Friday, March 19, 2021

At the low end of my usual yoyo range, this time I will succeed

So last year I was in France for a holiday, at my highest weight ever and surrounded with petite French ladies that indulge in all these good and calorie dense things without being overweight. Young and old, they're all very slim.

And apart from feeling mostly disappointed in myself for gaining all that lockdown weight it clicked for me. I always think that I'm not getting enough. I always think that I have to eat it ALL and eat it NOW or it will be gone.

I grew up poor and not getting enough is something that has been ingrained in me. I didn't realize this. Yoyoing my way through my adult life, and triggering myself to binge by withholding too strictly. I now understand why I couldn't succeed in getting to or staying at my goal weight.

My weight loss journey has been slow, and filled with tasty and healthy things. I typically don't eat breakfast and will lunch with a big bowl of oatmeal or a salad. If I'm hungry I'll have a snack at 3/4 in the afternoon. Fruit or crackers. Im lucky in the sense that I really like cooking healthy dinners and my SO does this as well.

Slow and steady I'm now at the low end of my yoyo weight, 72 kg (160 lbs) and not one time did I feel like I'm on a diet. My goal weight is 66 kg (145 lbs).

Thanks for reading, I hope my story can help someone!

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Advice for someone who's TDEE is only 1300kcal?

Hi!

Started my weight loss journey yesterday (second shot this year, kind of fell of the wagon first time). I ate 1226 kcal yesterday, which is considered healthy calorie wise and well I ate very healthy foods too so it was a success. I just feel a bit encouraged how this is going to work for me in the long run? I'm a short woman and my TDEE is 1300kcal. Eating 1200 is only going to give me a 100kcal deficit since I barely am active...I want to have at least a 500kcal deficit. Wouldn't it make more sense me eating 1000kcal + burn 200 kcal with exercise to achieve a 500kcal deficit? It feels way more doable and easy, than trying to achieve a 400kcal deficit with exercise.

What are your thoughts on this? Any advice from someone who has a low TDEE like mine?

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How do YOU keep motivated after weight loss slows down?

Weight loss: before and during https://imgur.com/gallery/7EMz5wN

HW: 470 lbs CW: 298 GW: 200

I've lost 170 lbs in the past year after going on a medically supervised diet followed by gastric sleeve surgery. I've have a consistent workout program, have been in weekly therapy to help understand and overcome my disordered eating behavior, and have stuck to my diet plan religiously. Literally and without hyperbole - every aspect of my life is better now.

In the past few weeks I've hit a plateau and tried to shake things up to overcome it but I'm just stalled. Now I'm finding myself wanting to backslide into old habits. My husband isn't on a diet as he doesn't need to be, so he has a lot of my old favorite foods laying around and the temptation is increasing with the slower my progress is. I don't want to go back to old habits, and I'm confident I can fight the temptation but the constant vigilance needed to stay on the good path is wearing me down this week.

What keeps you going when the weight loss journey is feeling like a chore instead of a gift?

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Thursday, March 18, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 19 March 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Sore knees after workouts

Hi, 35/F here, 206/5'10" gw 175.

I've been on my weight loss track for four months and I'm down thirty pounds, which is great. I've been stalled at 206 for weeks, which is a whole other post. I've been doing fitness blender workouts, some of which can be pretty intense, and I'm feeling good, building my endurance and strength.

Lately though, my knees have been pretty sore. I've always had issues, since college volleyball was pretty tough on my knees.

There's no sharp pain, just a general ache that doesn't really go away. I don't want to stop working out because I'm seeing results. Plus, I'm sure getting some weight off will only help my knees in the long run.

Does anyone else have this issue, and if so, what are some things I can do to keep working out but maybe help my knees? A knee brace maybe?

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Finally starting to get back on track after 38lb gain during Covid - forgiveness is key!

F(26) SW: 418, CW: 284, GW: 200 (or whenever I feel good and healthy and happy)

I’ve posted here a few times before to celebrate successes, and I guess with this post I just want to share some struggles and successes I’ve had recently. On mobile so excuse formatting:

After briefly hitting my lowest adult weight of 272lbs in November 2019, the holidays happened. But no worries, life is meant to happen. Returning back to the west coast after spending time home on the east coast I was fired up and ready to get back into the swing of things. And then there was the pandemic. And then there was a hiking injury. And then there was a car accident that left me physically ok but mentally wiped. After about a year of just coping, I stepped on the scale in late January 2021 after an unfortunate few weeks of binge eating/drinking, panic attacks, and extreme body dysmorphia. The number was 310.

After an initial swell of self-hatred and disappointment, I paused. I breathed. I recollected my thoughts and, mostly importantly, I accepted it. It was a hard year. Pandemic aside, there were a ton of other personal things in my life that were difficult to maneuver. I can admit it (now) that it all affected me a lot more than I let on. I know that as a coping strategy to stress/depression I ate out more and surrounded myself with comfort food. I retreated to my room where at home workouts just weren’t cutting it like trips to the gym, which weren’t open because of covid. It makes sense I gained weight, and it’s ok. I had to get through that time of my life, and I did, and now the number is 310.

Acceptance and, eventually, forgiveness is key. And it’s so hard. I’m preprogrammed to always default to extreme self-hatred and in that moment I felt disgusting. So I went for a hike, an activity I did continue to stick with during 2020 (except when healing up). I spent time on that hike appreciating my body and legs for what they could do, even at 310. I noted that, while I had gained weight, I was still making great progress on trails. I was going further distances and climbing at steeper elevations. My breathing had become a lot less heavy while ascending. I felt good.

So, I forgave myself. Nothing left to do but get back on the horse and continue on. A new day one, and that’s ok. If I’ve learned anything from being overweight and losing 100+ pounds (and gaining some back) it’s that there’s more to weight loss than just numbers, diet, and exercise. Long term success requires you to love and forgive yourself even when you gain. We are all just people trying their best. Sometimes our best is just not gonna cover all the bases, like mindful eating and/or exercise, and that’s ok. You’re ok. What matters is forgiving yourself, and, well, just getting back to it at whatever pace is healthy for you.

This morning I weighed in at 284. I’m feeling positive for the future (most days) and proud of how far I’ve come with myself, physically and, especially, mentally. I just wanted to share this journey and my reflections with others as I know this has been a tough year for all of us. I’m sure others have experienced pandemic weight gain and are wrestling with it internally. I see you, I feel you, and I acknowledge how effing frustrating it is. But we got this. You got this.

Be kind to each other and yourself, friends!

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How do you go about updating your weight?

Hi everyone!!

I started my weight loss journey rigorously about three weeks ago.

I check my weight every 2 days, and have come across a situation. When do you log your weight loss? For example, four days ago I saw I’d lost 12.5 pounds in the last 3 weeks. At first I didn’t believe it and attributed it to loss of water weight. Checked again two days later and it was -10 pound total weight loss. Now, two days later, I’m at -11!

I’ve completely revamped my eating and am on a low calorie diet, have been sleeping more, and am doing 10k steps a day minimum compared to maybe 2-3k a day.

My question is, can I now input a 10 pound weight loss, or is it all water weight?

Thanks for the help!

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