Tuesday, September 7, 2021

Loving myself to healthy vs. hating myself to healthy

24F, 5’9”, SW: 245 CW: 235.6, GW: 160-170

I’ve been around the weight loss circle many many times over the last 6 years. I went from being a slim high school athlete to gaining a lot of weight through college/covid/office life/family tragedy the last few years. Each time I lose weight I inevitably gain it back, and usually gain even more than my previous starting weight

I’m fucking sick of the cycle. I want to live the second half of my 20’s happier, healthier, and sexier than the first. I feel like I’m finally ready to work on slow, lifelong changes rather than quick unsustainable sprints to lose 30 lbs in 3 month before “relapsing” back to even worse habits than before. I don’t want to blink my eyes and realize I’m 70 and I spent my whole life hating myself and my weight

And that’s what kind of clicked for me - in the past I’ve always hated myself through weight loss. Told myself I was ugly and fat. Punished myself for overeating. Calorie counted each single calorie and feared seasoning with salt due to sodium (seriously, what the fuck?) Each time I lost weight so I thought that approach worked but in hindsight it obviously did not - 6 years later I’m starting bigger than ever before

So this time around I am working on loving myself. Taking care of myself and being kind with myself. Eating healthy nutritious meals that I could see myself making forever, not just making low calorie strange things that I would never serve a guest. Keeping a calorie deficit but making sure I’m not hungry all day. Focusing on moving my body in ways I love such as hiking and walking for now. Buying myself some workout clothes that fit and feel good on my current body rather than squeezing myself into stuff that doesn’t fit. Focusing on positive healthy change but still honoring the person I am now.

It’s a struggle to choose to love yourself every day and it’s something I’m still working on. But I realized that I am the only person who will be there from the day I was born til the day I die. And I might as well try to be her friend :)

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How to lose weight while dealing with a stressful person in your house?

I have weight loss issues, I don't know if it's a disorder or what but it is an issue. I have a mother who stresses me out a lot and almost daily, constantly talking negatively about others and I hate hearing about it. It makes me uncomfortable and it ruins my day. She also talks about weight constantly, her weight, dad's, the girl on tv, like the girl she calls fat on tv is thin. even if she gained 10 pounds that person is still considered thin ya know?

How do you deal with a person like this while on your weight loss journey? I have tried telling her to stop but it won't. i can't move out either.

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!

The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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Monday, September 6, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 07 September 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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NSV - i ran my first ever 5K since starting my weight loss journey last year!

today i dragged myself out of bed and ran 5K (without walking at all) for the first time ever!!!!!!! i did it in about 38 mins with an average pace of 7:40. this is considered slow i believe, but this is miles ahead from when i started running.

my first run ever (which was about a year ago) had a pace with two minutes more (around 9:30) than the one i did today. impressed at all the way ive come!

the scale hasn’t been moving much for me these days because of the many cheat days ive been having (still 30 pounds lighter than last year but struggling to lose the 10lbs to exit the obesity bmi). however, it’s nice to see that i’m making progress nonetheless!

i have been running on and off for the past year, without a training goal in mind. though, ive been doing hiit a lot! (i find it very hard but satisfying and time effective! i love jumping around) it really helped me build my cardio up for the past few months. i mainly did the 500 calories burn video from Chloe Ting and Calorie Killer HIIT from a-fit. i would do one daily for five days, rest for two days and move to the other video for five days. after two weeks, i’d go back to more moderate exercise for the last two weeks of the month and start again the following month!

i moved to hiit workouts from the fitness plus app since getting an apple watch and those have been very effective as well.

now im ready to work on my speed and eventually run a 10K! good luck to everyone and keep on working hard on your journeys!

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“Refeed days,” plateaus, and the mysterious science of weight loss

This week, something odd happened to me that has happened to me once before and that I’ve seen happen to others on this sub as well.

I spent a weekend on vacation eating whatever I wanted, and when I got back, I had lost two pounds.

We all know that moderate, healthy calorie counting does not disrupt one’s metabolism. In other words, we know that weight loss plateaus are probably not the result of increased metabolic efficiency, aka what some have dubbed “entering starvation mode.” So if that’s not what happens when people seem to break plateaus via controlled pig-out…wtf is happening?

The only theory I’ve seen put forward is that a refeed day jostles your metabolism out of its new routine and briefly increases its speed. But doesn’t that idea lean on “starvation mode” rhetoric? What gives? Considering the speed of the weight loss people notice in these scenarios, it seems likely that it’s water weight, but why would a brief period of overeating lead to loss of water weight instead of retention?

Any hypotheses? I’m stumped. Stumped, and full of seafood.

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I need some insight on Heart Zones

For almost 4 months I've been eating better and exercising (cycling and weights). I've been at a minimum of a 1,000 caloric deficit per day. When I have rides like today I struggle with cutting too many because I know my body goes into that "survival" mode. I also try to do some weight training once or twice a week but when I have a choice to ride instead, I'm on the road. My weight loss has been pretty much non existent so I'm wondering if I need to take a chill pill and throw a few "easier" rides in the mix and stay in my "Fat Burn" zone? I've seen a few posts of people riding for weight loss lately so I'm sure any advice or knowledge would be helpful to more than just myself. I have a "Sleep" Dr. appointment this week and I already know he's going to give me crap about losing weight, and I'm trying dangit! lol Summary of tonights ride- 1 min Peak 57 min cardio 13 min Fat Burn

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