Thursday, September 3, 2020

1/3 of the way to my GW and am not feeling it anymore...

Back in May I decided to take the plunge and start actively losing weight. I've thought about it for the last year and realised I'm now ready. SW was 117kg (260lb ish), GW is 70kilos (165lb ish). I'm 21f, 5'6" and CW is 101.9 kilos (225lb ish).

I lost the weight through CICO but have integrated a daily walk in. Over the past few months I've been extremely apathetic to the weight loss. I've gone down a size in clothes which is good in some ways.

Before I lost weight I loved my boobs, but now they're quite a bit smaller and I'm still unhappy with the rest of my body, so I look in the mirror and don't see the progress I've made just what I've lost. My relationship with food is better but I no longer enjoy it the way I used to, I'm too focused on getting my calorie limit rather than eating how I want. I haven't had my favourite sweet treat in months because it's so high calorie, and now I'm afraid that's all I'll see it as. Extra calories, not an enjoyable snack.

I wanted to lose the weight to be able to buy the clothes I like and take the strain off my knees as my chronic pain and hypermobility will only worsen with age but as it stands I don't feel like myself anymore.

And as an extra bit of info, I've tried making meals and having regular snacks as part of my day. Through trial and error I found that setting aside 300ish calories a day for snacks helps me so I make sure I can still have that packet of crisps or ice cream, or that cider or glass of juice.

I suppose I'm writing this out to see if it's common and if I should keep persevering, change my goal weight to something closer to my current weight (95kg instead of 70kg) or just stop all together. I lost the one thing that gave me a little bit of confidence, and in all other aspects of my health I haven't changed. I don't feel like progress is being made, it's just a grind that's taking enjoyment out of my life now. Is this normal?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 03 September 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Does anyone have the Libby App on their mobile device? You have unlimited access to free cookbooks and recipes.

I never know where to post advice because communities have broad rules and I’m afraid to break them. I hope this is allowed!

For those looking for cookbook recipes (instead of google and Pinterest), there is a FREE library app called “Libby.” It identifies your location, connects to your local library, and gives you the opportunity to check out books that your library has. You can put books on hold and you have 14 days to return any book you check out.

The only stipulation is that you must have a library card from your local library which is also FREE to sign up for. You just have to make a small trip there.

When I run out of ideas, I do a few keyword searches on the app, find an available book, browse through, and screenshot recipes I want to make. And, you can do it without ever leaving your house or making a purchase!

It definitely helps me add variety to my meals at home when I don’t know what to google.

There are also advice books on fasting, keto, vegan, low calorie, exercise, weight loss, amongst other things that can help explain things that the community may not know! I don’t have a thyroid due to cancer and I even found books at my local library about cancer diets and hypothyroidism that gave helpful tips on what I should stay away from.

Just thought I’d share!

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Breaking my silence and my stillness

HW: 99.8kg (220lb) CW: 87.7kg (193lb) GW: 72kg (158lb)

So I’ve been watching this reddit for a while now, I found it originally through Luke Narwhal’s YouTube. It inspired me and kept me going through my 20 or so kg weight loss. But since covid and lockdown hit and then later lifted (side note: I’m in Western Australia where our state government are doing a fantastic effort in keeping our borders locked and things are back to almost normal). But since then, I’ve gained close to 10kg back, takeaway has been too easy to buy, the gym is so far when I’m staying with my partner (which is most of the time) and I can feel myself slipping, and clutching at my health in relation to food and fitness. I’m struggling. But I’ve had enough, from today, right now, at 3:53pm on September 3, 2020, I am getting myself back on track to my goal weight. I’m telling you for accountability, as I will be updating you on my progress, but also asking for little tips and tricks you may have ❤️

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Wednesday, September 2, 2020

there is a lot going on in this post but basically just ranting about a psych ward visit, sex, and weight loss

~a series of events~

hi, 18f 5'9 sw 290 cw 245 here. basically I'm going to rant idk

we start in December of last year where i spent a week in a psych ward. essentially I was super depressed the months prior to that and ate as a coping mechanism because feeling full was better than feeling empty. broke down around finals week at my university thus leading to my mental hospital escapade. it was here that I told a lot of people things for the first time and gained a new sense of gratitude for all that I had. this isn't a mental health sub but I think my mental health has been critical to my story as will be developed on later.

flash forward to march. during this time, I had been a dating guy online and he was flying out to meet me. i was still around 290 here and i had sent him pictures of me but was essentially like there's no way he's gonna still be attracted to me. (I also find it important to mention that he was a skinny guy with a relatively large following in the video game scene so I was pretty much already convinced he was out of my league) Anyways, he came and surprisingly he wasn't repulsed by me. it was the first time I had really done things intimately with a guy and I think meeting him and having sex saved my life. literally. both mentally and physically. it taught me that I could be loved and attracted to whereas before i was quite convinced i couldn't be (or at least that I couldn't be loved or attracted to when someone knew what my body really looked like). i was filled with a new sense of self-love and confidence that I had never had before and I finally didn't feel completely terrible and miserable with myself. mental illness= CURED? just kidding, but really-- my mental was in such a better place.

further flashforward to may. me and this dude broke up in april but it kinda didn't matter in the grand scheme bc he gave me the most powerful realization-- i, literallyvibingrn, was LOVEABLE?! and guess what that meant reddit; it meant i could love myself. so here i was, a living breathing virginity-less bad bitch, going on my dandy way through life. with my newfound sense of self-love, i finally decided it was time to stop treating my body like trash and give it and myself a new life it deserved. thus, weight loss. the motivation did not come entirely super easily though. however, i somehow managed to become intimate with an OLYMPIC fucking ATHLETE and i was like holy shit how have i managed to get here? then my motivation for weight loss came from wanting to be better for him. we still talk and are in a good place and i still do want to get better for him but really, i want to be better for me. realizing that these people could love me made me realize i was a fool to ever feel unloveable and it's kinda dumb that it took validation from others but it's okay because now i have validation from myself. since, I've lost 45 pounds and i'm on my merry way. progress has been slower recently with my fall semester of school starting but i am hopeful :)

tl;dr i was depressed and fat and then i had sex and then i was fat and not depressed and now i'm not depressed and less fat

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NSV- I suffer from Binge Eating Disorder. Today, I ordered Chipotle and didn’t eat it all in one sitting.

Hey y’all, first time posting here! I’ve been on a weight loss mission since November 2019 [F 5’2”/SW: 184 CW: 154 GW: 129], doing CICO, stringent calorie counting and an hour of exercise 6 days a week. For the most part, things have been going well. I’ve definitely battled feelings of inadequacy due to how slow I feel like I’m losing. That slowness in losing is heavily due to the fact that I have disordered eating. I suffer from BED, have purged in the past, and have no connection with my biological hunger cues whatsoever. This has caused several lost weeks due to binging the calories I burned through cutting.

Today is my day off, however, and I ordered Chipotle. I ordered chips and queso, and a burrito bowl. I ate about a quarter of my burrito bowl, about half of the chips and less than half of the queso. A would-be 1800 calorie binge turned into a 700 calorie meal. I didn’t even go over my calories for a cutting day. This is HUGE for me. And I actually recognize that I feel full. Slow progress is progress, my dudes. Making small, sustainable changes leads to results that will last. I couldn’t be happier.

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36 pounds down, holy shit, pics included

Hi everyone Long time lurker, but never thought I’d be the one to make a post like this

My heaviest was in high school at 252 pounds

I’m sure everyone can relate, I was the fat kid in the group. Tried countless times to lose weight Lowest I ever got was 220ish sometime in high school but gained it back after giving in to the urge of fast foods

Fast forward a few years my weight fluctuated, I didn’t eat out as often but didn’t exercise, so my weight fluctuated often

I would hang around 230-240 pounds

May 19 2019 I decided to give it another shot. 236 pounds. I was 25 and wasn’t getting any younger, so I went all in

1300 calories or less a day 2 miles a day 6 days a week And chest/leg/ab workouts 5 days a week

Since covid came around my work shifted to remote so I’m not as exposed to fast foods, so it was really perfect timing

Anyway as of August 31st I’m 200 pounds flat.

It’s super weird, I get complements on zoom calls lol One of my students out of nowhere tells me their wife thinks I’m handsome A girl I hadn’t spoken too in a long time stopped by my house to catch up and told me that I’m “hot” now My friends are starting to diet and exercise as well and asking me for tips

Me, the fat kid lol

It’s an amazing feeling but I am definitely not used to getting complements lol

Goal weight is 180 so I still got some way to go, will make another post when I get there.

Thank you all for your support, reading everyone’s success stories played a huge part in all this. Thank you thank you thank you.

Pictures below:

weight loss pix

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