Monday, January 14, 2019

[Day 1] I actually started!

Hi everyone :)
I (24/F) just started what I hope will be my last weight loss journey.
I've been overweight my whole life, and since I started high school my weight has been going up slowly but steadily. I have struggled with bulimia in the past, and I still have a hard time dealing with my emotions when it comes to food: I guess you could say I'm an emotional eater. I love food and I love cooking, but I also turn to food for comfort and to ease my anxiety. In the past few years I worked a lot on accepting my body and its "flaws", so I'm not starting this journey because I hate my body, or because it disgusts me, but because I want to take better care of it, instead of neglecting it and trying to hide it.
I now weight 86 kg (189 lbs) and I plan to reach my goal weight (60 kg/ 132 lbs) by the end of the year.
I'm planning to watch my calorie intake, to watch my portions and to avoid certain foods that I know are not good for me (diary, refined carbs and sugar) every time I can. I'd also like to be more active, so I'm trying to incorporate 30 minutes of cardio in my everyday routine, given the fact I don't like sports at all but feel very good when I move my body more.

I hope this sub will keep me motivated, and I hope I can help someone here too!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 14 January 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Sunday, January 13, 2019

Looking forward to this journey!

Hey Everyone!

I just subscribed to this subreddit 5 minutes ago after spending about 2 hours reading through some of the posts and material. This place is so inspiring and motivating, I'm glad I found this!!

I just created a MyFitnessPal account 3 days ago and have been logging everything I eat, as well as all of my exercises. I am male, 27 years old, 6'1" and currently weigh 313lbs. My goal is to lose 2lbs per week, and the ultimate goal is to get to 200lbs. Once I reach that goal, I will set a new one. Until I was about 18, I was active, playing on sports teams including soccer, rugby and basketball. I hit heavy depression in college due to various reasons, and the next 6 years I put on weight year after year. I am now doing 9Round Fitness 5 days per week, which is a kickboxing inspired cardiovascular workout. On the other days I am hitting the elliptical for 30 minutes. I want to start with weight loss before putting on too much muscle so that I can keep up with the pace.

I have very little experience with working out, nutrition and calorie counting, and the general world of the exercising. On the plus side, I am a full time head chef, so cooking a healthy meal shouldn't be difficult (though very boring haha).

Anyways, I just wanted to introduce myself and I hope to meet some like minded people. Any advice would be appreciated (the do's and do not's that I may not be aware of). I am excited to be a part of this community and find the motivation I need.

Looking forward to the journey.

— FinnAnotherHuman

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[Day 1] I guess its time to buy a scale.

I'm 29(F) and about 167cm tall. I've been lurking on /r/loseit without really posting for probably 4 or so years. This time last year I had just moved to a new country and was still relatively happy about my weight even if I'd let myself go a bit. But moving to a new place where my food choices are limited in ways I haven't worked out how to deal with, and my stress levels have fluctuated quite a lot, has been hell on my waistline. I think I'm probably back up to my highest previously recorded weight, around 76kg. As I've become less careful about my eating choices, fallen into old habits of comfort eating, and quite frankly, have been seduced by the incredible chocolate here, I've noticed that a few of my chronic issues have gotten worse. More weight means my asthma is no longer under control and my chronic pain, inflammation, and fatigue have flared up full-force. I have GERD, and while I'm finally on a medication that is helping me, I still experience some pretty excruciating chest pain on the regular, and my reflux isn't entirely controlled. I know this is because I'm eating foods that aggravate it, and I wont be able to get it under control if I don't change something. Add to that the fact that I have a handful of mild to moderate food allergies that are incredibly difficult to avoid in the typical diet here, and more often than not, I've decided to suffer the consequence instead of avoiding foods I should that happen to be easy or that I particularly like. I know this is a really bad thing to do, and I could potentially make my allergies much worse, but I'm struggling to find a way around those foods that doesn't make me completely miserable. The whole combination of issues is bad for me, and both my body and my self-esteem have suffered as a result. I've strictly controlled my diet in the past, cut out everything I was allergic to and dropped down to 62kg. I felt great about my body, but I had so much anxiety and anger surrounding what I was allowed to eat that I was equally miserable in some ways. With the recently diagnosed GERD to deal with on top of it, I'm somewhat terrified about going back to hating food and an even more restrictive diet. I need to find a happy medium between attending to my needs and finding ways to legitimately enjoy and improve my relationship with food, but I'm not sure where to start. I'm in a much better place mentally these days, and although I still worry about food becoming a source of stress again, I'm finally feeling ready to tackle it. I could really use some accountability, though. That said, I have a few hurdles to jump to get things rolling.

  • I don't actually own a scale. To be honest, I'm not even sure what a scale is called here, though both problems are probably a quick fix. I'm going to see if I can head out and find one later today.
  • My diet is going to be a pain to work out. My GERD is moderate and inching its way toward severe, which means there is a ton of foods I should be limiting in my diet if they aggravate my symptoms. I don't know what these foods are for me because I haven't stopped eating shit I'm allergic too long enough to establish a baseline. But, considering I'm allergic to milk, chicken, chicken eggs, corn, and peanuts, eliminating additional foods on top of that honestly makes the whole eating thing feel insurmountable. I can't even imagine how I could begin to enjoy food with such limitations. I'm not sure what to do about this one, other than start weaning myself off the foods I'm allergic to and hope I can find things I like just as much.
  • Exercise is difficult for me. I have fibro and I haven't take care of myself, so my current threshold for what I can handle before my body goes into a full-on meltdown is pretty low. I realize exercise is not strictly necessary for weight loss, but I now live in a place where most people I see are fit and tall and confident. I can choose at least two of those things for myself. My friends here all do pole dancing and aerial, and I really want to start going with them when I can finally afford to. However, I know that if I can't spend a few hours walking around the city without enduring a flare-up that knocks me out for a week, then I'm not in the right place to start something as intense as pole. I'd like to change that. My fiance has started up a training regiment three times a week, and although I can't join him on his, maybe there is some way I can start baby-stepping my way to better physical health by doing things in the same time-slot.
  • Probably the biggest hurdle is that I haven't worked out how to handle balancing my fiance's nutritional needs with my own. I do most of the cooking, though we have assistants that can help 4 days a week. He's struggled a bit with pain induced anorexia as a byproduct of living with a spinal chord injury, and he is on a diet intended to help him gain weight (his last weigh-in was 49kg, and he's doing great progress-wise!) I've been eating the same meals we make for him like a dope because I rarely have the energy to cook more than one meal, but I suppose I'll have to dredge it up from somewhere now. It would really help to have some quick options I can actually make myself eat.

This was long, and I may be mostly typing to myself, but I'm tentatively hopeful that I can manage to make things stick this time with the help of such a positive community.

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Monday, 14 January 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

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Finding motivation in the little things

Hey, all. I've lurked this sub for almost a year now.

I began taking my weight loss journey seriously last January and began dieting and just making healthier choices for myself. I would typically have Greek yogurt, hummus and veggies, cereal, salads with chicken, and chicken or fish with veggies as my main meals/snacks. I allowed myself to indulge in unhealthier foods and alcohol with my friends. It was going well for quite a few months, and I lost about 30 pounds by the spring. The weight loss continued and things were going well.

I hit some rough patches in life shortly after that. Being unemployed and depressed really made me not care about what I ate - I just wanted feel good food that was easy to get. Although I had been consistently losing more, I began to hit a plateau. Soon, during the summer, I gained about 10 pounds and was back in the 210s. Once I moved home (July), the depression got worse and I was just either indulging in food or having no appetite at all. The past few months, I've been eating less (I no longer need as much food to get full), but I wasn't really watching what I was eating. Because I was eating less and not having much of an appetite due to depression, I continued to lose weight slowly again until I got to about 190.

However, I got a FitBit for Christmas and it has really reinvigorated me to start dieting and being more conscientious of my eating habits. It might sound silly, but this little FitBit has given me so much motivation. I now track all of my meals and snacks, I have my weight set up with my next goal, and I just LOVE seeing how many steps I take in a day! I am still unemployed and feeling bad because of that, but my FitBit has actually made me want to just go out and walk around just so I can see how many thousands of steps I take without even realizing it! This has honestly gotten me back into a mindset where I really want to start seeing changes in myself again. I was starting to feel how I felt back at 230 pounds. Feeling ugly and gross. Today, I stepped on the scale to see that I've lost 3 pounds since I last checked my weight.

I see all these posts here and I am always so moved and motivated by the hard work people put into their own weight loss journeys, so I am ready to continue mine. Keep up the great work, even if you get a little derailed along the way!

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How do I get my friend to stop pressuring me into joining weight watchers without revealing my history with eating disorders?

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this so apologies if it isn't.

So I have a history with bulimia dating back to when I was 11, last year I finally got a doctor to notice how bad it had gotten and not dismiss me because I was overweight, now I go to regular ED therapy. I have an appropriate excersise plan, and my eating plan is to eat when I'm hungry making sure to eat at least two balanced meals per day. I have access to a gym in my building and asked one of my friends to be my gym-buddy so that I would have more of a reason to go regularly. The problem started when during a conversation about healthy weight loss she mentioned weight watchers and how good it had been for her (she already lost 3 st).

I know weightwatchers would be a very bad idea for me, regular public weigh-in's, neigh obsessive counting of calories/points, and weightloss targets are all triggers for me. I politely declined but now she brings up weightwatchers almost every time she sees me, she talks about how good it would be for me and how much weight I could loose, I'm rapidly running out of ways to say no. How do I make her understand that weightwatchers is not for me without hurting her feelings or telling her about my eating disorder history.

Anyone else ever been through the same thing?

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