Tuesday, November 26, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 26 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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310lbs -> 170lbs in 16 months then 170lbs -> 210lbs in the last 12 months, I don't know how to fix this

As the title states I (24/m) went from 310 lbs to 170lbs in about 16 months then over the last 12 months I gained 40lbs back. When I was losing the weight I was very much in control of my routine and lifestyle and was able to tweak everything about it to optimize my weight loss. For a majority of my weight loss I did OMAD, which worked well for me mentally and physically. Once I reached 170lbs I wanted to begin my physique transformation and start building muscle as I essentially only dieted to lose my 140lbs and did little to no exercise. I couldn't handle the physical stress of working out when I was obese; the sweating, the aches, heavy breathing, etc, was too much for me. But I could handle hunger. A few months after I hit my weight goal though I met my current girlfriend and a few months later I started working a full-time overnight schedule. These two changes in my life have led me to go astray from my healthy lifestyle. During the week I leave for work at 8pm and get home at 6am, then sleep from 8am-6pm. I've gotten into the habit of eating a large meal before work, getting a "midnight snack" at work, and then eating a large meal when I get home from work. I've tried to cut out the snacking, or eat smaller meals, with little to no success. If I cut out the snacking I do nothing but think about food while working and it makes the time there unbearable. If I eat a smaller meal before work, I just compensate with eating more at work. If I eat a smaller meal after work, I can't sleep properly because I'm fighting hunger pangs. As for where my girlfriend comes in, during the weekends I spend almost all day everyday out with her which results in 2 meals a day of fast food and snacking as well in between. I should mention my girlfriend is petite (5'1, 100lbs) but she loves to eat and considers herself a foodie. The difference between us though is portion control. I have a hard time not eating myself into a food coma which is why OMAD worked so well for me. I relished in the fact I could stuff my face with 1200 calories of anything I wanted once a day and still lose significant weight. But she's an average person who eats three small meals a day and light snacks. I can't do OMAD with her while taking her out for three meals because she would feel funny to eat alone and I honestly don't think I could avoid the temptation anyway. When I order less food, I just end up compensating when we find a snack or during the next meal. Also I have a complicated relationship dynamic with my girlfriend as she is very religious and practices abstinence and I've never been with someone who practices abstinence. I spent my life feeling rejected due to my unhealthy appearance and lifestyle and then as soon as I lost my weight and was feeling confident I met and fell in love with someone who can't even express to me remotely any physical desire. This has been a problem area for me as to be honest a big part of my goal of weight loss was to be a more appealing partner as being healthy and living a healthy lifestyle is an attractive trait to most. I have to dig compliments deeper than "you're cute" out of her because to her any expression of physical desire is immoral. This is rough for me. Because I had no one and have no one to appreciate my body I sort of lost motivation as well to maintain it which combined with everything else I've mentioned is making getting back on the wagon a seemingly insurmountable feat. I used to frequent this sub on another account during my weight loss journey but I can't remember the password or the e-mail I used hence this new account. I don't know what to expect but I just needed to vent to people who understand what I'm going through.

At the least thank you for reading, lovesnailsandapples

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Weight loss gaining steam, I'm getting exhausted

This was the downfall of all my previous weight loss attempts. Exhaustion. Like your whole body was made of lead. This weird hunger that has you thinking about food constantly, but when it's in front of you, you have zero appetite.

Knowing this I set up for a slow weight loss, but it's been gaining speed in these past weeks, getting to a kilo per week, now I've dropped two. I had started to enjoy exercise immensely. I saw rapid improvement and that brought even more joy. Last week in particular I doubled the amount of some things to challenge myself. I loved it, loved that I can do it. And then I crashed. I still ate more or less the same the whole time. I have a soft goal between 1500 and 1700kcal. I wasn't going hungry.

My boyfriend's encouraging me to eat at maintenance for a while and prioritize fitness, but it's not been even two months and the loses are still negligible in the grand scheme of things. I don't know. I don't read of people struggling with this issue so maybe I'm doing something wrong...

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I reached my goal weight without even realizing

I'm one of those people who have been losing weight for YEARS. I started in 8th grade at 214 lbs, possibly even higher (I'm 5'8 and a girl) and went all the way down to 189 within about 6 months through basically starving myself. Of course that's unhealthy, so I was forced to eat more and I developed a bit of a binge eating problem. My weight fluctuated for a few years, but I could never go under 190.

Last year in December was my wake up call. I was 205 lbs, concussed, and depressed AF. I was so sick of feeling helpless and feeling stuck, so I made a vow to myself for the new year to start dieting and exercising, but made my priorities overall health > weightloss. It's the best choice I ever made for myself, but I had to stop going to the gym once school started so I could finish my senior year of high school water polo.

The last time I weighed myself I was 190 lbs. I went to the gym today for the first time in 3 months, terrified and expecting that I would gain no less that 5 lbs. But I went on the scale and I kept pushing it down and down until it reached 181 lbs. WHAT!?!?

I am so shocked. I'm 17 and haven't been this weight since I was 12. I realize I've probably loss some muscle mass after basically only doing cardio for 3 months, but I'm still just kinda speechless. I'm lighter than I was when I was starving myself, which is crazy to me. I think it just proves how important a healthy diet is for weight loss.

I'm kind of at a loss for words, but overall I'm just really happy. My next goal is 170, and now I actually believe I can do it!

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Monday, November 25, 2019

I weighed in under 200 lbs today for the first time in years, I actually still can’t believe it. FINALLY IN ONEDERLAND!

Hey everybody I’m Mark, I’ve posted a few times here and today felt like an amazing day to post again. I’m 16 years old and weighed in at 199.7 this morning, this feeling is really surreal. It’s been a few years to say the least since I saw a number that starts with 1. I’ve struggled with my weight since I was probably 9-10 years old, it’s a brutal feeling. The emptiness, helplessness and struggle that comes from being overweight is really damaging to a kid, that damage hurt me even more because I’ve never talked about it. That’s one of the reasons I’m so grateful to have this community to come to. I have an amazing family that I love deeply, but talking about my weight and struggle was always something that felt uncomfortable to talk about with them. I think a part of that was because I was really the only overweight kid, I felt like it wouldn’t connect with them. I know how wild this is going to sound, but I’ve been on this journey for 9 months now and I haven’t told any of them. I’ve lost 45+ pounds and have cut out countless foods without a single cheat day. The confidence to talk about it is coming however, I genuinely feel it. That’s one of the most amazing parts of this, for the first time in my life I can feel some confidence. Walking around the mall today with my family, turning down the foods everybody was eating once again, while knowing that I was actually under 200 was truly a special feeling. Just knowing the how far I’ve come is still stunning to me, I can buy clothes now and have no fear they won’t fit, that’s something I dreaded before committing to this weight loss journey. This community has been a place for me to talk about these bottled up emotions and accomplishments and I truly am so grateful for it. Enjoy the Holiday season everybody! I’ll have another update soon enough.

Thank you once again, Mark.

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Post weight loss chest... situation

Hi, longtime viewer but first time poster here. Over the past year I went from 220 pounds down to 160 pounds, and still going. I’m extremely happy with my progress! But, being 19 F, I figured that I wouldn’t have a big issue with weight loss affecting my chest. I expected it to get smaller, but as I lose more and more weight there’s a large amount of loose skin forming. I’m not quite sure what my options are. For those that have gone through something similar, did you choose to do a surgical lift, use exercise or another technique / special bra, or simply learn to deal with it? For the surgery route, how much skin is “enough” to constitute a fix? If that makes sense. Am I too young to consider this?

My goal weight is 130, and if I reach this goal I’m afraid the situation will keep getting worse. Thank you in advance for the help :)

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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