Sunday, August 23, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 23 August 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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The big whoosh happened

H: 4’10 - SW: 72.6kgs- CW: 68.3kgs - GW: 48kgs

So I’m 25f and for the past 6 weeks I’ve been counting cals (1500-1400 cals a day) and exercising 5/6 days a week and I’m also doing Pilates 3 times a week. However I was only seeing tiny changes on the scale and it felt like it was stuck in the 69s. I stepped on the scales yesterday I was 68.7kgs and it felt so good. So it just wanted to make this post to say that the ~6 weeks ~ woosh thing actually works and don’t give up! I weighed myself today and I was 68.3 but I think I’m just dehydrated because I had some drinks yesterday. Anyway, I just feel like it’s important to celebrate the small victories on this weight loss journey. You might not see any big changes in the first couple of weeks but don’t let that discourage you - you’ve got this!

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Is it normal when losing weight to need a lot more sleep?

Hi guys,

When I was in my early 20s I ate healthy, played sports etc and all was good. Now at 29 I've gone from around 75kg to 90kg (165lbs to 200lbs), made during the Coronavirus lockdown.

Long story short, I have started eating really well, cut out all alcohol and have been exercising for an hour pretty much every day for the past 2-3 weeks now the gym has opened back up doing a mix of weights and cardio and overall feeling good.

Problem is I am really struggling to wake up in the mornings now. Even though I've been sleeping for 8+ hours a night, sometimes as much as 10 hours on the weekends, I still find it really difficult to wake up now. Is this a normal thing with my body repairing itself after the exercise and getting used to the new routine or am I making a mistake with not drinking enough water (I drink a lot already) or something missing in my diet?

Thanks in advance for all your help and advice and best of luck with all of your weight loss journeys too.

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42F / 5’ 2” / 351 SW / 201 CW / ?? GW

I’m a long time member, consistently encouraged and inspired by the successes of the amazing people on this site. I’m sharing my story (so far, as the journey isn’t over!) in hopes that I might encourage even one other person to take the necessary steps to become healthier and regain control of their life. If I can do this, I believe that anyone reading this post can as well! For me it has been one year, minus two days, and I’ve lost exactly 150 lbs.

Weight has always been a struggle for me. I was the chubby kid that never really lost the baby fat. As a teenager I slimmed out for a time while pursuing interests like cheerleading, but didn’t know how to maintain a healthy lifestyle. My family was financially poor and we ate as such - lots of pasta (it’s cheap and goes far) and managed to keep my weight in check by terribly unhealthy means. As a young adult, I didn’t do much better. I had never adopted healthy eating habits and as a “starving” tech-school student and later young professional, my weight yo-yo’d. Luckily, my overall health was good and my weight, while not ideal, was manageable.

I married in my late 20’s, following my first of six miscarriages just three weeks before my wedding date. To say I was devastated would be a complete understatement. While many brides are focused on specific details of their special day, I was falling into a depression that left me broken. On one hand I was over the moon to marry the man I had waited a lifetime to find, and on the other, I was shattered at the loss of our unplanned, but very much wanted and loved child-to-be.

I don’t know if it’s better labeled “comfort eating” or simply becoming unmindful of poor choices when faced with difficult situations, but my weight started to rise. Over the next decade, my husband and I were fortunate enough to have a total of three amazing, beautiful children, but had five additional losses along the way. My weight continued to yo-yo, and while I gained control on two separate occasions, I’ve felt that with each loss of a pregnancy, I gained more weight.

Our youngest baby just turned five. He’s amazing - smart, lively, funny - the list goes on, and I am so very grateful to have him! However, my bad habits had taken hold of me and while I truly didn’t recognize what I was doing to myself, the weight continued to climb. Feeling that my family was complete, I was enjoying things like baking, decorating birthday cakes, and becoming the “neighborhood mom” that always had extras for anyone who wanted to stay for dinner.

I was in complete denial. I had gained an astonishing amount of weight, especially for my 5’ 2” frame. I refused to step on a scale or see a doctor for any reason. While I didn’t want to admit it, I was terrified of seeing how much weight I’d gained, and by simply avoiding it, I was able to convince myself it wasn’t as bad as I’d feared. Of course avoiding anything doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, and the day eventually came that I had to see a doctor. I refused to look at the scale and even asked the nurse to not state the number out loud. I managed to continue avoiding my reality, which only allowed the weight to rise even further.

Fast forward to 1.5 years ago. I had become quite the recluse, and convinced myself I loved it that way. Because I was a stay at home mom, I bought inexpensive clothes, and not because I liked them, but because I could get them on. If I could make it fit, I’d simply get it in several colors and make due for the season. It was getting hard to do activities with my kids - walking through the zoo left me uncomfortably winded and I knew I exceeded the weight limit for water slides or horseback riding. I realized I was watching my children grow up, but wasn’t participating in it. The memories being made didn’t include me - I was merely the chauffeur and the photographer.

Around that time I was completing a set of medical tests, as my menstrual period had disappeared for no apparent reason in the year prior and bloodwork had shown that I had not “had the change” earlier than expected. When my testing came back, it showed an overall unhealthy adult, with numbers all over the board. My physician asked if I had ever considered weight loss surgery, to which I shut her down as I was scared and uninterested. She is a fabulous physician, and had a conversation with me as a concerned, fellow human being, without judgement or criticism. For me, that was what it took .... she gave me her attention, answered my questions, and offered encouragement. That day I made the choice that things were going to change.

It started simple. I counted calories and used online tools to guesstimate what my gain vs maintain vs lose caloric intake would be. I made the choice to cook “clean” and purge the foods that would only add to my demise from my home. My family didn’t know it, but they were all along for the ride. I educated myself on basic nutrition, metabolism, and how to properly balance my intake. As the days turned to weeks and later to months, it became easier and my appetite substantially decreased. Without aiming to do so, I fell into a hybrid of OMAD and CICO. Once I was feeding my body what it NEEDED, I realized that I didn’t like feeling full, and that I seldom craved anything other than my preplanned meal.

I continue to learn, and I still have a long way to go. I wanted so badly to reach “1-derland” by my official one year anniversary, and because of a natural plateau it doesn’t look like I will. BUT .... I am choosing to be proud of my accomplishment and excited to see where I’m at a year from today!

I don’t have a specific goal weight. While everyone does it differently, I have decided this for myself .... I am going to be healthy. I will be mindful of calories in vs out, but am not a slave to tracking. I like food, so I load up on veggies and lean protein first, with healthy, fiber-rich carbs available at each meal. If I am craving a sweet or treat, I allow it to myself, but practice moderation. I started walking about six months ago. While life happens and I can’t guarantee that I won’t miss a day here or there, I’ve learned that I love my daily walks. I usually go for 3-4 miles at a time, and use it as my time to reset for the day ahead. It might sound “cheesy” or too simple, but I’ve 100% adopted a new lifestyle. I’ve educated myself on healthy eating and balance, and am going to trust that my body will adjust as necessary along the way. Eventually I’ll hit my goal weight, whatever it may be, and it will be in balance with the lifestyle I’ve chosen to live.

I’ve shared my very personal story, knowing that you have a unique story of your own. Please know that no matter what your starting point, and where you hope to land, it’s achievable. Be gentle on yourself for past mistakes, and look ahead with confidence that many small steps make huge strides. It’s great to celebrate the milestones along the way, and be proud of each step closer to your goal.

Here’s a list of several things that I’ve found to be life-changing with the weight I’ve lost for far!

  1. Energy level is so much higher! No more wanting to sleep all day, or catch a 10 minute nap anywhere possible.

  2. Walks have allowed personal reset time, and/or great time to talk one-on-one with husband or kids.

  3. Buying clothes because they’re “cute” rather than because they fit, is a whole new experience.

  4. Personal hygiene is so much easier to maintain. It’s embarrassing to admit, but hygiene is difficult when morbidly obese.

  5. Sex is completely different - for the better! Between having a smaller frame and feeling more comfortable, it isn’t comparable.

  6. No more worries about whether the chair at the dentist or waiting room will support my weight. I can sit comfortably, with room to spare on the sides!

  7. And the best of all .... for the first time EVER, I’ve had the joy of belly laughing with each one of my kids while we jump on our backyard trampoline!

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Do you get super depressed when dieting?

F 5'2'' 140

When I diet and eat a healthy and balanced diet at a reasonable calorie deficit I get super depressed. I feel hopeless, very sad, and angry. I usually am eating around 1400 to 1600 calories on these days, which I feel like is plenty for someone that is not active.

As soon as I have some carbs/sugar again I feel like a normal human being again. But it's not like I have 0 carbs when I diet, I feel like I have a good amount of carbs, and I always pair carbs with protein and veggies.

Does anyone else deal with this or have any tips? While I have no problem in dealing with the feeling of hunger, and this has been my biggest obstacle. I find myself eating carbs when I'm not super hungry just because I need the depression to go away so I can go and do things. Unfortunately due to this the weight loss is not happening, and I really want to/need to lose weight for health reasons.

Edit: sadly due to health reasons I cannot exercise.

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Anybody looking for an accountability partner?

Hi all,

I’m looking to make a new friend on here who can keep me accountable for the foods I eat and make sure I get in some form of exercise daily. Of course, I shall be the same person for you and be your support system whenever things get rough. I know losing weight, as simple as it sounds, is hard and being consistent is hard... I have been struggling with my weight for the longest time, and I’m really ready to work hard and change myself for the better. So, I’m looking for someone who is as motivated and serious about shedding the pounds. I’m hoping that this weight loss journey could be a little less painful if I have someone to share the process with!

PM me if you’re interested. :)

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How can I foster a healthy transition from living all my life as super morbidly to my goal of "normal" weight?

I have lived as a morbidly obese for 99% of my life. I started a weight loss journey about two months ago (started at 500lbs), and I'm doing great so far. I finally feel like i'm living a healthy lifestyle.

I just can't cope with the fact that even though I am practicing healthy, "normal" eating habits, people still see and treat me like a fat person. I feel like an impostor.

I've struggled immensely in my social life since people don't always want to associate with a morbidly obese person. How am I supposed to recuperate from this, even when I finally get to a socially acceptable size? How am I supposed to suddenly learn 20+ years of socialization?

I don't want my weight loss to harm me psychologically as a side effect, so any help would be much appreciated. Thank you :)

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