pies before I just felt bad. Like, I wasn't even sick yet, just felt terrible. My stomach was a brick and I could tell my old friend heartburn was on the way after a long absence. Soon I did feel a little sick too, like when I was a child and overate to the point of throwing up. Man I felt bad. And you'll notice i started this paragraph with "only", because back in the day all this shitty food wasn't too far from my normal diet!

I would have snacks, candy, and pastries at work, I'd order lunch with a soda and big side of fries and a couple beers in the evening. I had pizza at least once a week(and ate around 4 slices for dinner). And I felt fine eating all that shit. Hell, it wasn't uncommon to feel hungry a couple hours after chugging beer and too much pizza. Ugh. Such a waste of calories and money.

Anyway I had work the next day(today) and I woke up to get ready at 630 am(didn't even try to get up earlier to work out) still feeling like a hot ball of lead was in my stomach. Didn't eat any breakfast. It's now almost 10:00 am and while I still feel yucky and unhungry, it's a victory for my body to finally recognize a huge amount of shit food as bad news.

As of this Sunday I'm 18 pounds down. Let's hope this day didn't affect weight loss too much.

Also TMI: I am having the most outrageously rancid farts I've ever had right now because of the shit I ate. Holy hell they are terrible.

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How to deal with outside opinions about weight loss?

Apologies if this is not the best forum to post as I’m not asking for myself but rather in relation to my wife – for some stats and back story - She's been on the heavier side for most of her life, but dropped 75 lbs in the last 6 months after an unexpected opportunity to join a weight loss program focusing on diet/nutrition. She attends a cardio-based exercise class 1-2 hours a week, but the vast majority of her success has come from CICO. Age: 34 Height: 5'4'' Starting weight 242 lbs, Current weight 167 lbs, goal weight: ?? (I don't know exact numbers, just my best guess). She is focusing on body fat % as her program goal rather than weight, so goal is very close but we don't know for sure.

I have not and will not ever give a fuck how much she weighs as long as she’s healthy and happy, but her family has always been low-key passive aggressive about her weight. Her mother especially – she put her on a diet at 8 years old, would buy clothes slightly too small, pack a different lunch for her than her brother because her brother was ‘good’ and she was ‘bad’…long story short, she has a decent relationship with them but it’s taken therapy and strong boundaries and a perpetual need to shut down conversations that threaten those boundaries.

Of course, her recent weight loss journey has been of great interest to them and only underlines how hypocritical and unhealthy their opinions are and despite the aforementioned strong boundaries, it’s been wearing on both of us. Especially because extended family have been chiming in now and while nobody’s being intentionally malicious, they say things that are tone-deaf at best. ‘You look just like your mom now’, ‘No way is that [wife’s name]’, ‘You should stop, you’re getting too thin’, etc.

Could anyone provide insight on how best to communicate (or not communicate) with people who are well-wishing in a way that only affects one negatively?

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From 418 lbs to 171 lbs! Reached my goal weight this week! No surgery, just CICO and exercise.

Before and after: https://imgur.com/xQ4LiF9

On 6th November 2017 I weighed in at 418 lbs., after much hard work and dedication on July 24th of 2019 I dropped below my goal weight of 173 lbs. hitting 171.4 lbs. I am 5'10''.

I didn’t have any weight loss surgery, I have not had any loose skin removed yet (yes there is a lot of loose skin), I didn't follow some crazy fad diet. I utilized CICO (calories in, calories out), and exercise.

Some other statistics for those who LOVE math; Year 1: Daily average calories1408.46, weekly average calories consumed 9847.53, calories burned via exercise per week 7639.64, average lost per week 4.9 lbs. Year 2: Daily average calories1509.13, weekly average calories consumed 10,567, calories burned via exercise per week 5628.08, average lost per week 2.19 lbs.

It wasn't always easy, I tried to stay positive for a majority of the weight loss journey, I stumbled a few times, but now I have crossed the finish line and begin a new chapter in my life by maintaining what I have achieved.

I hope that others in this sub who are about to give up, or who just need a little push to help them across their own finish line can take some motivation from this post. If I can do it at age 44, just about anyone can do it!

The last time I posted on this sub I got a lot of questions so just to recap from that previous post:

TL; DR: Calories in, calories out, exercise, tracking.

First, I use quite a few apps:

  1. MyFitnessPal for calorie, nutrition, and exercise tracking.
  2. C25K, to learn to run over an eight-week period.
  3. Map My Run, to track my running calories burned and distance.
  4. Map My Ride, to track my biking distance and calorie burn.

I made a spreadsheet in Excel. Once a week, on weigh-in day (which is typically Monday or Tuesday) I enter data from my apps to track trends including: Starting weight, current weight, amount of weight lost or gained for the week, daily calorie average for the week, weekly calorie total, weekly total of calories burned via exercise, starting BMI, current BMI, current weight BMR, and weekly calorie deficit.

With formulas in place it is a snap to enter data and see trends so that I can make adjustments to CICO (calorie in and calories out), to ensure I am on the right path.

Since I do a lot of VR based cardio on the Oculus Rift, I use data from the VR Institute of Health to calculate calorie burn when playing certain exercise-based games such as Beat Saber, Thrill of the Fight, Holopoint, Audio Shield, Gorn, Fruit Ninja VR, Space Pirate Trainer, etc.

My current favorite Oculus game for cardio is Sound Boxing, I typically do 60-90-minute straight sessions on Sound Boxing a few days a week.

Last, I use a website called WebMD which has calculators to determine calorie burn for other activities, such as doing squats, swimming, playing an instrument while standing etc.

With all of this data available to me, I was able to start making smarter choices every week and it shows in my overall trends.

Final bits of advice are learning what an actual serving size is by utilizing a digital scale to record the food you eat down to the gram so that you have accurate data on CICO, you will be shocked at how small a serving size really is once you start weighing food out.

Another thing you can do is learn to read labels. Look for things like serving size, calories per serving, servings per container. If you have certain nutrition goals in mind read the labels for that info, I personally like to limit salt intake as it makes my weight spike due to water retention and I previously had high blood pressure (which is now cured via weight loss).

I do all of my own meal prep and will typically go to a restaurant supply store and buy disposable microwave food trays that have three sections (protein, veggie, and veggie is what I put into them), and will normally make two meals for myself and my girl at a time so that we can just come home and reheat the trays while I prepare our evening salads.

A typical dinner for me is: 150 grams of spring mix salad (30 calories), with Greek yogurt blue cheese dressing (60 calories), a diced plum tomato (11 calories), and 3 oz. of radish coins (12 calories), seasoned with Nu-Salt, and crushed red pepper flakes.

8 oz of Shady brook farms boneless turkey breast cutlets baked in a 375-degree oven for 12-15 minutes (220 calories and 50 grams of protein)

2 cups of steamed broccoli florets (40 calories). 1 3/4 serving of steamed ShopRite brand baby carrots 61 calories.

After dinner, I peel and dice up a Fuji Apple (63 calories), and combine it with 15 red seedless grapes (34 calories) a light and fit Greek yogurt (80 calories 12 grams of protein) and a serving of pumpkin spice Cheerios dry cereal for crunch (110 calories).

For dessert, I will have a pint of Bryers Delight chocolate ice cream (270 calories 21 grams of protein)

Later after dinner, I will have a toasted Best Pita 80 calories with 16 grams of Smucker’s natural peanut butter (95 calories 4 grams of protein).

That’s a total of 1116 calories for a pretty substantial meal and leaves me with around 400 calories to play around with for the rest of the day (I still typically only eat dinner and my evening snack).

I might use those calories to have oatmeal or eggs before work 100-143 calories or broil up an entire sliced and peeled eggplant for lunch (454 grams 115 calories) drizzled with wasabi sauce (15-30 calories).

I hope this information can help others in their weight loss journey.

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I think I'm finally ready (again). A period of white-knuckling coming up ... throw a little love my way?

I've always been fat. Or at least, I've always thought I was fat.

I grew up in a severely abusive and terrifying household. Food was how I coped. I've been obsessed with food and my body my entire life. I used to sneak food to bed after my family was asleep. My dad caught me once and laughed at me.

I've been dieting since I was 5. I was bullied for my body as a child, by everyone - family, parents, kids on the playground. My mom once made me weigh myself in front of one of my aunts, and then screamed at me for being so fat because my dad used to blame her for my fatness. I thought I was the ugliest little girl ever. Actually, when I look back - yes, I was round. I was chubby. But I was lovable. I deserved hugs and love. Not to be abused.

I was terrified in gym class of being looked at, so I would try not to be noticed. Boys in particular would bully me. I was told my entire life by boys and men that I was ugly as fuck.

I lost a lot of weight when I was 13/14. I was working out ridiculous amounts - 2-3 hours at the gym, 5-6 times per week sometimes - and eating a low-fat diet (which I now know was a disaster for my body). I calorie counted obsessively and was always hungry. But I lost a lot of weight. I was still pretty big, according to the numbers on the scale - 185 or so, at just under 5'8" - but I was curvy, muscular, wore a size 12-14 (which, at that time, was smaller than what we call a 12-14 today), and frankly, looking back, I think I was beautiful. But I thought I was hideous, and that no one would ever want me.

Then I gained a lot of weight in university. Up to 267 pounds. Then I lost a bunch of weight once I found out I had metabolic syndrome (that's what they used to call the combination of insulin resistance, high blood pressure, high cholesterol) and PCOS. Over time, I realized that limiting sugar and carbs was key for me. I eventually got down to somewhere between 190-200 pounds by my early 20s. When I figured this out, I cursed everyone that ever told me to eat low-fat and whole grains. Fucking hell.

Ever since my last round of "big" weight loss in my early/mid-20s, it has been a battle. I go up by 20 pounds; down by 10; up by 30 pounds; down by 25. This cycle has happened 2-3 times since I was 24. But since my early 30s, it has just been a steady weight gain.

I know that if I limit sugar and carbs in particular, that is the most helpful thing. But the fallout of my upbringing and the severe mental health issues have made it so hard not to look for a reward and comfort from food, that I have often not been able to find anywhere else. Not, it's not a question of not trying to go for a walk or call a friend or save for a reward of some kind. It's a question of white knuckling it through moments of intense stress, fear, loneliness, dissociation and anxiety. Much like it was for my father with his severe battle with alcohol, and for my family members that have battled with hard drugs, some of whom have died as a result.

After almost 20 years of trying to get help, I finally had a doctor ask me, incredulously, in my mid-30s if I had ever had trauma therapy before. This was after I finally read The Body Keeps the Score, and was going through a period where I didn't care if I lived or died. My mom had cancer. My dad was clearly falling apart, to the point where I couldn't understand how he was still alive. My sisters were going through severe issues of their own. I was being abused and bullied by a boss everyday in a toxic workplace. I was alone. Had no friends I could turn to. I was ready to walk off my job and leave my life and ... I don't know what. But I couldn't keep going.

Before I get slammed by anyone for "making excuses" - I share the above to say that I'm terrified that I'll never beat the food addiction, and the addiction to sugar and carbs in particular. But I know I have to try, and I need support and a community to help make it happen, that frankly, isn't the people in my "real" life, because I feel so ashamed and I do not want to talk to the people in my "real" life about attempts to lose weight that I'm terrified will become a very public failure, yet again.

Yesterday, I weighed myself for the first time in months. 272.2 pounds. I'm "lucky", in that I don't look THAT big. I mean, I'm clearly fat - but I have always looked anywhere from 30-50 pounds thinner than my actual weight.

But my skin is breaking out again. The length of my menstrual cycle has gone from 30 days to 40 days. My acanthosis nigricans is back. And my blood pressure has been consistently high for the last 2-3 years. I don't even want to know my blood sugar and cholesterol readings. For the first time in my life, I have a constant double chin, even when I'm not smiling.

I finally have a partner and boyfriend that I truly think loves me. I finally have found a career path that suits me. I finally have found a calling in life, working on a project that I think will make a huge difference in the world, if it takes off. And I'm finally creating a space of my own - a home - that feels like a haven at the end of the day.

It is finally time to take care of me. "Self-care" isn't just some instagram bullshit that gets hashtagged to death. It's an actual life skill, one that I never learned. I am still not quite sure how to do this without also hating myself, or shaming myself. I'm not sure how to turn acts of eating right for my metabolism, or going to yoga, or signing up for yet another gym membership, into acts of self-love, instead of self-hate. But I think that is what I have to figure out, if I'm going to white-knuckle through the fear and stress and anxiety and all the emotions that keep me turning to food and going on autopilot through life, taking care of everyone else's needs before my own.

In June 2020, I will turn 40. I want the next 40 years of my life to be really fucking great. I do not want diabetes, heart disease, Alzheimers, dementia ... all of the things that run in my family, and that are certain to come for me very, very soon, if I don't change now.

What I am going to do:

- check out a new yoga studio this weekend with a friend

- also check out a potential new gym this weekend, that is a bit more "luxe" than the shitty ones around my house, and has a pool and sauna/steamroom (nice reward to look forward to)

- get groceries this weekend, to set me up to have moderate/low-carb breakfasts and lunches in particular over the next week

- hard boil a bunch of eggs for breakfasts/snacks

- make low-carb salmon cakes for easy lunches, to eat over salad

- make some chili for dinners

So ... wish me well?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 25 July 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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How this sub helped me achieve my goals

So, a little bit of backstory, when I was younger I was the kind of person who never got any weight I ate and ate and ate and still remained slim as fuck. That's mainly because I was hitting the gym once a day, swimming 5 days a week, doing Padel and Judo twice a week and surfing once a week but I didn't knew this in that moment.

Then the economic situation got worse and I couldn't afford doing any of that stuff, and by the same time bad things were happening in my life and I was developing an addiction so I started to care less about my self, my hygiene, my looks or my weight.

Flash forward to 4 years later I was double the weight than when things started to get worse and my life was a complete mess. By the same time I started having and impeding sense of doom and stopped doing all things altogether I was sure it was about to end for me so it didn't matter a single bit what I did.

But luckily I've always been an stubborn motherfucker and a individualistic thinking person so I knew who was to blame: me. There was something I was doing that made me how I was. So I started remodeling my life. Getting everything negative out of it and filling it with positive stuff and that's were this sub comes in which is what this story is about.

I was unsubing from every subreddit that was vicious for me and subing to those which I found virtuous and one of the things I was doing to improve was to start walking and eating less so I was already in a weight loss journey.

And when I found this sub I loved what they were saying. They had those challenges and they were talking about caloric balance and CICO stuff, sometimes someone would post something science backed, most of the time people were celebrating their victories and attributing them to the hard work they were putting. So ultimately they were saying that ilthey were in control, they were the ones who made the change. And so I did, I bought a food scale, a normal scale, a body fat calculator, I installed MFP and from then on I lost minimum 1Kg per week, I reached my goal in less than three months because of hard work and because of discipline, I didn't have a single cheat day not even in my birthday or holidays, I didn't have a day where I didn't exercise, everything I ate was noted on MFP and voila I was again in the weight I wanted to be.

So yeah, there's no secret, there's not higher force to blame, you put the work in you get the results.

The thing that makes me write this is that when this sub talks about victories or facts is always that: "I'm in control", "I'm the one who did it", etc... but when someone is struggling or failing is always the opposite: "It's not your fault", "I didn't choose this", "my husband is eating junk food in front of me so it's his fault", etc... and that's dishonest to say the least. You are the one in charge in both directions either when you get fat and when you get thin and avoiding telling yourself this, being indulgent with yourself and putting the blame in others or other stuff is bad for you because you're condemning yourself to repeat your mistakes.

So please guys and girls, if you really want to lose it take complete control, don't think your husband opening junk food is to blame you are to blame because you are the one who decides to pick his food. Learn to enjoy the pleasures of low caloric food, learn to enjoy the freshness of a salad, the bitterness of a tea without sugar or milk, the strength of a dark roast espresso without sweetening, the endorphin rush of a hard workout and stop regretting not picking that extra donut or that whole pizza.

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