This post is controversial. I have commented on this before but I'm just going to say my take. Every second post on this sub is something along the lines- people treat me differently! my wife is acting strange now! No one is noticing my weight loss! Hear me out, I am not saying fat people don't get treated (unfortunately) worse. But I'm also saying low confidence also plays a huge part in how people see and treat you, no matter the size you are. We expect other people to treat us nicely and say we're beautiful while we look in the mirror and say nothing nice only critisise and hate ourselves.
Having your partner compliment you more and seeing the results out in public should come second. And I am also guilty of enjoying the compliments and seeing the social changes but we have to focus on the things that are important to US first. I enjoy reading posts that say "finally I feel confident in myself". For me I started noticing accomplishments that no one even knows about, like being able to walk uphill to my job faster than everyone and not being out of breath, looking forward to trying on clothes, looking forward to cooking. Whatever it is, do it for YOU first, stop focusing on how you were or are being treated, how men or women or your partner reacts to you.
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