Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Are anyone’s families supportive of a healthier lifestyle?

I’m 18, 5’0, and 128 pounds. I started eating a healthier diet (focusing on protein, eating more vegetables, not eating out as much anymore.) I count calories closely. I still let myself enjoy things from time to time like a fast food meal here, some ice cream here. But I have gotten really good at moderating what I eat every since March when quarantine started.

And my family has been the WORST part of it. I started learning how to cook in March for this lifestyle change and all they do is have me under a microscope.

First, they always tell me I eat like a white girl. (For context, my family is very much Hispanic and they get appalled that I would eat oatmeal rather than a normal bacon and egg breakfast.)

Then my dad tells me that “fruit are high in sugar” whenever I eat some fruit.

The worst is when I actually have a little “cheat” meal where I indulge in something like fast food in which they’ll stare at me eat uncomfortably and go, “See I knew you weren’t on a diet. Do you know how bad that is for you?”

It’s like they’re personally offended I’ve made this lifestyle change/weight loss journey.

Anyways, it normally doesn’t bother me but now that my grandmother has moved in with us it’s gotten like 10x worse. It makes me feel super self conscious to eat when they literally sit there and glare at me.

I never put them down for eating what they do (and 99% of it is fast food.) I just make my food and eat and they sit there and glare at me.

I thought like family would motivate you and be proud of you and instead it’s like I’m murdering someone.

Just a tiny rant, but genuinely it makes me feel so self conscious. I felt self conscious eating unhealthy foods and now I feel self conscious eating healthy foods. It’s like I can’t win lol

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 25 August 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Halfway there - 27 pounds less 6 months in

progress report

  • Starting weight: 113 kg (249 lbs)
  • Current weight: 100.9 kg (222 lbs, 28% BFP)
  • Current goal: 90 kg (198 lbs, ≤ 22% BFP)

Long-term goal: Maintain 75-80 kg with ≤ 15% BFP

what happened?

I am 6'1, the laziest dude you'll meet in your life. That mentality along with a sedentary office job is a recipe for disaster. in the last couple of years I really let myself go. I was ~ 90 kg (209.4 lbs) even in 2016-18, but after some major personal/professional setbacks I just fell off the cliff. I didnt care about my mental/physical health, nor did I concern myself about what my SO thought of my abhorrent weight gain. My routine revolved around food, gaming, reddit and youtube. I did try to get back on the wagon a few times over the years but even then I knew they were half heart efforts at best.

Thanks to some determination from my part and a lil bit of lady luck, I was able to turn things around and get back some of my sanity sometime December 2019 (If that was the monkeys paw for 2020 I am so very sorry lol). With gyms being a hazard for the foreseeable future at my city, I decided to invest in whatever second hand spinner bikes and weight plates/BBs/DBs I can find. That was in February. And since then I have been making steady progress.

Exercise

I never thought I would be a home gym guy - I never could focus on working out at home, too easily distracted. But something is different now - almost as if I prefer this. Dont get me wrong, I really wish I could actually have the machines, environment and like minded people that gyms provide. But I am loving the fact that I can workout at my own pace, and not share equipment with others.

I am doing a pull-push split 4-5 days/week. I have steadily lost weight but losing fat has been a challenge to say the least. But I am trying to have no zero days at the least (link for the uninitiated). I am seeing noticeable improvements in my upper back, glutes, and hamstrings the most. Hoping to make significant progress in my chest and abs in the coming months.

diet

By far my biggest challenge. I bloody LOVE to eat man. If I could I would eat 2k calories worth of pizza/pasta/burger/steaks - per meal. Anyway, I am aiming for 1600-1700 calories/day, allowing a ~2.5k cheatday if I complete my workout for the week. No strict micro, but aim for 30% carbs, 30% proteins, and 40% fat. I know this is not ideal, but Im afraid Im always a demotivating week away to falling back on old habits. Having said that, I know I will hit plateau soon if I dont make lasting changes to my diet. Losing BFP is a key requirement too as I am still very much in the obese category. I need to close the gap to 25%.

whats next?

In the coming months, I aim to do the following:

  • Progressively overload on my workouts. Especially improve my compound movements like squats, rows, deadlifts etc.
  • Learn to like cardio and abs workouts.
  • Include yoga as a daily requirement.
  • Better mental fortitude for sticking to my diet.
  • Learn to love myself.
  • Learn to forgive myself.

Please share any tips or routines that has help you sustain weight loss and attain a better attitude on life. Thank you for reading my post. I look forward to my next progress report. 💪

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Unsolicited advice?

So I need to lose 200+ pounds. I have been tracking food intake for a year with limited success, but a few months ago I decided to get serious about weight loss. I talked with a Dietitian as well as a physio therapist and made plans. It's been pretty good! I have lost over 25lbs so far through a combo of food, stationary biking, walking and some weight lifting. More importantly it feels sustainable. I enjoy the food I am cooking and although I hate lifting weights, I like the biking.

Thanks to COVID, I haven't really seen my friends or family much. And when you are really large like me, you can lose a lot of weight before people really start to notice. At 25lbs lost, I am really proud of myself and I kind of want to tell people, which I haven't done much of yet. I have told just a few people that I have been biking and already I am getting a lot of unsolicited advice on what I should be eating, how much protein I need, how I can "improve" my heart rate while biking, comments on how skinny I will be after COVID.

I just don't want any of this!!! I consulted professionals, I have a plan and it is working for me. I am not going to be super skinny after COVID, it is going to be reallllllly long time until I am super skinny and frankly I may never be. I want to be able to talk about my successes on this journey with my friends & family but I don't want all of this "advice" and expectations put on me. Do other people experience this? How do you handle it?

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Monday, August 24, 2020

I'm Tired Of Being Overweight

(This is my first reddit post so apologies I'm advance)

I 15|F|5'4 have been overweight for the majority of my life. I don't want to drag on about my life's sorrows or hardships but I also want to provide a little backstory. For the last two years my family has been on and off again homeless, and you can imagine how it's easier to just buy McDonald's when you don't own an oven. The lack of nutrition in my diet and the lack of food caused me to binge eat whenever there was a surplus. My new found goal to lose weight did not help this at all. I began a period of hardly eating and then binging. 1000-1200 calories a day proceeded an eventual binge, and this cycle went on for 2 1/2 years. I didn't realize until recently my body was experiencing yo-yoing and what I was doing to my body was considered unhealthy. In 2018 I weighed 200 pounds and now I weigh 240.

I gained 40 pounds in a little over a year and a half.

However, I'm done being unhealthy with my body. I want to go out, take pictures, go to the pool, and feel confident. I can't be confident in myself when I know I'm unhealthy.

These last 3 weeks I've begun the long process to a turn around. I've begun walking a mile a day and I am currently at 1.8. I started a Chloe ting workout challenge, and I have slowly begun to reform my eating habits. I eat with chopsticks to slow down my eating, I drink a glass of warm water every meal, I'm slowly trying to get to 1800 calories, and I am trying to cut out extremely processed foods.

I know it will be a long and difficult journey to my goal weight (140).

I wanted to know if y'all can give me any advice/tips concerning my weight loss so that this time I can be healthy the right way this time around.

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Lost 25lb in 4 months, hoping to lose 90lb more with consistent working out!

Four months ago I came to this sub Reddit asking for help. I’m a 16 year old girl who was almost 250lb. Although iv always had an unhealthy relationship with food and hated my body, my confidence had dropped immensely due to gaining 10lb during quarantine. I remember crying to my mom that I hated my body, crying that I was tired of being fat and unhealthy. Although my parents are always supportive, they didn’t really know how to help. I came on this sub basically venting about my emotions and struggles. The comments I received where just what I needed! I felt to motivated, so encouraged! I felt like this time I could do it! I began the keto diet, strictly counting my intake of food. I began drinking water like crazy. I gave up sugar. I gave up bread, pasta and anything else with high carbs. It was insanely difficult at first. I remember one person telling me it would be the hardest thing I’d have to do. And so far it is. After months of doing this I have lost around 25lb making myself 221lb!! My clothes are loose on me, my confidence is high. I have a healthy relationship with food. My friends and family have noticed and my uncle didn’t even recognize me at a family gathering recently. He said I was glowing and looked so happy!

My journey has just begun however. After 4 months I am now ready to take the next step in my weight loss journey. I want to start exercising daily. I remember a few months back someone on this sub recommended the video “make your habits stick forever: elastic have its” which looks like a good plan for me! But even then, I still find it difficult to find energy to work out (iv always been a lazy low energy person) I lack the self drive. I’m going to try my hardest but are there any words of encouragement or advice you guys can offer?

In the end my goal is to be 130lb which is still 90lb away. I have a lot of work left but I’m confident I can do it.

TLDR: i lost 25lb in 4 months, feel great, and am ready to take the next step working out but I tend to lack motivation working out so would like some tips or advice!

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Weight loss with bodybuilding or powerlifting?

I'm on a weight loss journey, I've lost almost 30lbs so far and finally going to re-introduce weight training into my plan (I used to do some very basic powerlifting) but trying to decide if there is enough of a difference on aesthetics to make choosing bodybuilding style better? I know bodybuliding in general is supposed to have more of an effect on appearance with people with low enough body fat, with the knowledge that I'm hoping to get down to like 20% body fat in a year should I work on bodybuilding instead of my old powerlifting? I also know that my old powerlifting routines were quite a bit shorter than a bodybuilding routine.

Basically, bodybuilding vs powerlifting for weight loss and body recomposition? Pros, cons, does it make enough of a difference to matter?

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