Sunday, March 29, 2020

living with lazy parents and a hard time losing weight

So, most people are in quarantine, which is good. I understand that boredom and stress cause stress eating, but it has just been exacerbated with my parents. Because I am not in my college town, not in any of my college classes, not in clubs, and not working, all of my social interaction comes from my parents and my dog. The problem is, is that the only thing they ever do is sleep, watch TV, and eat. Like, unless if we are in front of the TV eating food, there is no "bonding". It is so frustrating because there is junk food everywhere, I am bored and lonely, but then if I want social interaction, the only way I get it is by eating and/or watching TV. I tried getting my parents to go on walks with me, clean the basement with me, workout with me, play games, etc. Do active, fun, bonding things. I do not consider watching TV bonding, because you're not actually talking to each other. But instead, it's either eat, sleep, or watch TV. I've pretty much given up on doing things with them. I have gained 10 pounds in the last month! UGH!

I know everyone is going through a hard time, so I hope you're staying safe and trying to somewhat stay on track for weight loss. If anyone is dealing with a family who brings down your health goals (consciously or unconsciously), just know I feel you!

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Mental issues after weight loss

Yoo, I've lost almost 50lbs the last 16 Months. While I wasn't obese or something I always wanted to slim down a bit. Seeing the weight dropping was a huge motivation for me during my weight loss journey and it kept me motivated to continue. Now, however I've overshot my weight loss goal and I'm on the verge of being underweight... On the one hand I know that I should gain at least some of my weight back, on the other hand I'm way too scared to gain too much weight again. I have problems developing a sustainable eating habits (I don't wanna count calories each day or something). It really drags me down and people around me started to noticed that I'm not the happy and smiling friend they used to know anymore. Anyone that had the same experience? Any advice?

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Weight and sleep

Y'all rock. I'm so impressed by how much everyone here is able to accomplish. I've been lurking for about a year, and I'm down all of 10 pounds. Maybe I'm not taking it seriously because my current weight is meh - alright, but I have struggled to get past the initial sudden 15 lb gain that made me decide I need to do something.

I think my main issue is sleep. It has two problems:

I'm a terrible insomniac, and if I dont overeat before bed, I have trouble sleeping. Also, if I don't get enough sleep, I can't control my hunger the next day. It's a losing game. My willingness to stick to a calorie budget just loses its feeling of importance when I'm sleep deprived.

I finally decided medicating for sleep is probably worth it and not just for weight loss. I have tried CBD, diphenhydramine, Nyquil, and melatonin. CBD just makes me wake up again later, but any of the rest work for me.

I eat a smaller dinner, I get a good night's sleep, I am not a ravenous idiot every other day, and I've started losing again!

So, for whoever needs to hear this: don't put yourself in situations in which you know you will inevitably make bad decisions. It's okay to medicate to get sleep, or to resolve other issues that are impacting your ability to make good decisions.

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Care to have a weight loss buddy?

Hello, I'm 17F and looking for a weight loss buddy, cause I thought it could be a good source of motivation.

I've been trying to lose weight for many years now and no matter how many times I gained or lost pounds, motivation is still the hardest part of the journey. I don't want to lose lots of weight, just reach a point where I'm happy with my body, given that I'm pretty short (5ft 2in).

I aim to lose about 15-20lbs, but this is not a request. Whether you want to lose 8 or 80lbs we're through it until the end together.

We could say about how our day went, exchange advice and keep each other motivated in general. I figured, two birds with one stone, right?

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I've been doing diet breaks without realizing and they actually seem to work

This is just my experience, but it's surprising because I didn't realize it before I actually looked way back in my daily weight measurements.

I've been losing weight since June of 2019, and around November I took my first planned break because of stress it was causing me. I didn't weigh or count calories for the whole month (I did go vegan for a month which might've helped me keep intake at bay without realizing.) In the start of the month I was 70.8kg, and towards the end of the month/beginning of December (once I got the scale back) I weighed 70.2kg. After that I started exercising a lot, lost a kilo in December and by January I had kicked my weight loss in full gear and lost 4 kilos in a month. By February I was around 65kg, and I was feeling a bit of a plateau coming in, but I didn't pay attention to it because for the next 2-3 weeks I was visiting and moving my boyfriend across Europe to live with me. I didn't pay attention to what I ate and weighed 66kg when I started counting again, and the first kilo dropped in matter of days.

So here comes March. In the first 2 weeks I lost about 2-3kg, and then I hit a serious wall of not losing weight for 2-3 weeks. So I started to look into it and read about increasing metabolism by eating more. So slowly I increased my calories every day, and of course I'm still not losing weight. But today I read about diet breaks, and figured: that could be smart. I had already been eating at maintenance for 2 days, so might as well keep it up for 12 more days. Then I started to think back, and realized that for the last 5 months I had been doing it without realizing, and over the time from December until end of March I had lost about 2kg a month, which would equate to the precious 0.5kg a week, or 1lbs a week. I had been advancing in a not so linear, not so straight forward way in the same speed as someone eating a small deficit would. I should note when I restricted I ate 1200 calories (I'm a rather small woman so it was enough.) I just saved myself from my metabolism slowing and hormones going out of whack by taking these 2 weeks to a month long breaks without realizing. Now that I realized and can make them a regular part of my diet and have more control over them, I think I could reach my goal weight without having to stress about plateaus and constant restriction.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk, I hope some of you take the initiative to look up 'diet breaks' and I hope the best of luck for all of you!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 29 March 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Why is it suddenly so easy, I'm terrified something more difficult is around the corner.

Weight loss has always seemed impossible for me, and many, many times I have tried to lose weight and ended up falling off the wagon and gaining everything back plus some.

But this most recent time it has been easy. For 54 days according to the Loseit app I have logged all my food and not fallen off the wagon once. Not even had a cheat day. Even on my birthday we went to a buffet and I didn't eat before going and ended up not eating the ridiculous amount I normally would have.

School got really stressful, I didn't eat a pint of ice cream to cope. Fight with my girlfriend, felt too sick to eat instead of incredibly hungry. Trapped at home because of Covid-19, not eating out of boredom.

I swear I'm not trying to brag. I've gained 20 pounds in the past just from binging on halloween candy I bought from the store. I've been so addicted to sugar for so long I have no idea why abstaining suddenly working.

The fact that things have been easy so far just makes me scared something is going to happen that messes me up. I am so excited that I have been losing weight so consistently and I want this to continue all the way down to a healthy weight. Has anyone else experienced this happening? Where you try again and it just works? I've heard of people having wake up calls because of health scares or having kids or something, but nothing really was any different this time.

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