Wednesday, July 29, 2020

Lost 80lbs only to find out that I'm really ugly no matter my weight

[F/20/5'8/220-140lbs]

Hi. I started my weight loss journey 3 years ago at my highest weight ever - 220lbs. I was really heavily bullied for my weight in high school as most girls my age were like 125lbs at most. I thought that I was being picked on because I was overweight and didn't really care about my appereance. Fastforward 3 years later my old friends don't even recognize me on the street. I'm 4 sizes down, I carry myself well, I put make up on and do my hair like most girls my age. The picking didn't stop. I'm still the ugly one in my friend group (and It's not about them, they compliment and uplift me a lot and they're amazing people). I'm really confident in myself when we go out, I really am. I'm a huge extrovert and I put myself in social situations a lot. Confidence doesn't help. I really wanted to finally start looking for a relationship so I made a profile on online dating site. My female friends had a lot of luck there and have been basically bombarded with messages and they really wanted me to give it a try. I got 3 messages asking for sex in the first week and that was it. I once messaged all my 65 matches and I got 2 responses, both guys stopped responding after a few messages. No kidding. Trying different sites didn't help.

I would go clubbing with my friends and watch them get hit on left and right. I would talk to guys on parties and get rejected before I even tried to make move on them. My mom told me not to worry as "guys your age only care about looks". Funny thing is, I really thought that I had the looks. After 3 years of ups and downs, eating disorders along the way, getting my life together and taking care of myself im still the ugly one. I feel really hopeless. It took 80lbs lost and basically a whole makeover for me to realize that no matter how much makeup I put on and how much weight I lose I still won't be attractive. I feel like all my hard work was completely pointless as I probably needed a plastic surgery consultation instead of a diet.

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11 Cauliflower Recipes So Good You’ll Forget You’re Eating Veggies

Noticed a lot of cauliflower recipes popping up in your social media feeds lately? It’s no wonder: In June, Time magazine declared that cauliflower is the new “It” vegetable. That’s quite a step up for a vegetable that, for decades, has been broccoli’s boring cousin.

Turns out, cauliflower is extraordinarily versatile, which is why cauliflower recipes are all the rage these days. You can mash it like mashed potatoes; rice it like, well, rice; turn it into pizza crust, sandwich bread, faux buffalo wings, “tater” tots, mashed “potatoes,” even grilled “steak.” Suddenly, its mild flavor and interesting texture—crunchy when raw, soft when cooked—has made it the go-to replacement for higher-calorie, high refined-carb foods.

Like broccoli and cabbage, cauliflower is a cruciferous vegetable. One cup of raw cauliflower has only 25 calories and a filling 2.5 grams of fiber. One serving also supplies 77 percent of the recommended daily value of vitamin C and it’s a good source of folate, a B-vitamin that helps your body produced healthy new cells.

Cruciferous vegetables such as cauliflower also contain large amounts of antioxidant chemicals that, studies suggest, may help you prevent chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes and cancer. For example, one study done in China found that women who ate the most cruciferous vegetables had 50 percent of the risk for breast cancer as women who ate the least amount.

Combine them with their cousins, which include Brussels sprouts and kale, and you boost their antioxidant power.

You can find some delicious ways to serve cauliflower on The Leaf, Nutrisystem’s website that provides hundreds of recipes (and lots of inspiration). Start with our guide to using cauliflower to make rice, pizza crust and more (Available here >).

All you need is a food processor or a grater to turn raw cauliflower florets into rice-like morsels that you can use just like rice or, mixed with egg, goat cheese and herbs and spices, into a delicious pizza crust. You can also use your cauliflower rice to sub for bulgur wheat in Tabbouleh Salad and for potatoes in tots and chowder.

But the options don’t end there.

Here are 11 other cauliflower recipes you need to try ASAP:

1. Cauliflower Fried Rice >
cauliflower rice

Imagine your favorite wok dish with way fewer calories. This authentic cauliflower recipe calls for mixed veggies—like carrots, snow peas, bell pepper, water chestnuts and soy beans—in a soy sauce-ginger mix with garlic, scrambled eggs and shrimp. It’s only 278 calories per serving and counts as two PowerFuels, one Vegetable and one Extra.

2. Spinach, Mushroom, Cauliflower Risotto >

cauliflower risotto

Creamy risotto at 143 calories—and without the tedious stirring? You’ve got it in this recipe that substitutes riced cauliflower for rice. Two full cups of mushrooms, three cups of spinach, onion, garlic and a low-fat three-cheese blend make this dish extra flavorful and healthy. Counts as one PowerFuel, one Vegetable and one Extra.

3. Slow Cooker Garlic Herb Mashed Faux-tatoes >
faux-tatoes

One head of cauliflower, mixed with vegetable broth, garlic and herbs like sage, rosemary, thyme and parsley, will fill the house with delicious fragrances while it cooks in your slow cooker. It can turn even leftover holiday meats into a special dinner. One-sixth of this recipe counts as one Vegetable and two extras.

4. Cauliflower Mac and Cheese >
Cauliflower mac and cheese

Mac and cheese at 114 calories? Sounds impossible, but not when you substitute cauliflower for the usual macaroni. Cut one head into small florets and mix with a creamy, cheesy sauce containing cheddar, cream cheese and almond milk. This makes a tasty side dish or a fabulous lunch or dinner that counts as one PowerFuel, one Vegetable and one Extra.

5. Cheezy Cauliflower Soup >
cauliflower soup

Save yourself the excess calories of cheese with this recipe for a creamy soup that gets its cheese flavor from nutritional yeast. Yes, yeast. Trust us, it’s delectable. Add sliced leeks, garlic and low-sodium chicken broth to finish off this light flex lunch (add some lean meat for a full, filling meal). Counts as one SmartCarb and one Vegetable.

6. Cauliflower Sweet Potato Soup >
Cauliflower Sweet Potato Soup

Like cauliflower, sweet potatoes contain antioxidant chemicals that may help you fight chronic and killer diseases such as diabetes, cancer and heart disease, so you’re getting a double dose of healthy in this satisfyingly sweet soup spiced with coriander, paprika, cumin and ginger. And all for only 127 calories a serving. Not bad… just like all of our cauliflower recipes! Counts as one SmartCarb, one Vegetable and one Extra.

7. Cauliflower Buffalo Bites >
cauliflower buffalo bites

We have to admit… this is our favorite of the cauliflower recipes. If you’re missing your buffalo wings, you won’t be for long when you taste these. The secret of great buffalo wings—which are high in fat and calories—is the sauce. And you can get that same satisfying taste by substituting cauliflower florets for meat. Really! (You can even find buffalo cauliflower in the frozen food section!) Serve spicy buffalo sauce over florets that you’ve baked in the oven for 20 minutes and you won’t miss the chicken. One cup counts as one Vegetable and two Extras.

8. Asian Salmon Cauliflower Rice >
asian salmon

Wean yourself off of expensive and high-fat Asian takeout with this easy-peasy recipe that substitutes nutrient rich cauliflower rice for real rice. The easiest-peasiest part? You can buy already riced cauliflower in the frozen vegetable section of your supermarket. Your job is limited to baking the salmon and sautéing the rice with bean spouts then topping with a wasabi-soy-vinegar sauce and matchstick carrots, English cucumber slices, Nori and sesame seeds. One serving counts as two PowerFuels, two Vegetables and one Extra.

9. Twice Baked Cauliflower Casserole >
cauliflower casserole

Two kinds of creamy melty cheese, tangy Greek yogurt and mashed cooked cauliflower, and you have a twice-baked casserole that will make you think you’re eating cheesy mashed potatoes—the ultimate in comfort food. Heavenly! This delicious dish counts as one PowerFuel and one Vegetable

10. Cilantro Lime Cauliflower Rice >
cauliflower rice

You won’t believe how tangy and tasty this recipe is. And so simple: Just cauliflower rice, lime juice, lime zest and cilantro. It’s the perfect side dish for Nutrisystem’s microwavable Southwest Fiesta Melt. Best of all, all of that flavor counts as just one Vegetable on the Nutrisystem program.

11. Cauliflower Crust Breadsticks >
Cauliflower-Crust-Breadsticks

Every bit as flavorful as your favorite pre-meal indulgence, these tasty breadsticks leave the fat, sodium and excess calories behind.

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7 Healthy Foods You Should Always Measure

Diet gurus, news stories and social media posts tout the latest hype about the right foods to eat when you’re trying to shed extra pounds. Portion control doesn’t get a lot of sexy headlines, but it is as important to your success as what you consume. That’s because excessive amounts of even healthy foods can load you up with more fat, sugar or carbohydrates than you need. The best way to avoid eating too much is to measure out the right size portion every time.

Here are seven healthy foods you should always measure:

1. NUTS AND NUT BUTTERS

almonds

Peanuts, almonds and other kinds of nuts are handy snacks. Creamy nut butters make convenient sandwich spreads and tasty dips. Both are good sources of non-meat protein and healthy fats, supplying you with energy and helping you feel full long after you’ve eaten.

Nuts, however, are concentrated sources of fats, so it’s very important you measure them since eating more than a serving at a time loads you up on extra calories. The recommended serving of nuts is a half-ounce, or about two tablespoons. Nut butters are even higher in fats, with 15 grams in a one-tablespoon serving.

When shopping for nuts, choose dry-roasted, unsalted varieties so you don’t get too much sodium. Also, look for nut butters that do not have added sugars—beware of those that are “honey” flavored, a clear sign of extra sweeteners.

Nutrisystem Category: PowerFuels
One PowerFuel = Two tablespoons (or half an ounce) dry-roasted peanuts and almonds; one tablespoon peanut or almond butter.

2. OILS

oil

Cooking oils help bring out the flavor of healthy ingredients like vegetables. And they keep foods from sticking to the pan when you’re cooking. The best kinds of oils are high in unsaturated fats, which fill you up and help your body manage its cholesterol levels. Olive, peanut, canola, walnut and avocado oils are all good choices. Flax seed oil provides you with heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids—it is best used after cooking as heat may transform the fats into unhealthy ones.

But, since even good fats come lots with lots of calories, so it’s very important that you measure them out. A one-teaspoon (one Extra on Nutrisystem) to a one-tablespoon serving (three Extras on Nutrisystem) is enough to combine with vinegar for a salad dressing or to sauté a serving of vegetables.

Nutrisystem Category: Extra
One Extra = One teaspoon

3. WHOLE GRAIN PASTA

pasta

Pasta is high in carbohydrates, but noodles made with whole grains are rich in fiber and even protein. The fiber helps you digest the food steadily, without the sharp spikes and steep drops in your blood sugar that happens when you eat standard noodles. That’s why whole grain versions are categorized as SmartCarbs in the Nutrisystem program.

But even the whole wheat variety brings calories and carbs to the table, so it’s important to avoid overeating it. Measure your pasta until you become a portion pro and no longer need to (Get on the fast track to becoming a portion size guru with this helpful article and video >)

Keep in mind that whole grain pasta is more filling than the standard variety, so you need only about half as much of the healthier noodles to be satisfied. And be sure to flavor your whole grain pasta with sauces that have lots of vegetables (like tomatoes, peppers, and onions) rather than toppings loaded with cream or cheese.

Nutrisystem Category: SmartCarbs
One SmartCarb = ½ cup cooked

4. AVOCADO

avocado

These days, avocados are one of the stars of healthy eating, earning praise for their rich supply of monounsaturated fats. They help you feel full long after eating while protecting your heart by increasing the good cholesterol (HDL) in your body. The creamy texture of avocados makes them a tasty substitute for mayonnaise on sandwiches or sour cream in dips. Avocados also treat you to a dose of healthy fiber.

The good fats in avocados do come with a concentration of calories—you can get nearly 400 in a single fruit, so it’s important to measure out your serving size. On Nutrisystem, you get three Extras each day. One-eighth of an average size fruit or one tablespoon of avocado puree counts as one Extra.

Once you cut into an avocado, it can be tempting to eat all or even half of it. Instead, store the fruit in your refrigerator with the pit in place to help keep it fresh. And be sure to click here to read up on 14 Brilliant Ways to Work Avocado Into Your Diet >

Nutrisystem Category: Extra
One Extra = 1/8 fruit, 1 tablespoon pureed

5. WATERMELON

watermelon

Sweet and juicy watermelon is light and refreshing, and it’s a delicious way to stay hydrated. Plus, it’s loaded with potassium, which helps your body regulate its sodium level. A cup of watermelon also supplies you with around 20 percent of your RDA for vitamins A and C, along with fiber.

All of that flavor and nutrition comes with a lot of sugar, though, which is why watermelon ranks higher on the Glycemic index than most SmartCarbs, and why you should always measure out your serving. There are nearly 10 grams of the sweet stuff in a one-cup serving of watermelon. Wedges of the fruit aren’t easy to measure for servings, so cut it into cubes to be sure you eat no more than one cup at a time.

Nutrisystem Category: SmartCarbs
1 SmartCarb = 1 cup

6. FRUIT JUICE: Apple, grape, orange

juice

Many of us were raised with a glass of orange or other fruit juice as part of a healthy breakfast. Fresh fruit juices have also become popular with health-conscious eaters, too, as a quick way to get a concentrated dose of nutrients in a convenient drink. Just a half-cup of orange juice, for instance, delivers a whole day’s supply of vitamin C. But unlike whole fruit, juices don’t provide much fiber to help slow your digestion to keep you feeling full. Plus, juices are concentrated sources of sugar, too. To prevent spikes in your blood sugar, limit yourself to a half-cup of fruit juice. If you make your own healthy drinks, add vegetables and water to balance out the fruit. When buying fruit juice, beware of any that are labeled as “fruit drinks” rather than 100 percent juice. These drinks often have added sugar.

Confused about what’s better, smoothies or juices? Click here to find out what our experts have to say >

Nutrisystem Category: SmartCarbs
1 SmartCarb = 1/2 cup

7. SALAD DRESSING

dressing

A bowlful of fresh vegetables is always a healthy choice, so you can enjoy a salad with any meal. And research has shown that a little bit of fat helps your body absorb the potent nutrients in raw veggies, so salad dressing adds more than flavor to the dish.

But drenching the bowl in dressing adds a significant amount of calories to salad. With standard ranch dressing you get excess fats, so make sure you measure. We advise using no more than one teaspoon, but since these count as Extras on the Nutrisystem program, you’re allowed up to three teaspoons (or three Extras). Be wary of fat-free dressings, which may have even more calories, because they’re often loaded with sugar to compensate for the fat. Use no more two tablespoons of fat-free dressing on your salads.

A better idea? Opt for a drizzle of red wine or balsamic vinegar as your salad topper. Or, click here for three delicious, healthier versions of your favorite salad dressings >

Nutrisystem Category: Extra
1 Extra = 1 teaspoon regular, 2 tablespoons fat-free

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The struggle of not losing

Interestingly enough, I am the director of a weight loss company and have coached 1000’s of people through weight loss journeys and lifestyle modifications. I had a spinal fusion a little while back, and now am healed back to almost normal. After the surgery I lost all discipline and gained 28 pounds quickly, overeating like crazy. I am 5’10 and currently weight 172 pounds. I have been losing very steadily, 1-1.5 pounds max a week average since I started back into my healthier lifestyle and tracking all food and exercise. The thing is, for the last two weeks I have completely plateaued and I don’t get it! My TDEE calculates to roughly 2200 calories, and I’m only eating around 1400 calories a day. That should be a 800 calorie deficit, about 1.5 pounds a week. I weight every single food in grams, track in Cronometer, light exercise daily, and drink plenty of water. I only eat healthy, balanced meals with lots of color, take a multivitamin, and have a macro balance of 40% healthy carb, 30% protein, 30% healthy fats. Usually a week has happened where it didn’t look like I dropped but over 2 weeks seems to be weird! Can anyone help. Thanks!

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Getting there .. slowly but surely

I've been working on losing weight for the last year, this is my first time posting to the sub but I'm excited- everyone seems so kind. My SW: 239 GW: 130 CW: 198
I'm a 5'0 20 year old female, so every pound really changes the way I appear.

I've lost ~40 pounds in the last twelve months, primarily from fixing my binge eating issues, cutting out fast foods and sugary drinks (no joke, I used to eat 4 fast food meals a day), eating healthier and trying to balance out my caloric intake and amount of physical activity. Drinking green tea and coffee has surprisingly done me wonders. Unfortunately, I've been plateaued for a while as I feel most of my weight loss has come from changing my dietary habits because exercising is always something I've struggled with. Last March I was eagerly ready to get a gym membership... then covid19 struck. I've lost 5 pounds since March and I've been a bit disappointed in myself. I still think my diet is good for me, I just really need to be more physically active. I've been trying to do what I can whether it's going swimming, for small hikes, and out for walks and attempt to do my own workouts/dancing at home. Even if it's standing or gardening. I feel like I need to do something more rigorous to really see results, and I'm struggling without a gym. Does anyone have any tips? At home programs, equipment, motivation? And advice regarding exercising for people who are starting off very out of shape? (No upper body strength, can't jog for long periods, etc.) I really don;t know much about fitness.

Overall, I've lost a fair amount of weight in a sustainable and healthy way. I need to be more proud of that. I really do look healthier and happier. However, I can't help but feel like my progress is moving at such a slow pace. I see others losing 60-80 pounds in 9 months while I've lost 40 over a total of 14 months. Has anyone else felt like their progress took a bit longer as well?

If you took the time to read this, thank you so much! If I post again it probably won't be as long winded but I hope I can update in the future with positive progress!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 29 July 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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You never realise how far you've come until you look back

I wish I could of had the weight loss journey that everyone else seems to of had. My weight has fluctuated literally my entire life (since I was a toddler I think) and my health journey has been anything but linear. I first got serious about losing weight right before my 14th birthday, and while I lost weight I didn't keep it off. I yo-yo'd for YEARS and could never go under 190 lbs.

The first photo was taken 1/14/19 when I was 16 1/2 yrs old. At the time, I was experiencing intense anxiety and depression. All I'll say is it wasn't a time in my life where things were going great. I wasn't as heavy as when I was 13 (214 lbs at a doctors appointment, but I suspect my heaviest was higher) but I was at least 205-210 lbs. The other photo from this morning. I am now 18 and weighed in at 187.5 lbs. I didn't lose as much weight as fast as some other people, but it's the most consistent I've ever been with my weight loss.

I have always had MASSIVE respect for anyone who's had massive weight loss within the span of a few months and kept it off, but that has never been me. While doing this slowly has obviously created better results for me in the long run and now I'm confident I can keep the weight off for life, I gotta say it takes a lot more patience. I'm pretty sure I have body dysmorphia and it's frustrating to hear friends and family tell you how different you look when in your eyes nothing's changed. I have a phobia of taking photos, especially with my full body, but I'm glad I decided to take that photo at my heavier weight. I never truly realized how much I've lost until I saw these photos side-by-side. My biggest regret is not having photos at my true heaviest!!

In these photos, I lost "only" 20 or so pounds within the span of a year and a half. If you told me that a few years ago, I would of said "really??". Especially compared to all these beautiful amazing people on here losing 50+ lbs in a much shorter time (seriously you all are awe-inspiring). But in reality, these photos show a much bigger change than weight alone. It shows what took me years to learn - health is more than losing the most weight. Ironically, I'm at the lightest I've been in years.

Anyways, that's a lot of text sorry lol. Here's the photos: https://imgur.com/a/tg5wKf1

I don't really have a next goal weight. Maybe 10 more lbs? If I lose it I lose it, but I'm happy where I'm at :)

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