Saturday, October 12, 2019

NSV and First SV: Fitting Into My Fat Suit

My first scale victory: I started this journey 12 weeks ago at 280 pounds. 12 weeks later I am now at 244 pounds. This is my first scale victory as its my first goal on my weight loss journey. My remaining goals are 225 in 7 weeks (In a rush for Thanksgiving), then I will recalculate timelines to hit 200 lbs, 185 lbs and a final goal of 175. I fully expect that once I get down to 205 my weightless will slow significantly, probably to 1.5 lbs a week.

My none scale victory was twofold, first is that people I know have noticed my weight loss and people at the grocery store that I go into weekly keep asking me how I am losing the weight so quickly. The second and more important NSV is that I fit into my 'fat suit' and XL shirts again. I say this is my 'fat suit' because as I gained weight I had to buy new work clothes at different stages in the weight gain journey. The new clothes actually correspond with my weight goals listed above and this was the last fitted suit that I purchased. So I am very happy about this development.

How am I losing the weight? Well, I started August 1st and began eating the keto diet. I use this diet only because it suppresses hunger due to the high fat content and no other reason. I eat between 1600-2000 calories a day. The first 2 months I only dieted and walked roughly 5-10 miles a day. The last week of September I began to lift weights again and have been doing so 5 days a week religious. I probably only walk 3-4 miles a day now that I am working out, but I do spend 45 minutes to 1.5 hours on some type of cardio at the gym. As I get less fat, I will start to do HIIT, which will reduce my cardio time even further, down to 45 minutes a day maximum.

Finally, there have been ups and downs during this process. Until two days ago, I had been stalled for 2-2.5 weeks and that was very discouraging. I kept following and trusting the process and woke up 2 days ago having lost 6 lbs. So for anyone worried about stalling out, just keep accurately counting your calories and trusting/following your process.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 12 October 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Advice on how to start eating again

Hi, after a year and a half being “helped” by coaches that lowered my kcal to the lowest (900kcal) I realized that I might not be losing weight because I am not eating enough and my body is storaging fat. I am 164cm tall and I weight 64kg, being that way for the past year. I workout 5/6 days a week and I do fasted cardio and post workout cardio too (30 min each). I think I am going to stop working with that coach who put me in a 900kcal diet because I think that is what is causing me a highly increased cortisol and an impossible weight loss. I’ve never felt ill while working out but these last two weeks have been terrible and I couldn’t finish some workouts due to that. However, I would like to know how to start eating again to avoid gaining weight and fat, which is driving me crazy.

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Friday, October 11, 2019

I don't know how to continue my weight loss journey

It's currently 12:45 am, but I care about myself too much to forget to ask.

I'm 15, and have been struggling with body image and weight problems for nearly ten years. That's how long I've been criticized for how large I am. I'm not morbidly obese, but I've gotten stuck in go karts and roller coasters. Anyways, not the point.

Recently, I've decided to try to improve myself, FOR myself. Since I was doing it for myself, I thought it would be easier. I managed to lose 14 pounds, about half of my goal for 2019, even while being in and out of the hospital. I was making good decisions on my own with what we had in the house. I walk 2.5 miles home from school everyday. I played tennis when I could. I was really proud of myself. Then, my family stopped helping me. I asked my family if they could bring me to the store to get some salad mix (which is pretty much all the healthy fruit/vegetables I can eat, since I have OAS and a latex allergy). My parents kept putting it off. I ate a waffle every day for breakfast, a salad and a protein bar for lunch, and whole grain pasta or chicken for dinner. My parents stopped buying all of it. Like I said, I'm 15. I can't drive, nor can I legally work, and therefore, I can't buy my own stuff. The stuff they bought was full of carbs, knowing full and well what I was trying to achieve. I don't understand why.

I went back up 4 lbs since it's more unhealthy to starve, which was the only other option I think there is. My dad pressured me into eating ice cream, even though I told him it would affect me negatively. When I went to the doctor on Wednesday, my mom told me to weigh myself beforehand, so I did. The number wasn't my best, but it was a lot farther from the worst. Then when I got weighed at the doctor, it was 6 pounds more than the scale at home. Now I didn't know which was right. I based my starting point off from the number I got on my first hospital visit. If the doctor's office scale was right, and so was the one at the hospital, that would mean I've lost 3 lbs, while I thought I lost 13. Worst part was, when I refused to tell my mom the number from the doctor's office, she called the doctor to get it herself. Maybe I should have just told her.

Sorry mods for really going off on a tangent. I felt like I needed to vent, to blow off steam. My question is:

How do I lose the weight with all of my restrictions? No fruits (besides citrus) or veggie trays, and my mom does not want to put me on pills or nutrient supplements, even if we had the money, which we do not.

I want to feel good about my body for the first time in 10 years.

Thanks for reading all of this. Hope someone can help.

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7 months in and I am down 100 pounds!!

Before and after pics

Starting my diet I went down to 1250 calories per day and I was riding a bike 5-10 miles 3-4 days per week. I then got a membership to a gym and started on the elliptical and doing light weights on the machines. Then I decided to try and start running and moved to free weights. I go to the gym 5-6 days per week. I do a split routine Monday/Thursday I do pushing muscles, Tuesday/Friday I do pulling muscles. Wednesday I do legs, and Saturday is just a long cardio session (I like to run 5k) Once I started working out really hard and often I bumped my calories per day up to 1500-1700. I found that on 1250 calories I was just exhausted all the time and I knew I wasn't doing myself any favors. My gym does monthly "health coaching" where you go in and step on the scale and talk to a trainer. My trainer has been absolutely amazing. He is extremely motivational. I find it extremely helpful to be accountable to someone other than yourself. So I think these monthly visits are really helpful.

I know the road from 215 to 175 is going to be slower than my initial progress, but I am super excited to hit the "down 100 pounds" milestone. Next stop 199!!!

Thank you so much to the r/loseit community. You're all amazing and have been a huge part of my weight loss journey.

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Advice about changing your relationship with food and therapy.

Wall of emotionally mobile formatted text warning...

Quick back story. 32M 5'9" SW(heaviest): 403 CW: 384. I've been going at this for nearly a decade as the weight slowly started to pile on over the years after sustaining an injury to where I couldn't play college football anymore. It wasn't debilitating truly, minor surgery, but it was a wake up call that I needed an education not more concussions.

So no one taught me truly how/what to eat afterwards though. I no longer needed a high caloric diet that I would burn off or turn to muscle. This carried through the years as my energy decreased, fatigue set in and complacency took over. I was no longer the athlete. I was the couch potato. I found solace in food. The comfort of feeling full. I over eat and I had (have) a hard time controlling it. I physically can't seem to stop myself. I know I only need a 6oz portion of that prime rib but it comes in 12oz slabs so I eat it. After all, my parents taught me to always clean my plate.

Through the years I would try various diets, food addicts anonymous, Atkins, general CICO etc... All to no success. Don't get me wrong FAA got me down to 323, but life would happen and I gained it back plus some and could never get back on that wagon. I would read stories on this sub that would truly inspire me. I would read articles about people having their weight loss epiphany and they were able to instantly turn their life around. When I found out I was going to be a father in 2014 I thought, "This is it, my epiphany is here. I'll lose the weight for this beautiful baby girl I have now. SHE, is my life changing moment."

Well 5 years and one additional kid on top of that and I'm still waiting. Now I can't stop feeling like I'm failing my family. My kids, my wife, they have given so much. My wife is the most supportive person there is and my feeling of constant failure to her support tears me apart.

Now I'm throwing one wrench into this. About a month ago I went in to have a meniscus repaired in my left knee. Come to find out the meniscus was fine but the cartilage surrounding my femur had deteriorated to a grade three osteoarthritis. Never knew I had osteoarthritis till then. And grade three damage is one step away from a total knee replacement... At 32 years old. And the corticosteroid injection failed.

ANYWAYS, a couple of days ago I made the choice to start the process of bariatric surgery. I spoke with my doctor and am going to do 6 months of medically supervised weight-loss which is a requirement for the insurance. She also started me on Adipex. Well I just found out today that my BMI is so high that I can actually have the 6 month requirement and some other things waived. I'm not sure how I feel about this. The thought of getting the surgery done quick so I can start losing weight faster and sooner is obviously appealing. But I know the more weight I can lose over this six months could be beneficial prior to surgery as well. This leads to the title.

Regardless of when I choose to do the surgery, I'm worried that my relationship with food will have set me up for failure. How can I change my relationship with food to be one of respect, understanding, appreciation and above all else, control when my will power is seemingly non-existent? I know I need to make a lifestyle change. My wife is worried that it's going to be more of the same from me though. Empty promises and broken dreams. Can you blame her? She's been by my side for 12 years now. I want to prove her wrong though. I want to show her and everyone that I can do this. So please, any advice or comments or discussions are welcomed and appreciated.....and to my wife who I know is a lurker on this sub. I love you.

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Loose skin

I have a question for you that have lost weight and know about the aftermath. I'm an active 18 year old that has worked out every day for the past 15 years of my life basically (sports). For some reason, even though I've given full effort and tried my best at everything and also not been eating bad throughout my life (my brother is skinny for example). I'm on a weight loss journey atm and I was wondering if any of you know anything on excess skin/loose skin. My goal is to lose 30kg/65 pounds or so- I'm 18 years old and 6 foot. I dont weigh obnoxiously much and I'm kind of fit for my weight if I'm going to be honest, as well as having minimal stretch marks.

Was just wondering if anyone has been in the same situation as me, people tell me that I won't have any loose skin because I'm in good form and also young so my skin will evolve if I don't rush into losing all the weight in 3 months.

Thanks beforehand.

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