Seeking advice on weight loss and living a sustainable lifestyle

Hi!! I’m a 24M, 5’11”, 365 lb guy who’s trying to lose weight over time, eventually reach a healthy weight, and live a healthy and sustainable lifestyle. I’m hoping some people here might be able to give some advice on what they’d recommend.

I’ve decided to make big changes to my lifestyle in an effort to finally be at a healthy weight (I’ve pretty much always been either overweight or obese). I’ve started tracking calories, remaining at or under 2000 daily calorie intake, doing cardio (incline walking 40 min) 5 days per week, and strength training 3x per week. I also walk to school Monday-Thursday which is a 12.5 minute walk one way.

Since I started this lifestyle change in late January, I’ve lost 28 lbs from an initial starting weight of 392 lbs!! I’m super happy about this and it’s motivating me even more to continue with this journey. However, I’m concerned about my future and how I can maintain a healthy lifestyle with sufficient exercise/movement.

I’m a law student, and I plan to become a lawyer, which means I’ll have an office/desk job. I’ve read that this makes people become sedentary, and I don’t ever want to go back to having an unhealthy lifestyle.

I’m also worried about loose skin — since I’ve been obese for so long, I’m afraid I’ll have a really ugly body even after losing all the weight.

If anyone has any tips on these things, any advice at all, I’d be super appreciative of it!! I could use some help since I’m basically doing it all on my own, and the encouragement/advice from people in the same boat or who have completed their weight loss journey would really benefit me!!

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Quell app 2026 Review?

Hey guys, I’ve been looking into Quell the satiety app and before I commit to spending time for it I wanted to see if anyone here has actually used it, especially for weight loss.

From what I understand the whole idea is focusing more on satiety instead of just calories, like tracking how filling your meals are or how long they keep you full. That honestly sounds really appealing to me because every time I try doing a calorie deficit I just get way too hungry and it turns into me bingeing later 😭

I’ve seen people say it helps you pick foods with better satiety so you can stay in a deficit without feeling like you’re starving all the time, which sounds nice but also kinda too good to be true lol.

I guess I’m just wonderingdoes it actually help with hunger or bingeing

is it better than normal calorie tracking apps

and does the satiety thing actually feel accurate or kinda gimmicky

For context I’m 24F, 5’4 and around 149 lbs. My issue isn’t really tracking, it’s more that I get too hungry and then fall off.

Would really appreciate hearing any real experiences before I spend effort on it 🙏

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Day 4: here's what I'm doing

Hey everyone. I'm starting another weight loss journey. I managed to lose about 25 pounds years ago over tge span of a few months and slowly gained it back due to new chronic illness. I'm 5'6 around 160lbs, 35F. Goal weight is around 130. Scale arrives in a few days. I haven't been weighed in a while, but my pants are tighter than I'd like them to be.

I'm doing a whole food, plant based diet. It's worked really well for me in the past, I can eat basically unlimited quantities of foods, and I enjoy trying new recipes. I'm also doing low histamine, which sucks but whatever.

The benefits of this way of eating:

Anti-inflammatory, never hungry, can eat large volumes of food, can be as simple or complex as I want, no calorie counting, no weighing my food, intuitive style of eating, still get to have dessert and snacks, extremely effective for weight loss, has other health effects (such as helping to manage blood sugars, reduce cholesterol, and reverse heart disease).

The drawbacks:

Requires more cooking because I'm not using much pre-packaged stuff, low/ no junk food or animal products (I'm already vegan, so that's not an issue for me, but I love chips).

What I've been eating:

Big salads with delicious sauces. Cereal. Soups (heavy on beans and veggies). Roasted potatoes/veg with creamy garlic sauce. Green smoothies. Popcorn. Blueberry crumble with homemade ice cream. Stir fry. Occasional yellow curry.

The general gist of what I'm eating:

Unlimited fruits, veggies, beans, with some whole grains and nuts/ seeds. No oil. 90% unprocessed plant foods, 10% wiggle room (I use this for my 1 cup of coffee with creamer snd occasionally chips/ dining out).

Why it works:

Plants are low in calorie density and full of fiber, both of which keep you full, blunt hunger cues, and give your body the macro and micronutrients they need.

So yeah, that's what I'm doing in case anyone is interested. My scale hasn't arrived yet, but I already feel a bit lighter. I can't exercise because of MECFS, so diet is the only way for me.

If anyone wants resources, check out:

Forks over Knives (documentary, website, and book),

How Not to Diet by Dr. Michael Greger (the best book on weight loss I've ever read, with like 5000 scientific references)

How Not to Die (documentary and book by Dr. Michael Greger. Doc is on youtube).

Long post, but I hope this information can help someone else.

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Softer and less elastic skin after weight loss

26 year old man

I lost 28 kg in little over two years but I also did lots of yoyo dieting due to depression. I will show you my full journey bellow. I am now 3 weeks in at maintanace. Went from 96 kg to 68 kg. I am a man 175 cm. So I never had a maintanace period. Until now. I am using vitamin c serum, peptide serum, retinol serum, vitamin c supplements, collagen supplements, moisturizer, sunscreen, neck and face exercises, working out, eat enough protein, 8 glasses of water a fay, plan to be at maintanace for 6-12 months, maybe do RF microneedling, thinking about fasting. Now my skin isn't hanging. It looks like my normal skin but it's softer and less compact and has lost some elasticity. Because it spreads out a lot more than it did before my weight gain and loss, when pressed, I can not wear shirts, scarfs or ties anymore because it spreads out right away and I hate it. I genetically have less elastic skin than others but it bothers me how it has gotten worse now. My cheeks, hyoid and neck are softer. My platysma band skin is like a little sail Over my platysma so it's a little loose. Not as close to the neck as it was before. My body looks good but when tucked or pressed my arms, legs and abdomen gets loose and jiggly and spreads out. Here is my journey. P.s I had a weight gain journey from 2018 to 2019 and a weight loss journey from 2019 to 2020 but I don't have the data for that. Will it tighten back up with maintanace and care or has my yoyo dieting ruined it forever?

Help me

2020 15 jan 2020 — 63,2 kg 21 jan 2020 — 65 kg 27 jan 2020 — 65,5 kg 30 jan 2020 — 65 kg 04 feb 2020 — 65 kg 17 feb 2020 — 66,9 kg 03 mars 2020 — 64,9 kg 09 mars 2020 — 67,3 kg 10 mars 2020 — 67,8 kg 16 mars 2020 — 68 kg 23 mars 2020 — 68,2 kg 31 mars 2020 — 67,2 kg 05 apr 2020 — 68,6 kg 10 apr 2020 — 68 kg 14 apr 2020 — 67,5 kg 20 apr 2020 — 67,5 kg 27 apr 2020 — 67,3 kg 05 maj 2020 — 66,8 kg 11 maj 2020 — 68,3 kg 18 maj 2020 — 68,3 kg 25 maj 2020 — 68 kg 01 juni 2020 — 69,4 kg 08 juni 2020 — 68,7 kg 22 juni 2020 — 69,6 kg 06 juli 2020 — 71,5 kg 14 juli 2020 — 69,3 kg 27 juli 2020 — 71,3 kg 03 aug 2020 — 70,6 kg 31 aug 2020 — 71,3 kg 08 sep 2020 — 72,7 kg 16 sep 2020 — 70,6 kg 21 sep 2020 — 73,5 kg 28 sep 2020 — 73,3 kg 05 nov 2020 — 76 kg 11 nov 2020 — 75,3 kg 07 dec 2020 — 77,2 kg

2021 01 jan 2021 — 79,5 kg 09 feb 2021 — 82 kg 16 feb 2021 — 81,7 kg 22 feb 2021 — 81,5 kg 01 mars 2021 — 82,8 kg 05 apr 2021 — 80,6 kg 27 apr 2021 — 82,2 kg 24 maj 2021 — 82,3 kg 31 maj 2021 — 82,2 kg 07 juni 2021 — 81,8 kg 15 juni 2021 — 81,4 kg 22 juni 2021 — 81,2 kg 28 juni 2021 — 80,7 kg 05 juli 2021 — 81 kg 12 juli 2021 — 80,6 kg 19 juli 2021 — 80,2 kg 26 juli 2021 — 79,7 kg 08 aug 2021 — 80,2 kg 16 aug 2021 — 79 kg 23 aug 2021 — 78,6 kg 30 aug 2021 — 76,8 kg 06 sep 2021 — 76,9 kg 13 sep 2021 — 75,6 kg 20 sep 2021 — 75 kg 22 sep 2021 — 75 kg 27 sep 2021 — 73,9 kg 04 okt 2021 — 73,6 kg 12 okt 2021 — 73,1 kg 18 okt 2021 — 72,1 kg 25 okt 2021 — 71,1 kg 01 nov 2021 — 70,4 kg 08 nov 2021 — 69 kg 15 nov 2021 — 70 kg 23 nov 2021 — 69 kg 01 dec 2021 — 68,6 kg 06 dec 2021 — 67,8 kg 30 dec 2021 — 71 kg

2022 06 jan 2022 — 71,3 kg 17 jan 2022 — 71,7 kg 24 jan 2022 — 72,9 kg 31 jan 2022 — 73,2 kg 07 feb 2022 — 73,6 kg 14 feb 2022 — 74 kg 21 feb 2022 — 73,8 kg 28 feb 2022 — 75,2 kg 14 mars 2022 — 76 kg 28 mars 2022 — 76,5 kg 05 apr 2022 — 75,9 kg 11 apr 2022 — 76,2 kg 18 apr 2022 — 77,2 kg 25 apr 2022 — 78 kg 09 maj 2022 — 78,8 kg 17 maj 2022 — 76,2 kg 23 maj 2022 — 76,5 kg 30 maj 2022 — 77 kg 31 maj 2022 — 77 kg 06 juni 2022 — 76,1 kg 13 juni 2022 — 76 kg 27 juni 2022 — 75 kg 11 juli 2022 — 74 kg 18 juli 2022 — 74 kg 25 juli 2022 — 73 kg 01 aug 2022 — 74,1 kg 08 aug 2022 — 73,1 kg 15 aug 2022 — 73 kg 19 sep 2022 — 74,7 kg 26 sep 2022 — 76,5 kg 04 okt 2022 — 76 kg 17 okt 2022 — 78,5 kg 25 okt 2022 — 77,7 kg 31 okt 2022 — 76,5 kg 21 nov 2022 — 82 kg 05 dec 2022 — 83,6 kg

2023 26 jan 2023 — 89,4 kg 06 feb 2023 — 88,8 kg 20 feb 2023 — 92,4 kg 06 apr 2023 — 95,7 kg 16 juli 2023 — 91,5 kg 31 juli 2023 — 96,6 kg 07 aug 2023 — 95 kg 14 aug 2023 — 95,6 kg 21 aug 2023 — 94,8 kg 28 aug 2023 — 93,8 kg 04 sep 2023 — 93 kg 11 sep 2023 — 92,8 kg 12 sep 2023 — 92,2 kg 18 sep 2023 — 91,2 kg 25 sep 2023 — 90,2 kg 02 okt 2023 — 89,2 kg 07 okt 2023 — 89,2 kg 14 okt 2023 — 89,2 kg 16 okt 2023 — 89,6 kg 23 okt 2023 — 88,2 kg 30 okt 2023 — 87,8 kg 13 nov 2023 — 86,8 kg 27 nov 2023 — 86 kg 04 dec 2023 — 84,7 kg 18 dec 2023 — 84,3 kg 26 dec 2023 — 84,1 kg

2024 01 jan 2024 — 84,1 kg 28 jan 2024 — 83 kg 07 maj 2024 — 84 kg 14 maj 2024 — 83 kg 28 maj 2024 — 83 kg 03 juni 2024 — 86 kg 11 juni 2024 — 85 kg 17 juni 2024 — 84 kg 24 juni 2024 — 83 kg 08 juli 2024 — 82 kg 15 juli 2024 — 81 kg 22 juli 2024 — 80 kg 29 juli 2024 — 79 kg 05 aug 2024 — 80 kg 06 aug 2024 — 80 kg 14 aug 2024 — 80 kg 26 aug 2024 — 79 kg 09 sep 2024 — 79 kg 30 sep 2024 — 78,2 kg 07 okt 2024 — 77 kg 30 okt 2024 — 76 kg 04 nov 2024 — 75 kg 18 nov 2024 — 74 kg 20 nov 2024 — 74 kg 25 nov 2024 — 74 kg

2025 31 jan 2025 — 75,7 kg 28 apr 2025 — 78 kg 15 juni 2025 — 80 kg 05 nov 2025 — 75,7 kg 16 nov 2025 — 73,5 kg 17 nov 2025 — 72,8 kg 2026 21 feb 2026 — 68 kg

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Is there hope?

So I guess this is abit of a success story mixed with anxiety and fear but here we go.

I used to weight 140kg a few years ago and now I’m almost at 85kg at 15% body fat and I am very happy with that. A large reason for my weight loss was to find a partner since I really want a family in the future. However as I inch further towards my goal I get the dread that it’s not gonna change anything in terms of my attractiveness. I was on apps at 104kg last time at roughly 32% body fat and I struggled hard. And I was really hoping my weight loss would help me succeed but I am scared it won’t. I haven’t gone out on the apps yet but I am planning to once I reach my goal.

Out of curiosity I tried online attractiveness eaters and got the following scores

AI: 7-8/10

Reddit: 5/10

Photofeeler: 8/10

I don’t know what o make of this but I really hope my weight loss will give me more success.

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20 pounds down… Here’s what I’ve learned so far!

1. Progress isn’t linear. I have days where I go over my calories but I don’t let it deter me from sticking to it the next day. I try not to let myself have a ‘bad’ day twice in a row. I have been giving myself grace and talking to myself almost lovingly. The journey is so much easier when I love myself rather than hating myself through it :) ♡

2. I learned to sit with hunger and found that it goes away after a while. Before, I would eat anything and everything even when I felt sick to the stomach stuffing myself because I didn’t know how to be okay with feeling even the littlest bit hungry. I feel a lot more regulated letting myself just wait 20-30 minutes after eating even when I do have the urge to eat more.

3. Every time I choose to stick to the promises I made to myself—sticking to my meal plan, taking that walk, cooking at home, I have new found confidence in myself. My weight-loss journey has been more than just losing weight. I feel so confident in myself as a person because I practice discipline every single day and show up for myself.

I just wanted to share some things I have learned during my weight loss journey, if it helped anyone I’m so happy ♡ We all got this!

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Losing weight, but still fat and really sick of it. Wondering if/when I'll start feeling smaller?

I am an obese but otherwise healthy female in her mid-20s who is actively losing body fat. I'm 5'5" in height and weigh 202 lbs as of this morning. (That's AWESOME, because at the start of the year I was 215.) I was chubby as a kid and super lean as a teenager (125lbs), but after I quit team sports in high school my weight crept up each year because I love to stuff my face. In my early 20s, I experienced a severe psychiatric episode and self medicated with junk food - I put on almost 60 pounds in a year, with my highest weight hitting 254. I was completely miserable, felt sick all of the time, and could barely get around. I am now on the right meds (including ADHD meds for the first time in several years, which have helped with my impulse control). I don't regret being as big as I was because I needed to learn that morbid obesity is not right for me. (PS - my A1C, cholesterol, and hormones are all in the normal range.)

In 2023, I finally dropped some weight and began to hover at around 222 until August of 2025. In autumn of last year, the ADHD meds kickstarted another wave of weight loss because I have much better impulse control and eat a balanced, lower-calorie diet. I also lift weight and walk + use the elliptical machine 2-4 times a week. Like I said, my morning weigh-in today had me at 202.8 lbs and I let out a celebratory cheer when I saw the number - I'm SO CLOSE to being out of the 200s!

But I still feel huge. I feel rotund. I am a giant beast! I know that 202 lbs on a petite 5'5" frame is still very big and I have a long way to go, but I sort-of don't feel any lighter than I was at 254. Thankfully, people in my life have noticed my recent weight drop (I've noticed it on my face too; I'm so pleased to see my jawline and beautiful neck coming back!). Has anyone else experienced this? Will it take a while until I start to feel "lighter"? I'm TIRED of feeling like I'm carrying around a bunch of kindergarteners on my waist all of the time. I wish that I could speed this process up. But the weight went on really gradually, so I know that it will come off gradually too. I'm just feeling so impatient.

TL;DR: My highest weight was 254 lbs. I am 202 lbs now and don't feel lighter, even though I'm steadily losing body fat, actively working on improving my strength and stamina, and can feel my muscles getting stronger. I'm wondering if I will ever get to a point where I don't feel like a whale anymore. Thoughts?

Edited for grammar and to add a contextual sentence.

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