Saturday, May 25, 2019

Foe everyone who is struggling on their journey

I believe everyone who is on this journey of weight loss and losing body fat one day looked in the mirror and thought: "Why do I still look like this?". The truth is harsh, but if you don't have a good genetics and fast metabolism, you will struggle with those stubborn areas just like me. I just woke up today and after a gym session I looked myself in the mirror and thought how everyone knows that I am that gym freak who is there 6 times a week, but I still don't look the same as most gym freaks do. I don't have abs showing, matter of fact I have a muffin top and my butt and legs are a bit fat in that upper area. I thought that I was going to get rid of it by going to the gym almost every day and 70% of the time eating healthy without tracking calories nor amount of food (since it is labeled as healthy). I can lift a lot of weight and I got pretty strong, but you wouldn't say that on your first impression of me. So when you think you are doing everything possible, think about it once more.

Take a paper and pen and write down all your bad habits that you still have that you think have influence on your weight loss journey. Then, after you have them written down, eliminate them one by one every week or so, and replace them with good ones. Eating junk food few times a week? Limit that to one day a week, and preferably only one cheat meal, not the whole day of eating candy and stuffing yourself with pizza and burgers. If you miss out a training because you are too exhausted after a day at work, make a deal with yourself and get up an hour earlier and try to walk or do some light exercise in the morning. Are you eating healthy like me but still don't see any visible fat loss? We are probably stuffing ourselves with too much calories than we spend and we are on the maintenance and nothing is changing in the speed/way we would want to. Use smaller plates, eat calorie dense food that is high volume (you can eat a pound of beans and it has around 300 calories for example, and that is really A LOT of beans) and eat when you are really hungry. Choose the stairs instead of elevator, walk instead of using a public transport. Eat more whole foods. Bunch of stuff to take into consideration that can benefit you, just start writing.

Do you know those people who say "I just cut out bread and started walking more" and they transformed completely? Maybe you are not that type of a person that will benefit much of it, but for them it was enough. And me and you, well, we need to struggle a little bit more and make a greater changes in our lives, but it will pay off, I can promise you that.

It will add up and eventually we will see some results. Be patient, if there is no possible errors and if you are really doing everything you can to change your bad habits to transform your body and health to better, you will see the difference, most importantly you will feel the difference. Not so soon maybe, depending on your metabolism and genetics, maybe you will need a longer time, but hey, it should be a fun journey of transforming our bodies and seeing what they are capable of.

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Friday, May 24, 2019

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I can't stand being fat anymore... But I can't seem help it.

Hello folks,

I know, another post about "oh look at me i'm fat, help"... But hear me out, I need this post to be a little more personal (for my own good) then generalizing what I've been seeing from other posts.

I have been fat a big majority of my life. I am now 22, 6'1" and weight 332 pounds.

I am now at the usual "okay, thats enough" stage, but I have been through that stage way too often that it just demotivates me.

Here is what I need from you all... Please tell me what I need to do to stop eating in fast foods... actual good tips for weight loss... (foods to eat, how to get rid of fast food cravings, how often should I eat.) and lastly, what exercises I could do.

For the subject of exercises I could do, please note that I have NO GYM in my proximity as I live in a small town with no gym's. The closest gym is 325km away.

Please help me out guys, last thing I want is to keep shortening my life due to a constant bad diet.

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Sugars

What’s up redditors.

I’ve been pretty self conscious about my diet lately and I’ve been trying to avoid food that contains added sugars or too much fat as a matter of fact. I’m 19, 166cm, and I weight 155 pounds. Off topic I took a break from school came to Canada to work for 6 months and I’m salarying with my grandma, needless to say lots of dessert and carbs and fatty foods. We love seafood tho so that’s a good thing right?

Anyway my question is. Is it possible to avoid sugar completely? I’m pretty sure I can make an exception to vegetables, fruit and different kinds of natural source sugars like lactose. Like there’s sugar everywhere, I’ve seen a couple videos about people quitting sugar and how the most noticeable change is weight loss. I’m going to the gym like 4-5 times a week I do like 2 hours of pretty much just weights. Any thoughts?

I know it’s lots of things but my may concern is sugar.

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I admit I have fallen into disordered eating.

(I apologize for the terrible format)

I've basically been overweight my whole life. I think the highest weight I've ever been was around 190 lbs when I was around 10-12 years old as I had a terrible, unhealthy diet and did little to no exercise. I was basically obese. I understand that my weight gain is hugely my fault, but I believe my parents enabled it as well. I come from a Filipino background, and I moved to America when I was quite young. My parents did little to help me in my weight loss when I was younger. White rice was always on the menu, and I would eat it every day with no knowledge of portion control. My parents and I myself justified my overeating with the idea that we should be grateful for being able to even have money to eat food as we struggled financially in the Philippines.

Anyways, my whole weight loss journey, which started in January, started off healthy. I ate healthier and tried to exercise at least 3 times a week. Then I got into calorie counting, downloaded My Fitness Pal, fasting, and I've down spiraled into disordered eating. I make my own meals, so I know just how many calories I'm eating, and I avoid eating out at restaurants where they don't have their nutritional information. I've lost about 50 lbs since the beginning of the year. I know calorie counting and fasting are not immediate signs of having an eating disorder, but I've definitely abused these weight loss methods. I restrict myself to 500-900 calories a day, and I get anxious when I go over 1000 calories because I feel like I've binged. My whole relationship with food has COMPLETELY changed. I fear the thought of gaining back the weight. I've developed a mental set of "safe foods" and "fear foods." My "safe" and "fear" foods would constantly change.

I'm looking back at it, and I realized I definitely had a binge eating problem when I was younger. I would plan out what I would binge on at night, go to the kitchen, get the food, and eat it in my room in privacy even when I wasn't even remotely hungry. I felt so guilty eating so ravenously and with no absolute control. Now, I feel like I have control in what I'm eating.

My family has been getting very angry at me for restricting. Today, I had a protein shake and a hard boiled egg for dinner (after working out), and they got angry at me. They warn me that I'll get stomach ulcers if I keep doing what I'm doing. My mom, especially, gets mad at me, saying that I'm getting too skinny, I need to stop losing weight, and that I need to eat more. I honestly would eat more, but my stomach has shrunk so much (I think that's a myth though?) that I can get full from eating 500-900 calories a day.

Food and exercise is always on my mind, and I feel so stuck. I hate how anxious I get with the calories I consume and how much carbs I take in. I want to eat food without the urge of logging in my calories, but I get extremely paranoid when I don't. I hate this mindset that I'm living in, but I can't stop.

Please don't slip into disordered eating. It's terrible.

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Anecdotes from my weight loss.

So, here's a bunch of cool stuff that happened in the past year or so. Please allow me to skip the numbers part, in order to keep this more in the human side of things:

- Going to a yearly business meeting/party and having all the people that only see me once a year notice my weight loss.

- Having to buy new pants. Then having to buy new pants again. Making new holes in the belt, gaining a new appreciation for how hard leatherworking must be. One thing I learned: buy a single, cheap, new set of clothes every 6-8 pounds. Having clothes that fit you well is really nice.

- Having to say goodbye to old clothes I really liked, like this one coat I bought in Paris and just looks like shit on me now.

- Being asked "how did you loose so much weight?!" like I have a magic spell that they can get from me, and seeing their discouraged reactions when I tell them "I downloaded an app for food tracking and an app for exercise at home", then trying to convince them it's the only way . . .

- Going to a wedding with my wife, this requires a bit more explanation. She's been with me for a long time, and has seen my weight fluctuate a lot, from fad dieting to stress eating and everything in between. So when I started consistently and steadily loosing, while bulking up a little on muscle, and doing all this in a healthy way to boot . . . well, she was skeptical. She would comment ocasionaly on how I look better and then add "But you know I love you either way!" Now, at this wedding, I was looking sharp. She makes her usual conservative comment, all good. Then as the wedding progresses, she gets tipsy. We hit the dance floor. After a while she stops and grabs me by the arm. "You know, you look really hot" She touches my arms, and basically fondles me a little bit. "like, really hot, you look FUCKING GREAT". That moment, that tiny moment, is what I call happiness.

- Going to an all inclusive resort for vacations, and hitting that exotic fruit and salads bar all day, every day, like there's no tomorrow. I know fruit isn't exactly calorie free, but hey, I gotta live a little.

- Being confident and secure in my weight loss. Before, whenever I hit a low during a diet, I would question myself "will I be able to keep this weight off? I don't wanna get all this weight back as soon as the diet is over" and then seeing exactly that happen, as my soul is crushed. Now I know I own that number, my weight is under my control. Feels great.

- Ok, a tiny bit of numbers: seeing the scale drop below 200 was really sweet.

- Watching TV in bed, in pijamas, jumping real quick out of bed to go take a piss, and being hit with my image, reflected in the closet door mirror. The instant reaction of thinking "damn I look good" instead of the previous, usual shying away from my own image. Happiness moments.

All of this, all of it, couldn't have been possible without r/loseit and r/bodyweightfitness. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU.

Edit: formatting.

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Advice on getting through body dysphoria after a large weight loss?

Hey lovely losers!

I was hoping to hear from some people who have experienced a large weight loss, and a little bit of body dysphoria as a result and how they adjusted.

Here’s my story in a nut shell. I have lost 90Ibs over the last year, and I have about 30Ibs left to go. In other words, I went from a size 2x, to a size small. And I am very proud of that, but I am having a really hard time shopping now.

The styles the used to look good on me, don’t anymore. I now look good in styles that I guess are a bit more conventional? Like, for example, before the only style of pants I would buy would be wide legged pants, but now I look much better in boot cut or skinny leg. That seems simple, like ok then buy the style that looks good on you, problem solved. But I won’t. I don’t like want to buy those clothes. I don’t like them, and I don’t feel good in them, but I don’t feel good in my old styles either. So I end up trying on clothes and just staring at myself in the mirror feeling sad and indifferent to what I am wearing.

Granted, this is a psychological issue and I am seeking professional help (counselling starts Monday). I am just hoping anyone with a similar story might be willing to share their experience and what helped them move past it and get used to their new body. I think it would also help to know that I am not alone.

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