Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Lost over a hundred pounds and gained more than half of it back.

Hi. I’m mostly posting this as a motivational tool and as a way to keep my accountable. I started my weight loss journey at 316 pounds(M 6ft 1in) a year and a half ago. I dropped down to 197 in July of 2018 which I was so happy for. But... I started to binge like a mofo and I gained 67 pounds back putting me at 264 pounds this New Years. I’m a bit angry at myself because I came so far and gained so much ground in regards to my unhealthy eating habits only to lose that same ground to junk food and a slothful lifestyle.

I’m hoping for some motivation and tips from the community on how I can move forward from here. This is what I did to get to 197 to begin with:

-Ate 1800 calories every day(give or take). -Ate the same three meals a day(makes bulk cooking and calorie tracking easier). -didn’t exercise at all(I have a active job).

I really need to get back on this weight loss horse. I had bought all new clothes and everything and now I can’t fit most of them anymore.

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I’ve made it my mission to reach my goal weight and reward myself with sky diving.

Sometimes I just need a little bit of a push. Something that I’m actively working towards. And of course I’m working towards getting healthy, fit, and my goal weight. But working towards a number can get monotonous very quickly. So I decided to give myself some rewards for my weight loss. Not just the mirror rewards, or food rewards I’m talking about actual rewards.

And I need a bit of help thinking of good ideas.

I have two categories, one for weight milestones, and the other for dedication milestones. As both are important to me.

Weight isn’t weight lost, it’s my actual weight. And dedication includes being consistent for X amount of time with my tracking, meal prep, and exercise routine.

Here’s what I have so far but I need some help thinking of some more for dedication.

Weight Rewards:

  • 300lbs - Full body Massage
  • 250lbs - Out of state Hiking trip
  • 200lbs - Ski trip
  • 175lbs - Sky diving

Dedication Rewards:

  • 3 months - join a CrossFit gym
  • 6 months -
  • 1 year -

Edit: terrible mobile formatting and then edited again for even worse formatting

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[RANT] My parents think I am stupid for trying to invest in a dietary and bathroom scale, and among other things, they drive me up the wall.

I REALLY, REALLY need to stop talking about my goals with them.

At 5'3" and ~152 lbs, I am the fatass of the family, to the point where they hardly ask whether I ate or not, and find it kinda funny on the occasion they accidentally eat my share of some snack we are having.

I am an idiot with no sense of what a 'portion' is without measuring cups, and other tools. However, my parents do not seem to understand this, and disparage whenever they see me roll in with a dietary scale, or when I suggest replacing the bathroom scale because my brother (who is also fit and healthy) broke it.

When I talk about weight loss, my mother says NO CARBS, NO CARBS like a broken record, and insists I drink vinegar every morning, among other woo.

Also, she stays fit by eating just two peices of toast for breakfast, a very light salad, and a normal dinner with small portions, all work week. Am I pathetic for not being able to do the same? Yeah, but a food scale would make it quite easier to eat a little bit of what is satisfying and still get through my day.

I am worse than the average person at ignoring that hungry, gnawing feeling when I have to study.

Meanwhile my Dad be like, "Yeah, you got a slow metabolism, too bad, so sad."

I'm tired of being inferior, can't wait to head back to the dorms.

Hopefully I can cut the BS, lose the weight and fix my obsessive, negative, and messed up relationship with food in 2019. But nobody bet on me.

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Happy New Year 2019! A look back at my weight loss from 2018...

Graph here: https://imgur.com/gallery/uljQe1t

I only had two "up weeks" on the year:

One week I gained a fraction of a pound. Eh, it happens. But then I went to Disney World for a 10-day vacation and came back 7 pounds down! So that ended up pretty well. My mind still boggles at that.

Then, on 12/5, I weighed myself and found that I was up FOUR pounds form the previous week. I moved the scale to a different part of the floor. 4 pounds. I was flummoxed (and depressed). I hadn't really been eating THAT differently, and if I was going to gain weight, it would have been the week OF Thanksgiving, not two weeks after. But then the next week when I weighed myself, I was FIVE pounds DOWN. (Net 1 pound down over the two weeks.) I know weights can fluctuate, but that seemed a little bit too statistically weird, so I changed the batteries in my scale and went on with my life.

Net loss, calendar year 2018 (Jan. 10 - Dec. 26): 68.4 pounds (281.8 to 213.4). Not as drastic or as awesome as some I've seen posted up on here, but I'm pretty pleased.

Last week, I wore a pair of 34-waist pants (OK, they were Izod "Stretch" dress slacks, but still) for the first time since I don't know when. Late 90s at least.

Keep on keepin' on, as Foxy Shazam sang.

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I've finally discovered the base root of my food issues and it's allowed me to move on.

My family and I had dinner with my mom two days ago, she made spaghetti and meatballs with cheesey garlic bread and corn. My mom isn't the greatest cook but it was okay and I had a very light lunch that day so I had room to indulge in a bunch of carbs. I ended the day over 100 calories below my calorie goal. During dinner we were talking about my food choices lately and my weight loss this last year. I've lost about 70 lbs and have several more to go. My mom is losing weight but in the most unhealthy way ever. She even says that every time we talk about food, how she's upset the way she's losing weight and how she wishes it would be different. Anyway she told me my problem growing up was that I just always loved to eat too much, so she just kept cooking food I didn't like so that I would eat less and hopefully lose weight. I was floored. I justed started at her with her shit eating grin on her face like she's a fucking genius. No wonder I shoved food in my face all the time and developed a short term low key eating disorder my sophomore year in highschool. I spent so much money on food at school. Someone brought cupcakes, I'll have 5 please!! I live on my own now, eat McDonald's everyday!! I was fat, she didn't teach me how to eat properly. I gained weight even more when living in my own and fending for myself (not to mention medication influences). Now at 37 years old I've finally figured out proper nutrition. Just this year I figured out why your body would eat at it's own lean muscle if you don't eat enough for long enough. I finally understand how calories work and what proper portions look like. I've tried to lose weight over a dozen times. But after years I'm never going back. I've never been this thin in my life. That night made me realize that I'm not broken, I was just not raised in a healthy way, and I know now. I've worried thought this whole process that my daughter who also loves food would have to go through the same struggles as me, but she won't. She will learn to love food and appreciate what is appropriate for her. She will learn what her body needs to be healthy. I will make her try foods that she may not like but I will not manipulate her with food!! Food is to share and enjoy, not to sneak and hide in your room from your family. Food is nourishment not rewards.

TLDR: My mom manipulated me with food growing up because I liked to eat. Just found out two days ago. I'm pissed. Now I know and I don't have to worry that will happen to my own daughter.

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Struggling with a soft, stretchy, saggy self after weight loss

Does anyone else feel that even if they are at a weight they are okay with, it's not as "good" as if you were someone who had always been smaller or around that weight? Aside from my breasts I don't have a lot of loose skin, but there is definitely a softness to my body that I notice other women around my weight don't have, even though I live a relatively active lifestyle (especially in the summer months).

I lost 75 pounds 4 years ago (in about a six month period). For most of that time I have maintained a weight between 145-155lbs (as a 5'5" woman). I want that to be good enough for me. Unfortunately 2 years ago I was told by a man I was very much in love with that the reason he didn't want to iniatie sex or actively touch me was because my body felt "wrong" to him, and not like all the other slimmer/thinner women he's been with. Obviously I ended things with him (to his surprise, somehow??), but I have still not been able to forget that. For reference, here is a (NSFW) comparison of what I looked like at the time after losing weight: https://imgur.com/a/Ew0WqeK. I am still around there in terms of size and fitness.

I have stretchmarks and cellulite and somewhat saggy breasts and I don't think losing weight will help me feel more comfortable in my own skin :/

Mostly I am just looking to hear from folks who have maybe had similar experiences (or otherwise). How do you learn to accept your body even knowing there is no hiding it's history?

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My best tips for 2019 newcomers!

So if your resolution is get to a certain weight then this post is for you! Follow this and you’ll be on your way to your 2019 dream body. I’m a 6’3 18y/o M that’s struggled with weight my whole life. I’ve lost over 100 pounds and I’ve been maintaining my weight for one year now, and it’s now time for me to cut the last 15lbs, so let’s do this together! I thought that I might pass along some knowledge that learned to some of you newcomers that may be a little intimidated with weight loss. I’ll cover a few things about dieting and tricks Ive learned along with exercise.

Congrats! You made the first step. You realized that something needs to change. Whether you’re doing this to lose 5lbs, 20lbs or 100lbs all of us need support along the way and you have just hit the jackpot. This subreddit is the most welcoming and supportive subreddit on the INTERNET in my opinion. When I went through motivation struggles with my journey this subreddit is what kept me going, and I hope you use it to your advantage to reach your goals like I did.

Before you go any further I want you to know that dieting doesn’t mean you need to cut out your favorite foods, that’s not sustainable. It’s better to incorporate your favorite foods into what you eat but still have it fit your calorie needs, I’ll cover this more later.

Here is one of the most common misconceptions with weight loss, strict dieting. And some of you will know that this isn’t correct, a lot of people might not. News flash: you need to eat to lose weight. A lot of people will try to just eat salads for every meal and like 1 egg for breakfast. That isn’t sustainable, you’re not a hamster. You need to eat ~500 - 800 calories under your maintenance (amount of calories you need to eat a day to keep the same weight). How do I find this? You’ll need to use a tdee calculator. This is the one I used: https://tdeecalculator.net Input your age, weight, height etc. and you’ll get your result.

You can now take that calorie goal and eat whatever you want as long as by the end of the day you’re at or under your calorie goal. Yeah, I said whatever you want! A lot of people will try to cut out sugar completely because they think it’ll make them gain weight, this is not really true, what is making you gain weight is eating over your maintenance calories. You’ll lose weight no matter what you eat as long as it’s under your maintenance calories. I ate a pint of halo top ice cream almost every night and I still lost 100lbs, but I made sure it fit within my cal goal. Many studies have been done to prove this, for example

Eating only Twinkies to lose weight: http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/11/08/twinkie.diet.professor/index.html

Eating only ice cream to lose weight: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0NwVEiZAHXY

BUT: here’s the catch. This will indeed have effects on your body, specifically energy level and body composition. When it comes to bodybuilding, that’s when the quality of food DOES matter. You can’t eat only fats and expect the retain all of your muscle, because muscle requires protein. So you find a middle ground, if you’re craving chips, eat some freakin chips. But instead of going overboard and eating straight out of the bag, look at the serving size/calories and make it fit your calorie needs! This can be tricky though, because foods like chips might not fill you up and take up large amounts of calories.

“So I’m going to have to look at nutrition facts all day and try to remember them?” Nope! MyFitnessPal... you’ve probably heard of it, and guess what, it’s a literal gift from the gods. It has by far the biggest database of foods, which makes it that much easier to use. I’ve been using it for so long I barley even notice it nowadays and it takes seconds to log a food.

This is where tracking your calories comes in! Guess what, I eat what I’m in the mood for and I still lose weight. Using MyFitnessPal (you can use whatever app you desire this is my just choice) I can type in the brand of the food I’m eating, select how many servings I’m going to eat, weigh it and I’m good to go. It has changed my life for the better and if you use it correctly it’ll change yours as well. I believe that this is the best way to “diet” because you’re not eating the same thing everyday. You can pick and choose what you want as long as you meet your calories needs. This also allows you to have a social life while dieting. I still go out to eat with my friends all the time, but I plan my meals for the day around it

For example, tomorrow I’m going to Outback Steakhouse with my buddies. So I open myfitnesspal, type in what I’m gonna eat, and adjust my meals around that. Say my meal for going out to eat is ~1500cal, I think I’ll eat a large amount of protein/meat when I wake up because meat and protein is VERY satiating and filling This is how I curve any craving I have. Meat is so incredibly satisfying and it’s been a life saver on multiple occasions. And then have a light snack later on. (This will be different for you, because we have different calorie needs). Just like that I’ve already hit my calorie goals for tomorrow and I’m that much closer to my goal weight.

This is very important to practice logging your food, because the alternative is eating the same thing everyday. Which leads me into another misconception about dieting, “I’m going to eat only eggs toast and peanut butter for breakfast for the next 5 months with no substitutions.” NOT SUSTAINABLE. You can’t eat the same thing everyday and not get sick of it, and if you say you can you’re lying to yourself. This is where a lot of dieters fail in my opinion. They start to get tired of their meal plan and slowly wean off... MYFITNESSPAL! USE IT! IM SERIOUS! ITS A LIFESTYLE BRO!

Macronutrients and it’s importance: this may be confusing for newcomers and it’s more aimed towards people that are focusing on muscle growth and preserving it. The 3 main macronutrients (macros) there are is 1. Carbs 2. Fats 3. Protein. In myfitnesspal on the diary page, at the very bottom there’s a “nutrition” button. There you can tap macros and you will be able to see all of macros for the day. It is controversial about the amounts of macros you need because everyone is different, but for me I aim to eat 1gram of protein per body lb. and 0.4gram of fat per lb and fill the rest with carbs. (CARBS ARE ESSENTIAL TO MUSCLE GROWTH!) if you’re serious about bodybuilding you should head over to bodybuilding forum, it’s a great resource and has helped me a lot..

Exercise: I want you to know that 70% of weight loss is what you eat. 20% is your physical activity. 10% thermic effect Of food. People in comas can lose weight, because it’s what you put in your body that matters, don’t get me wrong though, exercise is also extremely important and it’ll be a key factor in getting your dream body.

Now for the most common exercising misconception. “Cardio cardio cardio cardio and then maybe a little bit more cardio” STOP! Cardio is great for you and you should definitely use it as a tool in your weight loss journey, but if you want to look lean and normal once you get the weight off you should focus on weight lifting, weight lifting burns calories in the moment as well as after your workout. For me, I lift 3-5x a week and do a cardio/hiit exercise either after lifting or on off days. What’s hiit? High intensity interval training. It’s the better version of cardio. For example, I run as hard as I can on a treadmill for 45 seconds then a swift walk for 15. There is tons and tons of hiit exercises online, but if you’re serious about exercise stick with lifting, it’ll do you weight loss wonders.

As of now this is all I can think of, but I’ll update later on if I think of more tips. Thanks for reading and get on that grind!

Edit: spelling/thermic effect of food

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