Saturday, April 11, 2020

Any patient lil angels willing to answer a few questions for an anxious weight loss newbie?

I'm a 25 year old woman that's 5'2 + 216/217 lbs. I'm a perfectionist with body dysmorphia and currently recovering from bulimia. I really want to do this right. I have somewhat of a plan but tbh I don't know exactly what I'm doing and I just need a bit of validation or some advice.

My makeshift plan involves counting calories and maintaining a daily limit of 1,420, cutting out diet soda completely (which is going to be difficult for me but I know it's important), and walking on an inclined treadmill for an hour everyday.

Here's where I have questions:

• I CANNOT cook. At all. What do you guys suggest? Frozen microwavable meals? Soups? Pick-up on the go wraps? What do YOU usually do?

• I know weight training is also an important factor with losing weight to tone everything up and gain muscle. Where do I start? Do I weight train + do cardio on the same days? Why are protein shakes so important anyway? When do I introduce those into my diet? Do I even NEED to drink them?

• When is it time to change up exercises? I can't do the treadmill forever probably...or can I? What are the best exercises for beginners? How do you know which exercises are right for you?

• How do you keep yourself composed and not overwhelm yourself? This is my biggest problem. I want to do everything perfect on the first try and I tend to overdo everything. I know it's not realistic to run before you crawl but I can't grasp the mindset of starting small because I'm always comparing my journey to someone else's.

I'm just a big question mark when it comes to starting out and I would love if you could even answer one of these questions. I've been an anxious wreck with my stomach in knots, losing sleep because I'm overthinking everything and convincing myself that I'm going to screw up before I even get a chance to start. I just need to know if I'm on the right path.

Any and all suggestions are welcomed and appreciated!

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...and I am back

Three years ago I went from 210 lbs (92kg) to 175 lb (80kg). I am 5'4" (1.66m) and so I was kinda happy to have half of the weight loss behind me. I graduated and got an office job and didn't see my girlfriend as often anymore, now I am at my heaviest at 240lbs (101.7 kg). I am so dang angry with myself to have let it come that far but luckily, I know what worked for me the first time I actually lost it so I'll just do that. I thought I'd share. Of course, not all tips are for everyone but maybe someone wants to hear them.

Food in general

I tried losing weight without telling my family since they aren't a big fan of it. My parents are overweight themself and would try to offer me much of candy or putting extra much on my plate, so I had to somehow try to avoid it. I prepared my own meals for school and looked that it was in a nice calorie range.

  • Lifesum really helped me.
    I had the pro version but the version for free is good as well. Basically, it doesn't only tell you if your meal has enough calories (I tend to not eat enough while dieting) it only tells you if it has enough fat, protein and carbs. It gives you smileys, depending on how great your meal was. In the premium version, it also tells you why the smileys are that way and you can choose some other diets and recipes, but seriously, the free version is awesome too!
  • I tried to cut down on snacks unless I was really hungry and not even a glass of water would help.
  • I concentrated on eating.
    It's such a ridiculous thing and I didn't believe it at first but I switched off my radio/TV/computer during eating and it really helped me to appreciate the food. I don't need to see the latest Blacklist season while eating.
  • Full equalled stop.
    I got so much of that "People are starving in Africa, you ungrateful child" crap as a kid, so much even that I'd rather throw up than leave my plate unfinished. I stopped doing that. As soon as I felt full, I stopped

Eating out

  • I picked my battles.
    My family would never eat out and order less than three courses which was a problem for me for a long time. But it's manageable: Either I took soup for a starter (broth) or a light salad. Instead fo pasta, I took the salmon, etc. Dessert was tricky but the sorbet was my best friend, honestly
  • I skipped dessert
    When not out with my family but with friends I only cut the dessert, never the starter.

Candy

  • I ate a row of chocolate on my first day.
    I know, it sounds paradox because we would like to eat healthy, right? But I do like some chocolate now and then and all my previous attempts failed because I ate some candy and gave it up right away. The idea of this is to maintain a healthy calorie intake while I am not freaking out after eating a few gummy bears. This way, I didn't quit after a birthday party or Christmas.
  • I allowed myself to eat candy, but only the recommended serving sizes.
    Basically, I would open my chocolate bar or gummy bears or whatever and I would put them into their serving sizes (17 gummy bears a serving, I remember that). I'd put them in little glasses and put them away from view. I was allowed one serving a day. If I remembered I had candy lying around I could take the glass and eat them. Suddenly, my gummy bears I adore lasted a whole weak instead of half an hour, sometimes even two because I completely forgot about them.

Exercise

  • I started using 8Fit.
    8Fit is another high-intensity program like seven. It really helped me since I am someone who has a lot of excuses to not exercise and "no time" is the top one. But I can't keep a straight face while saying I don't have eight minutes. It also has a premium version but I used the free one and I really liked it. You can start with "beginner" and they make you keep going. Also, you can exchange some exercises with another one if you don't feel like it.
  • Couch to 5k is nice, too.
    I know there are a million apps like that. This one was the only one that cost money right away ($2.99, I think). Basically, it's a nine weeks plan that even lets beginners master a 5 miles run. You can choose between a few instructers (average girl, sports girl, drill sergeant, unicorn, zombie) and they will at first tell you when to run and when to walk, the intensity obviously increases but it's baby steps and I liked that as a person that hated running.
  • Public transport was only an emergency plan.
    I live in a small town (10'000) and to walk to the shop took about half an hour. I started walking that distance and only use public transport for things further away than 35 minutes by foot.

Friends, Cinema and other stuff

  • I had a very fit friend and she made me look into things that were incredible!
    As I said, I grew up in a family that was overweight from the start. I was baffled when we were at the cinema and my friend just ordered some diet coke. The idea of not ordering any nachos or popcorn had really never occurred to me or the fact that you could in fact just meet to walk around a bit without going to the store and get some ice cream to go. Every time I was out I asked myself: Am I hungry? Do I need food or do I think it's polite to eat now? Life-changing.

Of course, I still gained weight after my office job and falling back into old habits, so it's obviously not, without flaw but I will try to start these habits again and hope I could help someone along the way!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 11 April 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Friday, April 10, 2020

[NSV] - Noticing how my eating habits have changed

For the last couple of weeks, I've more or less stopped tracking calories, which I had been doing seriously for about a year and a half. I'm a student, so I'm headed into finals season so between that, being stuck at home and not being able to go to the gym, I figured I would take calorie counting off my plate for a month. It helps me focus on exercise as a way to stay sane, not to help weight loss and I figured there's enough going on as is.

Anyhow, I've been weighing myself every few days, as usual, just to keep an eye on things. I was fully expecting to gain a couple of pounds and saw maintaining as a best-case scenario, but lo and behold I've actually lost about a pound in those two weeks. It's not mounds of progress, but I was really proud to see that my natural behaviours have changed. I never thought that I could lose any weight without tracking my food and exercise, even loosely, but it seems like a year and some of retraining my body and reevaluating my relationship with food has actually made a difference (which was not the case when I took a few week's worth of break this summer!).

It took me this long to realize that my healty actions had really turned into healthy habits and I hope that all of you out there who maybe aren't sticking to their plan quite as exactly as before can find something like that too. It has made me feel a whole lot better about my current situation :)

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Lost more than 10% of my body weight from my highest (recorded) weight!

hi everyone. I'm back (after 2 months) so last time, I was here, I talked about being overweight ( after being obese for nearly a year or more). well, I didn't include everything back then. my mom had given me a challenge to lose 8 kg in the span of Jan-March so that I would get some money ( ok it was a lot of money :P). I was 74.6 kg in the beginning of Jan. So, in the end, I only lost about 5.8 (????) kg in those three months. Well, it didn't really matter. Once you see those numbers come down, you become obsessed with the numbers ( might come off too strong), but the gist is that you want to see further and further reductions in the numbers of your weight. that with me wanting to look good and wanting to be proud of my own body ( instead of being jealous of other people's bodies because they're fit and I'm not, I started losing weight even more. While I saw the numbers come down, it didn't really click for me(???). but when I looked back at my pics in the same T-shirt from Oct 3 2019 to the 8th or 9th of april, there was so much change, like I couldn't believe it!

Back on Oct 3 2019, I was 77.3 kg. One or two days ago, I was 68.3 kg. A 9 kg drop/ 11.3% drop.

Fingers crossed to further weight loss :D.

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First step...

So about three days ago I had what I considered a panic attack and I've been having slight pain in my chest and abdomen since. Today I made a conscious decision to eat significantly healthier, which is all the more difficult because I'm quarantined with my family right now( I'm in college). I bought my own groceries which no one else in the house can eat and cooked myself fish for dinner while everyone else had burgers and hotdogs. Everyone in my family just kinda brushes this off as a phase or something and they don't understand why I want to eat healthy. But then again both my parents are morbidly obese. The point is... don't let anyone treat you wrong for wanting to make healthy decisions about your life, especially if they never do. Just wanted to share, and looking for moral support since no one around me currently supports me. Good luck in everyone's weight loss journey.

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Stepped on the scale for the first time in years today, and it's terrifying.

I knew a got fat, but I guess I was in denial of how fat I got.

255.4lbs. That's a lot for someone that's 5'7".

I haven't changed my diet at all in the last decade or so, but my lifestyle didn't change. I went from running 40mpw, playing basketball, and biking a ton to barely exercising. I decided that changes today.

From now on, it's exactly 1500 calories a day. I'm also going to go running 5x per week. I just got finished with my first run and I couldn't even make it 5K - I had to start walking just over 2 miles in, despite running fairly slowly at 10 minute miles.

My sedentary BMR at 255 is about 2500 calories per day, plus an additional 2500 calories per week from running.

At my target weight of 160, those numbers are about 2000 and 1750, respectively. That means the median point in my weight loss should have a daily maintenance intake of 2553 calories, 1500 calories a day is about 7000 calories per week net negative, of 2lbs a week weight loss.

It's crazy that a guy has to eat the lowest recommended for men (1500 calories) and run 15 miles a week to hit 2 lbs a week weight loss!

Wish me luck! Hope to be 160 early 2021.

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