Wednesday, July 7, 2021

(TW: ED) Am I slipping into eating disorder tenancies?

So a couple months ago I went through a very turbulent time. After one year on half salary with my company (thanks COVID), I was laid off from my job and broke. A week later my boyfriend broke up with me because his feelings weren't progressing the same way mine were and he didn't want to lead me on if he didn't think it was going it happen for him.

Needless to say I was very depressed and my anxiety was at an all time high. I wasn't really sleeping or eating. This behaviour went on for a few weeks, until I found a new job and accepted that what my ex did was best for us in the long term. (We have actually decided to remain friends and hang out from time to time.)

Due to my bad eating habits during my sad time, I kind of stopped getting hungry? (That's the best way I can think to describe it.) Once I started healing, I started getting hungry again, and found I was now able to recognize what I feel is "true hunger".

I decided to give "intuitive eating" a try, and in the last six weeks my weight loss has been amazing, my energy has been through the roof, and I am sleeping better.

A friend of mine asked what my diet was and I explained it to her. She accused me of having an ED, and it's really messed with me. I'll share with you what I told her about my current eating habits/intuitive eating.

I basically eat when I feel truly hungry. There are days where I will have a protein shake for lunch and a small salad for dinner. I may hit 700-800 calories for the day MAX. However, after a two or three days of this, I will start to feel really hungry and I will have a couple good meals throughout they day, and I'll probably eat about 2200 calories for the day. I've been accused of binge eating.

Due to my new work schedule I am not working out at the moment, so I'm fairly sedentary. I know once I start exercising I will probably get hungrier,in which case I will eat more. Is this ED territory? I never feel like I am starving myself at any point.

I am only 5 lbs away from my goal weight and I feel like this technique is working really well for me. My friends comments are just not sitting well with me. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks.

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Anxiety and Weight Loss

Hi everyone -

I’m looking to restart my weight loss journey, and have struggled in the past to keep the weight off. I’m a male who is currently 5’6” 220lbs and want to eventually get down to 165lbs.

I’ve been struggling over the past couple of years with anxiety and understanding how to handle it. It has been a struggle to stay motivated with weight loss. I’ve been seeing a therapist who has helped immensely, but sometimes I get these episodes where I can feel anxious out of no where. As part of the journey of getting my anxiety under control, I found that I have the markers present for the autoimmune disorder Hashimoto’s thyroiditis. My thyroid levels all seem to be normal as of now, so I don’t see why I should have any issues with losing weight at this time.

The last time I attempted to lose weight this year, I lost 8-10lbs (about 1.5lbs a week) relatively quickly within a month or so with dieting and exercise. I did notice that I struggle with caloric intake and what is appropriate. The dieting apps say I should be around 1500-1800 calories a day, but I’ve noticed if I eat around 1700-1800 a day, I’ll gain or maintain the weight. I’ve looked up my BMR and it says I should be at 1700 and I shouldn’t go any lower than that.

So with all of that being said… I have a few questions:

  • Is it possible to have a very slow metabolism even without having thyroid issues?

  • Is it possible to drastically increase your metabolic rate?

  • How do you know what are the right caloric limits for you?

For anyone else who deals with high stress or anxiety / depression:

  • How has this affected your weight loss, and what has helped you lose the weight?

  • How has anxiety or depression affected your weight loss?

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14 Reasons to Have (A Little!) Chocolate Today

There are lots of reasons to love chocolate. If you’re like most “chocoholics,” you probably don’t need any more justification to indulge. But in case you were wondering if there’s anything sweet about chocolate besides its taste, the answer is yes. Chocolate is a plant food (yay!) made from the bean of the cacao plant. It’s full of health-protecting antioxidants. Research suggests that chocolate―the dark kind, in particular―may be chockfull of all kinds of physical, mental and emotional health benefits. We’ve included 14 of those fabulous benefits below.

But before you go chowing down on the nearest chocolate bar, keep this in mind: Not all chocolates are created equal. While the chocolate you know and love is also full of fat and sugar, choosing the healthiest version—dark chocolate with a minimum of 65 percent cacao—can be a smart snack choice. Dark chocolates have a higher concentration of body-boosting antioxidants than milk chocolate. They also typically contain fewer added sugars and unhealthy fats. So a good rule of thumb is: the darker, the better. Opt for less-processed options containing a minimum of 65 percent cacao, and don’t overindulge. The jury is still out on the exact amount of dark chocolate needed to reap the benefits, but we all know what too much indulging can lead to. Shoot for a maximum of one to two ounces a day.

On the Nutrisystem program? You can still have your chocolate and eat it, too! Just limit yourself to a maximum of 2 dark chocolate minis (or about ½ ounce) a day, and be sure to count these as three Extras.

1. It may lower cholesterol.

Cocoa powder is rich in polyphenols, a large class of chemical compounds also found in fruits, veggies, tea and plants. A study in the Journal of Nutrition suggests that the polyphenolic substances in cocoa powder may help reduce LDL, otherwise known as the “bad cholesterol.” These substances may also suppress oxidized LDL―particularly good news since oxidized LDL can clog blood vessels and cause all kinds of health complications. Just as sweet? The study also suggests that these compounds can cause an increase in the “good cholesterol,” HDL, which may be protective against heart disease. Although exciting, many of the studies on chocolate and cholesterol are short-term, so more long-term studies are needed.

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2. It could help keep you sharp.

Feeling forgetful? Grab a piece of chocolate! The cocoa in chocolate is packed with flavanols, naturally occurring compounds also found in some fruits, tea and red wine, which have antioxidant properties and may be protective against cognitive decline. Research in the American Heart Association’s Hypertension journal demonstrated that elderly people who drank a lot of powdered cocoa drinks had significantly higher overall cognitive scores than those drinking lower levels.

3. It could keep you heart-healthy.

Perhaps one of the sweetest things about chocolate is its potential role in heart disease prevention. In an analysis of seven studies exploring the relationship between chocolate and cardiovascular health that involved more than 114,000 people from the United States, Germany, Japan, the Netherlands, and Sweden, British researchers discovered that those who ate more chocolate lowered their risk for heart disease significantly. In fact, people who ate the most chocolate weekly had a 37 percent lower risk of any heart disease than those who ate the least amounts of dark chocolate. Researchers contend that the heart-healthy benefits of chocolate may be due to flavonoids, antioxidant compounds that increase the elasticity of veins and arteries.

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4. It may protect against stroke.

Although more studies are needed on the optimal quantities and types of chocolate, existing research suggests that eating chocolate might help reduce stroke risk. In a study by Swedish researchers, women who ate about two candy bars per week had a 20 percent lower stroke risk. This study echoes findings from earlier research, which found that people who ate more chocolate were 30 percent less likely to have a stroke.

5. Dark chocolate can calm cravings.

Whether you’re craving something sweet, fatty or savory, we’ve got your solution―dark chocolate! A 2011 study published in the journal Nutrition and Diabetes found that dark chocolate promotes feelings of fullness, reduces a variety of food cravings, and can even lower overall energy intake compared with milk chocolate.

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6. It makes you happy.

You already know you’re happy when chocolate’s involved, but now there’s science to back you up! According to a study published in the Journal of Psychopharmacology, those who drank one polyphenol-rich chocolate drink daily (about 1.5 ounces of dark chocolate) reported feeling calmer and more content than those who did not. Researchers contend that the compounds in cocoa can stimulate activity in the brain regions associated with pleasure and reward and boost brain serotonin, a hormone believed to have antidepressant effects.

7. It may lower blood pressure.

We already know that the flavanols found in cocoa have antioxidant properties. As it turns out, these powerful compounds may also help lower blood pressure, improve blood flow to the brain and heart, and make blood platelets less sticky and able to clot. A Harvard study that analyzed 24 chocolate studies involving 1,106 people found that dark chocolate containing at least 50-70 percent cocoa lowered blood pressure in all participants, but most markedly in those with hypertension.

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8. It might help you see.

The flavanols in dark chocolate may be to thank for yet another health benefit. Researchers from the University of Reading in England tested the eyesight of 30 healthy adults after they ate white and dark chocolates and found that participants scored better on vision tests after consuming the dark chocolate. Given that dark chocolate has a much higher flavanol content, the researchers concluded that these compounds may be responsible for improving blood flow to the retina.

9. It might help you live longer.

Not only might chocolate add some joy to your life, it might also help extend it! In a Harvard University study, researchers compared men who ate chocolate with those who didn’t, and found that the chocolate-eaters lived one year longer. More research is needed to help determine the exact role chocolate plays in this capacity.

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10. It promotes youthful arteries.

A 2016 study of 508 people participating in the Maine-Syracuse Longitudinal Study at the University of Maine found that those who ate chocolate regularly—at least weekly—had less arterial stiffness than those who ate it infrequently or not at all. Arterial elasticity can benefit both your heart and your head. The stiffer your arteries, the harder your heart has to work to pump your blood, which can lead to high blood pressure. And if those arteries are clogged as well as stiff, you run a higher risk of heart attack or stroke. That can be caused when a piece of plaque—the hardened “barnacle” of fat and other debris that clogs your arteries—breaks off and your arteries can’t expand to allow blood flow around it. That kind of log jam can stop the flow of oxygenated blood to your heart and brain, leading to heart attack and stroke. Supple flexible arteries may also help you maintain your youthful brain power. In another study from the same group of researchers, chocoholics also had better cognitive function, as measured by several tests measuring memory and other cognitive abilities.

11. It may help prevent cancer.

At least in a test tube, a number of studies have found that natural cocoa powder, insanely rich in antioxidants called procyanadins and flavanols, can stop the growth of cancers including those occurring in the breast and ovaries. In some cases, a solution of the cocoa powder turned off the genes involved in promoting cell growth. In other cases, including a 2016 study published in the journal Biomedical Pharmacotherapy, the procyanadins in cocoa powder caused ovarian cancer cells to die before they had a chance to multiply and spread.

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12. It builds athletic endurance.

Dark chocolate can help you go that extra mile, a new study from London’s Kingston University says. A substance in chocolate, epicatechin, a type of flavanol, helps up the levels of nitric oxide in your body. That helps dilate your blood vessels and reduces the amount of oxygen your body needs to use to keep going. The result: You can go longer. When the researchers switched out one of the daily snacks of a small group of amateur cyclists with about 1.4 ounces of chocolate, they used less oxygen as they pedaled than a similar group that didn’t eat chocolate.

13. It protects unborn babies.

Eating chocolate may help you nourish your baby in the womb. That was the finding from a study by researchers at the Universitie Lavale Quebec City in Canada presented last winter at a meeting of the Society for Maternal-Fetal Medicine in Atlanta. The women who ate about an ounce of chocolate every day for 12 weeks had increase blood flow in the uterus, placenta and in their fetuses, which can help both babies and the placenta that nourishes them to thrive.

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14. Um, hello…It’s delicious!

You don’t need any scientific evidence to confirm this: melt it, freeze it, sprinkle it, blend it…. chocolate is tasty every way you try it! Just make sure to enjoy it in moderation, and always opt for dark over milk chocolate to reap the sweetest benefits!

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How I lost 80+ lbs.

1.) Walking. Walking everyday that I felt able to. Only missing days for extreme bad weather, or if I needed a rest day because I did an extra big walk day before. My first goals were honestly just to get my shoes on and go outside. Even if I only went around the parking lot or around the block for 10-15 mins.

2.) Tracking exercise. Once I was into the habit of going for 4-7 walks/week I started to monitor my progress with the intent on *improving. This was a critical part in treating a pre-diabetic diagnosis. Thanks to my amazing fiancé I have a shiny new Fitbit with gps so I can jog out some shapes and try to challenge myself on urban hiking expeditions. I am now up to 15-20km/day hiking 3x/week and usually 5-7km on the other days. Basically every other day I do a monster. And I take rest days whenever if I need one. *Nephew gave the very good advice to try to improve by even just 1% a day.

3.) Additional movement. A few times a week I do some stair or wall pushups, lunges, wall sits and planks. Aerobic housecleaning counts. I aim for daily stretching as well but I am bad for letting that slide. Also don’t forget to wildly embarrass the kids with public dance outbursts or races. Honestly this part is more for the comedy but it works.

4.) Treating myself a bit better. This was probably the hardest and will remain the hardest for ever most likely. Constant work and push to do. It’s easy to treat yourself like trash. Take your antidepressants at the same time each day. Drink a lot more water. Epsom salt bath priorities. Use old lady cream on the wrinkles. Also a sleep schedule is recommended however I struggle with that. “And straighten out your posture you banana shaped fuck.” -some meme

5.) Mental Health. Different from section 4.) if you need a mental health day, do it. If you have anxiety try to deal with it. I have a really hard time with fire alarms. It can ruin a whole day. Some times it wins, sometimes it doesn’t.

6.) Hobbies. Hobbies help you feel happier and feel like you have a purpose in this dark, bleak world. I started a personal Instagram(only had portfolio for work previously). I upload cool nature pics and selfies that I take on my hiking journeys. I am trying to learn GarageBand and have been getting back to music again. And no shame in it but I got into video games pretty good. Minecraft is very relaxing, I also recommend Subnautica, Stardew Valley, Diablo 3, and I have played warzone a couple times this week too.

7.) Alcohol is for occasions. Bottle of wine for anniversary, birthday, relevant celebratory incidents only. Go nuts on weed tho just make sure you know how to deal with the munchies. I use 200-800 of my daily cals for this purpose and idgaf. Because I am staying within a healthy caloric range otherwise.

8.) Food. Ok I am no expert here. I have left this till last because of that. I have for sure disordered eating. Probably a binging problem(food and formerly alcohol). I like to have fun and listen to metal and party. I listen to it on my walks now or in the vehicle. But it was a trigger for alcohol for a bit so I started listening to different music during my walks. Now my playlists are fucked but oh well.

Typical day: Coffee with milk, bottle of water and meds.

I usually have 2 things off this list during the day most days(I have other stuff here and there but this is like 8/10 days)

-Protein shake and fruit -English muffin, small piece of cheese and sometimes fruit. -Yogurt and granola -grainy bagel and cream cheese(occasional) -cold plate (2 fruits, 2 veggies, meats, cheeses, crackers, nuts and raisins)

Dinner: Meat, veg and potato or some such Spaghetti Soup Basically I win if it’s something we make at home, double win for fresh. Cooking is not sustainable(due to long work hours)and when I started I was like 90% fast food and I’m down to 95% home cooked.

A few food rules: Try to have fresh fruit and veggies each day. I always have washed, cut, peeled, ready to go fruit and veggies in the fridge for snacks. It really helps for grazers. You probably aren’t getting enough protein. Or fiber, or vitamins, or love or sunshine. Make sure things are balanced.

Finally the beast. Sugar. I still can’t with this addiction but I have it strictly limited. If I’m having a chocolate bar, it’s on a 15km day and I refuse to feel bad about it. Also it’s a lot healthier to make your own brownies/cake/pie/cookies/scones/biscuits/secret night carb treats/peanut butter balls/granola bars/rice Krispy squares and such. You can use healthier forms of sweet and also use much less or none. I make brownies like almost every week and I have perfected my recipe and enjoy every second making and consuming the brownies. You appreciate it so much more when the flavours are not processed garbage and the extra ingredient is love.

Sugar free candy, soda, ice cream, gummies. All that stuff affected my taste and anything with sugar alcohols(used a lot for diabetic stuff) makes you shit yourself real bad.

My biggest accomplishment is choosing my sugar. I try to eat whole grain, low carb, low sugar. Because I absolutely everyday need a donut or some chocolate or 1/2 cup of orange juice. If I stick to water and healthy stuff it doesn’t mess with my insulin and sugars.

In conclusion: Again no expert, still learning so much but I started at 325lbs and today I am 243ish The pre diabetic diagnosis was at the beginning of June 2020, during the pandemic. I had been off work for 3 months languishing and decided to make this change for myself. In preparation I quit tobacco Feb 3 2020 and was nicotine free a few months later(nicotine gum).

I don’t care how long it takes and the reason why is because I read on one of these weight loss subs the best advice I have ever heard. And I wish I could credit the person who wrote it and honestly thank them because it is so important. “You have to play the long game, it’s like a magic trick you play on yourself.” Thanks whoever that was.

I am f37 5’7” SW 325 CW243 GW?

I hope this either inspires or entertains you. Thanks for reading.

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Hesitant to say it but...

I think I have been successfully maintaining my weight loss! I was terrified that after I reached my goal weight, I would go right back to my old habits and the weight would slowly come back on. I haven't wanted to even accept or celebrate the fact that I got to my goal for fears that I would hit said goal and then start gaining again. I've now been at my goal (+-5lbs) since April and it feels amazing to finally realize that I did it!

My tips for maintenance: Just keep at it. Yes, you can relax a little - I have stopped calorie counting which has been freeing - and I've been able to eat basically whatever I have wanted to eat (within reason). In the past, I would have multiple treats in the evening (some chips and candy and then maybe ice cream), whereas now I just pick one of those. I also find that now that I know and am aware of how many calories are in certain things (like fast food, milkshakes, etc) it really detracts me from wanting to eat those things. I realize now that most of the time they are just not worth it - for the 5 min of happiness I get while eating, having 1000 or more of my daily calories gone sucks. Plus now that I've been eating healthier I just end up feeling crummy after. Don't get me wrong, I still do eat those things on occasion, but knowing the calories and how those affect my body allows me to pause and think about whether I REALLY want that treat - sometimes the answer is yes, but many times it's no, not worth it today.

Another tip is that I continue to weigh myself every morning and if I get close to 5lbs over my goal weight (usually after a camping weekend), I reign things in and eat closer to what I was doing when I was losing. Usually those 5lbs are mostly just water weight and within a couple days I'm back down again. In the past I would have not wanted to look after a "bad" weekend of eating, and put off the scale, and then all of a sudden those 5lbs of mostly water became 5lbs of mostly fat, and much harder to get off.

I think ultimately the most important thing for me has been maintaining my activity level. I have continued to run most mornings and go for walks on my lunch break. This definitely allows me to indulge more in what I eat! If you hate exercise (like I did), just start walking walking walking. It is such an effective weight loss tool!

Now, I hope this post doesn't come across like I'm a know it all - I have just been so grateful to this community and wanted to pass along some tips that helped me!

My stats: F32, 5'5", SW189 GW145

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Starting over…again!

32F 5’2 202lbs

As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve been going through a breakup which left me feeling like I was garbage and so I was using the anger and upset from that to motivate me into losing weight so I can feel good and look good too.

For a couple of months I was doing great then I fell off the wagon a little. Well now I’m ready to get back on again after a kick up the bum from some commenters here on my last post. I have been self-isolating for over a week but I have just two more days left and then I can get back into the gym. Being at home has been good at detoxing from junk food to be honest because I’ve not been able to get to the supermarket and buy crap.

Anyways I am about to go and take some “before” pictures and then write down some goals to get me back on track. Nothing huge, small steps and habits work best for me so it will just me things like:

  • a daily walk
  • 2L of water
  • fresh home cooked meals
  • finding lower calorie snacks
  • lots of fruit and veg
  • gym 3/4 days minimum

Etc etc! They are all things that are easy for me to do, I just have to stop being so lazy and remember why I want to do this in the first place.

I have spent the majority of my adult (and teen) life hating my body and my weight and I just don’t want to spend my thirties being insecure and hiding myself away because I am embarrassed by how I look. My ex made me feel so beautiful and liked me at this weight so I know I don’t have to do it to attract another partner, it’s for me and me only. It’s a journey for weight loss but also self-love for me. I need to learn to be my own cheerleader. I can do this.

Thanks for reading it you made it this far haha.

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Toxic mentality in this sub

I know I'll get downvoted to hell but here goes: I've been a long time lurker around here, and there's a toxic demotivating mentality that I see around here far too often: Invalidating and dismissing smaller weight gains / loss goals. No, this isn't everyone, nor most of the time, but it's happened enough to see a pattern. Note I see this in comments more than posts.

I'm not a large guy. I'm about 172cm, 70 kgs. I put on about 7-10 of those kgs over the lockdowns the past year. Yes, I'm not obese or overweight. Yes, it's not a lot of weight. But I'm still uncomfortable, I still feel heavier, and I still don't like the way I look at the moment. It's not "nothing". It is definitely noticeable, and pretending like it isn't is stupid.

For obvious reasons, this sub will have a disproportionate amount of larger folks with larger deltas between current weight and goal weight, so while 10kgs might seem like a much smaller amount to them, it's not insignificant to me (and of course proportionally, 10 kg is a smaller piece of our deltas depending on our size).

Just today, the post where OP described their partner approaching them about a 25lbs was filled with comments dismissing the amount, calling OP's partner superficial for noticing, and basically disregarding the whole thing. Note OP isn't an especially large person either, so the 25 lbs were a larger proportional increase than it would for someone taller / heavier. I get these comments come from a place of support for OP, but I don't think people realize how discouraging and invalidating it can feel to hear what feels like a very real issue to the person going through it get completely dismissed. We have to realize that our perceptions as a community are also skewed given the nature of the people that participate on the sub.

The sub description reads " A place for people of all sizes to discuss healthy and sustainable methods of weight loss. Whether you need to lose 2 lbs or 400 lbs, you are welcome here!". We see, to forget the second part of that sometimes.

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