Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Winter is killing me!!

Hey all,

Hope everyone is doing fine. I guess this is like a rant/I need a motivation boost post...

I started my weight loss journey at the beginning of May last year. Started at 370 lbs (6’2 Male) and I managed to make my way to 118 lbs lost as of last week’s weigh in.

That being said, I could definitely have way more progress but I believe in indulging at least once a week. This winter though, has been absolutely brutal. The kiddo switched daycares so the whole family has gotten sick multiple times (including myself). I’ve been feeling the seasonal blues and all that makes me want to do is eat.. I haven’t gained any weight back so that’s a small victory and I’ve been losing just extremely small and slow...

I’m just finding it hard to stay focused... mainly on the diet (I do CICO, eat at a deficit and IF).

Anyways, I guess it feels good to type this out... I’ve been up since 3am because I broke my IF (I don’t usually eat dinner anymore) and I have a hard time sleeping now especially after eating pizza for an unnecessary dinner...

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 06 March 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Thank you for the inspiration to get started

M 25 SW-301lb CW-292lb GW-195lb

Ive always been fat. Since I was a child I was the fat one. I was always active, loved sports and weight lifting told myself i was never THAT fat. I moved in with my girlfriend and we now keep scales in the bathroom so I've been watching my weight (not really doing a great deal about it though).

This week just past I crept over the 300lb mark and that really hit home with me. Silly as it sounds, I recalled the episode of the Simpsons where homer deliberately increases his weight to 300lbs so he can be classed as disabled and work from home. I decided something needs to be done.

I used to be a regular gym goes and have a fair amount of muscle mass but masked with too much fat and so I immediately signed back up to the gym. I was looking for workout routines and weight loss advice when I came across this subreddit. I saw posts of people and their journeys, their incredible transformation and the honesty and support from everyone that it's not easy but worth it.

I was about to post to ask for a way to get started and lo and behold I found the daily post to get me started. I calculated my TDEE (3000ish) and I was already logged in to MFP which said my daily target was around 1900 but I set myself a target of 1500 instead. One of my biggest failures in the past was "treating" myself for working out. One thing I saw here that really struck home with me is that you can't outrun your fork.

I decided that I would plan all meals including lunch and snacks so that I knew how many calories I was going to eat that day. I've done two sessions at the gym and km working on drinking a lot more water as before i lived on coffee and fizzy drinks. I don't like to weigh all the time since I know water weight can fluctuate vastly from day to day however out of mild curiosity I weighed yesterday (4 days in) and found that I had lost 9lbs. Only 97 more to go 😅.

In summary I'd like to thank everyone who posts to this sub and all the advice and success stories I see. If I find myself feeling like snacking I look through here instead and it gives me the motivation to not do it. I have a belief about losing this weight that I have never had before and that is down to everyone here.

Wish me luck 😀

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Tuesday, March 5, 2019

If you're grappling with guilt over secret or binge eating, you're not alone.

I figured I would post this, a shameful little thing I decided to share rather than keep to myself just in case it helps someone else that has done something similar recently and is struggling with it.

My husband and I ate out this afternoon at our favorite Mexican place that we haven't been to in a while. We knew we could budget our calories for it since we missed breakfast. That in itself wasn't too bad beyond skewing my macros, meaning I would need to make something low calorie, but nutritious for dinner. I figured vegetable soup would do the trick. Not perfect, but it would balance out the heaviness of our lunch and leave room for a lighter snack as well.

My mistake came in refusing to eat a snack when my stomach was most definitely declaring hunger that I couldn't easily ignore. I was being greedy (and obsessive) and wanted to have a slightly bigger deficit tonight like I had last night. I thought I would be okay. I was ravenous when I finally broke, nine hours later. My vegetables refused to cook through and I knew dinner would be later then expected and probably wouldn't be done until midnight.

So I had a granola bar (190 cal), but then I kept going. I had an egg (70 cal), then the other granola bar I was saving for tomorrow (190) and three pieces of cheese (240 cal). For those of you that don't feel like doing the math, I managed to eat 690 calories in less than five minutes. I knew as I was reaching for that stinking cheese that I needed to stop. I knew I needed to step away from that open refrigerator door, read a book, do ANYTHING to distract myself somehow and break the fixation. But I couldn't.

Some people will probably disagree, but in that moment I. Could. Not. Stop. In my head I was getting upset and ashamed of myself. When I did manage to stop I wanted to cry because I've been doing SO GOOD. The water weight I've been retaining from starting strength exercises is finally starting to come off, I woke up today almost five pounds lighter. I haven't even went over my calorie goal, which I have set up for a 2lb/week loss in a couple of weeks. While some days have been a battle with hunger I've been determined and focused, doing what needs to be done knowing that my hard work will show up on the scale one pound at a time. And yet tonight I proved that I still have the self control of a toddler.

Since I'm being totally honest I would be remiss to not admit that I considered briefly to run to the bathroom and throw up all of those calories I had consumed. I wanted to fix my mistake, but I didn't. How messed up that mentality is, is not lost on me. I am very much aware that my relationship with food should probably be addressed by someone with a fancy title after their name and a comfy couch.

I know I need to forgive myself. I know I also need to not push myself so hard. I'm doing too much, too fast and obsessing over every single calorie. Dieting shouldn't be absolutely miserable. If it is, you're probably doing it wrong. Massive weight loss is a long journey. A marathon, not a sprint. I didn't get to 330 pounds in a year and I shouldnt try taking all that weight off in a year either.

I'm trying to focus on the positive in this. Before I would have kept going, went and got a bunch of candy or bought some fast food too. Fried something that doesn't even make sense to fry just to eat it. To consume everything I could find until I felt sick. I didn't do that tonight. It took a few minutes, but I stopped. I don't even think I went over my calorie goal, though I'm so close it's hard to say for sure considering the only real meal I've had came from a restaurant.

Either way, today is just a bump in the road. Tomorrow will be better.

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When I bloat a LOT I get depressed that even though I'm dieting I look big and I end up insanely cheating on my diet ;-;

Ok for the past two weeks I've been on loseit and have been consistently hitting the weekly goals and I'm on the "lose 1 pound a week" track. I started at 125 pounds and I'm still at 125 pounds and it's been two weeks and I'm just like wtf why. Even worse, I look pregnant all the time because I'm so bloated for some reason (even though I generally eat healthy, check sidenote if you want to speculate.) So after getting fed because on the fact that I look super bloated no matter what I do and getting pissed off after getting on the scale and not seeing a change in weight at all (sometimes going up like .3 from the last day) I lose faith in eating healthy and keeping my diet because it's 1) it's not giving me the promised weight loss and 2) not making any differences in bloating. I get so fucking defeated and I just go screw it "if trying doesn't change a thing how about I not try" Then, I go insane to the nearest fast food place with the greasiest food imaginable and go crazy, usually eating at least about 700 calories in a meal (this time I ate 1000 calories for dinner).

I feel great after eating all of that because I'm like screw getting healthy I'm just going to be fat and gain and gain and gain. But then I sit down and I'm like shit this isn't how I want to live my entire life. I want to give myself the body I deserve and live a long life but it's not working??? so why bother??? Does anyone have any insight on why I bloat soooo insanely much and why I am really not seeing any progress. (I know I said 2 weeks but it's 2 weeks of highkey tracking EVERYTHING TO THE DOT. I've been trying to cut down and diet and mindfully eat for like 3 months and seen no change either.)

Sidenote of my diet if y'all want to speculate on why I bloat like I'm giving birth:

Breakfast: Whole Wheat Bread (1 slice) + Peanut Butter (1 spoon) => 218 calories

Morning Snack: like 15 sweet potato crackers (144 calories)

Lunch: Rice and assorted vegetable curry (400 calories)

Evening Snack: Sesame Snack and an apple (60 + 95 calories = 155 calories)

Dinner: Rice and assorted vegetable curry + yogurt (usually eat a little more) 550 calories

Total Cals Eating: 1467

Gym: 300-ish calories a day on average (some days I don't go and some days I burn 600)

Total Cals After Exercise: 1167.

Sidenote:

I drink a lot of water at night and next to none in the morning and most of the day.

Also, I scale myself everyday after I come from school (around 5:00 which is after my evening snack)

Sidenote: Here is a picture of my bloated self at my worst

https://imgur.com/a/Iyzq4BH

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Have lost 20 pounds this past month, but see no difference.

hello! i’m a 23 year old female and i started my weight loss exactly 1 month ago today. i started at 251 and today am at 231. Yet, i have seen not change in my body besides the scale. Its really upsetting because when i’ve lost before i saw results relatively quickly (but i was less heavy than now) but i still feel like 20 is a significant enough amount to see a change. Also seeing so many people posting 5 to 10 pound losses and being able to clearly see a change in their appearance is discouraging to me. I know everyone’s different but I can’t help but wonder why. Even putting clothes on doesn’t feel any different. i know once i see change it will really motivate me to keep going, but it’s not looking like it’s gonna happen anytime soon. basically i’m wondering, is this normal? how much longer until you think i could see change? i’ve been using IF and going to the gym usually every other day. I am not really knowledgeable about weight loss and don’t know what to expect. So any thoughts are helpful!

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 06 March 2019

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