Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 10 April 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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A few questions/concerns about my weight-loss (Longish)

Hey everyone!

First post on here, be kind. Also somewhat long. TLDR at the bottom.

At the moment I am super frustrated with my weight loss and wondered if anyone had a similar experience. I, a very heavy woman, recently started a job about a month a go that requires a lot of running around on my feet, I'm talking between 6-8 hours a day standing, climbing ladders and walking with at max 30 minute break. As a result, I am definitely (fitter in terms of stamina and that's great, but I from weighing myself from start to now, I have somehow put ON weight about 2-3lbs from last weigh in).

I've been offered some explanation by various people that I am building muscle mass and obviously muscle is heavier, so to be expected. Also, that due to the fact that I restrict myself to drinking only water at work, that I might also be carrying water weight as well. I realise that both of these suggestions are biologically valid, it just doesn't feel like enough to explain why I have GAINED weight. Being above 20st (127kg) I expected it to just kinda fall off regardless of these factors, however naive that was.

I admit my diet isn't the best, but its definitely better and I'm working on it. I have a very bad sugar tooth and its hard to know how to combat that. As a result of work, I do eat more consistently and try to have relatively healthy lunch (defaulted to pesto pasta with crap tonnes of veg atm).

I realise the fact that the number on the scale isn't everything, and I can feel it in myself that I am definitely fitter, and I should be pleased with that progress. Going from being relatively sedentary to doing 20+ hours on my feet is in a big accomplishment but it feels tainted by this silly number. I am going on holiday in July and really wanted to be that bit slimmer and treat myself to a new swimming costume but held off because "Ooo I might be a bit skinnier!" but that now feels futile.

Rambling aside, I was wondering if anyone had been through similar changes and experienced weight gain? Did it come off later? How long did it take? etc. It's all very demoralising and just kinda looking for light at the end of the tunnel.

Thanks for reading, any feedback is appreciated.

TLDR: Heavy woman goes from a relatively sedentary life to a very active job and over the span of a month puts ON weight instead of loosing it. Cue angry bear mode and seeking advice.

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Tuesday, April 9, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 10 April 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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15 lb weight loss

Over the past few months I made a decision that I wanted to be fit and fifty. Since I have a year to go, I began the journey to get back in shape in January. I have a hectic schedule working and running a nonprofit on top of being the dad to a 13 year old athlete. I wanted to encourage my son to be his physical best, but found it hard to encourage him from the sidelines. In January, I began a calorie restrictive diet and began increasing my physical activity. I have been a gym member for years but only went occasionally.
I decided to change that. Good bye Netflix and bottles of wine, hello water and weights.

It is working. Today, I feel better about my progress than I have since I started. I am seeing huge progress.

Here are the pics of me today, and me the night I started in January.

Progress Pics

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My weight loss made me unattractive to my (now ex) girlfriend and it’s fucking with my head

For reference I’m 26, male, 5’9, and currently ~175lbs.

I first started dating my ex in late 2017. At the time I weighed about 230lbs...at my heaviest I weighed 235. In the time since then I started taking my health seriously, dieting and going to the gym. She was supportive the whole time, things were going well with us, we had some serious conversations about the future (she told me she wanted to have children together which thoroughly spooked me to be honest).

A few months ago, things seemed to go downhill between us. She stopped initiating or being responsive when I did. I tried talking to her, and asking her about it, to no avail — she insisted that everything was fine.

About a month and a half ago, after a night out and quite a few drinks for both of us, I tried initiating and she responded with “I don’t want to. You’re too skinny.” The look of disgust on her face was unmistakable.

She didn’t remember the next day, but things kept deteriorating and we called it quits a week ago.

The urge to eat and stop working out is insane. I’ve been able to resist it so far by sheer determination, but part of me keeps thinking I should just give in and things will be better between me and her — minus this weight thing, we had something very special. Intellectually I know I’m still overweight, but damn...it’s hard.

TL;DR: I’m still fat but she was turned off because I was “too skinny” and it’s fucking with my head.

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40 lb weight loss (28F)

https://imgur.com/a/oDinT3w

I posted a few months ago after losing 27 lbs. I have now lost 40.6lbs and can finally really see a difference.

I am 5'4" and have went down two scrub sizes (I'm trying on a scrub top in my newest photo)! I use myfitnesspal and still do home workouts. I'd really love to start going to the gym this spring.

My weight loss has had an interesting impact on my day to day life. I've been making a lot of new friends. I have always been an introvert. Many acquaintances have recently been making an effort to hang out with me, talk to me, text me. This has been the most unexpected change.

I went on a job interview around a month ago and killed it. The nurses in the peer interview really liked me and one added me on Facebook about 15 minutes later. She messaged me that she can't wait for me to start, all of the nurses gave me a raving review. I was really laid back in my interview and fit in well. This is very unusual for me because I get anxious and awkward.

I'm starting my new job in a week. It's an ER position in a big hospital. 40lbs ago, I don't know that I would have even applied. I would have been scared of the pace. I'm nervous, but there's a lot of excitement there, too.

I just thought I'd share all these little differences I've noticed. I'm not quite done yet... I'd like to lose another 30lb. I've been at this since October 16th, 2018. 😊

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My close friend (and ex coworker) snubbed me when she saw me today and acted really weird. Turns out, she didn’t RECOGNIZE me at ALL!!!

I manage a gym. When I was promoted in October, I realized how awkward I felt being a fat gym manager. I stopped eating as much, stopped drinking, bought an exercise bike and plopped it in front of my tv, and lost 40 pounds. I went from a size 20/22 to a 14 and I am LOVING life.

Today, my old coworker came in to workout. Her and I were always close, and she often chats with me for a while before working out. Tonight, she barely glanced at me and didn’t return my hello. I thought it was weird, but didn’t give it too much thought. I went out on the floor a little while and sat on a bench by her, waiting for her to finish her set so we could catch up. She was super standoffish, wouldn’t look at me, and finally slowly took her earbuds out and turned to me.... and she was shocked!! She said “Oh my god, I thought you were a new hire. I didn’t recognize you AT ALL. Holy crap, how much weight did you lose?!”

I was so flattered, I almost cried 😂

Coolest moment i’ve had regarding my weight loss to date (next one will be fitting back in my wedding dress!)

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