Wednesday, January 9, 2019

How do you focus on weight loss when you already like how you look?

Hear me out. I'm a big woman, 5'8" and about 300lbs (I haven't had access to a scale in a while). I legitimately like my body. My husband loves my body. I'm a confident person. In my teenage years I was full of self-hatred and horribly insecure, I've overcome that and I'm a much happier person for it. I got married in September and I was a fat bride without a care in the world! I was happy and I felt beautiful, and I look at those pictures and smile.

But I know that this weight isn't healthy for me. I want to have kids in a few years and my size can complicate things. My ankles start to hurt after a short time when walking or standing. I get winded from walking up one flight of stairs. And there's other things, like having a hard time finding clothes that fit nicely (and then paying a fortune for them). Travelling is difficult because I'm uncomfortably shoved into seats I'm too big for.

I certainly have my reasons for wanting to lose weight that don't involve my appearance. My problem is that every time I attempt CICO I become fixated on how I look and suddenly I'm that miserable teenager again wanting to hide from the world. I think this mostly comes from weight loss circles online being focused on looks (of course). I see all the horrible things people say about their before pictures... Those look just like me. It gets me down. I want to be healthier but not at the cost of becoming sad and insecure again.

I guess what I'm looking for is any insight from people who are motivated to lose weight for reasons other than how they look. How do you keep a positive attitude about your body while actively trying to change it?

Sorry for the diary entry, I appreciate anyone who read it!

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Back at it after a difficult 2018.

In 2017 I finally got my shit together in May and lost the most weight I’ve lost in one stretch. I started at 242 and got down to 197. I lost my gallbladder in the process but kept going, my mantra at that point was “I lost an organ for this, I’m not stopping now”...in reality everyone in my family four generations back has had their gallbladder removed but it was good motivation.

Anyways I entered 2018 at 205, got down to 197 by the end of February. At that point my husband who had lost a few pounds along the journey even though he really didn’t need to started getting really thin. He of course was blaming the lack of junk food in the house because he couldn’t figure out what was happening. Then he started having constant diarrhea and losing all his energy. By March I was pretty sure he had cancer and finally got him to see a doctor in April. Turns out he has celiac, I was pretty excited he wasn’t dying. We have two absent minded teen/tween boys and I decided that I didn’t want to live my life on crumb patrol so our house would have to be fully gluten free.

I spent Easter weekend throwing out all the opened food in our kitchen and anything that wasn’t gluten free. Half of our kitchen equipment had to go too. I had to relearn to eat last year, figure out what food I actually liked, and it became pretty obvious that this was not the time to try to track. I stopped for the rest of the year. I ended up gaining a few pounds, gluten free is not the magic bullet for weight loss!

Anyways I’m now a year from when he started getting obviously sick and this morning am only 3 pounds from where I was a year ago, I pretty much pulled off a year of maintenance! I also know what I like to eat and know who to fit it all into CICO! I’m looking out at 2019 feeling pretty excited about finishing this journey:)

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What do you wish you could be taught about weight loss, that isn’t covered well or it's offten underestimated?

I remember when I was starting my fat loss journey that there were millions of information about counting calories, calculating BF, how to do intermittent fasting, setting macros, etc., BUT. I wished someone taught me how to keep my social life in balance, dining out, grabbing a beer with friend, all that without ruining my progress. I wished I found some advice of how to say no to friends who tempt you to eat more, or say things like ,,why do you even diet, you're looking good, now eat that pizza''

So, what do you wish you could be taught about weight loss, that isn’t covered well or it's often underestimated?

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11 Tasty Smoothies You Can Make With Your Nutrisystem Shakes

Back to square one.

Age: 28

Height: 5'4"

SW: 180

CW: 180

GW: 165

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A quick background.

January, 2018. (~190 lbs) – The doctor says I’m pre-diabetic, have slightly elevated cholesterol and need to lose weight. Come back in the fall.

April, 2018. (Weight unknown) – I stop taking anti-depressants because I felt like a zombie with no motivation.

June, 2018. (~180 lbs) – I start to seriously focus on lifestyle change and different eating habits by counting calories.

September, 2018. (~165 lbs) – Follow up doctors appoint. Blood test comes back normal. A1C is perfect. I'm no longer pre-diabetic. He’s proud of me for losing weight and tells me to keep it up. I have also been prescribed a different anti-depressant.

October, 2018. (~162 lbs) – I decide I can take a “break” from my lifestyle change/diet as I am no longer worried I am diabetic. Subconsciously I stop wearing my FitBit.

January, 2019. (~180 lbs) – It’s after the holidays and I check my weight. I’ve gained it all back. I’m also back to feeling like a zombie with no motivation again.

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Let me begin by saying I’m an alcoholic. I’ve been sober for 3.5 years. Losing weight was very similar to getting sober, if not harder. I should have known how my mind was going to work. Just like someone who relapses with drinking, I feel like I relapsed with eating. Despite knowing better and having all of the knowledge from when I lost weight, I foolishly thought I could control my eating habits before I had a good enough grasp on them.

When I took a “break” from my diet, it’s not unlike an alcoholic taking a break from sobriety. Phrases “I can control my drinking,” and “I can control my eating,” are famous last words. They’re a slippery slope and all the sudden I start binging again. The denial and the rationalization are astounding.

I believe that the anti-depressants have contributed a large part to the weight gain. If for no other reason, I don’t even have the motivation to cook so I end up eating out every night… And then I see the ice cream shop.

Just a few months ago I was commenting on how good I felt. How much easier hiking was. People were complimenting me on my weight loss left and right. Now I physically feel bad again.

Needless to say, after discovering that I gained back a large part of my weight, today is a new day. I’m back to square one.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 09 January 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Tuesday, January 8, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 09 January 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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