Wednesday, August 4, 2021

I wish I wasn’t obese as a kid/teen

M/19/5’8 CW: 156lbs

So I’ve been doing a lot of reflection after getting off of my meds as I’ve had to in order to stay afloat. I realized one of my core beliefs that was instilled into me from a young age is that attractive people are better.

I was treated like crap growing up for my weight. I was bullied picked on and borderline treated sub juman simply because I didn’t look like everyone else. I can’t even look at pictures of when I was young because I get so angry and disgusted by the person I see. I learned to put a wall up with people and shield my emotions to protect me. I later worked on my personality so that people would want to actually get to know me…and it worked.

In junior high and high school was the worst though. It was now that I had become invisible sexually. No one wanted me besides a friendship add the fact that I’m gay and it just lessened my chance of getting a boyfriend or even talking to a guy.

To this day I only know of one openly gay guy in my high school that was attractive enough to hook up with the closeted guys.

Anyways now I’ve lost the weight and while I do certainly get more attention from both men and women I’m so insecure in my body and my ability to actually attain anything past friendship that I’m stuck. The loose skin I got after weight loss has given me some very traumatic body dsymorphia to the point where I won’t leave the house or I’ll call off of work just to avoid being seen.

I just want my skin removed so I can start the process of healing my body and mind. Cuz I’ve tried with the body I currently have and it almost landed me in a psych word.

The last point I guess is. I wish the I had lost weight earlier or that I never was fat that way I could not have to deal with the mental repercussions of being overweight.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 05 August 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

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So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

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* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

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NSV- For the first time ever, I fit into a size 8US jeans!

Long time lurker, first time posting. I'm on mobile so please excuse any formatting mistakes.

I (27F) have been over weight basically my entire life. I decided to give CICO a try about 3 months ago. My start weight was somewhere between 215lbs-220lbs and for the past 4 years I've been between a size 14US and 16US.

This is the first time I've ever been able to start a diet and comfortably stick to it, so the weight just started falling off. I've lost about 48lbs so far and I'm only about 35lbs away from my goal weight. I eat somewhere between 1600-1200 calories a day depending on my appetite. And do light weight lifting with a 10lb weight a few times a week.

Now on to the NSV. Today I was at a friends house who I hadn't seen since I started my weight loss journey. She's around a size 4US-6US but use to wear 8US-10US. I had just bought a size 12US shorts about a month ago and they're already getting too big. So I asked her if she had any old jeans that didn't fit her anymore that I could try on to see how I'm progressing.

She gave me a pair of size 8US jeans and they fit! This is the first time in my life that I've ever fit into a single digit pants size! I almost cried when I buttoned them. I've wanted to wear a size 8 since I was 12 years old. This is probably the biggest milestone of my journey so far and I could not be happier.

I just had to share with this lovely community. All of you have been so inspiring to me and I don't think I would have made it this far without reading all of you're advice.

TLDR: I tried on a size 8 jeans today for the first time ever and they fit. I could cry tears of joy.

Edit: I just saw the auto mod comment about the daily thread for SV/NSV and if this post doesn't fit the rules for the sub I apologize and will remove it.

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Water consumption

Hey guys I don’t know if this is the right community to be posting in but I can’t think of any others I’m not looking for weight loss or anything like that. I just want to become more healthy and have a better lifestyle I currently drink 2 litres of water a day and I drink water really quickly and I get really dehydrated at the night time and in the morning. I’ve tried spreading it out in longer periods but I just get dehydrated to the point that 1 bottle won’t hydrate me. Would it be ok if I had say 3 or 4 litres most likely 3. I know about water intoxication and that’s what I’m worried about going over the recommended 2 litres I’m just really knew to all this healthy lifestyle thing.

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What post-weight loss clothes should I donate?

I've lost over 55 pounds so far with 5/10 more to go and a lot of my wardrobe is too big. What started as a small box is now two boxes and almost 2 drawers worth of stuff that no longer fits.

In my apartment, I have sizes 16 to 10 that do not fit at all. I am now a size 6 to 8. Some of my old clothes are really nice gifts my parents gave me. For example, I have a size 12 wool skirt and a size large cashmere sweater.

Part of me wants to just give everything size 10 and up away. But my parents' input is to keep everything because I may regain the weight after a few years when I get a full time job. I just hate having it around as a reminder and don't like how much space it is taking up. But I would also hate to get rid of stuff just to buy it again. Any thoughts?

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24 pound weight loss in 3 months. Easy but had to change.

I lost 24 pounds down from 266 to 242 in just under 3 months. All I really did was change my diet to sugar free stuff and cut out the carbs like soft drinks and snacks. I also started walking 2-3 miles a day in the morning. Two years ago I was at 292 and am drying to get to the point where I am down to 190-200. All I can say is all the fad diets and gurus that I checked out did little and eating simple foods like chicken and salad and lots of water helped me lose the weight. Plus I save money by not going to fast food places and if I want to eat something sweet, I opt for a smoothie or a diet ice cream.

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body dysmorphia or still fat lol?

Sw: 398lb cw:316.4 gw: 175lb, F, 23, 5’9”

So I have been on my weight loss journey for about 10.5 months and have managed to lose roughly 82-83lb. Yay me! Still a longgggg way to go but definitely getting there! But why do I feel like crap? I look at my body and I just see the same body just slightly smaller than my highest weight. The stomach hang, the loose saggy arms, huge back boobs. It’s all there and I expect it. But my brain doesn’t like to see it lol. I see these girls on tiktok who lose so little compared to me and their physical changes are jaw dropping. Or it seems like they lose 15-18lb a month while I’m here like a cute turtle losing my 7.5-8.5 pounds a month although I kick ass in the gym daily and eat super clean in a big calorie deficit. It just sucks knowing I’ve lost the weight of a little kid and I still feel like I look the same. Ik eventually I’ll get to a point where I’ll start to see bigger changes but as of now it’s really disappointing and un motivating. Anyone feel the same?

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