Monday, June 7, 2021

Maintenance Monday: June 07, 2021

If you've reached your goal weight and you're looking for a space to discuss with fellow maintainers, this is the thread for you! Whether you're brand new to maintenance or you've been doing it for years, you're welcome to use this space to chat about anything and everything related to the experience of maintaining your weight loss.

Hey everyone, here's your weekly discussion thread! Tell us how maintenance and life in general is going for you this week! And if you missed last week's (or simply want to reread), here's a link.

If there's a specific topic you'd like to see covered in a future thread, please drop a comment or message!

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Sunday, June 6, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 07 June 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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The pride and shame of weight loss

I'm at the point of my journey where my weight loss is becoming noticeable (even to myself, thank goodness!!). I'm getting a lot of comments, mostly positive, on how I look, what I've been doing and how much weight I've lost and I sometimes I find it really awkward to answer.

On one hand, I'm really proud of what I have achieved but on the other, I find it embarrassing that people noticed how big I was before and even somewhat shameful to talk about how much weight I have lost and how much more I need to lose. Even with my close friends and family I under value how much weight I want to lose when they ask (eg: I tell them I want to lose approx 30kg total when really I want around 40 - 45kg total).

It's totally all in my head and I'm usually a very open person but for some reason I feel like I can't be truthful about my progress and goals. Can anyone else relate and have any tips on how to feel more confident about this topic?

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Finding it EXTREMELY difficult to manage my food intake.

TLDR (Although I appreciate it if you read it a lot of details):

  1. Finding it hard to get back to my clean eating, drinking 3-5 liters of water a day, and consistent exercising.
  2. Replaced clean meals and water, coffee and tea exclusively with calorie dense snacks and meals with load of empty calories and diet sodas.
  3. Weight loss plateaued and seeking guidance on how to overcome it.
  4. Began to rationalize this diet because my weight is stable and bargaining with myself that "this is the last one, I will be back to my routine tomorrow".

I have been on a weight loss journey from December 2020 to the present. From December to April I was really dedicated to my diet and exercise and have gone from a starting weight of 297lbs to 243lbs. Everything was going well I was mentally strong but in April due to reasons I'd like to not disclose (I do not think it is relevant) I had to change my food both in intake and kinds of foods. I went from eating lean chicken breast, brown rice with quinoa, and an assortment of vegetables once a day (meal was really big so I ate it in portions) to basically unhealthy foods again. I was also plateauing with my weight loss so I didn't think it would be that big of a deal if I did not eat healthy for two weeks or so and would get back at it after the two weeks. Well those two weeks turned to six and I am finding it extremely hard to get back to the old ways of strict control. During my dieting period I did have unhealthy snacks and stuff and calorie dense foods with empty calories in my house but would find it easy to not eat it. I think those two weeks have rewired my brain and my food addiction has come back. I find myself rationalizing eating unhealthy foods in large amounts because I am not gaining weight (due to CICO). My motivation to exercise has also diminished. Back then I would feel bad if I missed one day of running due to the weather or life reasons, but now I rationalize it off saying "at least I am not gaining weight". I am concerned that I am finding it this hard to get back to a lifestyle that was so easy for me for almost half a year and it's all gone to waste within a two week period. Has anyone experienced something similar? How did you overcome it? Also if you ever overcame a plateau, how did you do it? Please note getting rid of all of the calorie dense foods in my house is not an option as I live with other people so will power is my only option. I would also like to note that back then I used to drink 3-5 liters of water a day and not drinking enough would be a cause of concern for me (no soda even diet or zero, but coffee/tea with 20-30 calories of creamer w/ sugar substitute), now my water intake has dropped let's say two liters on a "good" day and diet ginger ale and sprite are my new drink of choice. I realize I am giving the solutions to my problems in the questions but it's the habit forming part I am not able to do well. I am certain that since it took me two weeks to fall of, two weeks of strong will can restore my willpower (or at least I hope).

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I am done trying to starve myself to lose weight.

I grew up pretty average but gained some weight in high-school. Just as university started I got really thin from an eating disorder. Then I met my husband who helped me emotionally and I was able to put on healthy weight and overcome that part of my past. For a while I maintained a healthy weight and even started to lift weights and get fit! I felt amazing!

Now, I know a lot of people talk about the "Freshman 15" but I didn't gain any weight as a freshman, instead I gained everything right after I graduated. I put on about 20 pounds super quickly. I know that doesn't sound like tons but I'm a short woman with a small frame and not much muscle, so it bumped me from being healthy to nearing overweight.

I'll admit, I had no idea how to lose weight except for restrict my calories to an extreme amount. That's all I had ever done before. So one year ago I started restricting my calories to 1,200 a day. As a result, for the past year I have been in a horrible cycle of eating 1,200 calories for 2-3 days and then binging 2,500+ calories and repeating. I'm really active and that's never been an issue for me, so 1,200 calories felt like torture, and all the weight loss issues lay in my diet. All that has happened is I've put on more and more weight and that would make me feel even more restrictive and continue the cycle.

I remember all the way back in August telling my husband how frustrated I was by all of this and he helped me calculate my calories on an app and tried to help me to just stick with that number. But events would loom on the horizon and I wanted to be thin for them. I constantly made those events my deadlines and I would go back to 1,200 calories/day to "lose the weight faster."

Let me emphasize something, trying to lose weight quickly is SPECIFICALLY why it has taken me so LONG to lose the weight. If I had actually stuck with the higher number my husband helped me calculate I would have reached my goal all the way back in November!! That's 7 months ago! I could have even eaten more than that number and already hit my goal. Instead I have just been roughly maintaining/lightly gaining because of all of the binging.

It's time for me to just have some patience! I know the number I need to eat to lose slowly and steadily and I need to just stick to it. I can't keep chasing fast weight loss for whatever event is coming up in 4 weeks. 😌
I'm sorry if this post is the most obvious conclusion ever, it's just a really big realization for me that hurrying has made the journey slower.

Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.

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Formerly obese people of reddit, what are some things about weight loss that you enjoy or didn't expect to enjoy?

As the title suggests, I'm currently obese and trying to lose weight. My therapist suggested that I don't focus on the numbers but instead on other aspects of weight loss. I've always been overweight so it's hard for me to visualize things and put them into perspective. Pretty much everyone I deal with in my family is also overweight/obese/has unhealthy lifestyles, so I don't have anyone else to ask these things. Some of the "goals" I've come up with so far are going down on my shirt and pants sizes, eventually getting a breast reduction, getting physically and mentally stronger, feeling more confident, etc. I'd appreciate any comments, replies, advice if allowed. Thanks!

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NSV: Mental health, vacations, and acceptance

Thought maybe this would help someone as this sub has really helped shape my mentality around weight loss.

I had my first ever vaccinated weekend away -- an old friend's wedding up in the mountains. I panicked for weeks trying to queue my workouts to use their gym, worried myself over what food to bring to stay in my deficit knowing I have been fearful of french fries, finger foods, and 'vacation' food for months. I track religiously. I have one cheat meal every Saturday. I lift weights/do hiit 6x a week and walk nearly 5 miles daily. I finally hit 156.0 on the dot on the scale three hours before we left for the trip. I was horrified to think I could "screw this up".

I never hit the gym. Instead I went on a very long hike, all the way to the top of a ski slope mountain. I spent my Saturday morning marveling at how steep inclines were no longer tough on me. I indulged in french fries, burgers, chocolate, and coffee. I swam. I relaxed. I got to reconnect with people I hadn't seen in over a decade. I saw my very first best friend get married and we danced and drank for hours.

In the back of my head was a battle: worrying myself about my progress, and then, realizing that an outlier in my journey wasn't going to suddenly ruin everything.

I just got home today and I'm exhausted but in the best way. I've gained something like 8lbs of water weight, probably even some fat, and that's okay! Monday is a new day where I start to weight lift again, where I cook heavy protein meals again, where I chase the goal to be healthier and be proud that my body can bounce back even after a weekend where I over-indulged.

It feels... strange, to not mourn my 'progress' -- because there is nothing to mourn. Progress isn't linear. Memories were better than worrying myself sick over the finite calorie counts of a chicken breast or the weight of cheese on a bacon burger. I can get to 156.0 again, and I plan on eventually hitting that goal of 140. :)

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