Friday, January 26, 2024

Need help finding maintenance cals

Hey guys,

For reference I am 96kg atm M/174cm

I’ve been in a dieting phase for a while now started at much higher cals than I am now but for the purpose of properly figuring out my maintenance cals, this month I began eating strictly 1,500 cals. Now I’ve been tracking everything I eat this month and keeping my activity levels the exact same every single day (15,000 steps) via a step stacker watch.

Now here’s where i get a little confused, the first week of eating 1,500 cals with 15,000 steps daily, I lost 1.1kg, the second week lost 2.9kg, third week I lost 1.1kg and I’m yet to weigh in for the last week of the month.

As I said I dipped my calories this low in the hopes of figuring out my maintenance calories at this level of activity as it will most likely become my new norm (activity levels wise) I part of the reason for this post is to increase my cals to a rate of 1kg weight loss a week.

I initially thought my maintenance given the months weight loss average roughly 2kg a week to be a maintenance of 3,500.

But now I’m questioning this as the weeks of this months weight loss rate has not been linear at all, so I’m wondering if any of yous might be able to help me out with figuring out my maintenance. As I plan to up my calories to reflect a 1kg a week weight loss rate starting next week. Feb 1.

Thanks.

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Breakup gave me the boost I needed (even though I did not want it)

I'm not sure why I'm posting this after lurking in this sub for years and years but I guess I just wanted to share my story. Life is also a little lonely these days. For context, I'm 30f, 5'7", was about 260lbs in the summer of 2022, am now at 219lbs and steadily losing at about 2lbs per week.

Like many of you, I have struggled with my weight ever since I can remember. I have PCOS and clinical depression which is of course a really efficient combo... I have always had a hard time losing and maintaining weight. I grew up with an "almond mom" who put little bells on the handles of our kitchen cabinets, would say "kitchen is closed" right after dinner, encourage me to drink water when I was hungry, offer rice cakes for dessert (ugh), and enrolled me in diets like weight watchers at the age of 13. She is a kind woman who loves me very much but has a severe history of mental illness herself and an intense history of eating disorders and I think she desperately wanted me to not fall down that same path. However, her methods fucked me up. I was never taught how to eat in regulation. Only healthy, bland foods were available to me growing up so whenever I had the opportunity, I would binge anything unhealthy. I remember actually being astounded and confused when I went to friends houses and they had things like little debbie snacks and 2% milk and their entire family was healthy... When I started living on my own, I literally didn't know how to eat healthy when any kind of food was now available to me. I didn't know how to stop when I was full. And of course the PCOS and my mental health did nothing to help. I gained about 30 pounds in undergrad and then steadily gained about 30 more since then.

However, a year and a half ago I made the decision to move across the country for a change of career/life. I met new friends and was pleasantly surprised to find a guy that I thought was the man I had been waiting 29 years for. Gosh I thought he was incredible and we became best friends instantly. I developed a pretty intense crush on him and I started to think "shit shit shit I gotta start looking better for this man if I'm ever going to stand a chance" and dropped a few pounds by not eating barely at all. (I do not recommend this method.) But a few months in to our friendship, he asked me out, and I was like "oh. wait. I can be loved at this weight?" The answer was apparently yes and with him, I became truly happy for what I felt was the first time in my life. Due to this newfound happiness, fulfillment, and a sense of confidence I started to build, I found that I was able to eat less and eat healthy with almost no issue. I could also treat myself without going overboard. I exercised by walking and riding my Peloton, and the weight started to slowly come off. Slowly and healthily! (Sidenote: I am not a person that can count calories. I have this thing with "streaks" where I get weirdly stressed out when I mess them up. So with things like calorie counting apps or diary trackers, I get really upset and beat myself up when I miss meals/days. Drives me nuts and I seriously cannot sustain it.)

Fast forward to now. I got broken up with very unexpectedly by my boyfriend a little over 2 months ago. This hit me HARD and has easily been, and continues to be, the most painful thing I have ever had to endure. The trajectory of my life has completely changed and I started to question everything. Consequently (or maybe luckily in a sick and twisted way?) I have learned a LOT about myself in this time. I have had to truly face my issues head on in order to survive this. I have finally sought out therapy and FINALLY made the decision to get on an antidepressant so that my happiness can come from within and not from somebody else. I knew very well that my brain was not going to get through this on its own. Shit don't work right. And, though I still cry multiple times a day and am overall consistently heartbroken, I am doing all the things you are supposed to do after a breakup. Look up any "how to get over a breakup" article and I am doing all those things. As a result, the discipline I have created is astonishing. My ability to get up and do something for myself has drastically improved and with that, my weight loss journey has taken off more than ever before. The medication and my drive to not let myself fade away after this traumatic event keeps me eating healthily without counting calories and I am able to easily stop when I'm full. I will admit, the antidepressant does act as a bit of an appetite suppressant which is definitely convenient. I eat a greek yogurt with my meds in the morning, a sandwich with some chips and pickles and an occasional mini coke for lunch, and something simple for dinner. I can cook and eat things like pasta without binging it. A dove chocolate or two satisfies my sweet tooth. I drink LOTS of water as well. I also exercise 5-6 times a week and I LOVE it. Almost nothing makes me feel better than a hard Peloton ride with Cody Rigsby or a walk outside while listening to moody sad music (lol). I have dropped 20 more pounds since the breakup and people are starting to notice and comment on it. I feel so comfortable in my clothes and I'm pulling out old items that I haven't been able to fit into for a long while. And the weird thing is, I don't feel like I'm pushing myself or that I'm uncomfortable or pissed off doing this. Every time I've tried to lose weight before I just feel defeated and angry. It never lasted because my attitude didn't allow anything to be sustainable. Now, am I walking around like a ball of sunshine? Hell no. I'm so pissed that this happened to me and that I'm alone again but I refuse to let this put me back to where I was before. I feel as if this is a now or never type of situation.

I'm not sure what the point was of sharing this, I don't want ANYONE to get broken up with and go through what I'm currently going through BUT. I just wanted to say that with a kick in the pants and some determination, getting healthy on the outside has done wonders for my mental health. Do I wish my ex would come back to me every day? Absolutely. But I don't contact him, I just keep pushing. Day by day. It SUCKS and I wish I didn't have to go through this but it happened and I'm doing it. I think the work I'm putting in will eventually manifest itself in a new and better me, inside and out.

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Thursday, January 25, 2024

Exercise for Stress Relief: What the Research Says

Stress is unavoidable in our busy modern lives. Work, family, relationships, our health, and the news about the world can all cause us to feel tense. Daily, persistent or chronic stress can lead to headaches, insomnia, upset stomach, muscle and joint pain, and even more serious symptoms like chest pain and high blood pressure. Stress is also a common cause of overeating and, even worse, we tend to make unhealthy food and drink choices when we’re tense or anxious.

You can’t totally eliminate stress from your life, but you can alleviate the symptoms. Exercise has been shown to reduce the effects of stress. Even better, “regular exercisers are more resistant to the emotional effects of acute stress, which in turn, may protect them against diseases related to chronic stress burden,” says a report in the journal Frontiers of Physiology.

How does exercise reduce stress? How much exercise do you need to do? What type of exercise is best? What are the keys to success? Here’s what the scientists who study it have found out.

Hormone Balance

woman doing yoga

Our bodies have a natural “fight or flight” response that help us react to stressful situations. Two hormones, adrenaline and cortisol, are released to prepare us to act when faced with an immediate threat. Those hormones raise your blood pressure and blood sugar levels, which in the short-term help you respond to the threat.

Persistently high levels of adrenaline and cortisone can turn those responses into serious health problems. According to Harvard Health, “Exercise reduces levels of the body’s stress hormones, such as adrenaline and cortisol. It also stimulates the production of endorphins, chemicals in the brain that are the body’s natural painkillers and mood elevators.”

By the way, when we laugh, our endorphins are increased why cortisol levels are decreased.

Rest Well

Worries and frustration make it hard for us to fall and stay asleep at night. When we don’t get enough sleep, we are groggy during the day and it disrupts the hormones that regulate our appetites.

Exercise leaves our bodies feeling tired so we’re more relaxed when we go to bed. “Exercise can also help to stabilize your mood and decompress the mind,” says John Hopkins Medicine. People who exercise regularly tend to sleep longer and more soundly, according to a study in the Advances in Preventative Medicine.

Better Self-Image

man exercising

Exercise has another important role to play in reducing stress when you’re trying to lose weight. Nutrisystem recommends 30 minutes of daily activity to keep your metabolism burning calories.

When you do your half-hour of exercise, you are sure to feel good about sticking to your commitment to losing weight and the progress you are making toward your goal. You can’t make all the other sources of stress go away, but you will feel better about your health.

Meditation Effect

For many people, focusing the mind on a specific thought pattern, or the practice of meditation, can chase the daily cares and worries out of their minds. Exercise can have a similar impact. As you move, your mind pays attention to what your body is doing and breaks you free of the stressful thoughts.

Exercises with a simple, repeated motion, such as walking, running, bicycling and swimming, are likely to put you in that meditative frame of mind. As you settle into the rhythm of your movement, you breathe more deeply and steadily, and your mind begins to relax.

You may also find rhythm in strength training, which includes lifting weights or working with resistance bands. Those kinds of exercises also have the benefit of helping your body turn fat into lean muscle, increasing your metabolism even when you are at rest.

Deep Stretching

woman stretching

Yoga is a series of movements or poses that are designed to relax your muscles and release tension in your body, so it can be effective at helping to manage the physical symptoms of stress.

The poses can seem intimidating if you’ve never tried yoga. However, many fitness clubs and community centers now offer classes in “gentle” or “chair” yoga that give you the stress-relief benefits without the challenging bending and stretching that you see more advanced students doing.

Tai chi is an ancient Chinese tradition that is now used for exercise. It blends rhythmic motion with stretching and balancing. Mayo Clinic calls tai chi a “gentle way to fight stress,” as it is used for stress reduction. “Often described as meditation in motion, tai chi promotes serenity through gentle, flowing movements,” they explain.

Fun Stuff

According to Mayo Clinic, “Even brief bouts of physical activity offer benefits. For instance, if you can’t fit in one 30-minute walk, try a few 10-minute walks instead.” Ultimately, the best kind of exercise is the kind you want to do. That includes activities that you might not normally think of as exercise but that get your body moving and your mind focused on positive thoughts.

Country line dancing, the foxtrot, disco, or any other kind of dance burns calories, releases endorphins, and helps you to relax. If you have kids around, playing games with them like tag or hopscotch will get you moving and is sure to put a smile on their faces and yours. That seems like the best of kind of stress relief.

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Going on week 5 of no weekday takeout!

F32, 5’0”, SW: 198 lbs, GW: 120 lbs, CW: 196 lbs

As title reads, I’m about to enter into my 5th consecutive week of no weekday takeout (I only do takeout on Saturdays).

This is in the midst of a serious food addiction surrounded by a lot of people who said I couldn’t do it and who looked at me with disgust. I hired a health coach who said I COULD do it and I haven’t looked back since.

She also has me strength training 3x per week. I also have PCOS and insulin resistance so things like HIIT and running are not great for my body type.

The weight hasn’t started to fall off yet but I’m not losing hope. Just cooking at home has been a HUGE turnaround for me that I’m so proud of. There’s been some miserable days where I really wanted takeout and I pouted all night about it, but I stuck to my guns.

A game changing piece of advice for me was “Not every meal needs to be an event” and that has really changed the way I view food.

What’s been a game changer for you in your weight loss journey?

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Wednesday, January 24, 2024

Anyone else feel like they didn't realize how heavy they really were until some of the weight started to come off?

I'm in this for the long haul. My intended weight loss period alone is all of 2024, and then maintaining indefinitely.

I'm down enough at this point to be able to see a real difference, and yet somehow I also see how far I have left to go. I think I just got so used to seeing myself at my heaviest that as the weight has started to come off, I'm noticing it more? Or something like that.

Well, one day at a time. It took a long time to get fat, it will take a long time to stop being fat. No shortcuts, no tricks, just the laws of physics and biology.

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Torture

I hate that weight loss is so slow. If you read a book for example, you can decide how much of it you'll read in a day. But you can't decide how much weight you'll lose. It also feels so incredibly unrewarding. When you read a book, you get the information or story you're interested in as you read it. When you're on a diet, you eat and then have to wait hours until you can see how much weight you lost, if any. Yes, I know, at some point it will pay off, but day by day, it's pure torture if you've been at this weight for years and you're chronically ill only because of your obesity.

I never quit a diet out of frustration and I'm not an emotional eater. It's just that 99 kg and 97 kg are equally as horrible to me. I still look like a monster at 97 and I'm still sick at 97. It makes no difference to me, and I can easily quit if I don't feel like I'm achieving anything.

Did anyone else go through this? What helped you?

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How to get 112g protein a day in one vegetarian meal?

Hey :)

I need some advice I’m new to weight loss ( the right way) and working out and am trying to figure out how to create a 1300 calorie diet ( I’d lose 0.5kg a week) that is lactose free and vegetarian.

I’ve always been a breakfast sometimes but mostly one big meal a day kind of person, and snack in between on fruits or chocolate or peanuts and raisins, and don’t really count calories. I just eat what’s good, but I’d like to be more intentional in my approach and so can anyone advise on meals or ways to get about 112g of protein a day in one meal?

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