Thursday, January 24, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 24 January 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Wednesday, January 23, 2019

A little motivation through the plateau journey

First, I wanna say thank you so much to this sub, I lurked a long time and finally started my long weight loss journey last December with CICO (1500 kcal/day).

I am 34F, 5’6 (172 cm), SW: 249 lbs (113 kg), CW: 238 lbs (108 kg).

I just wanted to say I'm currently hitting a plateau since last week, like many of you must have gone through, but even though it is really hard mentally, I keep in mind that's it's been only a month and that I feel already so much better! As I eat better and healthier, I am less sleepy, less tired, more focused through the day, all of this through smarter food choices (more veggies mainly and a more balanced breakfast to kick start the day off). I don't even exercise (yet) so I know I'll feel better and better as the journey goes on.

That was just a little motivation to help you (and me) don't give up through that damn plateau!

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Thursday, 24 January 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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How do you deal with rude comments regarding your weight?

I’m not sure if this is an okay topic to post, but I really needed to get it off my chest.

My weight loss partner and very good friend was at a weight loss support group and a fellow member broke her heart with a very disrespectful and rude comment. The women who commented has lost upwards of 90 lbs in the last half a year after VSG surgery, so you would think she would be more respectful around this topic. She confronted my friend and told her that maybe if she would lose weight some men would finally look her way. This was done in front of numerous people and it just killed her spirit, and was so humiliating. She already struggles a great deal with self-esteem, and I’m afraid this has set her back once again.

How have you dealt with rude comments about your weight?

TL;DR - Someone ridiculed my weight loss partner in a public place and I’m not sure how to help her deal with it.

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I think I'm taking my quest for weight loss too far. Can I get some recommendations on how to revamp?

I am worried that I'm no longer pursuing weight loss for my health but instead pursuing it because my brain is equating a number on the scale with beauty. Like, I'll suddenly be beautiful when I hit 135 and I'm not right now at 142. At the very least I have to good sense to realize that this is a super unhealthy way to think about myself, my body, and my physical health goals. Does anyone have any reading recommendations about loving yourself at any size?

I'd like to still pursue my goal weight but I'd like that pursuit to be because I'd like my health to be a priority and I'd like my old clothes to fit, not because of some weird beauty ideal in my mind. Any recommendations would be welcome!

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It's Day 8 (again) and here's why it's ACTUALLY different this time...

I thought I'd share my NSV and SV today since it's really a turning point in my life and in my weight loss mindset.

I've been trying to lose weight for 4 years but didn't put in the effort I needed to until last year. In 2018, I went from 160 to 138 in about 8 months of lazy CICO. Around September, I fell off the wagon because I convinced myself that my goal weight of 125 wasn't achievable, so many people would kill to weigh 138, I was so much stronger, blah blah blah. Basically coming up with every excuse in the book. I stopped putting in effort but still wanted to lose weight.

Cue to last week... we bought a new scale and I hopped on and it said 150... I lost it. I decided this was it and hopped on my computer and built a giant excel spreadsheet of my goals. The last time I had lost weight, I had a monthly goal that I never met. I would eat "normally" for the first three weeks and then go "OH SHIT" and try to lose the weight I had committed to losing that month in a week. Obviously didn't work the previous times I've lost weight and lead to some pretty unhealthy behaviors.

My spreadsheet and my Fitbit app have changed my weight loss game. I'll break it down with some bullet points since I'm not a very concise writer.

  • I gave myself a weekly goal using this site: https://www.losertown.org/eats/cal.php
  • I broke down the weekly goal into a daily goal so I can stay on track all week.
  • I added columns for Day #s, % completed, and a notes section to keep me motivated
  • I also added a column each for Calories In, Calories Out, and Calories Burned (Net Calories) and actual weight on any given day.
  • I use my Fitbit app to record my calories and my total calories burned in a day and then plug those into my spreadsheet. Actually recording my calories honestly has been a game changer.

Today was my first goal weekly day, I was supposed to be at 146 lbs today. I step on the scale... I FREAKING WEIGHED IN AT 145.2 LBS THIS MORNING YA'LL. I knew I was going down progressively, but I didn't think it would be down that much! I know it's probably mostly bloat for this week and affected by my hydration levels and all that but it gave me the motivation I need to go into this next week strong.

Tracking accurately and to this level of detail has proven to be the motivation I needed. And in about 90 days, I will be DONE.

I can't even imagine what a life without worrying constantly about my weight and feeling guilty and tired and unable to fit in jeans/dresses/EVERYTHING EVER is going to be like but I can finally see the end and I am so happy and excited for the future.

Thanks to this sub for being a great place to keep me on track when my coworkers are chowing on a constant buffet of food every day and now for listening.

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I can either diet or exercise — not both at the same time. Does anyone else feel the same way? How do you get over this?

I can do one or the other, but for some reason when I try to combine the two everything goes to shit and I end up doing neither. I lost my weight so far mostly by doing IF/CICO (I still ate everything, but in smaller amounts), but once I tried adding exercise to the equation I hit a plateau. So I thought maybe if I just did CICO and exercising It'd be easier—wrong! I still can't manage to make the two work together. I really like exercising because it makes me feel energized and helps me sleep better at night, but it's really getting in the way of my weight loss goals because it causes me to lose focus on what I eat, which I think is more of a contributing factor to my weight loss.

I totally understand the "muscle weighs more than fat" thing—and I've definitely toned up—but I know that if I can both watch my diet and exercise regularly I can get to my goal. I just can't figure out how to do it. I'm super frustrated.

Anyone else find themselves with the same problem? Any tips and tricks that helped you make it work?

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