Wednesday, September 2, 2020

1 year!

Well, it's been roughly one year since I seriously started my attempt at weight loss. I have struggled with losing weight my entire life, but a year ago I actually started to focus on my diet, counting calories, etc. I have a lot to thank this subreddit for. I was 21 at the time, and before coming to this subreddit, I had no knowledge of CICO, what TDEE was, etc. I knew our bodies naturally burned calories, but I didn't really understand that weight loss is mostly about food intake and not about exercising, which is largely why I had failed in the past. I also didn't know how much calories I burned naturally until someone recommended a TDEE calculator. I thought since I did some exercising I'd lose weight, but since I did nothing for my diet, I obviously failed. Living in the United States, I really wish our, or at least my local school system focused more on the "science" of losing/maintaining a healthy weight. They may have touched on it here and there, but mostly they preached staying active, not really honing in on the diet part. So after reading posts on this subreddit, I finally understood that I needed a calorie deficit and the easiest and most efficient way to achieve this was through changing diet, and that exercise can only help so much. I was 265 last June, ~240 this time last year. I was 175-185 in January. Due to life and falling into depths of everyday alcohol abuse, I had gone back to 195-200 by July of this year. I have since went back to the basics I had learned a year ago and can proudly say I am 182.7 lbs as of this morning (5'10 M). Now, I am focusing on upping my protein to help get more toned.

I can't stress enough the importance of getting a food scale and counting all your calories. When this was recommended to me, I was very surprised at what I thought was one serving would end up being 2 or even more servings. This helped me adjust my diet further, so not only am I eating healthy foods, but I am not eating too much food. I highly suggest this to people who are just starting out!

I have learned some things I was doing wrong, initially, too. I lost weight way too fast from September 2019 to December 2019 through being extremely restrictive while working a highly active job that caused me to burn even more than my TDEE. Most days I would only eat between 1,100 and 1,400 calories. I was wondering why I was losing weight but not looking as healthy as I felt. I needed more protein, more calories, to lose in a slower but more healthy way. That is what I've incorporated since then, is aiming for 150-180g of protein a day while trying to get at least 1,700-1,800 calories, sometimes over that, and it has not caused me to gain any weight, in fact I am still losing. I think I was fearful before that if I didn't go to the absolute extreme, it would prove detrimental to my weight loss efforts, which couldn't be any more wrong. If anything, going to the extreme was more detrimental than aiming for a calorie goal that'd help my body in the long run.

I can't thank this subreddit enough for all the posts I have lurked through, gaining knowledge here and there from various redditors insights and advice on weight loss. You all have taught me many things I was oblivious to, and have helped change my life tremendously. If it weren't for stumbling upon this community, I know for a fact I would still be obese, with no hope of ever changing and bettering myself. I have gained a new lease on life and I have never felt better. I love how this community thrives on motivation, motivating others and in turn motivating yourself to be the best "you" you can be.

If you're new to this community and are feeling pessimistic, believe that there are some very knowledgeable people here when it comes to weight loss and if you are able to follow their advice, it WILL help you. Everybody is on the same journey here, and while we may be in different spots on that journey, we are on it together nonetheless. I hope that everyone has or will have an experience similar to the one I have had with this subreddit.

Thank you, r/loseit!

*edit to fix dates

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SV on my 100th Day!

I am on my 100th day of CICO and feeling great. Although I've not been losing as fast as some others, I have watched the scale go down, down, and down some more. This morning on my 100th day, I am officially down 30 pounds! I have at least 100+ still to go, so it feels like a drop in the bucket, but that's better than trading up for a bigger bucket year after year!

This is the longest I've really stuck with it and feel motivated to continue. I've learned that one bad day doesn't undo your progress, and that I don't need to restrict any foods altogether. It's been all about portion control and understanding what a serving is and the calories and nutrition it contains.

While I'm celebrating, one difficult thing is I've noticed that the weight loss has slowed down to what is probably a more normal range of a pound or two a week. How do you keep yourself motivated once your weight loss starts to slow?

Thank you to everyone on this sub! I'm mostly a lurker but your posts everyday keep me going.

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Experienced dieter now seeking help 🙏🏻

Hi everyone! I am seeking help please. As the subject states, I am an experienced dieter, 41F. In 2015, I lost a total of 37 pounds over the course of six months, from 140 to 103 pounds. The last 10 pounds weren’t planned; I am 5’0 and my preferred weight is 114. I did gain 11 pounds from the initial weight loss and feel best at 114. I maintained 114 for four years.

I gained about 13 pounds since April. I am now 127.1. Typically when I diet I cut back calories to 1200 a day. Calories are tracked using MFP. I already walk 3-5 miles and work out using Daily Burn 20 minutes a day. Workouts include dumbbells and a kettlebell. I’ve been active for quite some time.

Is there any other advice you can provide regarding my plan? I would appreciate it.

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NSV- I've had to go back to Old Navy TWICE this summer!!

I am so amazed at the changes my body has gone through over these three months!

In spring, the quarantine really hit me hard. Staying home worsened my depression by a landslide, and I was constantly binge eating out of a desperation to fill the void. At the end of May I weighed about 165 lbs (I'm 5'2") and had a new big ol' muffin top.

I graduated from university and moved back home, and decided it was time to fight my depression and feel healthy again. I didn't set specific hard goals, but instead just focused on "doing my best" and being kind to myself. I ate some healthier foods, tracked with CICO, and did some yoga and light pilates. I just aimed to feel better.

By July 1st, my shorts could not stay on my waist!!!!!!! I was wearing size 14s, went to Old Navy to get resized and it turns out my waist had shrunk to a size 10!!! Wow! So I got two new pairs of shorts that day.

I continue my relaxed routine, and towards the end of August I notice that my shorts are a little too loose again. On the 31st I went back to Old Navy and got sized again. I couldn't believe it- I am now a size 8!!!!

My total weight loss from May 31st to August 31st was about 25 lbs. But I am amazed at the inches lost- and now I've got a flat tummy!!! I wasn't expecting this sort of victory- and I've never been so happy to spend money on new clothes!!

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My Niece is noticing my weight loss, how do I respond without giving them a complex for the future?

My niece (5) is starting to notice my weight loss. She told me last week that my face at Christmas used to look round (she traced a big circle around their face) and now does not (she traced her own face). I just responded with “I guess I have different faces!”

Later she noticed my ribs while laying down. And saw my collar bone. She asked what that was (pointing to my collar bone and ribs). I made her shrug so she could feel her own collar bone and explained it’s bones we all have.

My nieces are very slim and active. My other female relatives are overweight, and as I continue to lose weight, my niece is noticing that I have bones or differences from the other female adults.

How do I approach this subject when they ask? Do I tell them I am losing weight? Do I say bones stick out in some people and don’t in others? They went on a run with me twice when I was visiting. They know I’m becoming more active. I just don’t want them to think they have to be small or big or look any way. I don’t want to give them a complex. They already have some sense of body items (asking me to pull down my bathing suit to cover more of my bum) and I don’t want to add to it.

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I hit my goal weight and then regained again...

To preface, I’m a 164cm (5’4) female in her 20s and my goal weight is 55/54kg (120 lbs). I started my weight loss journey in 2016 and at my highest weight I was probably 70kg.

I’ve hit 55kg twice now. Once in early February and again in late July, and I really liked how I looked even though I still had a bit of belly pooch even at that weight. But I struggle so much with maintaining that weight and have always managed to fall back into unhealthy eating patterns quickly and gain weight again until I’m around 58-60kg. And then I feel like shit because I know how great it felt to be at my goal weight and all I’m mad at myself for not maintaining it.

The last few weeks I’ve been bingeing on junk food pretty badly and I always look bloated and I feel awful, and I’m not sure how to gather the motivation to lose weight again and keep it off this time. I thought I’d include some patterns in this post that I’ve noticed that hinder my weight loss:

  1. I go too hard, too fast: I make my deficit too large and I drop pounds quickly but eventually I can’t handle the restrictiveness so I end up overeating badly.
  2. I get so disappointed by one or two days of bad eating that I feel like I’ve failed so I keep eating higher than my deficit for the rest of the week
  3. I eat sugary food and trigger foods after dinner which makes me want to eat more. Snacking after dinner is probably my biggest weakness
  4. I get frustrated when I don’t see weight changes quickly enough and then I feel like giving up.
  5. I definitely don’t drink enough water.

This time around instead of starting hard with a 1200 deficit, I’m aiming for 1,500 calories a day. I’m also going to eat more filling food at night so I don’t feel the urge to snack afterwards and if I do then I’ll have some fruity herbal tea or low sugar chai instead. I’m also going to be logging everything eat into MFP, even if I go grossly over my daily calorie amount just so I can hold myself accountable. I also eventually want to start intermittent fasting again.

Sorry, this post didn’t really have a main point, it was more just me rambling and trying to make sense of things. I guess the main takeaway is that make sure your weight loss plans are sustainable because reaching your goal weight is only half the battle.

I’d love to hear any tips you guys have about how to avoid the urge to binge on snacks or just any weight loss tips in general!

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What has been your biggest realisation or behavioral change since you started your weight loss journey?

For me, the biggest revelation I've made is that feeling hungry almost never feels like a rumbling tummy, or hollowness, or anything I used to associate with needing/wanting food anymore. Instead, I've noticed that when I need more fuel, I start feeling sluggish and unfocused. I don't really get to the point where I feel ravenous anymore, so it's been easier to avoid unnecessary snacking and to stop eating when I feel full.

The only time I notice myself getting "hungry" in the sense I'd been used to is if I've had some junk food lately - it was startling to realize how quickly my body started craving junk again after one "cheat meal" from my favorite Indian take-out place, for example. After having it for dinner, I woke up "hungry" and had more trouble with cravings and eating only what I needed throughout the day. It really hammered home how addictive unhealthy foods can be.

How about you? I'm curious to hear how other people's perspectives have changed since starting to pay more attention to their bodies!

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