Thursday, July 1, 2021

Still hate my body after major weight loss

M/19/5’8 SW:230lbs CW: 150-154lbs

So yeah. Major weight loss solved really nothing. It’s taken me a couple of months, rebound alcoholism and therapy/psychiatry to realize I didn’t solve any of my body esteem issues. Thing is I don’t have terrible self esteem and if you eat me in person you would never guess I was so insecure but alas I’m just really good at hiding my flaws from people. After basically sitting with myself I realized that I’m just as insecure of my body now as I was when I was fat, nothing really changed for me. And on top of that I’ve pretty much become a burden to everyone I talk to because of my negativity/ depression. I don’t really know where this post was supposed to go I guess I’m looking for someone that has felt the same or that got out of this negative bodily mindset, but yeah I still have work to do just not physically anymore.

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Wednesday, June 30, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 01 July 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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I went on vacation and DIDN’T gain!!!

Guys. I’m just really psyched about this. I didn’t log my calories while on vacation with family, and in fact was a little trepidatious of the scale when I got home, because I had eaten some unhealthy things (including an obscene amount of Rice Krispie treats, haha.) But we also tried to have some healthy whole foods while traveling, and we hiked a lot and even camped in the desert.

My sister texted me saying she’d lost weight on our trip and that piqued my curiosity about where I was after our trip, and inspired me to get back into my regular habit of weighing myself daily. I not only didn’t gain weight, one day after getting home and I seemingly magically lost 2 pounds! For me, the lesson here is one I’m perpetually relearning, which is probably the key to sustained weight loss. First of all: aim for “good” or even “okay”, and not “perfect”. If you can have a perfect day of eating and exercise, that’s amazing. But those are generally rare. The key is to not let a day when you ate bad or felt disappointed in yourself derail you. Or to use it as an excuse to take more time off than you originally planned. Every day is a fresh slate. You don’t need to wait for the end of the year to reaffirm your goals. You have to do it every day, in small ways. And if you’re going on vacation, let yourself have fun. Eat fun stuff. And when vacation is over… put away the vacation mentality. Another thing I realized is: one day of eating bad, even one WEEK of eating bad, is not enough to cause significant gain. The most important part is all the other days and weeks. So like, eating tons of cookies at Christmas is fine. As long as you’re not mainlining cookies all December.

I’ve lost… gosh, 40 pounds since my highest weight, and I’ve kept it off for several years. I’ve done this by trying to make my calorie goals as easy as possible, logging my food (except on vacation haha) and setting my goals as actions rather than results. So my goal is not a specific weight, but rather my small daily habits that I know lead to success (mainly CICO, and aiming to consume more natural foods). This has been most helpful because my goals are only the small things I can actually control, rather than highly variable statistics like weight.

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Feeling hopeful

Hi again! I made my first post about 2 weeks ago talking about wanting to begin my weight loss journey, and I have to be honest and say that I haven’t really committed myself to it. I finally found the strength to weigh myself, and I’m 89kg (F 174cm). I’m honestly surprised to see that number and disappointed, but I can only work down from here.

I was finishing exams at that time and I’ve had quite an unhappy mindset. However, since the beginning of this week I’ve been walking more than normal (gyms are no longer open at the moment) and I began calorie counting again yesterday. I usually find it hard to stick to when counting the calories in homemade meals or traditional meals, but I’m going to try my best.

I know there needs to be more than motivation to keep me disciplined, but I’m feeling it right now and I just want to hang in to that feeling. I will continue to update.

Wishing everyone a healthy and sustainable weight loss journey!

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Why am I not losing weight?

Hi! I'm just going to list the facts out and I am hoping to get some advice on why I am just maintaining and not losing.

  • I am a 22 year old, mostly sedentary, 157cm, 59kg cis woman. This puts my TDEE at roughly 1500kcal/day.
  • I started off on 1200/day but was maintaining/losing EXTREMELY slowly.
  • I decided to aim for more of a deficit and started 950/day a week ago, so a 550cal deficit.
  • I drink 3-4L of water a day.
  • I drink 4 cups of coffee a day.
  • I take a full panel of multivitamins every day (women's multivite, iron, vit. D, biotin + collagen, omega 3, B complex, ACV). I probably pee a lot of it out but I feel better having them onboard just in case.
  • I get enough sleep and have a relatively stress free life.
  • When I say "mostly sedentary" I do have a young child so I get whatever exercise you get looking after a toddler.
  • My diet consists of apples, oranges, almond milk, a rainbow of veggies with extra dark leafy greens, mushrooms, egg whites, sugar free jelly and konjac noodles. I use salt in my cooking.
  • I track all my calories exactly and weigh my food so I know I am sticking to 950/day. This isn't me underestimating food.

After a week of this I would expect to see at least half a kg of weightloss. Even on 1200 I would have expected to see weight loss after a longer period. I know there is water weight fluctuations but I have not changed my water and salt intake at all. What is happening? Is my body retaining extra water? When can I expect to see some results?

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My(24F) boyfriend(23M) is not losing weight no matter how much we work out and how little calories we eats. What else could we try to jumpstart his metabolism?

Hi All!

I'm writing this post in regards to my (24 F) boyfriend (23M). At the end of May-beginning of June, we made a promise to change our diets and start working out. You see, during the pandemic my s/o got extremely into baking and cooking homemade. This resulted a 40lb weight gain in 1 year for him, and about a 25lb weight gain in a year for me. Before 2020 my boyfriend was 5'8" and >140lbs. After the pandemic he got up to over 175 pounds!

Since the end of May, we have completely changed our diets. No butter, meat 1 meal a day (usually dinner), high in veggies - especially leafy greens, and high in other proteins like beans and nuts. He's cut his portions down nearly in half! E.g. he got a veggie wrap the other night and instead of eating the whole thing including fries -- he ate half the wrap and barely touched his fries. We're eating anywhere from 1500-1800 calories a day. Counting them and journalling. -- SOMEtimes on weekends we get up to 2,000 calories if we're having fun (drinking) with friends - but we're also usually burning extra during that time too - e.g dancing or playing on the beach.

In addition to the diet overhaul, we've been running 2.5 miles and then immediately swim 15-20 laps nearly every day on the weekdays. He's even started incorporating low weight arm workouts to tone up the arms.

Since this lifestyle change, I have lost nearly 8lbs in a month! But my boyfriend... he's getting really discouraged because he weighs 173 still! All of this dieting and working out and he's lost 2lbs in a month. I know metabolisms slow as we age, but when I met him he could lose weight overnight just by eating right! Additionally, I know there isn't much muscle gain coming into the play with the lack of weight loss because, well -- he looks exactly the same. I know body transformations take time though!

I am with him 99% of the day - we both work remote - so I know he's not sneaking food while he's gone. Any idea what could be hindering his fitness transformation?

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Those who cook for the whole family, any tips?

I currently am on mat leave for a few more months, and then when I do go back to work, the work schedules make it that I will still be the primary cook in the house. Right now my calorie goals are in the 1200-1500 range, depending on what exercising I am doing (right now zero because heat dome. Oof) My husband has a very physically demanding job and his calorie intake calculation puts him as needing over 3000 a day. We have a 1 year old. Who thankfully isn't a very picky eater, yet, but has digestive issues and I have to carefully watch fibre and fat intake. Also trying to keep her eating a large variety of foods.

So I have three different feeding needs to meet, a restricted budget, and soon restricted time budget.

Obviously the easiest thing is just take smaller portions, but husband prefers high caloric foods instead of high volume. Throws a wrench in a lot dishes if I'm swapping out for low cal options (apparently he is super human for telling the difference in low cal substitutions).

It still just feels overwhelming to plan food that fit all three of our needs and preferences.

For those that are cooking for the family as the only one with weight loss goals, any tips or tricks that you have mastered? Suggestions for doing it? Or just dealing with the mindset of it being more challenging than only having to feed myself?

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