Tuesday, February 16, 2021

I've done it, 50lbs down. 1/3 of the way there!

M24 6'3" [SW]: 427.6 [CW]: 376.9 [GW]: 280 (for now)

I had a doctors appointment on August 3rd, 2020. When I got there, I was dreading it. I knew they would want my weight at check in, and of course they did. I stepped on the scale and couldn't even look. It was 427.6lbs. The heaviest I have ever been (and I have always been a bigger boy, but this number freaked me the fuck out).

I expressed to my doctor that I was worried about my health, because on top of weight I was also really struggling with mental health and also mobility issues. It was hard to get around honestly, without having a hard time breathing or without needing to stop and hack shit up. (I had also quit vaping/smoking a few months prior to the doctors appointment, so I was still constantly coughing up shit from vaping/smoking basically all day for 7 years or so.

I also found out that day that I was considered pre-diabetic and they had me start checking my bloodsugar. It was high a lot of the time, but as I ate healthier and healthier it started getting to normal levels pretty consistently which feels great too. My doctor, at my last appointment in late October, said I needed to get the diabetic eye exam, so I did that and the eye doctor said I had beautiful eyes, no signs of diabetes at all. Not even any early warning signs. Phew!! Diabetes does run on my biodads side of the family so I have been genuinely worried about that.

When I expressed my concerns, my doctor also said she was concerned about it. She had me get an appointment with a nutritionist and that helped me understand stuff a bit, but honestly the majority of stuff I kind of knew, but didn't realize it. Recently I finally got a kitchen scale and honestly I don't know how I never used one before, because I can't go without it now. I weigh everything I eat. I enter it all into Carb Manager, alls good. I always felt like weight loss was this super difficult thing. It's so much easier now that I truly understand what my body needs/doesnt need. It's crazy how it clicked.

This is 50 pounds down, and 100 more to go (for now!!)

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50lbs Down!

F43 5’7” SW 227 CW 177 GW 155

If someone had told me back at the beginning of August, before I decided to try to lose weight, 177 days after I started CICO that there would be 50lbs less of me, I would have laughed and not believed them.

Keeping on track has been tough the past two months, between holidays, winter doldrums, adjusting to eating even fewer calories, and the general slowing of weight loss as my body mass decreased, but like the tortoise, I’ve just been trying to keep it slow and steady. But yeah. It’s been so, so hard lately.

But here I am anyway—still CICOing, going on walks, down 50lbs, with 22lbs to go!

I was so excited to finally reach what once seemed like an impossible number, and wanted to share it with the community that has inspired me to start and to keep going. Here’s to losing those last 22lbs!

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Monday, February 15, 2021

Ever feel like you just can't get past a certain weight?

Don't mind me. Just venting here. I know the logical answer to this. I'm just frustrated right now, to be honest.

A few years ago I had started losing weight after being obese my whole life. I lost something like 35lbs in about 5 months (got from 230 to 195). My weight loss slowed down in the next couple of months and the lowest weight I saw on the scale was about 187. After that, I gained a few lbs, maintained for a year or two, and then slowly started gaining more and more.

Cut to June 2020. I realized I had totally let myself go during the lockdown here and was back up to 220. By November I had lost about 33lbs, but since then, for the past 3 months I've just been hovering around 187. Every time I go a little below it, I get excited, but then it creeps back up there even if I've been staying within my calorie limit. In my lower moments I seriously wonder whether that's just my natural, default weight, and that I'll never know what being a normal weight feels like. It's quite a bummer.

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Realising why I emotionally eat: because I feel unlovable

this might seem a bit rant-y but that’s not what I intended, but if anyone has any advice that will be great. Thank you

So basically I’m in week 7 of weight watchers/itrackbites, and I have done super well until today and yesterday I just blew my diet.

And I always knew my eating problem was due to emotionally eating but I’m really realising it’s because of stress sometimes, but other times/most of the time is because I feel unlovable!!

Because I’m in my early 20s and I’ve never been in a relationship, and have no friends. So I really feel unlovable and have no source of connection, and food is what I turn to instead.

It was Valentine’s Day recently, and this morning I had a dream that I was pregnant and because I feel like the guy and I broke up or something (not sure but that’s what I sensed, I just felt like he didn’t really like me anymore) I tried to text him to say we need to talk, that it’s serious (to tell him I was pregnant).

Anyway so today I’ve felt super shit because I’ve never been in a relationship in the first place, only in my dreams it seems like someone would want to get intimate with me/I would get pregnant, but as well as that even still in the dream the guy didn’t like me.

Soo I think my subconscious this morning made me see that I feel I am really unlovable, and then today when I broke my diet again after yesterday I really felt why I was breaking my diet... and it was because of this feeling.

(Also I know it’s a lifestyle not a diet, but I didn’t really know how else to say it)

Also my sister is pregnant and every time her partner comes over I feel like such a piece of shit, I just feel like and alien or something because they are always such a couple and I’m sitting by myself, and I guess I am jealous. (edit: am also really happy for her and super edited too!)

So that is what I realised... this is why I emotionally eat.

Anyone have any tips to help?

Edit: also I hope I can type this here, I don’t know where else I can tell this to. But I have 55kg to lose and it makes me feel even worse because even after the weight loss I’m scared no one will like me still because I’m scared I’ll have lose skin, and I will still have the stretchmarks (which I don’t mind by themselves but with everything else..), scars, and saggy breasts. sorry if that’s tmi but that’s what happens when you’re a big girl with breasts... usually they are saggy before the weight loss, after the weight loss they are just gonna be worse. So how im really freaking out because it just seems like there is no way in the world a guy will love me, yet that is the most important thing in the world to me. To love and be loved.

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Nothing but weight on my mind

F/23/5’2/HW233/CW138/GW120

Hi everyone! This is my first post so sorry if it’s all over the place. I’ve been lurking since beginning my journey in 2017. You have all been really helpful and this is a great, supportive community of people so thank you!

For background, I lost 100 lbs in pretty much a year and a half. Last year got back up to 150 by letting go of weight loss/maintenance as a priority. Thankful that I caught myself and am back on track. That’s the problem I seem to have that I need help with. If I am not constantly hyperaware of my body and what I’m putting into it, I let it go. It is so hard for me, the mental part. The way I’ve lost weight has been healthy, I haven’t eaten under 1200 calories. But the way I go about sticking to eating that many calories is not healthy mentally. After getting to 100 lbs down, my lowest weight being 133, I still had a fat stomach. Don’t know if it’s fat or loose skin. I’m always looking into it and watching loose skin videos, looking at progress pictures, comparing myself. I’m always worried whether people perceive me as fat since I am still overweight for my height. Looks and being self conscious from a young age play a role in this. It’s kind of absurd at this point because it’s such an improvement from where I was but it still doesn’t feel good enough. In my free time I find myself just reading posts on here or watching videos on YouTube about weight/dieting/nutrition. I’m always thinking about my weight even when I’m not eating! It’s consuming so much time, effort and thought. I look at how my clothes fit, weigh myself, and use a tape measure more often than I’d like to admit. If I don’t do that I feel like it’s not at the forefront of my mind, then I start slowly eating more poorly. I’m feeling burnt out but not enough to give up, I know that this is a lifelong commitment. Eating less isn’t a sacrifice but putting so much thought into it is, especially years into this when I thought it would be second nature by now.

My question is how do you do this without being unhealthily obsessed with it? It needs to be a priority without being the only priority, if that makes sense. I need the inspiration/motivation to keep going but I don’t want to waste my life trying to be perfect either! If you can relate to this is there a way to reframe it from being about physical appearance to being about health only? Has appearance and self image played this big of a role in your journey? Thanks.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 16 February 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Trouble accepting changes in clothing size after weight loss

F28, 5’4, SW 167, CW 142, GW 135

I've been on my weight loss journey for about 6 months, and now that the weight is coming off, I've noticed my clothes have started fitting differently. Before losing weight, I would typically wear a large/XL in shirts and a 10/12 in pants when using my measurements for online shopping. I recently did some online shopping and noticed my new measurements have me at a medium for shirts and a 6/8 for pants. This was a shock to me, as I've never been able to even contemplate wearing a size 6 pants before! I guess because I see my body everyday, it doesn't feel like a massive change has happened so the numbers definitely surprised me. It took awhile (and double checking on several different brand websites) for me to convince myself it wasn't a one off or typo.

Has anyone else had a similar experience with not believing the changes in your clothing size after weight loss, or is the pandemic finally making me lose it (pun intended)? :)

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