Thursday, January 17, 2019

Hunger vs. Satisfaction

Hi all, long time-first timer here. I’ve been struggling lately, and I’m hoping you all can offer some insight. I realized a big part of what’s holding me back is that even when I eat enough to not be hungry, I’m still don’t feel satisfied. Whether I’m not satisfied because I want to eat a higher volume of food or because I haven’t satisfied a particular craving (like bread/pasta/simple carbs, which I’m trying to limit because it’s a binge trigger for me), that nagging feeling eventually sends me back to the kitchen.

You’ve all probably heard some version of “if you’re not hungry enough for broccoli, you’re not hungry.” And I agree with that. I also know the benefit of CICO is you can fit in any type of food. But I’m sabotaging myself because of this lack of satisfaction.

Anyone have any tips or insight that might help? Is it just a matter of willpower to ignore that feeling? Do I just need to get over it? It feels like a failure every time I give in to the feeling, which doesn’t make for a great mental space to approach weight loss from. Thanks all!

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15 lbs down 18 days into 2019, this is going better than I thought.

This is my last post, 21 days ago.

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/a9vm30/hey_yall_want_to_start_my_weight_loss_journey_any/

I have been doing IF and eating generally healthier than before for the past 3 weeks. I have been going to the gym almost everyday except some nights where I really don't have the time to go to gym (no seriously, it's not excuses, I don't have the time). I started at 253 lbs and now I am at 238 lbs.

I'm not over the moon for my weight loss because I know I need to go deeper, but I'm making this thread as a milestone to document my thoughts throughout my weightloss journey.

I wanted to lose weight because this guy I met last year, I was super into him, we went on two dates, the sex was the best I've felt for years - it was marvelous, everything was so great, until he told me we weren't a good match out of the blue and rejected me. I was broken, sad, sobbing and telling my story to a person on lifeline just a week ago.

But it has made me a stronger person, because now I know I need to improve, I need to be a better man than I currently am - physically and mentally. I want to be a confident, strong and mature man. I have been obese since I was 5 and my entire life I have struggled with it. It has caused me a great deal of pain, getting bullied because of my appearance, having almost no dates on dating apps, having an extremely low self esteem and an obnoxious personality due to deeply rooted insecurity - which was a direct reason why the guy said no to me. No. I am not going to let that ruin my life anymore.

It is my destiny to fight obesity, to beat it. I have never had a single thought of backing off during the past three weeks - I know what I want, and it fills me with determination everytime I think about the rejections and pain alone the way. I am going to be a warrior and nothing is going to stop me.

To anybody that's still struggling - I know you can do it. Let's get it.

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Some tips from person experiences regarding plateau and binging

Hi, just want to share some tips on issues I had throughout my weight loss journey. Disclaimer: I am not a dietician nor nutritionist. These are from my personal trial and errors. If you do have a serious issues regarding these problems, please seek help from a professional.

Plateau: The most annoying thing when it comes to weight loss, at least for me. Everything was going smoothly until BAM, you are not losing any weight even when you try to restrict even more. Through scientific research, the cause of it is due to your metabolism slowing due to dieting. This is because your body has less mass which means it needs less energy to support the basic functions and activities. Since you are consuming less food, the energy used to process food will also decrease, thus, resulting in a lowered metabolism.

My solution: previously, I tried to lower my caloric intake even more, but the results were not ideal. I felt horrible too, both from not eating enough and discouragement from not losing weight, eventually it led me to binge eating. Later, I discovered something called “re-feeding” after listening to a couple of Stephanie Buttermore’s videos. So the next time I got a plateau, I tried to re-feed (eating at maintenance) for a couple of days before diving back into my diet. I didn’t gain any weight from eating at maintenance, and after going back into my diet, the weight just came right off.

Binge eating: I had this terrible habit, as mentioned before, when I feel discouraged. I would get all the food I wanted and eat over 3000 calories in one sitting, and feel bad about it which led me to not eating for the next two days.... Looking back now I think I had some early symptoms of binge eating disorder.

Solution: So the issue is feeling discouraged about not losing weight, and I want to eat all the yummy foods I am not suppose to eat when I am on my diet. I discovered this YouTube channel (there are many similar channels) called HighCarbHannah. She recreates popular comfort foods with low calories and healthier alternatives. I started making my own ice cream, chocolate, chips and so on. Also, in my mind, if I really wanted to eat chicken strips that night, instead of buying 6 of them, with fries, with onion rings, with cheetos, and losing control of myself and eating all of them in one night, I only bought 2 strips along with a little bit of potato wedges. I thought just having a little bit of the chicken strip will help me curb my desires. I divided the 2 strips and wedges to accompany my meals for the next day. This also helped me with my snacking problems because I was thinking “I get to eat this yummy lunch/dinner later so I want to save my stomach for those”. Thus, the 3000 in one sitting turned into 1500 for the whole day. I was well within my caloric intake goals, and I got to eat chicken strips, potato wedges, homemade sushi, chocolate, ice cream, jello, cream in one day! Now that’s a good “cheat day”~

Anyways, I really hope I was able to help some people without them going on the wrong path I was heading, which could have led to some serious health issues. Again, the people who influenced me are Stephanie Buttermore and HighCardHannah. I am by no means doing any kind of promotion or advertisement for them. It’s just that their channels were very helpful and informative and I hope more dieter could check out before they do something crazy and harmful, on their own....

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1 year, just over a hundred pounds lighter and the face gains are real.

Good day everyone! I hope you are all kicking butt today! Well I've officially lost over 100 pounds and I am very happy about that! While I am still learning to navigate this life and be happy with myself internally, I have made great progress and I look forward to continuing my journey. Starting weight was ~410 lbs(I think I weighed more but can't confirm), current weight as of this morning 299 lbs. I'm 5'11" and 31 years old. Here is my face comparison from my passport photo to yesterday. Sorry for the bad passport quality pic. I have gone from a 5x pushing a 6x to a 3x and in some shirts a 2x, from size 52 pants to 42. The first time I bought new clothes that were a size smaller instead of bigger I legit cried.

Last November I completely gave up drinking and that kick started my weight loss. After 2 months of no booze I started counting calories. I've stayed at 2000 calories a day for a year and then slowly started incorporating walking and light weights. Some months have seen steady weight loss, some have been slow but I just continued counting and not losing track. I've decided to start increasing my protein, (thanks to good advice from friends on here) and started weight training harder along with cardio. I have also decreased my calorie intake to 1800. It has definitely been a journey but it's well worth it.

This community has been so helpful and a great resource for information, thank you to everyone!!!

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Today mark's the the end of the 6th Month since I started my weight loss. 50Lbs down so far.

Have never shared any progress pictures before. So I thought I would show you guys my 6 Month journey so far!

https://imgur.com/a/KKWyvRh

Started my journey in August, 2018 to better myself and to help get over a break-up. Was sick of feeling like I wasn't wanted by others due to how fat I was. So I thought I would do something about it!

It's been a rough and hard 6 months. I train 5 times a week, Monday to Friday in the Gym, then attend a HIIT Class once a week. My diet has completely changed, even though I'm eating the same food everyday, which I don't mind at all. I still need to figure out a good nutrition plan.

I've gained so much confidence in myself, my Mental Health has improved so much. Seeing my family and friend react to how I'm doing with my weight loss gives me so much more strength to go and actually do it.

Just believing in myself, knowing how good and how much it's going to impact my future really did help.

I'm incredibly proud of myself.

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I gained 40 pounds in four months. It’s hard to get started again.

I started losing weight Jan 8th, 2018. I was 320 or so, super out of shape, and physically feeling terrible. Erica Garner, the activist, had just died of a heart attack at my age. I decided to do something. Weirdly, despite being as physically unhealthy as I’ve ever been, I was mentally in great shape. I was happy.

Over the course of the next six months, I lost and lost. And then, my partner of five years dumped me and I felt like my life was over. For a few months, I clung on to my weight loss habits, but by September I was in full binge mode. I was miserable, suicidal, and genuinely felt like I had nothing worth living for. My low weight was 220, but I stopped weighing myself and all I could feel was my new clothes starting to get too small.

By January, I think I was over 260. I’ve lost so much progress. I’ve moved back in with my mom, because she’s having health problems and I need to help her. My life still feels barely worth living. How do I do this, sad? It felt straightforward when it was part of a life that was going somewhere, but now I’m going nowhere. I don’t feel like I’ll ever have a career or a partner, it’s hard not to say who cares that I’m fat.

And yeah, I’m in therapy. Lots of therapy. For part of the fall, 10 hours of therapy a week. It’s still hard.

Anyone have any advice? Or maybe just even words of encouragement.

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