Saturday, February 11, 2023

I an extremely anxious about my health

I am 17, i weigh around 198lbs/90kgs and I’ve been recently trying to lose weight. My BMI tells me that I’m considered severely obese. I do not have health problems at the moment, and I’ve been this heavy for almost a year only. I used to weigh 10 kgs less a year ago, but I struggle with multiple mental illnesses and stress eating has been very present in my life (2022 was one of the hardest years mentally, if not the worst year of my life so far).

Anyways I’ve been recently healing, and I have been constantly going to the gym. I’m for once truly happy, which hasn’t happened since years and years but I am so scared for my physical health. I’m scared of still developing diabetes, I’m scared of the really high cholesterol I have and I’m overall scared that even tho I am going to put in the effort, It’s already too late for me because I messed up real bad.

This may sound dramatic I know, but I have major anxiety about this stuff and you guys also know that overthinking is a huge part of a weight loss journey.

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What is keeping you from changing your eating habits or getting in shape?

Im a dietitian and want to put together a free webinar/resources to help people who struggle with weight loss.

If you have been trying to lose weight/eat better/get in shape, what is keeping you stuck?

-motivation?
-lack of time?
-feeling overwhelmed?
-not seeing any results so then giving up?
-feeling like its too hard?
-lack of community + support?

On the flipside, if you've successfully lose weight and have kept it off--what would you say is the #1 or 2 things that really contributed to your success?

Thanks in advance!

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First time cutting - seeking advice with a few questions

Hey LoseIt,

I'll try keep it simple.

Context: 27 M / CW: 84kg (~185lb) / ~ 5'8.

Activity: Go to gym 4x a week (hypertrophy Upper-Lower type split ; used to do a focus on powerlifting but have since moved).

Dieting: I made a commitment to start cutting (downloading MFP and tracking 'most' of my food) around 3 weeks ago; so say 22-Jan-2023. I believe my weight prior to this was anywhere from 85-87kg (coming from the new year festive season), but most likely within the 86-87kg region - unfortunately I didn't have a concrete measuring.

I didn't really bother testing out my TDEE and just jumped straight into a 2k calorie intake from that Jan date. The reason why is because I recall i used to track around 2-2.5k cals on a previous weight loss log history. Nonetheless, I think it seems to have some results as I'm in the 84kg region (uppers and unders) from a year high of 86-87kg (to be conservative).

I know that water weight and hormones due to dieting skews the game a bit, so a lot of these numbers may need to be taken with some skepticism.

Q1) Any real dramas with just starting at a ~2k caloric intake? I gather that the scale and gym performance will be the tell-tale sign if it's genuinely too low. Given that it has been 3 weeks and the scale hasn't severely dropped too much, then I presume it's a nice rough start. The caveat is if it starts to stall (which leads to my next question), then am I at risk of already having a somewhat low caloric intake for a 85kg male?

Q2) During this 3 week process, I find the scale oscillates a lot - some days are higher and then lower. I understand that we should be tracking a 7-day moving average (which I have), however I had thought most of the fluctuations after the onset would have largely stabilised and I'd see consistent loss. The alternative is how long do I give myself to allow for the 'Woosh' effect? Say I am on the right path and will it just suddenly come later with a sharp drop ? (which is what today's 84kg felt like as I used to be closer to the 85kg region).

Q3) The reason why I said 'most' foods were being tracked was that I sort of omit the low cal greens. Things like lettuce etc. However, if I tend to eat A LOT of them, then I'll guesstimate an aggregate weight of that lettuce (As an example) and log it in. But for big carbs and big meats, I'll obviously track them as they'll be the real heavy hitters in accumulating calories. I usually stop around 1.8k cals to account for oils and other condiments (I eat in an asian household where I usually have some of my mum's cooking, but for most meats I will cook and track myself). As such, this gives around a 10% buffer for oils/condiments etc. Noting that we don't typically eat thick condiments anyway - instead opt for things like soy sauce, etc.

Q4) My goal is to lose 10kg (~22lbs), but i also have a self imposed deadline around mid-May in terms of timing. So my goal is to try shed a reasonable amount of weight until May but not lose too much muscle - perhaps just a slow and steady approach works best [would likely result in 2lb loss a month] ? And as such, the amount of weight loss in itself is just arbitrary?

Thank you

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Can potatoes really help with weight loss?

I apologize if this has been asked here previously

I am a male, 181m and 85kg (about 180lb). I've been struggling with losing weight for sometime now even though I have really cut back on my food intake. Most times my dinners are mostly vegetables and whole wheat pasta, however I read an article about how the actor Robert Pattinson was on a strict Potato diet and lost a lot of weight. I would like to know if there's any truth to this and if there is, what amount of Potato would be good to stick to ( 200lbs, 300lbs?) Also can sweet potatoes be used or does it have to be the plain white potatoes? Can I have vegetables like Lettuce, carrots,cabbage along with potatoes?

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I will not weigh myself for a month - challenge

Dear All,

I have been a lurker here for a while. I would like to lose 10 -15 pounds tops. But since tracking calories, working out and weighing myself, I have been gaining weight. I think I overdid-it for myself. I'm going on a vacation in a month so I decided to only focus on what I can do: workout consistently, sleep well and manage a bit more protein, but no calorie goal or weight loss goal.

I would like to focus on how these changes make me feel rather than numbers for now. It might change later tho.

Also: thank you for this sub!

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Friday, February 10, 2023

Got down to 125 from 165. My goal weight was 105-110 but I think I’m going to stop it here.

Before you read this, please have some compassion as I can be very sensitive.

I’m stopping my weight loss at 125 pounds at 5’3. I feel defeated ending it here and so thought a two month break would help so I can get back on track but I don’t think I have it in me to be eating >1000 calories a day anymore 🥲 I know it’s too little but with my height, I can barely lose anything if I were to up it any higher unless I do the treadmill an hour a day for five times a week which my body can’t seem to do anymore.

I know weight loss is different for everyone but I gave up my social life, completely stopped going out, hid in my room all day and night, was completely obsessing over food every waking hour, I was so hard on myself for the way I looked and I still do, man everything I did was for my “dream body” but I started going out with friends and going to restaurants again about two months ago and I honestly feel so much happier doing so than locking myself in my room convincing myself not to eat 🥲 I still hate the way I look very much and honestly dieting made me have disordered thoughts and I started eating less and less and I just don’t want it to spiral to a straight up eating disorder. I do want to start going on walks or do the treadmill once a day so I can still be somewhat active and of course watch what I eat most of the times so I don’t gain the weight back but I just can’t diet without me doing it to the most extreme.

I’m definitely going to learn more about what I should be doing for healthy weight loss but I just wanna enjoy life for now. I wanna go out and get ramen or try some desserts with friends without having to fast or cut my calories severely for that one day.

I know a lot of you will shame me for the way I lost the weight and honestly it’s well deserved because I didn’t put in the effort to do this properly but I promise myself I’ll do better next time. I just wanted to vent, thank you.

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Self esteem and taking the first steps...what do you expect from your fellow man?

I have a volunteer who is extremely obese.He started about a year ago and I have come to respect him for his tenacity. He's no quitter I'll tell you that.He had to watch special needs kids on a play ground on a 110 degree day and he did. He looked like he was going to die doing it but he did it all and he did it well. Then he carried all the water toy shit to keep the kids cool back to the building which was three times the hike and then he did dishes. And then he vaccumed the rec room. All the while being pleasant. He's been supervising our special needs swimming club, again, doing well. Making connections, giving good vibes while making sure everybody is safe. He's golden!

Today he asked me if I would back him and give a positive reference if he would apply for paid jobs. I totally will. He's amazing. But I really want to tell him it would be so much easier if he would get a gastric bypass, lose a shit ton and get several tucks. But then again I'm sure he knows that so I don't want to overstep.He's never going to be a weight loss hero but I still want to give him his just deserts.

He's wonderful. He knows how huge he is. He's been showing up.How can I show up for him?

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