Sunday, December 29, 2019

Remember to focus on other life goals alongside weight loss, not after

I'm approaching 1 year of weight loss come January and in that time I've last around 85 lbs! I'm incredibly proud of myself and my accomplishments. In 2020 I plan to hit my goal weight of 175lbs, lose any additional weight I decide on and to continue on my path of getting fitter and healthier. I've genuinely never felt better both mentally and physically in my life. But I have some glaring issues that I'm still struggling with.

I'm 19 and I've been overweight since I was a kid and I do NOT have a nice body. Because of my self-confidence and body issues, I've not truly been in a real relationship, I've always held myself back. The thing is I thought that losing weight would fix that, and truthly i guess it could because I still have 40+ lbs to go but I have this gut feeling that the issue is deeper than that.

It might not seem like a big deal given my age but to me, it's like half of my life has been deeply affected by my bad lifestyle. Despite the fact the past year has been tuned to improving that lifestyle, I still haven't conquered those issues and I'm really scared I'll be writing the same thing this time next year. If you're looking to lose weight, please remember to treat any other issues you have alongside, don't assume weight loss will fix them, because while it might, or at least it could certainly improve them, it's also very possible it won't affect them at all. Heck in my case, the lack of physical changes despite big numbers is almost furthering my issues.

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I have a date which will probably end up in bed (having pseudogynocomasty)

First of all am sorry if this is not the right place to ask it.

Throw away because my wife can see it (jk :D)

I have lost about 85 kgs (187 lbs). I have been with women during that time but i have informed everyone about at least my weight loss journey, since it was a part of my past and something i could share.

But now, this woman do not know what she will see. And i am not planing to inform her about my saggy man boobs and saggy arm skin. So my questions are simply: Is it unethical not to inform her about it, since it might gross her out? How do i encounter that situation? Thanks, in advance!

Tl; dr: got man boobs and she doesnt know about it, she has a greatt chance to see me naked soon

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 29 December 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Eight days postpartum - starting the weight loss journey again!

I just wanted to share my experience with weight gain and loss in case it's helpful to someone else.

When I decided to have a baby, I was pretty worried about the weight gain and how it would affect my self-image; how difficult it might be to get it back off.

I lost 38 pounds in 2016/ 17 to go from 5'2/ 138 to 100 pounds. Then I maintained it up until getting pregnant in April 2019.

I gained about 60 pounds in my full-term pregnancy. My OB/Gyn was never concerned since I started off on the leaner side, but I was pretty concerned!

I came home from the hospital last week at 154 (having checked in at 161 pounds). I'm happy to say I'm down already to 144 pounds. A lot of it was water and a lot more comes off so easily with breastfeeding.

Overall, it's been a super positive experience. I'm happy I went through with trying to conceive despite my body image fears, and for me at least it has been a wholly better experience than I expected and I would not be afraid to have a second pregnancy and gain the weight again.

Anyway, I looked all over before having the baby for some perspective and didn't find much so hopefully someone finds this helpful. I've got a long way to go still but I'm feeling upbeat about it.

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I really want it to stick, but I feel so stuck

I'm a 37yo female and I'm literally at my wits end with weight loss. I KNOW all the things I should do:

Eat less than I burn Get at least some exercise every day (I'm very sedentary) Eat lots of plants (I actually love veggies)

I find that I eat pretty mindlessly. I'm hungry, so I eat. Exercise I just find to be a chore. And while i feel myself ballooning I feel completely powerless to stop it. What is wrong with me?!?!? I want more than anything in the world to lose the weight. But when it comes right down to it, I just don't do the things. I used to be SO active and loved being so, now I get winded on walks :(

I feel stuck in a rut of sitting on my couch eating snacks. My job is sedentary. It's like I've become complacent doing nothing. But inside I feel like I'm screaming.

Has anyone else been in this position and gotten through it? I really want 2020 to be my year (I know that sounds dumb) but I dont know where to start.

TL;DR Feel super stuck and frustrated and would appreciate tips and/or encouragement

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Saturday, December 28, 2019

Approved for my work’s weight management program!

Without getting too much into details, I work for the State of Florida and threw in an application to the weight management program to hopefully get a chance at finally losing the weight that I’ve slowly been adding to my entire life.

This happened a couple months ago and I was told I’d hear back from them sometime in December. And it happened!

“Good afternoon, your application to the Weight Management Program has been approved.”

The amount of joy I felt when I saw this email is immeasurable. That’s why I had to share it with y’all! I’ve been overweight for almost 20 out of my 25 years on this earth and I’m ready to be done with that. I know it’s gonna be a long process but I’m hoping that this program can keep me guided and honest about actually losing weight.

So... here’s to finally accomplishing my New Year’s resolution of losing weight in 2020!

Has anybody gotten into any weight management programs like this before? They say they’re going to work with my state-provided health insurance company to enroll me in a wellness program and that will also allow me access to prescription weight loss medication as well. Kinda curious how this is all going to work out.

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Phantom Fat?

So...I lost a lot of weight in the past twoish years - 75lbs (34kg) and most of that this year alone. I've done it through exercise...a lot of it...and controlling calories as well as just being aware of how much I'm eating - so I've been there mentally for the whole process.

I've gone from about a size 16 to a size 2/4...but I still feel HUGE. People comment that I'm tiny but I just....don't feel it most of the time.

I've been big my entire life, constant bullying as a child, comments from family, the whole nine yards so self esteem has never been great.

My husband tells me how good I look and when I look at before and after photos I can tell that I've lost a substantial amount. I just still look in the mirror and see the fat woman I've been for 20+ years.

I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same or has felt the same "phantom fat" kind of thing and how they moved forward.

TL DR: Difficulty accepting new body shape and size after substantial weight loss. Any tips?

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