Saturday, January 12, 2019

Constant comments on weight loss

I have lost almost 60 pounds on my journey thus far and people have definitely been able to tell for a while. At first it was extremely flattering to hear, "wow, you look so good!" and "how did you lose so much weight!" but it quickly began to make me feel deeply uncomfortable. It doesn't matter if it is a direct comment on my weight loss or a comment loosely alluding to the weight loss (ie. you look so good). It just makes me feel as though I have "I USED TO BE FAT AND EVERYONE NOTICED" on my forehead. I know I should be proud that I am healthy now but man it makes me feel so bad. I am also not really the type of person to correct these people. And it comes for everyone sometimes they are as close as family members and other times they are just acquaintances. Every comment makes me feel uncomfortable. Their comments are not coming from a negative place or with any kind of jealousy, but I just feel that my body is on display and it makes me feel less proud and almost embarrassed.

Has anyone else had these feelings? Any experience handling them?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 12 January 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Friday, January 11, 2019

I didn't let stress derail me ...

Too much

That is right I let stress get in my way a bit this week. I started 2019 with the intention of doing my treadmill workout for 22-25 mins everyday and eat less junk. January is my get habits down month, until Tuesday when I found out I am laid off at the end of March. Ensue all sorts of emotions and stress.

I didn't do my workout that night, in fact I ate pizza and had a spiked cider with a friend who was visiting before heading back home. I didn't do my workout the next night either but are much better.

January 10th I was back at it eating wellish and I did my workout even though I feel drained. I also did my work out tonight too.

You might be wondering why the hell this is important enough for someone to write about? Well I tend to have an all or nothing attitude in past weight loss attempts, if I set a goal and didn't attain it I was a screw up and couldn't ce back from it I would have to start over. I finally did something to break that habit! I am also a stress eater and the crazy amount of stress in my life has only lead to some small indulgence not an all out binge eating fest!!

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Saturday, 12 January 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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20 lbs down. Long way to go + anxiety. SW:266 CW:246 GW: 140

I started my weight loss journey about 4 months ago. There are many reasons I’m dedicated to losing weight. Last year both my mother and my grandmother had emergency open heart surgery. Weight was one of the many influences on these situations. My boyfriend and I have been worried since. I have very low confidence and well to be frank it affects your sex life. These have all be motivators for me to lose weight and stick with it.

I started off doing keto. I did this for about 2.5 months and it was very difficult. I lost about 12 pounds on this diet. Despite the results I felt unmotivated because of the strict limitations. Not wanting to fail myself and my goals I made a second leap to weight watchers. I started Weight watchers in December and since then I have lost 8.8 more pounds. When I weighed in today I was 246. That’s 20 lbs. it’s felt so amazing. It’s been such a difficult journey and I still have 100lbs to go. I try to keep myself motivated and I am hoping to go back to the gym shortly. I try to tell myself to do this for me, for my health, for my relationship. I know it’s going to have so many benefits once I lose weight.

I often catch myself daydreaming about things I’ll wear and how I’ll feel when I’m this skinny, flat stomached beauty. It helps me keep my goals in eyesight but others day my anxiety kicks in and I want to gorge in comfort foods.

Does anyone else have anxiety and try to keep themselves motivated in their weight lose journey? What are your reasons or inspirations of losing weight? I’d love to hear some other aspects of weight loss.

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SV: Tales of Maintaining: 135 > 105

Hi winning losers!

My stats: 34 yo, 5'1F, 135lbs to 105lbs.

I've been lurking on this sub without an account since last year...I'm not usually a "joiner." However, this sub still helped me immensely in losing the final 10lbs last summer. Reading all of your stories, tips, rants, and successes kept me motivated to log those calories erryday. I've been maintaining my 105lbs since August, so I thought I'd share some things that have and haven't worked for me to keep it off for five months.

Some background...The first 20 lbs were lost by cutting out soda around 2010. That sounds crazy, but it's the truth. I got down to 115 just by drinking water instead of Coke or Sprite. It was surprisingly easy after I banned it from my house. I don't know how long that took exactly, probably six or nine months. Then came the struggle for those last 10 lbs.

I did everything. Keto. Zero sugar. Low carb. No carb. Vegetarian. Flat belly MUFA. Paleo. New Rules of Lifting. Starting Strength. Pilates. Yoga. For years I tried all kinds of diets and exercises, eventually going back to eating whatever and doing nothing.

Last year, I made it my ultimate resolution to lose the last 10. I tried all those diets again...to zero progress. I was at my wit's end! Then I discovered this sub, and just started logging what I ate...and nearly fainted at how much I was eating on my low carb diet. Lol. So I just straight up did calorie counting with no regard for low carb or low fat. Naturally, I gravitated toward that because it fit my calorie budget, but I didn't agonize about not being able to eat rice or bread. Low carb really messed with my head. Who has dreams about bread?!

So from May to July, I lost 10 lbs!

Keeping it off...

Around late July, I stopped logging. Sacrilege, I know. After four months of logging, spreadsheeting, weighing, and calculating, I have a pretty good idea of how much a serving size for me is in all my staple foods such as rice, bread, mayonnaise, etc. Instead of accounting everything, I follow the method highlighted in this BBC series: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-truth-about-slim-people

Basically, I eat the same thing every day. But the days I indulge (like the banzai burger last weekend), I cut back naturally during the week. What's better, I'm not all that hungry for another huge fatty, cheesy meal. This is may not be achievable for many, but it was eye-opening for me as someone who is super lazy and practically eats the same thing every day. There's relief in predictability. I thought I'd have to make different meals every day like in all those diet book "menus." I think those authors must imagine their readers are all restaurant level chefs who can just whip somethin' up.

Substitutions were a godsend for me. I love creamy, gloopy food like casseroles....and also rice. I make dressings and toppings with greek yogurt instead of mayo and butter, and substitute nutritional yeast for cheese on many recipes. For rice, I alternate between cauliflower rice and regular rice. I also had to give up milk for health reasons; that cut out a lot of calories for breakfast.

I also did and still do intermittent fasting because I don''t trust myself to not snack while bingeing Netflix. My eating hours are between 9am - 5pm. It helped really curb my cravings for munchies. Fasting made me realize how much of a snackaholic I am! When my doc told me I needed to eat more salt, I took that prescription and ran for the biggest bag of Fritos I could find. I got that devil behind me at last.

My goals for this year are to upgrade my culinary skills by doing my own version of the COOK90 Challenge from Epicurious: https://www.epicurious.com/expert-advice/cook90-90-meals-recipes-tips-articles-package. Instead of cooking three meals a day, I'll do two because I can't possibly eat that much food a day.

The saddest part of my weight loss is losing my buttocks. They're like deflated balloons...uneven deflated balloons. I'd like to have them back by the summer. I've put together a home gym to do bodyweight fitness stuff and plan on starting swimming next month for cardio that's easy on my arthritic joints. By June, I'll be reinflated, I hope.

On that note...

Thank you all for your inspiring stories, tough love, and encouragement! It helped me figure out the best path for me to healthy eating and weight loss!

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I’m going to make myself a membership card! (Running)

Last year, I started running as a beginner and did make modest progress very slowly increasing the speed and duration. Then I stopped altogether for a number of months, but today I restarted and man does it feel good. I’m almost back to square one and an easy attempt still kicks my ass, but the invigorating feeling of heartbeat and sting of sweat on my face is refreshing.

So now i’m going to make a card that says ‘I run! not very well, but i’m on the fringes of this club!’ Also one of the motivations for this was the fact that I ate a crapload of greasy food yesterday but instead of yelling at myself I just vowed to make today extra healthy. I’m gonna have a big cup of green tea and eat a lot of vegetables.

Folks, if exercise is something you’re planning on, I absolutely recommend it. Even if diet is more crucial to weight loss, the mental health aspects of activity will aid you.

Thanks for reading.

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