Thursday, March 7, 2019

Weight Loss and Narcissism

I've always thought of myself as a pretty humble person. However, having lost quite a bit of weight at this point, as well as making changes to my fashion, grooming, taking up new hobbies, and travelling, I'm worried about how much my personality feels like it's changing. I haven't changed the way I interact with people at all—as far as I can tell—I just have these intrusive thoughts, like I'm better than another person, or other people, more intelligent or more persistent and sometimes, more attractive. Has anyone else had the same experience? How are you dealing/did you deal with it? I don't want to become an asshole. Apologies if this has been brought up before!

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Do you eat the same thing every day?

I read this article while having my regular afternoon snack of a small container of Fage yogurt, which I almost always have at about 3:30 pm every workday.

The People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day, by Joe Pinsker at The Atlantic:

Nearly every workday for the past five or so years, sometime during the 1 o’clock hour, I have assembled a more or less identical plate of food: Bean-and-cheese soft tacos (topped with greens, salt, pepper, and hot sauce), with baby carrots, tempeh, and some fruit on the side. And almost invariably, I see the same colleague in our communal kitchen, who asks with delight, “Joe, what are you having for lunch today?” The types of bean and cheese rotate, as does the fruit—which depends on the season—but I do not inform my co-worker of these variations when I laugh off her very clever and funny question.

Not just lunch for me -- breakfast, dinner and afternoon and evening snacks, taken at about the same time every day. Not the same things, but selected from a limited number of choices. I'm quite satisfied with the food, and it limits cognitive overhead.

This pattern has also been important to my weight loss and health. If I'm making fewer choices, I have fewer opportunities to make bad choices.

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I've finally gotten to the point where I look forward to working out and miss it if I can't

So I have been lifting weights on and off since I was 14 (22 now). I had a hard time keeping a consistent schedule during college and gained about 30 lbs from my high school weight. The last six weeks or so, I've been decently consistent with hitting up the gym in my building. I try to go 2-3 times a week, nothing crazy but at least consistent. Well, I woke up this last Sunday with a sore throat and stuffy nose and it persisted all week (gotta love when someone in the office gets sick and then everyone does...) I haven't worked out this week and for the first time ever for me, I actually miss it. I'm hoping I feel better by the weekend more so I can workout again than anything else. I don't think I've ever looked forward to working out in my life and it almost feels surreal.

This is giving me a decent amount of hope because I have a horrible time sticking to diet related goals (whether it be counting calories or trying to eliminate certain types of food). But maybe if I can overcome the struggle to enjoy working out, maybe I can stick with a more restricted diet too. I'm taking a break this week from counting calories because the thoughts in my head were not staying super healthy and I don't want to feel obsessed with everything I'm eating and counting and weighing everything. That and it was honestly taking up way too much mental energy to constantly be thinking about what I did eat, what I'm going to eat, and how many calories I'll have left. Maybe I'll get the hang of getting everything going at once, but for now I'm happy to be enjoying exercise.

I wish everyone success on their respective weight loss journeys. I'd love to hear peoples' experiences with getting over humps like this and really breaking through old habits!

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I'm healthy!

I am back to the top of the "healthy" BMI range! When I started my weight loss at the new year (not a new years thing, but because i got engaged), i was fluctuating between overweight and obese depending on the day. Today i weighed myself and got a BMI of 24.9!!!! It's just the calculation, not a high-tech scanner, but it's still exciting. I didn't have as far as some of you to go, and I want to go a little bit lower still, but this is just so exciting and I had to share!

This is also to show that weight loss can coexist successfully with living life. We've been going to cake and catering tastings, and I still hit this first goal through consciously budgeting my calories and putting effort toward working out or at least walking. Thanks for all of the support and ideas that I find here!

Not sure how to add flair on Sync for reddit, but F/30/sw: 181/ cw: 159/ gw: 140

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Can too much protein inhibit weight loss?

For the past 5 weeks or so I have been sticking to a lazy Keto diet and am down 12 pounds. I say “lazy” because I don’t track on the weekends and allow myself to have carbs and sugar. I’m not too concerned with staying in ketosis, more so with the low-carb aspect.

The first two and a half weeks is when I dropped the 12 pounds (water weight) but now it seems the scale is stalling. Throughout the week I stick to my recommended 1300 calories/day and keep my carbs at 20g or lower. My fats rarely, if ever, hit my recommended macro so I’m not overeating there, but my protein is always about 20-30g over what is recommended. Could it be possible that eating too much (vegetarian) protein is inhibiting my weight loss?

I’ve always thought that it doesn’t really matter what you eat, if your calories are under maintenance then you’ll lose weight. I’ve recalculated my calories and macros on a few different calculators with my new weight but it always comes up the same, so I don’t think I’ve lost enough yet for my calories to be affecting a plateau.

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What to say (or not say) when trying to help motivate an obese person to lose weight.

*TLDR at the bottom of the post.

Hello everyone, I have a serious question for those who have been or are currently considered overweight/obese. I have a very dear friend who has struggled for years with emotional/binge eating. She has been considered in the "obese" category for years and is always starting a new type of diet. She would maybe lose 15-20 pounds at a time but always ends up gaining it back and then some. She has about 125 pounds to lose in order to have what is considered a "normal" BMI.

I have always done my best to support whichever diet or exercise plan she has tried in the past. She usually does great for a couple of weeks but then always falls off the wagon. I’m a runner and I threw out the idea to her that we should train for a half marathon together and I would help her. She thought about it and tomorrow we are officially registering to complete a half marathon together this fall (this will be her very first). I plan on going at whatever pace is comfortable for her either walking or running.

I really really want for her to be successful with this, and I want to be able to support her as best as I can. But, I understand that in my position as her "skinny friend" I may not always be able to sympathize with her regarding the struggles she faces when it comes to health and weight loss.

My question is for those who are currently or who have been considered obese before... what can a person like me say or do to help support and encourage her so that she can feel empowered and capable of making the necessary changes in her life to reach her goals? What comments or actions from others have helped you in the past? Also, what comments or actions that might have been well-intentioned actually ended up being more harmful to you and your progress?

I understand the primary responsibility lies with her, but I just want to be prepared to be able to help her with the challenges that will come up.

TLDR: Obese friend is training for her first half marathon to try to lose weight. What can I say or do to help support her in her weightloss journey? What should I definitely avoid?

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My 135 Lb Weight Loss

Unbelievable how a complete physical transformation has the biggest impact on your mental. I told myself I wouldn’t miss a day at the gym and I haven’t. I told myself I would control my diet and I have. Of course I have had my struggles. Practicing discipline alone will cause you to completely change your mental state. I feel like my life started this year.

I started this journey because I met someone at work that was “Dieting”. He told me that he was packing his lunches for work and that he had lost 10 lbs. I asked him a whole bunch of questions. He told me he was just eating healthy, like pb&j sandwhiches and chicken breast. Him telling me that he lost weight like this made me curious if I could do it. So I decided to try.

The next day I was on my computer playing games and started watching fitness videos out of curiosity. A lot of the he videos I watched were from bodybuilders giving tips on how to eat healthy. A lot of them taught me to eat a lot of protein and clean carbs. So I started eating potatoes and chicken breast. That was it. But I did not control the amount that I was eating. Then I began working out. I lost 30 lbs in 2 months. My workouts consisted of me going to the gym and walking on the treadmill while watching others lift weights. Over the next 4 months I didn’t lose anymore weight which led to me quitting.

When I first started my journey I thought that the progress would come easy, as a lot of us do. I didn’t start my journey seriously, I would just watch Netflix while walking on the treadmill and eventually when I started lifting weights I didn’t care to learn how to do it correctly. So after I quit I got depressed, I went back to my old ways and returned to 350 lbs. I was sitting in my computer chair everyday from when I woke up to when I went to sleep. 2 years like this went by before I started my journey again. Seriously this time.

My second weight loss attempt started a month after talking to someone else that had lost weight. Talking to them put it in the back of my head that I could lose weight even though I had failed. I was listening to a Joe Rogan podcast when he said, “When someone actually uses discipline and loses weight, I just want to shake their hand.”

Joe’s small statement led me to starting my diet again. I completely cut out carbs; well I thought I did. I eating eating only chicken fingers, salads, and steaks. I wanted to cut out carbs because I thought this was the key to weight loss. It’s not important if this was the key or not. What is important is that this made me start. I thought I was going to lose weight. I also thought that the more I learned about nutrition would be the healthier I would become. This was the first time that I got it right. The mindset of infinitely improving was what I needed.

Learning about nutrition was my new thing. I enjoyed learning. I would watch as many videos as I could (while still playing a ton of video games) and I would constantly google any questions I had. This led to small weight loss. Then I wanted to do the same with weight lifting. This led to small strength and muscle gains. I continued this for 2 years which is until now. I started this two Marches ago.

After making the mindset switch, I was losing weight. I started only eating salads and protein shakes. I would make my own salads with my own ingredients. I loved it. I would change up the ingredients all of the time and learn about the health benefits of each one. The process was hard as I was fighting a lot of hunger. I mean, I was only eating about 800 calories per day. The progress came quickly and I lost 130 lbs in 9 months.

After the weight loss, I didn’t stop because this was my new life. I still lift weights and workout everyday. I always have new challenges but it’s working through them that will make me into a great person. I have a new job now. I’ve grown immensely, to the point where I’m outperforming my coworkers three fold. I don’t spend anytime on the computer playing games because life is too fun. I have a girlfriend now. She’s great. My mindset has completely changed and I’m way happier now.

Here’s my transformation picture: https://imgur.com/gallery/FEwGSar

This post feels like I’m bragging but I figured I would share what I went through so that anyone trying to achieve the same thing will say to themselves that they can do it too.

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