Friday, April 26, 2019

Today was rough. Fat shaming myself. When you feel you made it then you look in the mirror.

Today I had Some hard feelings I want to talk about. I started my weight loss journey January 2, 2017. I weighed 315 pounds, I was mortified I had weighed myself in years and let my work in college stress build up on my body. I got started on keto last year and it straight for five months losing a total of 55 pounds or so. I ended out my keto session for that year at 253lbs. I was very proud of myself and happy with my body at that time feeling much thinner and much more confident. Since then I have fluctuated in with going up and down and going in and out of the keto diet and exercise. I started this year at 273 LB’s and have now dropped down to 260/258.I didn’t mind the extra weight above the 253 because I felt as though I’ve been working out heavily and was feeling stronger like I put on more muscle. I was feeling good my shirts feel like they were feeling better and I was about ready for summer. (I know 253 is by no means thin but I am a 6 foot tall male with broad shoulders and I am told I carry weight just fine for my body type). I’m getting married in late June and have been doing low-carb/insanity workouts now for two weeks.

WHERE IT HIT ME TODAY. Today I took my shirt off to look at my form in an exercise mirror while I did insanity. I was mortified by my own appearance. The feeling of confidence enough to take my shirt off and exercise set me up for a big danger of shame. And I let myself fall right into the trap. I struggle with my weight and feeling fat and ugly all my life. I really started thinking about how I feel undesirable sexually. I’ve never had a hard time getting a girlfriend but I have had girlfriends leave me because of my weight. It’s starting to really get to me because I’ve been working so hard. I know nothing comes quickly but I want to at least feel confident in my wedding.I finished my work out and I feel a little better. But that feelingOf confidence to take my shirt off swiftly followed by the shame of seeing my belly hanging over the top of my shorts killed me a little bit today. I’m not much of a regular but today had me feeling the way that I feel like I need to tell somebody and I don’t think that my very thin fiancé would understand. My weight is the one thing I would really love to change about myself. I feel like I’m a catch all the other ways I have a good education I have a good job, I’m funny and friendly and everyone says I’m a nice guy. I just want to be sexy. It hit me hard today feeling like I haven’t made it anywhere. Sometimes I worry that because others in the past have left me due to my weight that my future wife will leave me because of my weight

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Beginning weight loss: confused and discouraged by diets.

Hi everyone!

I just recently began my weight loss journey. I had physically active jobs for the majority of the past five years, so while I wasn't at an ideal weight, I was still somewhat happy with my appearance. I changed to a desk job a year ago and gained almost 15 lbs. I'm extremely unhappy with my appearance, so I began going to the gym 3-5 days per week. I haven't seen any results in the month I've been going, but I know that it's because of my eating habits. About a week ago I started drastically cutting desserts, and the past couple of days I tried out a pseudo 16:8 fast (I still drink my coffee in the morning) which I found to be manageable, but now I'm stressing hard about the food I eat during those eight hours.

I wanted to try the Keto diet because of all of the success I've heard people having on it, but I don't honestly want to change my eating that drastically. It can also get pretty expensive! However, I've found myself obsessing over the amount of carbs I eat and feeling extreme guilt for eating a small serving of something with sugar in it. I feel like all of my work will be for nothing if I don't follow a strict diet. I've tried to make better eating decisions and keep my caloric intake around 1400-1600. Does anyone have any advice or experience to calm my fears a little bit?

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A science-backed guide for working out while sick

What do you do with your workout routine when you’re under the weather? Are you someone who ignores the symptoms to crank out your daily workout at all costs? Maybe you’re they type who ghosts your workout partner at the slightest hint of a stuffy nose? 

What if neither approach is optimal? 



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Intermittent Fasting?

My roommate just wrote this blog about intermittent fasting as way to help people to lose weight, improve overall health, and even reverse type two diabetes.

Link to the article: Intermittent Fasting

He outlines a few different fasting techniques

  1. The 16/8 Method - You intermittent fast for 16 hours straight and eat all your meals in a window of 8 hours. Breakfast is typically skipped and most people start at lunch and go through dinner. Its a matter of preference. You will eat about the same or less than you would normally eat and so also benefit from slight caloric restriction.
  2. The Warrior or 20/4 Method - Inspired by Romans and Spartans, this fast last for 20 hours and your eating window is reduced to 4 hours. Typically just one giant meal in the evening.
  3. The 5:2 Fast - This fast calls for 5 days of regular eating with two non-consecutive days where you only eat 500 calories. You can the calories in any way you choose - throughout the day or as a single meal.
  4. The 24 Hour Fast or Eat Stop Eat - This intermittent fast is done by not eating for 24 hours, typically from dinner to dinner or lunch to lunch. You space it out and only do it two or three times a week.
  5. 36 Hour Fast - This fast is tough, you skip an entire day’s worth of food and pick it up again the following breakfast. It does however provide a more powerful weight loss benefit.

Does anyone have experience with fasting and how it helped to lose weight?

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[Help/Opinions Wanted] Fat loss routine

Hello loseit!
I am 25(M) 6' 1" currently at 260 lbs just starting(ish) my weight loss journey. I have been at it for about 3 weeks now doing a regular workout routine / meal plan to get back up to speed of doing a routine, however I am looking to start a more "intense" program (the initial goal starting 3 weeks ago) .
I currently have access to an apartment gym but may be doing a gym membership here soon and have been doing the: https://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/6-day-dumbbell-only-workout workout program. Typically my workouts fall in the afternoon, but I am thinking of adding in the https://www.bodybuilding.com/content/ultimate-8-week-hiit-for-fat-burning-program.html HIIT training, such as jump rope, followed by a light jog after that session in the morning with my regular workouts in the afternoon. My question today is, I always second guess my macro calculation mostly by getting in my own head trying to find my bodies exact macro needs, and wanted to know a good suggestion for a plan such as this? Because reading/using about calculating TDDE I get a massive number of calories (like 3.5k) with entering in a 6 day workout plan. I have thought about doing carb cycling but then worry about optimal high carb / low carb days as well as what to eat pre and post workout. Maybe I'm overthinking this too much, but wanted to get some second opinions from people who may know better. My current macro split is 250g protein, 67g fats, 100g carbs, with 2k calories, with my foods including chicken breast, lean ground turkey, broccoli, peas, and olive oil / occasionally homemade mayo for fats.

I appreciate any advice in advance!

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Day 1

Today I begin my weight loss journey. I am 35f, 256lbs and 5'5". A little over two months ago, I was able to completely eradicate soda and caffeine from my diet. However, breaking my addiction to sugar had been near impossible for me.

I finally broke down and reached out to my doctor for help. She referred me to a nutritionist. Together, we decided on starting me on their OptiFast program. It's a complete liquid diet comprised of 5 shakes per day (drunk every three hours), for four months. I'm projected to loose 30lbs this way.

In addition to dieting, my doctor and nutritionist have referred me to a bariatric surgeon. I will be consulting with her in the middle of May. Ideally, my doc wants me to weigh 120lbs. Realistically, I'm ok with 140lbs (I've had 3 kids; all c-sections). Anyhow, wish me luck!

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Going Out to Dinner? 6 Restaurant Calorie Bombs You Need to Skip

Okay, so you’re on a diet. But life doesn’t stop. The weekend’s approaching, you have friends and they want dinner. In fact, your group might love to meet up at one place in particular—the one with the amazing salmon, to-die-for appetizer or, of course, chocolate molten lava cake. Meeting up for dinner is like the go-to event when making plans. It’s an opportunity to get out, catch up and just forget about an incredibly busy, stressful week.

Unfortunately, this is where anyone on a diet finds themselves in a bind. It’s so tempting to just toss all caution to the wind the minute you see the featured entrees listed at the hostess booth, or the second the waiter asks you what you want to drink. Having friends that don’t share the same health goals can make it even harder.

So, what do you do? We could say, “willpower to the rescue,” but we know that’s not gonna cut it. So, focus on why you are actually there. Hint: It’s not the chips and salsa. You made plans with your friends, to be with your friends. Enjoy the time you have with them because obsessing over food was never really part of the agenda. Check out the restaurant’s website before you head over to get a glimpse of the healthy options. Many offer the nutritional information now. If you have a clear idea of what you should order going in, there’s no way to slip up when you’re going out! The Nutrisystem Eating Out Guide is also an excellent tool, providing all sorts of suggestions for making this decision and keeping diets on-plan, for any of your life plans.

Whatever you do, skip these six calorie bombs to avoid total diet destruction:

1. The Booze

diet destruction beer

Alcohol is any diet’s worst enemy, and we’re sure you’ve heard it before. A round of drinks equates to empty calories, roughly a hundred and twenty at a time, without the fun mixers. It might also leave you feeling horrible the next day (both sick and guilty). If you have an exercise regimen, chances are, you won’t even feel capable of taking it on after a night out drinking with friends. Worst of all, the booze you have out with your pals has the capacity to mess with your inhibitions and lead to a chain reaction of diet mistakes. Ever go out with your friends (and healthy intentions) to grab a salad and, after a few drinks, end up ordering the loaded pizza? This isn’t an uncommon story. Save yourself from the mess and order water or a zero-calorie, flavored beverage. If you must have a drink, stick with one light beer or glass of dry wine, then get back to the aqua.

2. Bread and Butter

diet bread basket

This is the hard one. Every good restaurant has a waiter leave a beautiful assortment of bread slices or rolls on the table with butter for spreading. This situation is a carb-lover’s dream and worst nightmare, all bundled up into one health fiasco. The refined, simple carbs in a slice of bread might lead to instant satisfaction, almost a sugar high if you will, but just one will rarely do. The fiber is lost, along with the rest of the nutrients during processing. It won’t fill you up, so the waiter will keep filling up your basket. The butter: Just more calories and fat. Don’t be afraid to ask for a plate of fresh veggies to nosh on. While it may sound silly, they’ll most likely be happy to oblige, and you’ll feel better munching on something that keeps your blood sugar stable and your waistline in check. Or, have some at home before you head out so you aren’t ravenous by the time the bread basket rolls around.

3. Guacamole

Guacamole diet

Don’t get us wrong, we love avocados. In fact, we have a whole list on The Leaf of brilliant ways to use avocados. Avocado contains all sorts of nutrients and monounsaturated fats to keep you lean and your heart healthy. But, guacamole is the avocado-plus recipe: It’s avocado, plus a lot of extra ingredients (the sky’s the limit) that the chef of the day feels like tossing in. Fruit, cheese and bacon…. are all additions that can turn a basic recipe into a restaurant’s signature appetizer. Everyone’s always looking for the new thing, and restaurants, a way to stand out. Pair it with tortilla chips and you’re done for!

Guacamole is absolutely addicting and even the nutritional powerhouse, avocado, is something to be eaten in moderation because of the high calorie-count. It’s easy to lose sight of how much you’re eating very quickly. An order of guacamole and tortilla chips at a popular chain restaurant gets close to 1500 calories! Go out with your best bud, and the two of you have taken down 750 calories before the main course. Look for the plain, untouched fruit and have a tablespoon of that mashed (one Extra).

4. Fatty Salads

diet salad bad

Sorry to burst your bubble, but even the salads at restaurants require a sharp eye, when you’re on a diet. Lettuce, tomatoes and onions are all wonderfully nutritious and best enjoyed fresh in a bowl, but, when your favorite joint gets fancy with their creations, all bets are off. Fried tortilla strips, honey roasted nuts, cheeses and creamy dressings take the calorie and fat counts higher than you could even imagine. Portion distortion is also at play, with a meal usually fit for three.

The Nutrisystem Eating Out Guide sites Applebee’s Grilled Shrimp ‘N Spinach Salad as a sneaky diet saboteur, worse than their seven-ounce sirloin. This seemingly innocent diet option has 1,000 calories and 66 grams of fat. Who could’ve guessed?

Our suggestion? Go as raw and basic as possible. Stick to the fresh vegetables, fruits (one cup of berries is a SmartCarb on Nutrisystem) and two tablespoons of fat-free dressings (one Extra on Nutrisystem). Skip the crispy carb toppings like tortilla strips and croutons. Limit the cheese (to one slice or ounce of low-fat, a PowerFuel on Nutrisystem) and ask for chicken or shrimp prepared plain (two ounces of cooked chicken is a PowerFuel, while three ounces of shrimp is a PowerFuel). If there are eggs, just have one as a PowerFuel for the evening.

5. Wings

Diet buffalo wings

Chicken wings are rarely grilled. They are spiced up and deep fried for an appetizer with a nutritional makeup that could ruin anyone’s appetite. Just one serving of medium buffalo wings at a well-known restaurant chain packs 1,090 calories! Want to know how many are from fat? 500. One night out for dinner should never take over your calorie allotment for the day, and this one gets mighty close.

This should be eye-opening, especially due to the fact that most store brands of hot sauce come with a big, fat zero in the nutrition label. Wings are pretty much all skin to begin with (why you bite the meat out from so many of them) from there, the frying drives them into the grave.

If you really love wings, experiment with an air fryer at home. The Leaf has an amazing recipe for Air Fryer Drumsticks. At the restaurant, ask for some hummus or shrimp cocktail instead. A quarter cup of hummus is a SmartCarb on Nutrisystem and you can pair it with all the fresh vegetables your heart desires. Three ounces of shrimp is a PowerFuel on Nutrisystem and one tablespoon of cocktail sauce translates to an Extra.

6. “Pan-Fried,” “Scalloped,” “Battered” or “Creamy”

Delicious Battered Fried Pickles Diet Destruction

The Nutrisystem Eating Out Guide is on-point with this one. The way a food is prepared can spell the difference between a “diet do” and a “diet don’t.” Anything pan fried, scalloped, battered or creamy might as well be labeled “fat-bathed.” All of these cooking methods suggest that the fish, poultry or potato has been greased up with butter, oil or lard. And, your diet goals most likely aren’t on the chef’s mind… Flavor is.

So, what’s an extra stick or half-cup? Just about a massive calorie load, you don’t want. Instead, look for words like “roasted,” “grilled” or “baked.” You’ll still get flavor, but the taste will come mostly from the quality of the foods themselves, not whatever suspicious fat they’re masked in.

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