Monday, July 5, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 06 July 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Three weeks without ubereats!

So I figured out I am incredibly influenced by what is around me, and so while spending the summer in the country I wanted to live like I did when I was previously living in the country and at my slimmest.

I haven't checked the scale but I can already see the weight loss. The bloating is minimal even with my period.

I'm not eating out of boredom all day (don't ask about around 8pm but still haha). I don't feel lethargic. I'm bored, as there's fuck all to do out here, and taking many walks (/unwilling jogs becuase of the fucking deerflies). If I miss a meal I simply miss a meal, I don't actually feel like dying if I notice I skipped breakfast/lunch.

I think a big part of this is not being surrounded by people/things that stress me out, either. My last meth-addicted, aggressive roommate lived off constant McDonald's and ate all my food so I felt such a weird pressure to consume everything I bought (even sodas as treats) that I became used to eating in excess. I exercised more than I ever did to keep the weight down, sure, but I still went up 30lbs since it's pretty hard to fight off constant fast food as your main diet.

Also, without the takeout options (beyond pizza), my appetite has gotten smaller and my tastes have significantly changed. I do not want a cheeseburger anymore, I want the chicken burger. I don't want fries, I genuinely want a greek salad. I want the vegetarian pizza. I need more leafy vegetables in this sandwich. Etc. It's so nice not feeling like I'm giving something up anymore and actually wanting the healthy substitutes, being back to my old self.

(Also, the water where I am staying is amazing. Tasty filtered water is such a game changer when trying to carve out soda, haha.)

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Weight loss causing salty spouse?

Is anybody else experiencing resistance/hostility/saltiness from their spouse, partner, or family?

In January, my wife declared that 'we' need to lose weight. She's short and round with a BMI of 30. I was tall(ish) and chonky with a BMI of 40. I took weight loss seriously, and now I'm down 88 pounds [BMI 28]. She's maybe lost 5 pounds.

I knew from the start that she didn't have the integrity or discipline to lose weight, but did my best to lead by example. I was careful to offer zero criticism, bossiness, judgement, or disappointment -- even when I'm sweating away exercising while she sits in front of the TV shoveling junk food into her face.
I'm there to support her if/when she's truly ready. Even though I try to not be an inconvenience when it comes to shopping, cooking and eating, she does a good job of accommodating my needs (which is mostly "please buy and cook more vegetables").

But starting a couple months ago, she got really pissy about my weight loss progress. She challenges me on what my goal weight should be, insinuates how sickly and ridiculous I will look when I reach a healthy BMI, and how preposterous it would be for me to wear 'size M' clothing. She's mocking that losing all this weight will reduce my lifespan if/when I end in a hospital bed and needed those 'fat reserves' to survive. She's doing her best to intimidate me to stop without [yet] coming out and issuing an outright ultimatum.

FWIW my final goal is probably in the 185-190 range which puts me at BMI 25; the low end of "overweight" but close enough to normal. I'm doing this because my dad died of preventable obesity-related issues in his 60's, and I'd prefer to try enjoy life for a decade or two beyond that. Ideally alongside a supportive spouse.

I don't need solutions; there isn't any. But misery loves company; anybody else in the same boat? ;)

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Started trying to lose weight around 3 weeks ago here is my progress!

First of all sorry for the random post , I just didn't know who to share too!

Either way I'm 15 , 5,9 and started at a weight of 170-171 (gained around 34 pounds since start of Virtual school/quarantine) and I went to other subreddits for advice (I found this one today) and it really helped me start working out. I tried checking my weight before but my scale seemed broken since sometimes it would say I was 178, and other times 156. Either way after around 3 weeks of working out I got a new scale today and was scared to check my Weight, Once I did it said 165! Which I was really happy about since my effort was getting paid off! I'm going to keep going with my weight loss journey and I'm trying to get to 140 before December ! Wish me luck guys and hopefully you guys are doing well too!

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Back for round 2, whos coming with me!

Quick back story is that i started losing weight in 2019 and successfully lost approximately 80lbs within a year. From there i maintained, until today. I have learned many good habbits along the way and would love to share. Just ask!

The way i did it was through now long term fasting of fad diet... simply a calory deficit and time. Basic math haha

Now i am ready to lose my final 25lbs because of a diagnosis of a fatty liver and some research showing a 10percent reduction in body weight should help quite a bit.

I will be doing a yt channle yo long the next 16 weeks of my weight loss push and i will be using that time to sprinkle some personal knowledge, tips, and tricks throughout that time

I am not trying to gain a fallowing or make money, so dont check out my channle if you dont want. But, this is the link to my opening video if you are interested, feel free to stop by and say hi. https://youtu.be/36-LSuwVMcA

Reddit is the easiest way to get ahold of me because i dont really like any other types of social media. So if you have questions comment below.

Either way. Thanks for reading

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Do you ever feel guilty or not worthy of receiving praise for your weight loss?

This post is going to be a little random but I wanted to get my thoughts out somewhere.

I'm 30, and I've lost around 97lbs/44kg (SW: 359lb/163kg) since December 2019. I've always been overweight, but it was in my 20's where I really gained a lot. I was struggling really bad with depression and anxiety (I am mostly struggling with anxiety these days..) and I just... hated myself. I was too overweight to even stand up for long periods and too anxious and self-conscious to throw myself into new situations: employment for example. I still haven't had a proper job and I'll be 31 this year. I mostly stayed at home in my 20's, doing the same tireless thing every day. Eating whatever I wanted and not caring what went into my body. I absolutely hated myself. I didn't care what happened to me and I wasn't even "living".. I was just existing. Before I knew it, I was 30 and had gained over 40kg in my 20's.

Where am I going with my post you might ask? I had a really depressing thought a few days ago. One of my family members told me how proud they are of me for my weight loss and that I'm an inspiration. My instant thought was: Why? I let myself get to this weight. I don't feel like it's something that I deserve praise for. I don't know if it's just my negative thoughts creeping back up, but does anyone feel similar?

I know I worked really hard to lose weight, but I don't feel like I deserve any kind of praise for it simply because I let myself get this way. I get really embarrassed if someone gives me a compliment. I've seen various similar threads about how people's attitudes change towards you as you lose weight. That is another thing that has gotten me down. I've never received so many positive words in my life but yet, I feel like this...

To end on a positive note! I started going to the gym this week. I had previously tried going to the gym maybe 3 or 4 years ago before I started losing weight. I couldn't leave the gym without nearly crying in pain. I would hurt for days!! I couldn't even walk 10 minutes on the treadmill. I got discouraged and didn't even bother going back... That is, until this week!! I absolutely surprised myself. I walked for almost an hour on the treadmill, biked, and even did some arm exercises. I felt like crying after I finished my first session because it made me realise just how far I have come in the past year and a half.

After writing this I want to say to everyone on this sub: Please be kind to yourself. You are worthy of all of the love and praise that you receive. Never underestimate yourself and what you are capable of!

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Struggling with carbs

Hi fellow losers, The good news is I've lost 15 lbs over the past 13 weeks through IF, CICO, and walking. Besides the weight loss, fasting has been great for my neuropathy and arthritis But I've been slipping from my routine for the past 3 weeks: breaking my fat with midnight snacks, not tracking my food, and indulging in excess carbs. Today,, I really blew it. I was cooking up rice. I sat in the kitchen and inhaled the burnt rice stuck to bottom of the pot, probably 3-4 bowls full. I've felt bloated and lethargic all day. But worst of all, my feet are on fire: itchy, tingly, permanent pins and needles. I can literally feel the nerve damage caused by my insulin resistance and high blood glucose level. If I can't get my food in order, in 20 years my feet are going to be gangrenous stumps. It's a hideous thought.
I know what I need to do: drink lots of water and tea in the morning, stay busy throughout the day, eat a sensible meal and snack during my window, and track everything down.
Anyone else struggling?

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