Wednesday, May 5, 2021

Why am I hitting a plateau/advice on how to push past it?

(Let me start this by saying that I know for a fact that I am technically eating too few calories, but I am doing it for a specific reason. I need to get a surgery (not weight loss surgery, but it’s a surgery to get rid of something that is causing me a lot of physical pain) and they won’t do it until my BMI is a bit lower. Once I’ve gotten the surgery, I will up my calories a bit and I’ll be able to be a lot more active.)

I started at about 91 kgs about a month ago, and a week or so ago, I hit a plateau around 86/87 kgs, and I can’t seem to push past it, and I don’t know what’s causing it. I don’t eat a lot of sodium, I count everything I put into my body, including drinks. I’m eating about 1000-1100 calories a day (again, doing it for a specific reason, and won’t be doing it forever. I am 5’3 at 21 years old, and quite sedentary bc of the pain, so I wouldn’t say it’s /extreme/.)

Any advice?

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New binge eating habits

I was on a weight loss journey and had good control over my daily food intake. I moved to a different place for a few weeks and got started seeing someone. I began to skip meals as I wanted to lose weight faster and exercised more and I felt great. Until last week when we broke things off and I moved back home to visit parents. I have gained 3kg within a week and have lost complete control over eating. I haven’t ate so uncontrollably in almost a year. Foods I wouldn’t think of touching before are now being shoved down myself quickly. I can sometimes manage to stop but hours later I give in again. I have never experienced such little self control and it seems like I don’t even feel that I’m full now. I am eating an absurd amount of food everyday and I go from being acceptable of it to being grossed out at myself in minutes. I don’t know what is happening and would appreciate if anyone has any suggestions as to how to stop it. I am going to the gym regularily but instead of eating more healthier and less, I feel justified to eat more. I don’t know how to stop this :(

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Weight loss to loose skin analytics

Hey everyone. I'm currently on my weight loss journey (very early). Been working out a ton, but with no focus on my diet whatsoever. I'm afraid that I'll have loose skin when I reach my target weights loss goal (30 lbs lighter). I've seen some posts where people talk about loose skin w/ general data on when people see it, but I wanted to start a thread that incorporated more detailed body composition stats. Outside of genetics and a few factors, this would help me and other readers get an estimate of when to expect loose skin.

As mentioned, I'm aiming to lose 30 lbs and am worried about having loose skin. I put my "specs" below, and how some of y'all can share yours, along with whether or not you have loose skin from your weight loss. If so, at what weight loss point did you notice it?

Gender: Male
Age: late 20s
Height: 5'8"
Current Weight: 200 lbs
Target Weight: 170 lbs
Details: I started at 170 lbs in 2012 but gradually gained weight over the 9 years and now am 200. Curious to know if the 9 years of gradual gain will have an effect on my skins elasticity

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Coca-Cola/Pepsi Zero question

So I know that these drinks are by no means healthy and that artificial sweeteners are not good for your body, but for pure weight loss - Does it have the same effect as drinking water? Coke is sweetened with aspartame which has been shown to have no effect on our blood sugar and a 0 glycemic index.

I found some articles, but they vary a lot. Some show studies that say that it has the same effect n body loss as drinking a normal coke and some say that it's really beneficial for weight loss and that some people are even fasting while drinking diet coke.

I probably wouldn't be fasting with it, but I started counting calories today and this one really interests me.

Thanks for any help!

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Tuesday, May 4, 2021

Recently diagnosed with bipolar 2, rapid cycling. Really struggling with consistency due to my frequent mood/energy swings. Advice?

I’ve lost nearly 35 lbs since December of 2019. I am so proud of the fact that I have been able to consistently, albeit slowly, lose weight without gaining any of it back. I KNOW how to lose weight and I KNOW how to be consistent. But my bipolar has made it so incredibly difficult to keep going.

My biggest problem is when I’m hypomanic, I have so much motivation, energy, clarity, positivity, and ideas that I feel like I can start going to the gym 5-7 days a week for the rest of my life, cook almost all of my meals, sometimes work out multiple times a day, encourage my friends who are also pursuing weight loss, etc. My best effort lasted a couple of months.

Inevitably I crash. Most times, my depressive episodes have no trigger. Some do, but most don’t. When I crash, I have no energy for the gym. I have no energy to cook or even clean my house. I can hardly work, but I’m self employed so thankfully I’m able to take time off any time I need. I tend to eat a lot of fast food because I can’t handle cooking and cleaning. I’ve improved to eating things like salad, grilled items, or even not minding junk food and just logging my food and staying in a mild deficit-maintenance. This can last for days or even months at its worst, but typically I’m back to hypomania in a couple of weeks.

I’m thankful to understand WHY I’m like this now, as I was just diagnosed last week, but this has been a lifelong struggle. I’m so tired of it. The thought of “it’s not my inability to get my shit together, it’s my mental illness” is just as daunting as it is comforting. On the one hand, I’m not a lazy POS. On the other, this will be a lifelong struggle that I have no control over, even with medication because it’s not perfect. While I can manage my bipolar, I can’t make it go away.

Anyway, back to weight loss. I’ve been trying hard not to beat myself up because I’ve been in a depressive episode again, and getting out of it is so hard. I really want to be to my goal by my 25th birthday this summer. It’s 20 pounds away. I was on track this year to be WAY early, so it wasn’t even pressure at all. I’m over halfway there, but now because of depressive episodes I’m cutting it closer and closer. I feel almost incapable of meeting my goal because I have no idea when my depressive episodes will make my weight loss come to a screeching halt. I do manage to maintain during my episodes which I am SO proud of. That never used to be the case.

I feel pathetic and weak watching my friends and other people on this sub be able to have consistent weight loss without the CONSTANT stop/start/stop/start that’s really slowing me down. I know any progress is progress. I know that maintenance is progress. I know a downward trend is great, I should be proud that I haven’t given up, and that time is irrelevant. But I’m only 24 years old, and I’m angry that I feel like I have the endurance of someone who doesn’t really want to try. I am extremely goal oriented and driven. To feel like I can’t stick to my goals consistently is devastating.

Can anyone relate at all? Do I just need to accept that this is my life and be thankful I’m still losing at all? I could really use some pointers. Thank you 🖤

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 05 May 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Should I tell my girlfriend about my weight loss?

Between January 2019 and June 2020 I went from being 300lbs to 170lbs and I have been very public about this journey online because I wanted to be proud of myself. At the start of 2021 I cut back on the weight loss posts because I didn't want to identify myself as just that but I have kept all the old ones.

Between December 2020 and now I gave gotten info a serious and intimate relationship. My girlfriend knows about my weight loss because of my online posts and I've vaguely talked about it but we've never sat down and talked about it formally. She doesn't seem to care at all about weight, appearance, etc and genuinely loves me for who I am.

Anyway I've been thinking a lot recently about getting back into weight loss (I've gone up to 200lbs) and part of me wants to share all of this formally and honestly with my girlfriend so that she can support me. I have a hard time saying no to cravings (fast food, snacks, etc) and having her on board with my goals to keep me focussed could help a lot. As cliche as it sounds I'm worried that she might be put off by all of these things.

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