Monday, November 23, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 23 November 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Sunday, November 22, 2020

Why Can't I See A Difference in a 20 lb Weight Loss

I didn't intend to go on a weight loss journey, as my weight has always been the same and I've learned to accept it. In June i weighed 189 lbs and now I am at 168 lbs.....21 pound difference should be pretty significant right??

I don't see a difference in how I look at all! When I look at pictures then vs now....nothing... When I look in the mirror...nothing....clothes fit me more or less the same....I'm so confused

I am a 24 year old Female 5'6 Start weight 189 lbs Current weight 168 lbs Goal weight 145 lbs

Due to Covid my lifestyle ranges from sedentary to moderately active :/ hoping to work out more

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Anyone use the Lose It app? + General Advice

I use the Lose It App, just because it was free and neat and seems to be accurate in terms of most food. (I have to look at serving sizes anyways when planning so I look for inconsistencies.)

I'm flat out just doing 2000 calories a day even though my amount is listed as higher (with my weight loss goals inputted) I eat a pretty balanced diet and I am tweaking my nutrients, but so far happy with this round.

I feel like this weight loss shit can be all over the place, so I am trying to be way more casual about stuff, if I can't exercise, I will just log everything that goes into my mouth and one day I will be lighter than I am now. (Right?)

I was wondering how accurate the app is in terms of calories and their estimates. TDEE shit like that. Mine is logged as sedentary, and has my weight loss goals in it. It's set at lose 2lbs a week, but I am FIVE days in and it says 1,239 under budget.

Don't I need to lose 3,500 for one pound? Because at this projected rate its more like 2lbs a month.

But still I am huge and I am quite active, just not where I can walk for an hour or two or lift or do shit until lock down is over.

I can tweak it and go bit lower, some days I am under... but something feels off. Been a while since I read up and double checked everything so I may be rusty, and not being able to walk / lift weights / do yoga is a pain, that would solve some problems real quick.

Sorry for the long post.

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I think I've hit rock bottom....

But in a good way. I can't take it anymore and I'm letting it all out. I know this is long but I need to do this.

For the past 1.5 years, I have been packing on weight. I'm a 32-years old woman, full-time student, mother, and partner and I'm not living life the way I should or want to. I'm 5'0" and the last time I weighed myself, which was a few months ago, I was 220 lb. I'm likely heavier now - probably 240. I have asthma and for the past year, have experienced edema in my lower legs from slowed blood flow, worsening asthma, I'm pre-hypertensive, at 19, had my daughter (some weight gain but I lost most of it), at 20 I was diagnosed with several conditions like degenerative disc disease, congenital lumbar spinal stenosis, 4 slipped discs (one of which bulges towards my spine), bursitis in my hips, and severe carpal tunnel syndrome that has caused permanent nerve damage even after open-release carpal tunnel surgery. I had to stop working as an independent contractor for a gig platform because I've gotten too fat and it hurts too much to do the manual labor. To top it all off, I have moderately-severe autism and auditory processing disorder.

The bulk of these happened before my weight truly spun out of control so what was already difficult, I made worse. I was raised by a mother who suffers with BPD and anorexia so I was taught all of the wrong lessons about food. I've tried to love myself over the years and even got close at times but there was always an undercurrent of disgust and shame at my body. I was always overweight but it was never too terrible and certainly never kept me from enjoying life. Before, I was the short and cute chubby girl with the big boobs and big round butt that could attract most men. Now I'm this balloon of a woman and a shell of my former self. The past year I have started to hate myself so much that I wouldn't make love to my partner of 8 years. It's not his fault. I hated myself so I decided for him that I wasn't worthy of his love and affection. He has an extra 10 or 15 pounds but he looks fit and sexy. But no matter how much I ached for intimacy, I held myself back.

What happened? How did I allow myself to get this big? I don't want to hate myself this much. No one chooses to hate themselves like this. No one in their right mind chooses to be fat. I knew I was more prone to suffer issues if I put on the weight but I just couldn't stop myself - or wouldn't. I would never eat during the day unless I did more physical activity than usual and instead would wait until everyone was asleep. I would bring out my bowl, smoke some weed, and binge on junk food until I could barely breath. I would make secret trips to the grocery store or, if I did buy junk food, I would eat the whole package/box/bag and replace it the next day to make it look like I hadn't eaten it yet. Waiting for everyone to sleep before indulging in my sin caused my sleeping pattern to go completely out of whack. I've always struggled with insomnia (the initial reason I smoke weed), but not to the extent that I would need to sleep almost half the day away because I was up until 4 or 5 in the morning. My studies are suffering, my family is suffering, my body is suffering, and I'm suffering. Why? Haven't I been through enough in life? Haven't I been to enough funerals for my friends (non-weight related) that I should value my life more? Even burying my own sister? Was it not enough?

The weight has made walking nearly impossible because my back can no longer handle the weight, causing unbearable tightness and pain in my lower back. One of the final straws broke when we took our daughter to go trick or treating and I couldn't even make it half a block. The pain makes it impossible to keep walking. So there I was, coming up with the excuse that we could cover more houses if I drove along side them in the car. For the first time in my daughter's 13 years of life, I wasn't the one walking with her from house to house. Oddly, it worked out as my boyfriend really enjoyed being the primary walker as it was great bonding time. But still.... I felt like total and complete shit.

So here I am, warts and all. I'm tired of looking at women who are healthy and wishing I was them. I'm tired of avoiding mirrors and other reflective surfaces. When I do muster the courage to look in the mirror, I am horrified at what I've allowed to be done to my body. I'm tired of the sneaking around. I'm tired of looking at before and afters; seeing their start and current month and thinking, "If I had started my weight loss then, I could be like that right now". I'm tired of watching sex scenes with my boyfriend and worried that he sees that and wishes I looked like that. I'm tired of wearing a shirt to hide my stomach during sex. I miss being completely nude and feeling our bodies together. I know he loves me and I know he would never cheat on me. We've been to hell and back over the last 8 years and we're stronger for it. But I'm tired of sucking in my stomach (or a sad attempt to) so that he doesn't see how fat I've become. I'm tired of carefully turning around when he wants to have sex in missionary. I'm tired of pretending I'm way more ticklish of my sides and stomach than I actually am. I'm tired of holding things in front of my stomach to hide it. I'm tired of looking at myself during class in Zoom. I'm tired of feeling like shit after I eat or drink something I'm not supposed to. I'm tired of being in agony and barely making it through a shower because I can't stand that long. I'm tired of leaning on anything i can find to alleviate my back pain. I'm tired of telling my boyfriend that I'm tired of being this weight, making some half-assed attempt and going back to my old ways. I'm tired of our home not being more organized because I can't bring myself to do it because of my back. I'm tired of watching as my yoga mat collects dust. I'm tired of looking at the healthy food I bought expire because I gave up within the week. I'm tired of starting and failing and starting all over again. I'm so fucking sick and tired of being sick, tired, and miserable. I want to live a long life. I want to watch our daughter become a woman, potential mother, and adult. I want to travel the world. I want to make love to my boyfriend without fear, shame, or embarrassment. I want to love myself more. I want to take care of myself. I want to wear flip-flops. I want to go to the beach again. I want to give my family everything I have in me. I want to LIVE.

I think I've finally hit rock bottom in the best way possible. I think I'm finally ready to change but I know I can't do it alone. My boyfriend is supportive of me and wanting to make changes too. I want us to feel sexy and confident. Every time I've tried this on my own, I've failed because I didn't ask him to join me. He has failed every time for the same reason. And now we've decided to do it together.

I am now on day 4 weed-free and have followed through on my workout days this week. Tomorrow I will do yoga to help with flexibility and eventually work up to cardio on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. I will do my HIIT workouts on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays. I can already feel some flexibility coming back now that I'm not as bloated from all of the junk food. The edema in my legs have already started to lessen. I can walk and stand longer which has been a huge relief. I'm becoming more and more conscious of what I put in my body. I'm not perfect but I am making the changes little by little every day and my body is thanking me for it as it crawls back to healthy.

Part of changing is holding myself accountable. I'm also doing something I've never done before; making this public. So every day, no matter what unless there extreme extenuating circumstances, I am pledging to post every day to keep myself on track. I will log my good days and my bad days. I will log what I've eaten, what exercises I've done, and my overall mood. It's not about getting upvotes or comments. It's about doing whatever I can to hold myself accountable and reminding myself every day why I'm doing this.

So whoever you are, if you've read this far, I appreciate you taking the time to peak into my life. Maybe you even resonate with everything I've said or even some of it. If you'd like, feel free to comment any tips, advice, or feedback. Make me accountable. I know I can do this but not on my own. I truly believe that I'm finally ready to change and take my life back from this cage that is my fat. I'm ready to start loving myself.

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Back to pre-quarantine weight + family reactions

Working from home in the spring and summer with a mindset of fat acceptance led me to gaining 15 pounds over just a couple of months. Once I realized the damage I had done, I started CICO and IF in June. It was a rocky start--I've always been overweight and have never been able to lose weight--but I'm officially back to the weight I was in February before all this started! Also, I'm not stopping here; now that I know that I can lose weight, I'm going to try to get to that "healthy" BMI range.

However, my family hasn't been much help. Even though they are also all overweight, they are hyperfocused on what each other gains/loses. Sometimes they are nice enough to keep their opinions to themselves, but when they noticed how much I had lost in the last few months, they then went into their backlog of insults, showing me selfies I had sent them in the summer that they said made me look "huge."

I'm losing weight for me, not for them, but their rude comments sometimes act like reverse psychology where I want to gain weight back just to spite them, to say, "Hey, I don't care what you think of my body." Almost as if me losing weight would justify their behavior.

I've tried to be honest and say that their comments hurt me, but then they turn and make a joke about it. We are a very close family, always laughing and making jokes, so any attempt at honesty just breeds more [good-humored? maybe in their eyes] jabbing.

I'm excited about my weight loss so far, and I'm going to try not to let my family get to me.

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Pain in right thigh when walking?

Hey, so I (22M, 5’ 11”, 304 lbs) finally decided to really get serious about weight loss after years of on and off about it. I’ve been walking on a treadmill for the past few days (which I’ve never done with frequency before) and I’ve noticed a pretty annoying pain at the very top of my thigh, directly below my hip on my right side. I walk at 2.7 mph for 2-3 miles a day, one session each day. Is it just something I’ll get used to? I can power through it for sure, but I don’t want to mess anything up.

Also, it did go away about 16 hours after my first session, but came back when I started walking again, so it does just seem like soreness, but idk.

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what can I do to try and calm these thoughts down

hey guys it’s me again,, I’m doing rly good, still kinda freaking out about what I had on my moms birthday at the restaurant but I did good there , I took many of u guyes advices, but yea so like I said I think I’m doing good but the only thing is I’ve been getting a lot of thoughts about when ill eat next and/or my calories I’ve burned and if I’ve burned enough. i know it’s normal to think about that stuff but I think about it a lot. everytime I realize I’m thinking about it i try and think about something non food or weight loss in general related because I really don’t want it to become a habit where I think about it 24/7 and I also have ocd (undiagnosed but have been going to therapy about it) which makes sense to why I may be thinking about it 24/7 but I just wanted to know if anyone every experienced this and what they did to keep it out of their head? also wishing the best of luck to all you guys on ur journey too<3

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