Monday, March 31, 2025

does the speed of losing weight effect the amount of loose skin over time?

Hey, 24/F/5'7/276lbs, I'm still early in my weight loss journey (308lbs early Jan) but its going quite easy so far. my entire family is very obese and I want to be the first to change that and so far it has been very simple for me and I think I can lose even more with a few small changes but I was told by my family members to not lose too much too fast as it would create a lot of loose skin. I know this is a given and I expect loose skin at my weight/age but I am curious, in the end after all is done, does losing 2lbs a week result in less loose skin compared to losing say 5lbs a week? I know it would at first because it takes time for skin to bounce back to what degree it can, but I am wondering if I just lose more than 2lbs a week, will that loose skin still recover the same amount later on as if I lost less over time? (example being if I lose 100 lbs in a year or if i lose 100lbs in 2 yrs, at the 2 yr mark will i have less loose skin by taking longer to lose that weight than if i did losing it faster?) Thank you for any input c:

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I was told I looked better when I was overweight

I’m 5’2 and was at 170lbs and it was a slow and steady weight loss journey to ~107lbs.

Yesterday someone came over and asked me if I had an eating disorder and said once I start eating again I’ll just gain it all back. I have been eating. She said I looked cuter with chubby cheeks and now I have zero curves.

I do have a history with EDs, but they don’t know that. I don’t particularly like the way I look right now, but I’m happier with myself and don’t want to go back to what was considered “obese”.

This is the 2nd person to make a comment like this and it has made me self conscious. No matter what weight you’re at it feels impossible to not get body shamed in some way.

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Walking!

I just found out nearby less than a 10 minute walk away, is a running track, which has been such an game changer. Combined with coming here walking and working 30 hours a week, I wanna get 25k - 30k steps a day. Have any of you guys done this? How was the weight loss for you? I'm doing this for my health, I really wanna get active and walking is the only super enjoyable thing I like doing. (And one of the only things I'm honestly willing to do after a shift.)

I haven't been counting every calorie but I have starting being mindful of what I eat. Trying to keep it under 1400 a day. I'm 5'8 and 184 pounds.

Do you guys love walking???

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My weight loss journey – better sleep changed everything

Hi everyone! I’ve always struggled with sleep and belly fat. No matter what I tried — eating better, walking more, cutting sugar — I wasn’t getting results.

A few weeks ago, I made sleep a top priority. I changed my routine and added some natural sleep support. It wasn’t instant, but within 4–5 days I was sleeping deeper and waking up with more energy. And… the cravings at night? Almost gone.

It’s too early to say it’s life-changing, but I’ve lost some belly fat and feel more in control. Anyone else had a similar experience with sleep and weight loss?

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Sunday, March 30, 2025

lost weight but still not happy with my body. I need advice on what to do next

Hi everyone! I'm 18, female, 166 cm (5'5"), 59 kg (130 lbs). I started my weight loss journey around August/September last year at 85 kg (187 lbs), and about two weeks ago, I hit my lowest weight of 59 kg. When I first started, I thought reaching a lower weight would make me feel content, but I still don’t look the way I expected. While I’m much smaller than before, I still have a lower belly pouch (i saw online something about cortisol belly? - idk if it's a thing), big thighs, face fat, and batwings. It’s frustrating because I’ve nearly reached my goal weight, but my body isn’t what I hoped for, and it’s making me miserable. From what I’ve read, body recomposition (losing fat while gaining muscle) might be the next step, but I don’t know how to approach it properly. Right now, I’m still eating 1,200 calories a day because I want to get down to 50-55 kg (110-121 lbs), but I also think i should start strength training to build muscle. My biggest concern is not wanting to gain weight back in the process. If anyone has experience with body recomposition or any advice on how to move forward, I’d really appreciate it! Thank you!

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weighing myself is driving me insane and i need advice. is it possible to plateau after a month?

im a 22f and i feel like my progress is already super stagnant. at first, i quickly dropped like 13.5 pounds at the start of my deficit over the course over a month somehow. i try and weigh myself once per day. over the past 1.5 weeks though i havent lost much. this week, my weight went down .6 then went back up 1.6 THE NEXT DAY. i woke up this morning and i was like 3 pounds heavier?

someone told me that even ovulation can make you gain weight, but i just dont know anymore.

im 5’2, and i am eating about 1297 a day. i exercise about 2-3 days a week and i drink enough water. i make sure i weigh and measure pretty much EVERYTHING that enters my body. am i doing something wrong?? my tdee calculator and the loseit app calculated this number for me for “extreme” weight loss, but im not seeing it.

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if you’ve ever done a big weightloss journey & have done it again… how do you stay positive and not get defeated?

i have had an extremely tumultuous relationship with my body image and food. my levels of mental health and weight are very intertwined so i’ve fluctuated a few times and i’m getting frustrated and need some reassurance

i was always a chubby kid and then during highschool i was at my largest (sophomore year) & my smallest (senior) after doing this program with my mom and sister… basically after that, i moved away for college and was so overwhelmed and had a lot of years of figuring myself out so i gained everything back.

then in 2021 i had a huge break through after feeling like i would never be that smaller size again and lost around 55 pounds. i was even smaller then i was the first time around and made better progress. my routines were better, i did it solely on my own, and my relationship with food was much more figured out as i was about 26 at the time and doing doing a lot of inner work helped me through it

fast forward to some deaths in my family, a 2 year relationship ending, and work change stress.. here i am back at square one. the hardest part is not being defeated. i feel like i can’t ever escape this weight and it haunts me. my weight feels like it’s defined me my whole life and it makes me miserable. i hate myself for allowing myself to regress like this, but i know i have to try again because i’m not happy and it really does ruin my mental health to feel this way about myself

has anyone done multiple tries at weight loss and had anything specific help motivate you or help keep you on track? any positive reassurance is super appreciated!! thank you all

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Saturday, March 29, 2025

Ready to do it naturally

I've been overweight most of my life. I've tried ALL the things (pills, injections) and most of them worked, but none of them were sustainable.

Ozempic, phentermine, over the counter weight loss pills, etc... I had terrible side effects with everything.

Not saying there's anything wrong with using these things! But for me? I used them as a way to escape having to make any real changes. :(

"I can eat whatever I want and pop a pill and still lose weight? Amazing!" Or so I thought.

But man it always, ALWAYS came back.

This is the first time in my life I took a hard look at myself and my choices. I accept where I am.

I'm ready to do this on my own without anything else. I'm actually making positive changes instead of covering up the problem with a bandaid and still eating/living like crap.

I'm tracking my food, involving my therapist, actually going to the gym, being active with friends. I have a long way to go, but I'm really proud of myself for getting to the root of my weight issues and making healthier choices.

Thanks for reading and for your support.

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What else should I do to succeed?

Hey yall. Looking for some possible advice on what I can do to improve my weight loss goals.

Starting weight : 280lbs, current weight: 268lbs, goal weight: 200lbs (for now. I am hoping that 200 by roughly end of the year is a reasonable goal.) F(27), 5 foot 4.

What I've done so far: cut most processed foods(aside from occasional cheat days), eating low carbs most days, got myself drinking a minimum of 64 ounces of water daily, getting to the gym twice a week on average - when I am at the gym I usually do one to two hours and I try to focus on all areas. So I'll run, weightlift, use various machines, all in the same session rather than focusing on one area. Hitting 10K steps most days. I try to count calories but this is something I need to improve in. I'm certain I'm not in a calorie deficit as my cheat days and alcohol consumption are likely throwing me.

What's next: starting in April my plan is to get more consistent with counting calories. Cut the cheat days. Cut alcohol entirely. I'm unsure what my current calories average consumption looks like but I'm guessing starting at aiming for no more than 1,800 per day would be both achievable and sustainable. Push myself to make the gym three times a week minimum, push to get my daily steps up to 12K (with a future goal to push more but I am trying to start with a reasonable goal.) My water intake will hopefully go up as I push myself to move more though no set number of ounces aside from still meeting my 64 minimum. And then the big part I'm not 100% sure is healthy and definitely feels like will be the big hurdle, I want to at least for one whole month cut grains and dairy. I don't believe I'm sensitive to them but my hope is cutting them out for a while with a slow reintroduction will hopefully both give me information on if there is a sensitivity to them that I'm just not clocking and also better moderation for them in the future. Dairy especially is an area where I know I'm eating more than I should (the cheese gets me 😩) This means my diet will consist mostly of proteins and vegetables. I will try to not do a lot of fruit as I'm hoping to be as low carb as reasonably possible. I will also measure my coffee creamer (switching to a coconut one probably?) instead of guesstimating it for calorie counting (I should probably also reduce my coffee intake lol I think I drink like at least 5 cups a day) And I need to improve my sleep, I know that as well. (I stay up late to reclaim my time but end up with 5-7 hours of sleep.)

So friends. Is there anything I'm particularly missing in my efforts to improve? Is my plan dangerous? Much as I want the weight gone, I am trying to be careful to not do so dangerously. Am I focusing in the wrong areas? Reality is I don't really know what I'm doing, a nutritionist or any form of coach is not an option for me to utilize because of my 2 jobs and their limited availability. But I'm sick to death of the weight and I need to make changes to improve. Just not at all sure if I'm making the right ones.

Your thoughts and advice is appreciated!

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Can I balance my weekly deficit?

Hi, I’m 23F, 246ib, 5’6. I’ve been in a deficit for the past two weeks. I’ve been eating 1200-1400 cals each day and calculating everything. I already feel a lot better but in the first week of April, I have a meet up at a party where there’s gonna be all greasy and sugary food.

Now, while I’ll be mindful of what I eat, it’s certainly not possible for me to be in my 1200 deficit. I might go up to my maintenance which is about 2300cals.

My question is, to not stall my weight loss, can I eat 1000-1100 cals each day for the rest of the week and eat 2000 cals that day and still lose weight?

In these two weeks, I saw progress and I know much of it must be water weight but I’m already feeling better. Just need to know if by this approach I can still lose without hampering these two weeks of progress.

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10,000 steps a day makes such a difference

For the first year of my weight loss I really didn’t get more than 10,000 steps ever, I was probably between 4,000-7,000 most of the time. But I had so much extra weight, I was able to eat a decent amount of food and still be in a calorie deficit, and lost probably 1% of my BW per week (SW 362lbs), so I just rode that out for a long time. Once I hit about 100lbs down (about 265lbs), it seemed like diet alone and lifting weights wasn’t really enough to keep the scale moving with the amount of calories I was eating. For a while I tried to drop my calories lower, which sort of got it moving but my energy dropped like crazy and I felt like crap. So back in January I got a full sized brand new treadmill, and set a goal to get 10,000 steps a day. And wow the weight loss has completely picked back up, I’m actually eating more now than I did at any point in my weight loss and I’m losing consistently 2lbs a week, based on my intake and weight loss, I’m consistently in the moderate activity level for tdee. I also weight lift 3-4 days a week, but I really don’t consider weightlifting as apart of my energy expenditure as I take so many rest breaks between sets, the amount burned is pretty small, but between my treadmill, taking my dog for walks, I’m getting usually 10-15k steps a day. I know it may seem like a lot to get in, but once you do it you won’t want to stop and it’ll streamline your weight loss so much. If you’re running into a plateau or not losing as much as you want, just start walking.

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Friday, March 28, 2025

What is an ideal diet / is it true that all carbs are bad?

So I have for years been lazy and opted for quick and easy food that requires the least amount of meal prep. But now that weight loss meds are off the table for me, I am wondering what I should put on the table.

My nutrional knowledge is abysmal and I don't know what a healthy diet looks like. I am expanding my cooking and nutritional knowledge. Pretty much every food I can think of someone has told me is unhealthy except for some vegetables.

So my question is, are there good carbs worth eating or are there no good carbs for weight loss? I know white bread is not good but are potatoes bad? Quinoa? Lentils? Chickpeas and lentils? And on that note is meat and dairy bad too(not because of carbs).

Nutrition is very confusing. Right now I am getting rid of frozen food, artificial sweeteners, drinking more water with meals, replacing frozen Mangos with apples and Oranges and adding more vegetables to start.

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I weighed myself and I am at my highest weight yet

for some context I am on anti psychotic medications for bipolar disorder that make weight loss very hard. Today I weighed myself and I was 250 lbs. I felt my world crashing down around my ears. I am very terrified that as a 29 year old single woman I will get health issues and never be able to find love. I hate my body I hate my double chin. I hate hearing negative comments about my experience by people I am interested in or when I try to date. I dont know if there is any hope for me. I dont know the first thing about losing weight. I have tried to go to the gym and went 2 days this week and that did feel good emotionally and mentally, I did 20 mins speed walking on the treadmill. I dont know if there is any hope for me I am devastated

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Progress last 2 months vs last 2 years

I’ve lost roughly 17 pounds in the last 2 months, but have been up and down in weight for the past 2 years: https://imgur.com/a/cWQ9sS0.

I’m 5’6” F, started at 173lbs, hovering around 156, and trying to get to ~130.

It’s a trip to see past weight loss attempts that have just bounced back after I gave up and stopped tracking. This time feels real, because I’m being smarter and healthier about it now than I’ve ever been. I’m eating at a deficit that’s safe for me, incorporating strength training / exercise, eating high protein high fiber meals, allowing treats and maintenance days, and tracking my rate of weight loss to make sure it’s not too fast or slow. I feel good, and it’s nice to see the scale moving down again.

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Thursday, March 27, 2025

My Goal Weight differs from my doctor's

Hi all, I think I'm being silly here but I think I just need some reassurance.

SW 190 CW 165. H 5"3

A few months ago I started my weight loss journey with the help of my doctor.I've lost 25 pounds and me and my doctor are happy with the progress! But he mentioned that the goal is to hit 150 pounds. But this whole time I've been wanting to hit 130 as that seems to be more of a middle ground for my height. He didn't discourage me from that goal but he seemed hesitant and said "let's just see how you feel when you hit 150 and we'll go from there."

But I remember being 150 pounds from years ago and I know I didn't feel or look good at that weight. And I'm already not feeling the best because I see no changes from my current loss (though I'm trying my best to not let it bother me).

To me it just doesn't seem like another 15 pounds will make that much of a difference. Does 130 pounds just seem unrealistic and 150 pounds isn't as bad as I'm thinking it is?

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Wii Fit Plus - Exercise Enough?

Hi everyone and sorry if this post seems really long or boring. But I just wanted to see what someone else had to say. I've been trolled on social media for this so maybe just seeing what others who have been working on weight loss think.

I, (24 female), am only 3' 9" tall and already have managed to get down from 130 lbs to 88.8 lbs (factor weight fluxes of 1 kg/ 2.2 lbs a day) just with a treadmill over the course of 5 months. Now I still use the treadmill but I use it for a little less time (like 15-20 mins a day) because I've been using Wii Fit Plus (building routines in my routine for 40 mins at least and then an enjoyable 20 minutes doing the Aerobic Advanced Step game). Is that exercise enough to be considered able to contribute to weight loss? The reason I ask is I spoke to someone about it and they said that I wasn't really exercising for 45 mins to an hour a day if I was using Wii Fit as my main exercise. But I find that the exercises are hard for me with the exception being the tricep extension and for that? I use a three pound dumbell in the other arm while the arm with the remote is doing the exercise.

Sorry I ranted. So long story short: Do we consider Wii Fit Plus Exercise?

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Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Is 12lbs weight loss in 5 weeks too much?

Hi, So this is my 1st ever deficit after bulking for 16 months, Not 100% accurate but i was falling somewhere between 25-30% BF, Im eating 500 calories below my maintenance, Have been for 5 weeks consistantly, hitting my daily protein intake of 180g but im abit concerned that i could be losing muscle and maybe the tdee calculator isnt accurate because i put myself on sedentary lifestyle however i work from home so sitting most of the day but i walk 2 miles each day and workout intensly for 1hr-1hr 20 mins. Also 12lbs weight loss in 5 weeks seems alot but i dont know how much of that will be water weight.

Male-25

Height- 179cm/5ft10

Current weight - 186lbs/84kg

Calorie consumption - 1700 per day - Protein 180g - Carbs 100g

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Tuesday, March 25, 2025

Partner wants weight loss surgery, I'm apprehensive

Hello reddit,

I'm worried for my partner, I'm not supportive of surgery as well

Reasons being that my partner has a very unhealthy relationship with food, binge eating whenever they have an emotional response to anything, spending our grocery money on those binges instead.

They want to lose weight but not put in the effort, they can't keep up with a diet, they can't keep up with exercise, they don't have any self-discipline sadly.

And my partner also asked if I could help them not snack and such, so our household has stopped snacking, we're eating healthy, I'm portioning their food, but they get mad at me for restricting their access to snacks, and whenever I find them in the kitchen snacking on something and I take it away from them? Pissed off and it's all my fault.

I try and keep them on a exercise schedule (once per week to aquarobics for now) and even that is a battle.

They expect surgery to be a magic thing, where after they've got the surgery everything will be easy, but I feel they're extremely misguided in that viewpoint, you've got to put in the work now already and change the relationship with food, deal psychologically with the food addiction before even thinking about scalpels and life altering surgeries.

They're also depressed and have emotion-regulation problems, they're suicidal as well, highly obsessive, and are susceptible to psychosis as well, they're on lorazepam and risperidone which absolutely do not help with losing weight either.

I've been trying to say they should look into something less invasive like a gastric balloon while they get psychological help first, but they're dead-set on the surgery because "nothing else has ever worked or will ever work"

Their oldest kid isn't supportive either, the father of their youngest isn't either, the parents aren't supportive, and it's all because we know how they are with food, and their unwillingness to put in the actual legwork.

I'm also extremely worried about the complications and side effects, mainly dumping syndrome, the loose skin, and possible complications that require surgery, and the mental effects those complications and side effects will have on someone who's already suicidal and unstable.

AITA?

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Losing weight in my late 20s

I was skinny in Highschool and definitely gained a freshman 30 when I went off to college. Living alone didn’t help and I mainly ate fast food in between classes. When I was forced off my birth control I gained another 30 pretty rapidly. Then I honestly let myself become a depressed hermit

I’m 5’7, 27 (f), 225lbs, grad student, working full time and trying to lose weight. I want this to be it -I don’t want to look back 6 months from now and not see results.

Anyone got sustainable weight loss tips/advice that can get me to 140?

Starting with: - 10,000 steps (trying rn I average 5,000 - more water - protein + veggies for all meals - fighting cravings (very difficult) - exercising (started with pole fitness)

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Monday, March 24, 2025

In a calorie deficit but so hungry by end of day

Hi everyone, I (27, F) was hoping to get some thoughts on my current fitness plan that was set up for me by a PT. I have a feeling it’s off, but partly because my physically activity has actually been really high in the past month and I think the calories don’t match up

I’m 6 weeks in to this 8 week fitness plan. I started this fitness plan weighing 71kg and now I’m sitting around the 67kg mark so good progress in terms of weight loss

My plan is the following: 3x strength training a week, increasing weight every time and lifting pretty heavy (120kg hip thrust for example). The goal is to lose weight and tone. I don’t want to bulk up.

My calorie deficit is 1514 calories aiming for 44% carbs 23% fat and 33% protein. I’ve changed my diet pretty drastically to get protein in; I truly did not realise how little I was eating before. I’d say the biggest change in my diet is this increased protein, but also decreased fat intake. I’m used to eating avocados and olive oil regularly and with this fitness plan, eating one can take up majority of my fat macros for the day. I am generally very healthy and care a lot for homemade, gut friendly foods, but in order to reach protein goals I have had to incorporate processed foods like protein bars and whatnot to get those numbers up.

On top of strength training, I go to hot yoga / Pilates twice a week, and run (cardio) twice a week. I ran a half marathon on the Sunday just been. I work an office job, and clean a studio 3x a week which is actually quite laborious (cleaning massive mirrors is hard work!). Now my half marathon is out the way, I will calm down on the running a bit, but probably still run a total of 10km a week, and if not run, then definitely incorporate stair master into my routine.

I have found during strength training in particular I feel weaker, and my body is probably just not getting quite the fuel it needs. But is this something I should push through as my ultimate goal is weight loss and toning?

Before this fitness plan, I was eating LOADS I’m almost certain my average calories must have sat at around 2500 a day. I wasn’t exercising much before this, Christmas mode was still on, but I have generally kept up strength training and running across the past few years.

Additionally, I am used to huge portions and this plan has definitely taught me about what serving sizes should be, so I have enjoyed the educational part of it. But I just find when I go to bed I am so hungry, and also desperate for breakfast in the morning. Previously I could wait until 12pm to eat, and never woke up hungry.

I have checked my maintenance / deficit calories online and according to my fitness levels, I can either continue on this 1500 calorie path and see significant weight loss, or up it and … probably still see weight loss? Given I am used to large portions, would anyone recommend using the zig zag calorie method? I believe I was intuitively practicing this before as some days I’d have very little and others an awful lot. Maybe that’s what worked best for me.

Would appreciate your thoughts on this.

TL;DR on a calorie deficit, working out a lot, really hungry and feeling weak. Advice appreciated!

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Starting weight lost journey

So I’ve finally decided to commit to starting my weight loss journey. I’ve been thinking about it for a while, but I’m ready to stop making excuses and start holding myself accountable. I want to lose weight not just for the physical changes, but also to feel healthier, stronger, and more confident in myself.

Right now, my goal is to lose almost 100 lbs by the end of this year, I’m focusing on changing my eating habits, incorporating more movement into my day, and learning what works for my body. I know it won’t be easy, and there will be days I struggle, but I’m ready to push through.

Also, I feel like having someone to check in with could help a lot with staying motivated and on track. If anyone’s down to be accountability buddies just doing occasional check-ins or sharing progress I’d love that! Sometimes just knowing someone else is out there pushing through too makes it a little easier. (I'm 18 btw, don't mind any older people willing to be my buddy)

If anyone has advice, beginner tips, or even just some motivation, I’d love to hear it. I’m excited and nervous to finally start this journey and track my progress along the way. Wish me luck!

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Its possible! Lost 110lbs and counting

Keep pushing ladies and gents! I don’t know where to start. I use to be 400lbs now weight 290 down 110lbs in 2 years. There’s still a ways to go but I’ve never been more happier in my life. I remember standing in front of the mirror 2 years ago looking at myself in disgust, 20lbs off seemed like a task, over 100lbs off was a dream, a dream I’m now living, breaking 300 nearly made this man cry🥹, I’m no longer looking at heart Disease by 30, no longer pre diabetic. I’m not stopping! Next goal in 240 this year. Besides health the weight loss drastically improved my personal life. I found the confidence to get out there and surprised myself with getting a stunning beautiful girlfriend. Got myself a condo. Things that were possible before but I wouldn’t have done without the confidence losing the weight has given me. It starts with small changes until it becomes normal, then little by little you step on that scale and go 🤯 makes you wanna not stop. Sorry for the rant everyone. Just really happy and wanted to show others here it’s possible!! 20/40/60 100lbs! It’s all possible and YOU CAN do it!

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Sunday, March 23, 2025

Needing some input

Hey everyone! This is my first post here, so here’s the full rundown:

I’m 21 years old (male) and currently weigh 192 lbs. I started my weight loss journey 11 weeks ago, beginning at 206 lbs. In the past, I was up to 236 lbs, but I’m getting serious about my progress again.

Right now, I hit the gym 5-6 days a week, focusing on lifting, and I do at least 30 minutes of incline treadmill cardio daily. However, I’ve been stuck between 192-195 lbs for about 4 weeks, and my progress has noticeably slowed.

I track my food intake with MyFitnessPal and eat 1,300 calories per day, leaving room for potential tracking errors. Low carb, high protein (at least 120g/day) I’m unsure if I should lower my calories further or increase my cardio to an hour daily. My goal is to continue building muscle while getting lean, but I’m open to doing whatever it takes to break through this plateau.

If anyone has suggestions, I’d really appreciate the advice!

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Closing in on Onederland, halfway to my goal! How do you stay motivated?

Longtime lurker, first-time poster. I have been overweight almost my entire adult life. Once I graduated high school I didn't do sports anymore, (I used to be a dancer and gymnast, then a competitive swimmer.) I purchased my first car and stopped walking/riding public transit and this is when it got really bad really quickly. I've always had a sweet-tooth and late night snacking on entire bags of chocolate became the norm for me. I realize now looking back that I was struggling with a binge-eating disorder for probably close to 20 years.

When I got pregnant and had my daughter, things improved for a period of time. I was breastfeeding exclusively at this time, with no formula supplementation. I was lucky that my milk came in strong and consistent, I know that many mothers struggle with this. I could not keep weight on me to save my life, no matter WHAT I ate. This was the first time that I went below 200lbs in more than 6 years. All the baby weight came off, and then some. But once the breastfeeding was over, my eating habits stayed the same and I went right back up to my pre-pregnancy weight.

About 5 years went by, my kid started elementary school and I started working again and had more time for myself than ever before. I decided to recommit to my weight loss, and I started by quitting all processed sugar. Candy, juices, soda pop, EVERYTHING. I dropped 40 lbs over the next 6 months but it wasn't sustainable to cut it out forever, and as soon as I allowed myself even a little I went right back to my old habits and weight because I had not done the work necessary to change these habits.

Cue a global pandemic, being a front-line essential worker and all the doordash takeout. By March of 2024 it was starting to take a physical toll in a way that I had never experienced before: My joints hurt constantly, especially my back and hips. I was snoring so badly at night it was interrupting my sleep and my spouses. I had heartburn on the regular, even when I tried to cut out most acidic foods such as tomato sauce etc. Most embarrassing of all, I was starting to have difficulty wiping myself after using the restroom. I almost couldn't reach anymore. I've always had short little T-rex arms but this was a new low. I bit the bullet, bought a scale, and stepped on for the first time in years. I was 256lbs... 20lbs HEAVIER than when I was 9 MONTHS pregnant with my kiddo. This was it. I needed to do something but I didn't know what to do.

I made an appointment with my PCP and just broke down in the office. I detailed my years of struggles, my pain, my absolutely out of control eating. I described how one day for lunch I bought a full sized pizza, finished it in about 15 minutes, then went next door to get a bacon sandwich and a full fat venti mocha from Starbucks. When I say out of control, I meant it.

She listened. We did some tests, and she sent me to see a specialist or two. They started treating me for binge-eating disorder and ADHD. Over the next 6 months, my desire to binge just slowly withered away. By Jan 2025 I was 230lbs. For the first time in almost 20 years I felt hope. I really got committed in January, and now as of this morning, I am approximately 205lbs. I've lost 25lbs in about 2.75 months. That's incredible!

I'm currently about 1/2 way to my goal, and I have never managed to maintain this level of commitment for this long. I'm terrified my motivation will slip like so many times before and I'll just go right back to where I was.

How do you guys stay motivated for a weight loss journey that is going to take literal YEARS of dedication to get to where you need to be? I'm not used to this and I need all the inspiration and motivation I can get to keep going to the finish line.

Thank you if you read my essay, cheers!

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Is my deficit too high? Getting multiple BMRS / TDEEs from different sources

Is my deficit too high?

Female / 27 / 5ft 8, 281lbs

I started my weight loss journey weighing in at 303lbs. I have gotten down to 281lbs (10lbs if that has been the past two months since I’ve started taking calorie counting and exercise seriously)

Working of sedentary levels for accuracy. But I do exercise (walking) about 4 times a week for 20-30 mins a time.

Is 2100 calories too much?

From what I remember, people losing weight tend to eat around 1500 a day?

My BMR is also coming in at around 1948. Should I eat below this?

Some calorie counters are saying I should be eating 1600. Some are saying 2100

I’m not looking for ultra fast weightloss. I have been obese pretty much my entire life. I want this to be sustainable and a real life style change.

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Uneven weightloss?? HELP

I have struggled with binge eating my whole life, so I've been really obese my whole 30 years of life. Recently I decided to give it "one last try" My HW was 280..I'm now 220. My problem is that I look so "buff" for a girl. My shoulders, back, and stomach are very wide/big (smaller breasts as well) and I have a smaller bottom half. My problem is that since weight loss I have been just slimming down in my lower half mostly and while I have lost some inches in my waist, I still look like a linebacker!! I'm tired of it and even though I'm doing lower body exercises to hopefully keep whatever booty and thighs I have, it seems like my body gets more and more disproportionate as I lose weight. I just want to look normal and feminine:(

Any tips/advice as I lose more weight??

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Saturday, March 22, 2025

Did any of you gain muscle / tone from using the treadmill alone?

Did any of you gain muscle in the abs, your legs, or the glutes from 12-3-30 (Treadmill: at least 12 incline, 3 mph, at least 30 minutes) or just simply running? I know that you're supposed to do resistance training to gain muscle, but I was wondering if it's possible to just get toned using the treadmill at first, then build muscle with resistance training from there.

As of right now I'm very slim, but I'm kind of at the skinny fat phase after I've lost a lot of weight. I run cross country, and it contributed a lot to my weight loss, but what if it can make you toned / a little bit muscular as well? I've looked at cross country runners, and while they're not that muscular, they have definition. Will exercising on the treadmill and running cross country more eventually get me to this kind of figure?

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Need guidance as a 250ib woman.

This is my first ever post on reddit, don’t know how I landed here but I’ve been tracking loseit’s community posts for a week and reading about everyone else’s weight loss journey, truly getting inspired and I finally gained the courage to ask for a personalised help.

I weight 250ibs, 23F, 5’6. I’ve been overweight all my life. I’ve had a sedentary lifestyle most of the time. I’m a student currently and ugc creator which makes me sit in front of laptop/phone most of the times.

As a child I used to be the heaviest in my class. When I finished my high school I weighed 220ibs. I’ve been embarrassed all my life because of my weight. I tried dieting since I was a kid, and the yo yo effect got me every damn time. The moment I lost 15ibs, I’d gain that back + 20ibs more every year. It was a cycle.

The BMI rate at my current weight makes me really anxious. I’m afraid because it can put me into so many health issues that I can never recover from. I want a change.

My goal is to lose 90ibs to step into my normal BMI.

I’m a vegetarian (not vegan) so any advice would mean so much to me!

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1 year and finally at goal. Story and AMA.

Long post warning.

M32, 5,10'. started 28 of March, 2024, at 208 pounds, I am now down to 154 pounds. 54 pounds lost. Been lurking on this sub pretty much since I started and have gained a lot of inspiration, so I thought I would post here in case it might help someone just a little bit.

A year ago I was discussing something related to fitness with a co worker, I seem to remember it being the shape of my water bottle, as it reminded him of the ones people usually have in his gym (riveting conversation, I know) told him I did use to lift but that was many years ago. After the conversation I started thinking back to those days and for whatever reason, when I got home I went to check my weight so I could figure out my BMI. I was offended. BMI told me I was obese. (30.1 so only just, but still)

I will preface this next part by saying I'm normally a pretty smart person. When my BMI had sunk in, I decided that I was gonna show the BMI chart and scales that I was definitely not obese..... By losing weight...... Not quite sure whatever backwards logic I used in that moment, but hey, it worked.

I had lost weight before, but then obviously regained it (thanks Slimming world) and I knew i didnt want to go back to that, so i decided to calorie count. Took me a few days to find an app that i wanted to use for it, then i started eating 1650 calories per day and weighing myself twice a week, and oh boy was i hungry. After three weeks of this, my girlfriend convinced me it would be better to eat a little more, so I changed my calorie goal to 1800 and kept steadily losing on that, up until the end of November. Losses were becoming slower, so I lowered calories to 1600. This went pretty well.

For many people, including myself, the Christmas period can be difficult to navigate. I had decided that from around 21st of December until the 2nd of January, I was not gonna count calories, and if some snacks crept in before that, that was fine as well. I gained 16 pounds over that period. Quite a big gain (there were a couple other gains throughout the 1 year as well), do I regret it? No, I enjoyed myself and you gotta do that sometimes.

After xmas, I went straight back to 1600 calories and here we are, at my goal weight. That's the story, but i will rant some more with tips and stuff i realised along the way.

  1. It wasn't until around September where i started concerning myself with the split of macros. Before that I just tried eating somewhat healthy. Since then I make it a priority to get 160g of protein per day (Thank you protein powder). Not really concerned with carbs and fat as long as I get at least a little of both.

  2. For the vast majority of this weight loss, i did not exercise. Sometimes i would cycle to work as i always have, sometimes i would go for a little walk, mostly to enjoy the weather or get some peace and quiet from the kids 😂 only in the last month, month and a half, have i started running. I bravely signed up to a half marathon that my parents were gonna run in, so now I'm gonna train for that and run it with them.

  3. To help me stick with a healthy deficit, I have started referring to some things as Anchors. These are things that I have to do, no matter what happens in a day, to help keep myself on track. It might sound a little silly, but i have found that it helped me on not so great days, to be able to say, at least i did that. For me, this was eating... An apple per day. Ground-breaking stuff, I know.

  4. There were times where I had to get tough with myself, be honest with yourself and realise where you are going wrong. The phrase "suck it up, buttercup" has been used a couple times when i was hungry but out of calories for the day. Worked well for me at least.

Lastly I want to mention plans for the future. Last time I lost weight I didn't have a plan for maintenance, which is why I then regained the weight, at least I think so. This time I have a plan. There is the aforementioned half marathon I want to complete, but I'm also going to be starting in the gym, I have a workout plan ready to go and am feeling more motivated and disciplined than ever. That glorified but ultimately kinda pointless 6 pack will be mine!

So you might ask why I havent started the gym already? Well, I'm lazy, like very lazy, and the gym is a whole 10 minutes by car away. My girlfriend and I are however in the process of buying a house that is a 2 minute walk away from said gym. So when we are moved in, or if i get too annoyed at the long buying process, i will be joining and are looking to pack on some muscle. Who knows, maybe I will do another post in a years time, reporting on my maintaining and muscle building process.

Despite the fact that a lot of people on here doesn't seem to like using food as a reward (understandable really) I will be rewarding myself with a Dominos, a couple beers and a bounty next Friday, on the exact 1 year anniversary of starting my weight loss.

Just because I forgot to mention it, and don't see where i can sort of fit it in: i still drank alcohol, started at one night every 2 weeks, then every 3 weeks, then became more of a special occasions kinda thing. I like drinking, but it does slow down the weight loss, take from that what you will.

Long story over, AMA.

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Friday, March 21, 2025

Do I need to stop losing?

Hey everyone! First off, big thanks to this sub, posts have been a huge motivation over the past few months. I (24M) am currently 6’3, 203lbs down from my start weight of 245lbs. My original goal weight was 190lbs to get into the normal BMI range. However, I recently got a DEXA scan after a month-long weight loss stall, and I came back at 12% body fat. If accurate, I’m happy with it, but the mirror test makes me think I’m higher since I don’t have visible abs. My BMI still says I’m overweight, but I don’t want to overdo the weight loss just to hit a number. Right now, I’m eating between 2000-2400 calories/day, lifting 5x a week, and doing some cardio and yoga when I feel up for it, but the scale hasn’t for the past month moved. I guess my question is whether I should keep cutting, drop calories, or switch to maintenance/ focus on muscle gain? Any advice or input would be greatly appreciated!

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Stress and Weight loss?

I am unbelievably stressed, continuously. I can try meditate, do yoga and journal all I want, but as soon as I sit on my desk, I am swarmed with a mountain of work, emails, tasks and projects to complete.

Realistically, my stress won’t go away for another 3-6 months.

I gained weight because of the stress, and now I’m currently 15lbs down, weight training & tracking calories etc is all going well — but, I frequently see “STRESS SLOWS WEIGHTLOSS”.

Does anyone have any advice for dealing with being stressed but still losing weight? My stress cannot simply go away until a large amount of projects are complete at my job, which will take months.

(By the way, I love my job, but it can be very stressful.)

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I feel like most nutritionists/dietitians/doctors are too conservative about weight loss and see every patient as an eating disorder risk

I recently had a meeting with an endocrinologist I am regularly consulting about my diet. I told her I had a cheat day, which is the only cheat day I've had since I began tracking my calories 3 months ago. I got food at Shake Shack and ate nearly 4000 calories that day. She told me that if I feel like I need a cheat day I must be restricting my calories too much, and I need to be careful about not getting into a cycle of binging and purging. I find this really frustrating because I don't habitually binge eat and have no history of purging.

I'm not slightly overweight, I'm morbidly obese, I have been most of my life and I have not lost any weight in weeks. If I don't restrict my intake of calories/insulinogenic foods further, I will not lose weight. She told me I need to remember I am improving my health even if the number on the scale isn't getting lower, but I cannot possibly be healthy at this size. I have made a lot of positive changes to my diet but there's plenty of room for improvement, I'm not eating a ton of vegetables and I still eat sugary food like cookies. You can see my most recent cronometer entries here.

I often see people on social media making posts about doctors focusing on weight loss instead of their real health problem, but I have personally never experienced this. Even for issues that are obviously weight related, like knee pain, weight loss is rarely mentioned. Rather than over-encouraging weight loss I feel like a lot of doctors I see almost discourage it.

I have seen a lot of doctors about my weight. I also often feel like doctor give me cookie cutter advice that doesn't apply to me in particular. Like when I bring up intermittent fasting they tell me to not eat between 7 pm and 7 am. I'm not eating at that time anyway. Not everyone is waking up at 3 am to eat snacks. And when I say this multiple times it's like they don't hear me. Fasting is also strongly discouraged because they think it will lead to an eating disorder. I only know one endocrinologist who I feel like gives useful advice, and she moved far away. In spite of that I'm going to start seeing her again because I'm tired of advice like this.

Don't get me wrong, anorexia and other eating disorders are serious problems and doctors are right to be concerned, but I feel like this concern is emphasized over weight loss. I'm also frustrated because I became morbidly obese as a child and I wish my doctor had intervened before it got to that point, but their advice was to tell my parents to let me eat anything I want and the only dietary change my doctor suggested was skim milk.

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Thursday, March 20, 2025

I'm kinda shocked/amazed at the ideal weight recommended on calculator.net

Has anyone else tried the 'ideal weight' calculator on calculator.net? What did you think? Did it seem about right or was it way off what you thought it should be?

So, on calculator.net there are 4 formulas from different researchers giving me an ideal weight range of 59.4 to 61.5 kg [ 130lb to 135lb]

When I began my CICO weight loss that 'ideal' range just seemed impossibly (even dangerously) thin and impossible to achieve but now I'm reconsidering how I think about it.

My weight in highschool was around 60kg. I slowly but steadily gained 20kg over the following 20 years. I just thought weight gain as you get older was inevitable.

I also didn't notice my weight gain because I carried it very evenly across my body and my clothes still mostly fitted. But, I was truly shocked when I calculated my BMI as saw I was just 3 kg away from being class 1 obesity. I kept asking people around me: "do I look obese???’ Everyone thought I was crazy, including me. But it was a wake up call that I took seriously.

I once snorted at an article that said you should be able to fit into the same jeans you wore in highschool for your whole life (assuming you were a healthy in highschool).

Now I am wondering if I have a bit of weight blindness (or if we all collectively do). I thought about those old photos where everyone looks slim, and how hard it is to get vintage clothes in my size. I have a friend who works on an organic farm. She has an extremely active life and a very healthy diet. She is lean and healthy and definitely the same weight as in highschool.

I remember how at 60kg I had a completely flat stomach and was often complimented on my appearance. How easy running was, how clothes looked so nice.

Originally my goal weight was 65kg but now I'm wondering about whether I should actually go for 61kg as a healthier weight? Of course if it's awful to maintain at that weight I'll go higher, but I'm now curious about it.

For reference, the healthy BMI range for my height/age is given as 52.2 -70.6 kg. I'm not bashing that as a healthy range!

My stats: 168cm, SW 80kg, CW: 77.5 kg, GW: ? [5'6 /SW: 176lb / CW: 148)

Edit: here's the link to the calculator if you are interested: https://www.calculator.net/ideal-weight-calculator.html

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Every time I eat salt…

I’m looking for input from all of you experienced people on this weight loss journey. I have been on a very restricted caloric deficit tracking tightly. I’m going insane because of these 2 things and I need help understanding how to bypass it:

1.) Every single time I eat something that is salty, for example, popcorn, I will literally go up 2lbs. on the scale. And then it takes me several days to bring that back down. So instead of losing, I go up and have to spend the next couple of days just to get back to where I was before the salt. It happens every. single. time. How can this be normal to experience such a set back from just a little bit of salt? 2.) Every single day I do weight training, I go up a couple of lbs. on the scale, without fail. Why?

I’m spending so much time just back tracking on the things that move the scale up. I understand water retention from salt. I understand glycogen stores. But how can it be this extreme? I’ve been weight training for months. It should be adjusted by now. Salt is a normal part of diet, how can my body still not be adjusted to it? It’s destroyed my goals and my morale.

I would appreciate any input!

Thanks, guys!

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So what does it mean to be a moderator of loseit?

First, we expect maturity and common sense. It's important to keep in mind that often when people first visit this subreddit, they're in a particularly dark time of their life. You're going to interact with a lot of people. A few of those people want nothing more than to take advantage of those people and turn a profit. Being able to weed those types of people out is going to be important for daily moderation duties. In short, you need to be able to shift from courteous, to stern but fair, based on the circumstances. You'll deal with plenty of trolls, so please take that into consideration before applying. Being a moderator has its fun moments, but you deal with plenty of jerks anonymity on the internet brings out.

Second, it is important to remember not every situation will require the same answer as the last one. Everyone comes here with unique experiences and situations and while the main premise of “weight loss” is universal, ones individual battle to do so will be different from others and we need to be welcoming and open to discussion. That being said it will, at times, feel like you’re saying the same thing for the 10,000th time. That poster does not know that and you need to express compassion and care like its the first time you’ve ever said the words you are about to type.

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Not losing any weight but I’m not discouraged

M 5'6" 250 lbs i have adhd and had a good addiction until i was able to get treatment and now ive been able to dial in and change my lifestyle. I've been eating at maintenance for a few months now so I haven't been losing any weight. Im using trial and error to dial down how much my body needs to maintain calories, because tdee is very inaccurate. I work at a warehouse and run 6 miles a day along with weight training in the early morning, but I don't really factor that stuff in terms of calories. it seems my body is really efficient with its energy so my tdee seems to be a little under 2000 calories a day. I've been doing OMAD and I've just had one chicken breast at 423 calories at 9 oz that I round up a few hundred calories to 700 along with a bag of frozen vegetables that the label puts at 240 calories but labels aren't all accurate so I'll also look at the serving info and weigh the vegetables that way. I'll also round up by a couple hundred calories. I'll cook with a non-stick pan so I don't have to use any oil and then I'll add a few more calories when I log it at 1500 calories. I go to bed pretty hungry but I'm not losing weight so I can cut more out and bump up the cardio. Weight loss is a lot harder than i thought but if i keep lowering the amount i eat and keep increasing the intensity of my workouts i can start seeing progress. Wish me luck!

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Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Being Obese and Confident in 2025 is so Hard !

Hey everyone! Some words about me first. I'm a 24M and i have been though it with weight loss. The biggest one i had was 4 years ago i went from 127 kg to 82 kg and ever since then i gained everything back and more going all the way to 142kg ! I have been dieting for the last month and lost about 10 kg and honestly i still feel very fat, especially when i see pictures of what i used to look like.

There are a lot of people in my life rn that have never seen me thin/fit and i usually keep it to myself cause when i show them they think its a different person. I feel so ashamed of how i look right now, its difficult to find clothes that fit well, go to interviews, have a dating life and be present in the moment. When i lost the weight i feel like everyone changed 180 degrees how they saw me, especially love interests, mutuals, colleagues and strangers but i know for sure it had something to also do with my confidence boost.

I basically came to the conclusion that pretty privilege is unfortunately a real thing. I feel like overweight/obese people wont be treated like thinner/fit people by everyone, meaning being OBESE and CONFIDENT is something that you have to work very hard to achieve whilst losing the weight and that its almost impossible since everything in the media and around us is 99% targeted to thin/fit/pretty/handsome people. Unfortunately, I believe this international community we built is mainly beneficial to these kind of individuals . When you open Instagram and just see fit people and models living their best life (i know its mostly fake) is very hard to stomach. Believe me i tried very hard to embrace my obese body whilst working on it but its really hard and frustrating when random people you talk to have to bring up your weight and be like you can make it, what's your diet and suggest their bizarre weight loss strategies when you haven't even asked for it. One of the most recent incidents i had was when i posted a picture myself after a long time because i thought i looked good in the gym and some of my mutuals Dmd me messages like you can do it, keep pushing ! when i just posted it because i thought i looked good lmao.

Anyhow, i am going to keep pushing and fighting for myself cause i know that i can manage it in the end and that this is just a phase and its a matter of time before i like what i see in the mirror. My biggest motivation right now from previous experience is that i know when i lose the weight everyone will change how they see me, be my true self, finally wear the clothes that i like and make my daily life easier ( the paper roll effect also gives me much motivation) . I give myself very big value as an individual and so should everyone despite their looks etc. but it gets hard sometimes...

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Hate my body after weight loss

I’ve lost over 100lbs in the last year. I’m 40 and have been trying since I was ten to lose weight. Well I finally did it and I hate my body just as much as I have for the last 30 years. I have so much sagging and loose skin and don’t have money to pay for skin removal surgery. I’m devastated and just so lost. I’d like to wear short sleeve shirts, shorts and bathing suits but I’m so embarrassed. I’d also love to try a relationship but can’t get past how horrible I look. I’m in therapy, have been trying to love my body for decades and it is still keeping me from everything. I’m not trying to chase abnormal beauty standards. I just want to be able to look in the mirror and not have bat wings, flappy legs and stomach. I guess I’m whining on here but maybe I’d feel better if there are others out there in a similar situation who have been able to overcome some of the issues I’m having… thanks in advance.

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Calorie deficit.

Hi, I(Mid 20s Male) am 6'2" and weigh approx 110kg as of this morning, I've been calorie counting consistently since the 7th of March starting at 113kg in the morning after the toilet.

Basically I'm trying to figure out what my calorie deficit should be, I'm currently running a 2500 calorie per day budget but the weight loss seems a touch fast after reading alot of the posts on here.

I have a very active job and walk 10k steps most days, I'm not struggling to maintain this diet but I've read it's unhealthy to be losing weight that rapidly? Approx 1.5kg per week that is. I know the rate will slow down eventually (as I've lost weight in the past and regained it) but I just want to make sure I'm not doing any damage to my self along the way yano?

Either way what do we think my budget should be? Should I leave it as is and have wiggle room etc?

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40 lbs down in 8 months!

28f, 5'5.5", SW: 265.7 lbs, CW: 226 lbs, GW: 160 lbs

I struggle with hypermobility (HSD not EDS), POTS (mild), acid reflux, and ADHD. I gained a ton of weight for a lot of reasons. My acid reflux was so severe at times that I couldn't eat, so when I finally got it under control, all I wanted to do was eat. Being in pain from being bed-bound due to chronic acid reflux made it impossible to exercise, so when my health issues got better, exercising was out of the question. POTS and hypermobility made it easy for me to get injured and/or pass out. After a lot of work to become okay with counting calories, I reduced to 2000 calories a day, and have slowly decreased to now eating 1600-1700 calories a day. I don't plan on decreasing more. My goal is to lose enough weight to where it is safe for me to workout and then I will actually increase my calories accordingly to where I'm eating enough to sustain my body but still losing weight. Right now, I'm not focused on eating healthy. I eat things I enjoy, with select healthier options, and everything is pre-packaged/pre-portioned. This is super helpful for my ADHD, because trying to stick to a diet plan and restrict what I can eat is impossible and always ends up failing.

My pain is less, my clothes fit better, and I feel like I look like myself when I look in the mirror. It's all about healthy, sustainable weight loss. I don't want to be super skinny, I just want to be healthy, happy, and in less pain. I also want to feel confident in my body, and not have to worry about if I can find clothes that fit me when I go to the store. Lastly, I want to get to the point where I don't have to calorie track all the time, and only do so when I am seeing the numbers climb up on the scale too much. I'm super happy with my progress, and I can't wait for this summer when I will actually be able to fit into my swimsuit!

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Tuesday, March 18, 2025

New to Weight Loss

Hi everyone!!

I’m a 21 year old female wanting to lose 70 pounds. Since covid i’ve increasingly gained weight and have felt unhappy about what I see in the mirror, I feel fatigued and tired and I want to make the change now rather than later so I can live a healthier life!

My biggest issue is that I’m a hugeeee snacker so I plan on cutting that out as well as liquid calories (sodas, juices etc). I plan to get a gym membership and start working out such as fast paced walking, stair master and lifting weights occasionally.. my goals is to go 5 days a week.

I know this is going to be a difficult journey but i’m trying to stay positive and focus on just getting healthier!! I have a great support system that want to help me get to my goal. Any tips would be greatly appreciated :)

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44 pounds down

Sorry for anyone reading this it kind of turned into me just ranting but yeah.

I've been dieting and walking a bunch for about 30 weeks and I'm down from 280ish pounds to 236, I don't really feel any different from then to now so like does anyone else feel like that when they were losing weight?

My friend's don't really comment on noticing any difference so I am assuming that the gradual change doesn't really impact their image of me, it'd be nice if they like noticed though, I'm like not gonna gloat or moan about "oh I've lost so and so weight" because it just sounds super lame but yeah whatever.

I feel like I'm kind of just ranting but whatever.

I'm 6 feet tall and I was in varsity in sports in HS so I'm not like a plump mass of fat but ya know. (I'm also a 20 year old male)

Well I'll probably just stop ranting for now but I thought it'd be good to like let out what I am thinking about all of this ... like weight loss, ya know? If anyone want's to ask questions about anything like how I am doing, I am all for it. (The reason I started trying to lose weight was because of depression.)

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Im gonna start my weight loss journey from Today. (Drop some advice and Wishes)

Hey guys, finally decided to go for all. I will transform my physical body and hope it will help me to transfer my mental ones.

I used to do gym a lot and gained a lot of muscle in past, but it’s two years. I haven’t gone to the gym and had a proper workout routine. I have gained over 25 KG. I am afraid that I will feel insecure in the gym. I will not enjoy this process because I am not enjoying myself. I know it will take lot of time and I have to be patient, which I am not .

I rely on my muscle memory alot since i used to lift some good weight in past and my will power only.

I want some good advice to make this process easy. Some good Diet, Strength hacks.

Ps - I am vegetarian, 25 years old Male.

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I was losing weight fast up until I started exercising everyday

For the past 10 days I've been exercising every morning with 1 hour on my exercise bike and every other day doing weightlifting with my dumbbells this has given me a lot of benefits such as better mental clarity and just generally feeling better throughout the day. However this has also made me much hungrier and given me a larger appetite and I still eat within a calorie deficit but it's not as big as I was capable of for the first few months of weight loss. On the scale it's very discouraging as it's barely moving despite me feeling better and is starting to discourage me.

Should I quit exercising up until I reach my goal weight and then start exercising again or should I keep up with this and just accept the sad slower rate of weight loss.

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Monday, March 17, 2025

Measurable and non-measurable weight loss

I am a personal trainer / fitness coach and work with many clients on weight loss. I am very goal focused so work with them on measures such as weight loss, body fat%, visceral vs subcutaneous fat, etc.

I've got a very mathematical/ logical side. But one of my clients brought me back to earth. He's lost 10kg in last 3 months and reduced proportion of body fat. I demonstrate this week in week out which he's happy with. The other day he came into our session all smiles and it was because he'd said his wife had commented on how good he looked. That meant more than any of the stats I feed him week in week out.

It reminds me sometimes when people look to lose weight, they often ask me a target in number terms but it's not about the unmeasurable like my client.

Just wanted to say good luck to all those on here on their journey for weight loss. Best wishes

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Lost 37 lbs in 4 months.

Hello everyone! This is my first time posting to this sub but not my first weight loss journey.

Back in 2021 during the pandemic I was sitting at +250 lbs as a 5’5 male. Over the course of 1 year I was able to cut my weight down to 155 lbs. But life got the best of me and I steadily gained the weight back. As of NOV 2024 I was back up to 234 lbs, to look at myself and watch all the progress I made was devastating. This was when I decided to make a change and start my second journey to 155 lbs.

At first the idea of have to lose this weight again was weighing heavily on me and the first couple weeks I fell into the same mental games of not seeing instant results. But doing this before I knew to trust the process and the weight would take care of itself. Now after only 4 months I’m happy to report that I’m down from 234 lbs to 197 lbs, a 37 lbs weight loss. This is about my half way point to my final goal of 155 lbs, 42 lbs left in my journey.

In many ways this second journey has been easier and harder than the first time I lost weight. I came in with the knowledge on how to lose weight and how my body would react to diet and exercise. While also fighting the mental games my mind was playing on me when it came to my body image and doubts of being able to lose the weight again.

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Adderall & Topamax???

Hi all! I have been on 20 mg adderall XR for my ADD for about 3 years now and love it, no notes! But i have been prescribed 25 mg of Topamax for binge eating and weight loss. I haven’t started it yet because Im concerned about the potential side effect of brain fog. Has anyone whose on both of these think the adderall counteracts the potential brain fog?

I am aware of the other possible side effects but I am not as worried about those as I am the brain fog. The cognitive impairments are a huge concern already, but also being a college student i can’t afford to have these side effects. I was also told to take the topamax in the morning but have read that taking it at night can help curve these effects? Does anyone have any experience with this?

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Trouble losing weight

Hello, I'm a 5'5" female and I weigh about 70 kg (154 lbs). For context, I previously lost over 55 lbs, and now I'm really struggling to lose weight. I want to lose 15-20 kg (33-44 lbs). It feels like I'm in a weight loss plateau. I've tried everything: exercising, water fasting, very low-calorie intake, counting my calories, and more, but it feels like I just can't lose weight anymore.Its really frustrating and its really starting to affect me mentally.I just really need some advice from someone.Thanks for anyone replying also sorry for any grammer mistakes etc… english is not my first language.

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Sunday, March 16, 2025

Lost significant weight, can’t see myself differently

Hi there. I am 6ft tall female, turning 20 tomorrow. I was 188lbs January 1. Weighed myself today for the first time since then, and I was 169lbs . I will also say that I am very very muscular & do around 10-14hrs of cardio a week (triathalon).

I physically see NO difference at all. I had absolutely no idea I lost almost 20lbs, though I definitely was trying to eat more consciously and choose ‘smarter’ alternatives to food I regularly eat. My boyfriend (who also just saw me today for the first time since January) keeps telling me I look different, but I genuinely can’t see anything that has changed.

Is it like ‘bad’ to not be able to recognize weight loss? Should I be concerned about being dysmorphic? Have any of you guys experienced this? Thanks!

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Need advice or losing weight and calorie deficits

Hey I’m looking for advice on losing weight and calorie deficits since I’m brand new and have exactly no idea on where to start or begin I’m 18 200lbs and wanna get down to 140lbs also I’m 5’5 I was planning on doing a 1500 calorie deficit but no idea if that’s safe or good any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated thank you

Also advice on how long I should walk or jog for would also help a ton I’ve been told hitting 10,000 steps is good daily but still no idea on fitness stuff that I can do that’s good for weight loss

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Saturday, March 15, 2025

Recomp Advise

I am about 45lbs down from just a calorie deficit and lots of walking. I am 5lbs away from a healthy bmi, and about 25lbs away from my ultimate goal weight. I want to start incorporating strength training when I hit a healthy bmi, but am worried about it slowing my weight loss--if I keep on my current plan I should hit my goal mid-July and get to enjoy that success in the peak of summer! But I worry about looking skinny-fat. Looking for other people's experiences starting weight training while in a decicit and it's impact on their rate of weight loss/overall appearance.

(26/F/5'9")

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Trying to build muscle and lose fat and I have some questions.

Male, 24, 5'9

My highest weight was 263 lbs. Lost 80 lbs just by eating less, was sedentary for most of that weight loss. Started walking and jogging a few weeks ago. Right now I'm about 180 lbs.

I have a feeling that I've lost a considerable amount of muscle due to my weight loss, and my metabolism is probably quite lower now. Despite still eating at a deficit and going on walks and runs, I'm losing weight pretty slowly now, whereas the first 60 lbs practically melted off me while I sat on my ass and played Elden Ring (I walked at work and carried some things but it was mostly diet). I think my lowered metabolism is making me lose weight much slower. My understanding is that this is pretty common with weight loss. It's possible there's other factors I'm not aware of. I've had others explain to me that the last couple lbs of weight loss are the hardest because the body seems to desperately try to hold onto fat as a survival mechanism. I don't know how to overcome that, because I'm definitely still in a deficit considering how little I eat most days.

I'm 180 lbs and still have a decent amount of body fat. Based on my height and waist circumference, my body fat is somewhere between 24% and 27%. I'm still visibly fat around my midsection and little bit under my chin.

I'm considering hitting the gym to put on muscle, but I have some questions:

  1. Is it possible to lose fat and gain muscle if you lift while eating at a calorie deficit? (Let's include the calories burned from weightlifting itself into a deficit equation, so for example eating 2000 calories a day while burning 300 at the gym). Let's say I lift while eating 1500 a day, maybe 1700 or 1800 a day, or 2000 but burning 300 at the gym. Would you lose fat while gaining muscle? I've seen people say that if you're kinda fat and lift weights on a calorie deficit, you'll lose fat because your body is using its fat reserves to make up the difference. However, I've also seen people say that you can't put on muscle on a calorie deficit, and that you need to eat at a calorie surplus to put on muscle, because your muscles will consume themselves for energy on a calorie deficit.

  2. Does weightlifting substantially cause more hunger? If so, is this an issue of calories, or an issue of adequate protein? Let's say I lifted while eating 1500 to 1800 calories a day, would I be able to curb hunger just by eating enough protein? I lifted for a bit in high school and it made me so hungry that I ended up eating so much more and I got substantially fatter. However, that was during puberty so maybe I was just a hungry mfer generally and things would be different now as an adult. I also didn't bother to track my calories or portion sizes back then, but now I do.

  3. What's the ideal amount of protein, carbs, and dietary fat needed to build muscle, or to at least not get tired or slow during workouts? I know it's recommended to eat 1g of protein per lb of lean body mass (that would be about 137g for me), but is there a number for carbs and fat?

  4. Do you have to lift to absolute failure to build muscle? Or do you just have to lift until you're pretty sore, and that's enough to build muscle? Or is it just about going a bit heavier slowly over time?

  5. Will doing cardio (such as jogging) impede muscle growth? I've read something about running being catabolic and that it breaks down muscle, leading to muscle loss. What would the limit on my cardio need to be? Right now I walk for 3 to 4 hours a day (I'm currently underemployed lmao) while I jog for maybe 30 minutes every other day.

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Am I getting too obsessed?

So I need help(or rather reassurence I'm doing the right thing) my brother recently told me I'm getting too obsessed with weight loss since I always try to weigh &note down what I eat in the moment I got defensive and told him I have to since I had a visit with a dietician and a doctor(specialising in treatment of obesity & metabolic diseases) where my deficit and nutrition was adjusted and I want to stay in the deficit but idk his words kinda stuck and I'm doubting myself a little. I didn't cut out any food completely(like in the past when I ate only fruit and veg but he didn't have a problem then) but prefer to eat what was recommended to me.I'm not recording everything, everything(spices, garnish, gum etc) but I want to show my dietitian like 90-95% of what eat the good and the bad so that they can help me make better informed choices but idk maybe I am getting too obsessed with it. I'm doubting myself a little and need confirmation I'm not wrong.

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Friday, March 14, 2025

Anyone struggling like me? Or overcame struggles like mine?

Hi a long rant I been keeping my mouth shut but I need to vent somewhere I’m lost at what to do I’m obese I’m pre diabetic and have high triglycerides I want to lose weight I want to look and feel better only it’s a mind battle I’m a emotional eater stress eater binge eater bored eater all I do is eat and don’t stop until I feel sick but a few hours would pass that sick feeling would go away and I’ll go right back to eating I have probably eat around 4,000-4,500 calories a day

I try to follow a healthy diet I follow it for only 4 days then binge and I would eat a decent amount of calories I wouldn’t starve

I think I need to start weight loss medication in order to help me control my binge eating but my doctors don’t listen to me I feel they don’t really care about me. i often cry about my weight and think about it and food constantly I wish I can take the weight loss shots

Does anyone have the same issues as me? What have you done to help you lose weight?

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Not losing weight during menstrual cycle

So, I started my weight loss journey in late October/early November (Can’t remember the exact date) and I’ve lost around 23lbs so far. My weight loss is definitely starting to slow down and I’d like to speed it up, but I’ve noticed around the week before and the few days I’m on my period, weight loss completely stagnates and the scale doesn’t budge.

Just wondering do any other women struggle with this? I’m still in a deficit and I’m eating around 1200 (I know that’s quite low) to 1500 calories a day. It fluctuates because I’m just listening to my body and I’m hungrier some days and not so hungry others and my appetite has definitely shrunk quite a bit since I’ve been doing my deficit.

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Is walking good for weight loss?

I’m new to this sub and recently decided to try to lose a bit of weight to improve my physical and mental wellbeing.

I have a very sedentary lifestyle at the moment, and I’m unable to access the gym so I’m looking for some ways to get exercise for free. I’d really like to start incorporating light to moderate exercise into my daily routine.

I currently weigh just under 72kg (I’m 5’7 tall). My target weight is 65kg, so ideally I’d like to lose around 6–7kg altogether.

Has anyone managed to lose weight by walking alone? I’m aware that diet is more important for weight loss, and I’ve started making small changes in the kitchen e.g smaller portion sizes, eating less sugary and fatty foods/ processed foods.

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