Monday, November 11, 2024

Dealing with constant cravings after losing 20lbs of my 50lb goal—any advice?

I am starting to feel really disheartened. I (5’6”F SW190 CW170) gained grief weight after losing a bunch of family members during covid. Last year I stepped on a scale and realized I was 190lbs. I got serious, started going to the gym, got tested for allergies (turns out I’m allergic to gluten) and have since made some really extreme changes in my life in terms of what I eat and what my day to day activity looks like. It still took a year and a half to lose 20lbs.

I’m at my half way mark and I’m starting to get really discouraged. I feel like a year and a half is such a long time for such a small change, and am having a hard time conceptualizing how I can break out of my current plateau and revitalize my efforts for the last home stretch.

In addition to this I’m experiencing extreme cravings for double cheeseburgers. All I want to eat all the time are cheeseburgers, something I often had with my now dead family members. I really miss them, and this meal makes me think of them when I have it. The cravings are so bad that other food has become deeply unsatisfying and unappealing to me.

I am also autistic and cheeseburgers have always been a “safe food” for me, which is one of the reasons I have such deep connections and memories around eating them with my family. It has been a real challenge trying to move away from my “safe foods” to food that is more calorically sustainable.

I know this is all in my head, and I’m choosing to stay the course anyways, but I would love to hear some advice from others who have been where I am, because I’m struggling to see the end of the tunnel.

Is anyone else navigating a grief-related weight loss? Do you have any tips that you can share? If you are autistic how did you navigate the change in your routines?

And for the love of god, if you have a sustainable alternative you use when you’re craving a greasy fast food cheeseburger please let me in on your secret.

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Exactly halfway done with my fat loss phase!

On August 31st of this year, I made and began a 144 day plan to go from being obese to being a healthy weight (285 pounds to 195 at 6'1, 23M). It involved going to the gym 5 days a week, getting into running for the first time, sleeping better, keeping protein high, and of course an imposed caloric deficit.

I have had 100% adherence so far, exceeding my expectations and absolutely crushing this every single day. No cheat meals, no workouts skipped, no overeating. It's been amazing. Today is the morning of day 73, meaning I am officially starting the second half of this journey! 72 days down, 72 to go! I've lost almost 60% of the total weight I want to lose (57% right now), so I'm definitely feeling pretty good going into the second half. 51 pounds down, 39 to go.

I want to hear from anyone who's successfully completed a long weight loss journey. How was the second half compared to the first? Did you find that you had more energy as you got lighter and fitter, or less as the diet fatigue caught up to you and your body got tired of being in a calorie deficit? How was the weight loss slowdown? Were things harder to stick to overall? Or easier as the finish line became that much clearer in your sights?

I really want to know what to expect, so I'd love to hear from anyone else who's completed a journey similar to one I'm on! If anyone's at the start of their journey, I'd love to hear from you too! I had absolutely no clue how big of a difference this would make for me when I was at the beginning. Stick to it and you will be absolutely shocked!

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Sunday, November 10, 2024

Does anyone know how to conquer fear of failure?

So I'm 29, male, 5'11" and about 450 lbs. My highest weight was about 490 so I've lost a little weight already (over about 2-3 years). Long story short, I haven't really started my weight loss journey.

For context, when I was in high school I lost about 100 lbs on a really restrictive diet. I was eating about 800 calories a day and doing ridiculous levels of cardio to try to reach zero. It got to a point where I would lose my vision when I stood up. My life was miserable and at 128 lbs I still felt fat.

Eventually, after a doctor told me I was developing a heart problem, something broke in me. I began to eat everything in sight, thus ending me up at the weight I am at now. I need to get serious about losing weight, but part of it has me really scared.

On one hand, I'm scared of failure. On the other I'm scared of losing control like I did in high school. Every time I try to initiate a lifestyle change, I stick with it for a month or two, and then fall off for the same amount of time if not longer. Each time I fall off it feels like a part of me has died inside.

Does anyone know how I can overcome this fear and get started on my weight loss journey?

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Food and Mindset habits that unknowingly helped me lose 20lbs

Hello all,

I thought I’d share a bit of underrated advice for weight loss as it has been helping me on my journey. I lost 20lb over the course of ~5 months during a time where I did not intend to actively lose weight. I wasn’t weighing myself, dieting, measuring etc. I noticed a few things that aided my weight loss and I’m trying to implement them now too:

Please note I am not a nutritionist or dietician by any degree. I'm just sharing some general tips that helped me lose some pounds in hopes that it can give y'all ideas or encouragement :)

1. Eating what makes your body feel good

Similar to intuitive eating, focusing on eating foods that make your body feel good allows you to be more conscious and in tune with your diet. What I mean by “feel good” is eating the types or amounts of food that will keep you energized, light, and satisfied. For me this included my favorite proteins and fresh vegetables and fruits. These foods don't weigh me down or make me sluggish, so I could still get through a productive day without being too full or too hungry.

Example: Instead of eating a croissant, which is greasy and I know will make me feel tired, I'll opt for regular sandwich bread as it's lighter and won't affect my clarity/energy.

2. Prioritizing whole and homemade foods

This is something I always remember from my nutrition class in uni. It’s so important not only for weight loss but overall health as well. The cleaner your food is, the better you’ll feel after eating it.

Plus, it’s important to be connected to your food and food sources. Preparing fresh vegetables, fruits, and meats by hand gives you a healthier relationship with your meals and allows you to be cognizant of what you’re nourishing your body with. Personally, I find it so satisfying to know exactly what I’m putting in my body and how it will benefit me.

Example: Making smoothies with fresh veggies/fruits, avoiding processed meats, buying freshly baked bread, avoiding ready made meals.

3. Focus on balanced and diverse meals

Many of you may disagree with me here but I’ve learned that no diet that excludes a certain macronutrient will ever be sustainable. You need carbs and fats and proteins and vitamins; none are dispensable. You may need them in different proportions but they should all be present in your diet.

With that being so, making sure every meal or snack has some nutritional value is key. This requires some creativity but it starts to feel more natural with time. Complement your base foods with some added nutrient-dense items. If you regularly eat pasta, add veggies and meats/non-meat proteins to it. If you need your bread, there's plenty of things you can add to a sandwich that will round off your daily macros.

Examples: Toast+ eggs +spinach, smoothie + greens + silken tofu, Rice + meat curry + cooked veggies.

4. DON'T go hungry all day!

Starving yourself all day is the gateway to binging food once you do eat. There's no point in it. Instead, have healthy snacks like nuts, trail mix, fruits, etc. that you can consistently snack on between meals. How much you eat depends on your goals but generally have a small bag of nuts can keep you sustained for the day.
Note: I'm not saying the snack is a meal replacement by any means; I'm just accommodating for anyone who eats less meals throughout the day or is on a calorie deficit. Or those who don't have time during the day due to work or school to get in proper meals in time.

Example: nuts (this one is excellent), trail mix, dried fruit, protein shakes.

5. Remember you're taking care of your body, not punishing it

This is the most important advice I can give you all and myself. It's easy to fall into negativity and self-hatred, especially when your body image or health are involved. But please remember that 1) negative emotions will trigger unhealthy habits and 2) you're ultimately doing this to benefit your body, mind, and soul. There's no room for self-hatred; how can you be dedicating so much effort to something that you hate? It wouldn't make sense.

If you're on this journey, you do love yourself. Otherwise, you wouldn't bother going out of your way to fix your eating or exercise habits. So remind yourself to be kind to your body. Remember that everything you eat and everything you do is to nourish and utilize your beautiful vessel of existence :)

Thank you for reading this far if you have; I wish everyone luck on their weight loss journey. I'm also trying to figure out what works for me so it's been helpful to read the posts here. Excited for everyone no matter what part of your health journey you're on!

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Venting: I Feel Worse As I Lose And It’s Sucking The Life Out Of Me + Starting To Ruin Progress

I am about 72lbs down. 118lbs more to lose.

HW: 335 | CW: 262 | GW: 145

5’4. Female. About to be 36.

I’ve been working hard to lose weight. I had 190lbs to lose. I couldn’t believe it when I was at the top. Just never ever believed I’d get to that weight. Bad eating disorders my entire life. It’s just always been an uphill battle to lose weight and be healthy with food. Still am far from mastering it.

I can’t even believe I’m 70+lbs down from that because it felt so impossible when I saw 335 on the scale. I was sick with myself. But even with this mass of weight loss, I am sick with myself, and it feels like I am worse than ever.

I do have eating disorder history. Body dysmorphia. Like, I’m just never happy with the way I look. Someone this weekend said to me they felt like if I was the most beautiful person in the world it wouldn’t matter from my end, because I’m just crazy harsh on myself. And honestly, I know that it’s the truth. I’m super super self critical, to a very unhealthy point. Yes I am in therapy. I’m not sure if maybe I need very specific therapy for this.

As I’ve lost weight, I feel like my neck is extremely loose. I mean, it sort of is. It’s really jiggly, and there will definitely be some loose skin. I see plenty of people who have lost the amount of weight I have to and they do have loose skin, even on their neck, but it’s almost impossible to see once they’re at the lower end of their weight. It’s like they have to pinch it and maybe from certain angles you can see it a bit, but it’s not even something I think looks bad on them.

Now…on ME…this is a different story. I’m freaking out and just mentally unwell from it. I took a picture today full body with a group of people and I am still so sick and ashamed by how I look. I am still super morbidly obese, after all. Even after 70+lbs of loss.

It just is making me sick and I have been turning to food and messing up my progress. For over a month now. I almost feel like my neck looks the way it does because it’s probably getting smaller and so I can see it a lot more now and see the fatter portion hanging up higher instead of my entire neck and face maybe just being very rounded.

But I’m making myself so sick. Even with food. Like eating so much food or different kinds at once and I’m legitimately wanting to just vomit.

Do you just look weird in the middle of weight loss? I know I have to just keep going, but the critical side of me is making the other part of me retreat into food.

I’m just very sad and overwhelmed.

I’m not married. No kids. And I’m like…who will ever be attracted to me. I’m just getting old and now I’m starting to look old while I’m losing weight because I am getting older, and I will never have a period of my life where I can be attractive and enjoy it.

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Saturday, November 9, 2024

Anyone w/Hypothyroidism and have success losing weight?

I have hypothyroidism and it is extremely difficult for me to lose weight. I can do all the right things for weight loss (track calories, drink water, exercise regularly, better sleep…), but only lose one pound in a month. It’s extremely frustrating.

I’m looking to see if anyone else who has hypothyroidism has any tips on suggestions on how they are successfully losing weight.

My son is getting married August 2025 and I would like to be able to lose 10-15 pounds before his wedding. I have the determination and mindset to do this, I just need some help with my body cooperating in this process.

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Weight loss advice

Been tracking my calories for about 2/3 weeks now , my goal is to stay under 1680 calories , not tracking any other stats just that and it's been hard but it's been working I've went from 284 to 274 but here's something I'm confused about

Weight fluctuation- I was 274 two mornings ago, I ate some home made tacos for dinner and was still fine but then when I went to the doctor a day or two later it said I. Was 279 at the doctors office - it's stayed at around 277.8 for the last day and a half , just had dinner and no I'm 279 - I'm so confused I dropped to 274 so now why am I back up? I think I'm checking too often now out of paranoia- I only work 2 days a week and I haven't really exercised but I want to try to do it 5 days a week

All I've been doing is this low impact fat burn work out that's 30 mins long I watch on YouTube- I don't have money or transpiration for a gym membership and don't feel comfortable going around people, suggestions?

Is this hopeless? I'm just confused and could use some facts and help .

I eat pretty much anything just trying to keep under my calorie limite

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