Monday, May 8, 2023

counting calories is putting me in a very unwell headspace

so i used to have an eating disorder in my teens, and have been recovered for at least 6 years now. i maintained a healthy average weight for those years but over the past year i've packed on enough pounds to the point where i'm considered mildly overweight for my height. i'm going to be in my sister's wedding in september and i want to lose at least 10 pounds in a healthy manner so i look good in my dress. this obviously means i need to do basic dieting things like counting calories, which i am, but i feel myself slipping into very dangerous waters doing so. all i think about is calories all day everyday, and when i log food into my weight loss app i feel like throwing up just seeing how many calories the food im eating has. i was taught NOT to look at calories during my recovery, but that was when i was trying to gain weight and fix my relationship with food, and now i have to log them in order to lose weight consistently. is there ANY advice someone can give me? is there a method to losing weight without counting calories?

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Last 10lb to go

I'm 26m, 5'9". 190.

I'm so close. but it's been a struggle all the way down.

What I've learned about myself -

  • alcohol is the root cause of most of my overeating.

If I drink, I stay at a high weight, period.

  • Intermittent fasting works.

When I actually bear up and do it, I have effective periods of sustainable weight loss. There is no way around this.

  • Going too hard - anything less than 2000 calories in my case, and sometimes even that -- is counterproductive.

I can be done with this in 1-2 months. Will it suck? sure.

How do I keep the weight off? I'm limiting myself to one night of drinking per 2 weeks. I just feel like absolute shit when I do it.

I'm 26. never had a girlfriend.

Had sex once.

Not thrilled with my self image. Used to be a smoking hot dude, but no more.

It's time to stop f**king around.

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I hate going out to eat

Getting invited out to eat stresses me out as I know I will go over my daily limit and my weekly weight loss goal won’t be accomplished. I feel bad for continuously cancelling on friends but it’s not enjoyable for me. It’s hard looking for healthy options in restaurants and most are not with calorie labels so I’m not able to track it and tracking brings me satisfaction so If I don’t I spiral.

I don’t like cheat days or cheat meals. What do I do?

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When will my belly start to get smaller?

Hey guys! First time posting here. I’ve been tracking my calories and exercising since February. I am a male, 26 years old, 5’8 and started at 210lbs on February 10th and am currently 183.5. I am on a 1500 deficit and have cut out alcohol and am working out 6 days a week for an hour (30 mins cardio/30 mins resistance training). I have more energy and have visibly lost weight everywhere on my body except for my belly. My coworkers and friends have noticed my weight loss and are encouraging but I personally don’t see much of a difference in how I look overall because my belly and love handles still hang over my hips a bit and while, yes, I am doing this for health reasons, I have been obese my entire life and always had a large belly and selfishly am getting a little frustrated at the lack of results I am seeing in this one area.

Any tips or advice would be appreciated!

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Starting C25k again. Any tips to stick with it?

I’ve done the program who knows how many times in the past, but I really want to stick with it this time. I have two weeks to do a kind of soft start, then a vacation planned, then I plan on restarting again at week 1 and going from there.

I’m tired all the time. My dog deserves better. And I want to actually hit this goal just once in my life. I don’t even really care about losing weight, although it would be nice. I’ve given up on weight loss and just want to focus on healthy habits.

Any tips for going forward? Especially when the excuses start coming in- the rain, I don’t feel good, I can do it tomorrow, etc.

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Sunday, May 7, 2023

Finally fit into my "enemy jeans"!

I (65F) have lost about 50 lbs over the past 18 months. It was fast at first, leveled off, and now I'm losing again since starting thyroid medication.

I order most of my clothes online, and with jeans it's always a crapshoot. I can order pants in the same size, same style, from the same manufacturer in different colors, and some will fit perfectly, some will be baggy, and some will be super-tight.

Hence, I've had a pair of "enemy jeans" (light blue capris) and "enemy pants" (grey stonewashed) that are basically girdles and literally make me sick to wear due to being so tight.

The other night I decided to try on the enemy jeans, and to my shock, they fit! I was so excited. I wore them to make a three-hour drive to visit a friend.

This morning I decided to try on the enemy pants, and they fit perfectly, like they were made for me.

I have a long way to go on my weight loss journey, another 150 pounds, and no one has commented that they've noticed my weight loss (except doctors, who are thrilled at the numbers).

So having a non-scale victory like both pairs of enemy clothes fitting is huge to me, and I'm so happy.

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(SV) I've completely changed my lifestyle and habits and am happier for it (-105lbs, +70lbs, -70lbs)

Hey everyone, long time lurker here (29M, 5'7). I've been feeling really good about my health and fitness progress lately and wanted to share my story in the hopes that it'll help motivate others to do the same :). This is not my first foray with /r/loseit -- back in 2017, I posted here to share that I'd lost 105 pounds between 11/2015 and 1/2017 from my peak of 267lbs. I've learned a lot in the past 6 years since doing that in regards to my weight, and many of the lessons I had to learn the hard way as I slowly backslid up 70 pounds. When I first lost the weight, I did it solely through calorie counting and restricting myself to 1200-1300 calories a day. After I'd reached a weight I was content at, I grew complacent with my progress and started tracking less vigorously... that, combined with becoming even more sedentary with the start of my tech-based career, lead to a slow increase in my weight over a few years, until it eventually shot up hard during the initial year of COVID lockdowns (where I somehow willed myself into thinking that I shouldn't care about keeping myself together while everything was going crazy in the world).

As soon as gyms opened back up, however, I decided that the only thing keeping me from being healthy was myself, and stopped allowing myself to use things like COVID and other things out of my control as excuses for not taking better care of myself. While I had already started calorie counting again in the Summer of 2021, I doubled down and committed to changing my habits permanently and got a gym membership in October 2021. Starting on day 1, I refused to let myself make any excuses for missing a scheduled workout, going 5 days a week without fail from then on (at some point in 2022 I increased this to 6 a week :) ). While it was hard at first (especially because I still wanted to be careful about my health with COVID and wore a mask for the first ~6 months or so of going), after a while I was able to make going to the gym part of my habits and no longer felt like I was forcing myself to go, and even started enjoying it. Since then, I've dropped all of the weight I put back on since my first weight loss, back down to ~160lbs, except this time I have muscle to help make me look even thinner than I did back then. After I really started getting serious about working out, I cleaned up my diet as well, in the hopes of better improving my performance at the gym. I now each mostly lean meats (chicken and turkey mostly) and veggies, with a very high protein diet overall.

I've really come to love my new fitness-focused daily routine now; I have so much more energy than I used to, I feel more comfortable showing off my body (I used to buy clothes that I could hide in, now I only ever want to wear form fitting clothes), and I've picked up physically intensive hobbies that I never would have even dreamed of doing even a year ago, like bouldering. It's gotten to the point where I consider working out to be one of my main hobbies now; I'm always trying to find ways to further improve my fitness or push for new goals (on cardio days, I try to get as many steps as possible. My record so far is 60,000 steps in a day).

My weight trend, from 2015-2023

Progress Pic (shirt on)

Progress Pic (shirt off, mildly NSFW)

Happy to offer any advice or suggestions!

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