Thursday, June 11, 2020

26F - Refused for weight loss surgery - what next? *trigger warning*

I'm not sure where to post so I apologise if this is the incorrect place in advance. Sorry that I'm not sure how to add trigger warnings or etc.

I've struggled with my weight since I started binge eating during my traumatic childhood. I've been overweight (BMI around 27-29) until I went to medical school. I particularly ballooned after I got raped in my early twenties and have stagnated around BMI 45. I tried hard to lose weight when I was younger and managed to lose up to 20 pounds or so. I tried half-heartedly since I ballooned but have struggled to survive with no money and depression up until recently.

I'm a young doctor and finally had to means to seek a private opinion regarding weight loss surgery last year as I knew that weight loss over 100lb has a low % chance of maintenance. I was refused due to my binge eating disorder, psychiatry history (depression and anxiety) and a lack of support network. The bariatric surgeon suggested fasting drinks, a private dietitian and getting psychiatric help. There is no provision for specialised weight loss services through my health care provider (NHS or private) as I'm not a type 2 diabetic yet.

I managed to get well from a psychiatric perspective with a medication change from a psychiatrist and had counselling which touched upon my binge eating. It has improved since I finished this April but I've slipped as I'm currently working on a COVID area and am burnt out from work.

My weight seriously gets me down and I know it reduces how much people respect me professionally and has stopped me having any meaningful relationships with the opposite sex. I know losing it will massively improve my quality of life and mood.

I really want to start trying to lose it naturally since I have no other options. I know no one in real life who has lost significant weight to get advice from.

Questions:

1.) Is natural weight loss of over 100lb possible to maintain?

2.) How would I go about such a monumental task successfully?

3.) I know most of weight loss is food over exercise? But what sort of ratio? I can't jog or run as it ruined my knees even when I was only 20-40lb overweight? Is just brisk walking adequate for now?

4.) Have any of you benefited from seeing a dietitian?

Thanks very much in advance.

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7 Simple Ways to Practice Self Care at Home

Self care can seem, well, selfish. After all, it has “self” right in the name and is time that’s focused exclusively on yourself. For the uninitiated, self care is purposefully and purposely chosen time dedicated to caring for your own health and psychological needs.

Psychologists say this type of “me time” is healthy and important to having healthy relationships with others. So, it’s not selfish! But with jam-packed schedules involving family, kids and work, you may not have time to slip in a spa day on the regular. That’s OK: You can practice self care every day at home with these easy tips that actually fit into your busy schedule. Choose some that you will enjoy and that fit your needs so you can be the best, healthiest, happiest version of you—both for yourself and for all you do for those you love.

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Show yourself some love with these seven simple tips for self care at home:

1. Start with sleep.

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It’s one of the simplest ways to promote proper health: Get 7 to 8 hours of sleep. But more than one-third of Americans—including almost 40 percent of people between the ages of 25 and 54—don’t make the mark, says the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

A lack of sleep, of course, messes with your attitude. According to the Journal of Psychosomatic Research, research shows that lack of sleep can make you overreact to negative stimuli in your life and notice less of the positive things.

Your sleeping habits can also impact your weight loss goals. Lost sleep can make you more likely to snack on “highly palatable, rewarding snacks,” such as cookies, chips and candy, says the University of Chicago News. According to CBS News, lack of sleep can also cost you productivity at work and even literally kill you: Sleeping fewer than 6 hours per night increases your risk of early death by 13 percent.

Make a good night’s sleep a priority. Set an earlier bedtime if you need to, but also make your bedroom a more slumber-friendly space. Make your room as dark as possible and avoid looking at your electronic devices. According Harvard Health Publishing, multiple studies have shown that exposure to blue light can suppress melatonin and impact the circadian rhythm. The National Sleep Foundation says that 71 percent of us go to bed with our smartphones, exposing ourselves to blue light that suppresses melatonin. In fact, when it comes to self care…

2. Give yourself some phone-free time.

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When you view stressful things happening in other people’s lives on social media, you can actually “catch” that stress—your stress levels can increase because of these events happening to other people, says Pew Research Center. According to Science Daily, scientists at Lancaster University have found that certain social media can create a kind of stressful loop: One feature of the platform stresses you out, so you seek to distract from that stress, or cope, by looking at another feature… which also stresses you out.

Give yourself a break. Take some scheduled time away from your phone and your social media. Put the device on “Do Not Disturb” while concentrating on your self care activities, and you could reduce this contagious, self-reinforcing stress.

3. Move your body.

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You already know the physical benefits of exercise—lower risks of heart disease and stroke, better sleep, a rockin’ booty. But moving your body also has powerful effects on your mood and mental health, according to numerous studies. In one study, published in The Lancet Psychiatry, scientists examined the exercise habits and mental health of 1.2 million people. They found that those who exercised regularly had about 43 percent fewer days of “bad self-reported mental health” in a month compared to those who didn’t exercise.

You don’t have to become a powerlifter to reap these benefits, though. In the study, people who played some kind of team sport or rode a bike had the best results. But even just completing household chores had a powerful effect, reducing those “bad mental health” days by 10 percent.

Here at Nutrisystem, we recommend 30 minutes of physical activity per day. If you don’t love to exercise, start with a short walk. A 2015 study, published in the Clinical Journal of the American Society of Nephrology, found that walks of even just two minutes every hour reduced the risk of all-cause mortality—early death—by 33 percent. Put a reminder in your phone to get up and move for an hourly burst of self care.

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4. Spend 20 minutes outside.

vitamin D

About one-third of an hour outdoors can boost feelings of “life satisfaction” by more than 60 percent, according to a study, published in the International Journal of Environmental Health Research. However, getting out of the house—even on days when you’re “stuck at home” has plenty of other health benefits, too.

For starters, you’ll get more vitamin D: It’s estimated that 35 percent of Americans are deficient in D, says research, published in StatPearls. They explain that vitamin D deficiency is linked to osteoporosis, cancer, diabetes, depression, autoimmune disorders and heart disease.

According to ScienceDaily, “Exposing skin to sunlight may help to reduce blood pressure and thus cut the risk of heart attack and stroke.” The study findings, published in the Journal of Investigative Dermatology, show that outdoor time in the sun dilates blood vessels, leading to the drop in pressure

So, set a timer and get outside! You don’t even have to do anything. Research, published in Environmental Health and Preventive Medicine, found that when people in Japan went “forest bathing,” a popular activity where they just go sit in the woods, they experienced a reduction in their cortisol levels and blood pressure.

5. Eat something that will improve your gut health.

gut health

Foods with probiotics, like yogurt, can help lower your blood pressure, improve your oral health and boost your immune system—not to mention the benefits for your waistline. The bacteria in your gut also affects your brain and emotions.

In one study, published in Gastroenterology, scientists gave one group of women a probiotic yogurt two times daily, while another group didn’t get the good bacteria. After four weeks, both groups were given an “emotional task,” a matching test involving pictures of faces. Brain analysis during the task showed that the yogurt-eating group had calmer brains during this test, while the no-yogurt group showed brain “hyperactivity” during the task. Good gut health means a calmer mind that reacts better to problems—exactly what you’re looking for in self care.

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6. Write two thank you notes.

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Showing gratitude has been shown to make you feel better and live longer. According to Harvard Health Publishing, “Dr. Martin E. P. Seligman, a psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania, tested the impact of various positive psychology interventions on 411 people.” It was found that when study subjects wrote a note of gratitude to someone they hadn’t properly thanked, this led to a large, immediate increase in their happiness scores—with some of those feel-good benefits lasting for a month.

But the benefits of gratitude don’t stop at happiness. Your physical health may also be impacted by this positive habit. In a study of heart patients, those who kept a daily gratitude journal, writing down two or three things they were thankful for each day, decreased inflammation and improved their heart rhythms in two months, says Greater Good Magazine. Psychology Today explains, “Grateful people experience fewer aches and pains and report feeling healthier than other people, according to a 2012 study published in Personality and Individual Differences.”

Why two thank you notes? Because one’s for you. After you’ve tapped out a quick note or text of thanks to someone you love or want to thank, take a few moments to thank yourself for something you did—for exercising, making a good choice or even just taking the time for self care.

7. Schedule it!

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It’s easy to let caring for yourself fall to the wayside when you’ve got so many other things on your schedule. However, all the other things on your schedule are exactly why you need (and deserve) self care. There’s a simple way make sure it fits into your schedule: put it in your schedule! Make certain types of self care non-negotiable, must-do items in your daily or weekly routine. That way, you won’t have to try to slip them in—these practices will already be there, ready to help you feel better and be your best for all the other amazing things you do.

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Lost 20kg, want to lose another 16.5kg

Hi All,

Long time lurker, first time poster, looking for advice/guidance/further inspiration !

A little background:

- around April last year i weighed 96kg (211lbs) and am now down to 76.5kg (169lbs) woo. I'm really happy with this progress. My goal weight is about 60kg and would love to decrease my body fat % (not sure what it is atm) and actually get fitter (eg run a 10k or whatever)

- ive not been religious about weighing myself in that time and i think ive prob had some up and down in that time

- i also started really with the low hanging fruit eg stopped eating out as much, quit drinking, started exercise (pre lock down, was going to a spin/HIIT studio about 4 times a week on average)

- These past few weeks that i've started weighing myself I've been stuck where i am (i.e., i'm worried about a plateau)

-Since lockdown, im prob doing HIIT on my peloton about twice a week and I'm probably averaging about 1400 kcal (pre exercise)

- I calculated my calories needed here and it says 1696 to reach 60kg by 1st Jan 2021

Some questions for the very wise people on this group:

(1) Should i increase my calories up to 1700? It seems a lot and I'm worried about weight gain, although i wasn't diligently tracking pre lockdown with all the extra exercise i was doing id guess it netted out to below that. That said, i dont want to be eating too little

(2) Any recommendations for breaking through this plateau?

(3) Do i need to change my diet/exercise regime. As i say, i've taken somewhat of a laissez-faire approach to date and dont track macros and only do cardio, relying mainly on the CICO principal

(4) Is it feasible to lose the additional 16.5kg by new years? its taken me over a year to lose the first 20kg, and i would imagine its harder to lose the second half, but i did so without too much of a focus on it

(5) any tips for the broader fitness point eg running a 10k, reducing body fat % or will that come naturally with further weight loss (i imagine its not so simple!)

Apologies or the long post but any more advice would be appreciated

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I went from 212 pounds to 168 pounds thanks to this app. I finally reached my goal weight.

before and after pic

I graduated college in August of 2019 and got a job as a financial analyst. the first day before work I put on my pants and they didn’t fit. I got anxious and tried on 10 more pairs of pants and they all didn’t fit. I ended up showing up to my first day of work out of college covering my fly with my shirt because I couldn’t even zip my fly.

So, I went home, weighed myself, and I ended up being 212 pounds. My goal was 165 and it just seemed impossible. Lose-it’s dynamic caloric intake is the best thing I’ve seen is a while. It started me off with 2,300 calories and I didn’t even realize that it was lowering itself as I lost weight.

Anyways, from August 2019-June 2020, I lost 42 pounds and ended up gaining muscle and strength at the same time. I couldn’t be more happy. I feel completely different now. I wanted to go down to 165 but I started to feel starved at 170 so I’m maintaining my weight of 168.

The best part about lose-it, is that it stays with you even after the weight loss. Now I’m maintaining calories and lose-it is still with me. I’m still using it! I love this damn thing.

I also don’t even feel like I’m counting calories sometimes. Once you adjust your diet, you’ll realize that you have 300 calories left and it’s 9 pm. Then it’s a chore to eat. I love that sometimes I don’t feel like eating yet I still have calories left. I never thought simply counting calories could be so effective

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I want to be noticed for my weightloss

Is this too much to ask? Do some people simply not notice?

I have lost 26 pounds (F24 5' 5" HW: 167 CW: 141 GW: 130) since January and since the pandemic not many friends have seen me.

Since state laws have loosened i have seen a couple friends in person. Some have complimented me on my weight loss but some have said nothing. My family especially my mom who has commented on my weight throughout my life has noticed and am proud of me.

However my best friend has said nothing. One of our other best friends recently came back from abroad and lost 30-40 lbs which is amazing and have td her so but neither of these friends said anything. My best friend always always comments on my other friend being so skinny and her body looks great but nothing about me.

This best friend started her weight loss journey in January as well but did not keep up when COVID restrictions set in.

I think I look good comparative to my HW but it would feel good for the ones close to me to notice. Maybe I am too reliant on other's perspective on me. But i think I want to be noticed for my accomplishments.

Am I being crazy or do I just have to get to my goal weight for anyone to notice?

PS I publicly tweeted that I am losing weight sustainably and to please compliment me on it because I am working hard so its not like people shod be wary.

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Donating old clothing is the best NSV when this happens

We have each lost so much weight in the past 2 years that we have multiple wardrobes to donate.

As we both went through our old stuff we found some old pants and decided to take photos holding our clothing.

Never in a million years would I have believed this photo a couple years back.

https://imgur.com/a/zmaNX8p

What else is wild is that we are learning how multifaceted healthful living can be. For example We both maintain a calorie deficit. She stays in Ketosis pretty much 24/7 whereas I eat lots of complex carbs now, and yet we both continually amazing results.

We all have a different path. No matter if it's with a partner, weight loss coach, medical clinic, online support group, whatever your route to success, you are unique and will succeed when YOU put in the work for yourself.

There is no magic pill, and let's be real, if there was, most of us couldn't afford it. So let's rock on and keep losing while making gains in this silly little thing we call life.

Love you all! Have a happy Thursday, find success, find hope, and wash your hands!

Weigh food, not people.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 11 June 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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