I'm a 35(f), and over the past 2 years I've gone from almost 300 pounds to about 135-140. I am so beyond thrilled with my physical results from the weight loss, but I was expecting more of my life to change and be different... unfortunately, it's really not. I initially wanted to lose weight to feel better and get healthier, but then I noticed that people, especially men, started taking more of an interest in me as I lost weight. I thought "wow! What a great side effect! I might be able to find a boyfriend now!" SO WRONG. I have had MORE trouble finding a significant other than I ever did when I was almost 300 pounds. I don't know what the problem is, because I initially thought it was the weight. I had even dated guys who told me if I lost 20-30 pounds they would consider dating me, back when I was heavier. Now... now I can't even find someone to go on a date with. The handful of dates I have been on have even told me that I look better in real life than in pictures, so I'm really not sure what the issue is. I'm not ugly, by any means, but I'm not a Disney princess either. I'm getting so frustrated, I'm about to say eff it and go back to being fat, miserable, but at least not alone.
Has losing weight not been what you thought it would be? Did you find it easier or harder to find a significant other after losing weight?
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