Sunday, March 7, 2021

Disbelief in weight loss, am I crazy or is it possible??

Hi! I just joined the community because I'm on a weight loss journey and honestly the internet isn't always helpful in answering my questions and I feel like having a supportive community will really help in my weight loss.

I'm a 5'3" female and weighed in at 237 on February 15th. Today, I weighed myself and I was 196. This morning I helped my ex pack up a truck and leave our apartment, the relationship was stressful and we definitely didn't live a healthy lifestyle. I picked up running and I've been eating 1200 calories a day for about 2 weeks and trying to exercise every day as well. Between the 25th of February (223.8lbs, also on period so that definitely added weight) and today (196.8lbs) I've lost almost 30 lbs...is this possible? Is it maybe stress weight that I've lost? I usually sit at 185, im trying to get to 150, is my body trying to normalize back to 185? I don't believe myself that im losing weight, but I know I am because my clothes are fitting much better.

Can someone help explain this?

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Why Stress Keeps You From Losing Weight (and How to Beat It!)

Do you have days when everything seems to be happening at once, when everyone is in need of your attention, when you just can’t catch up with your to-do list? In our busy, multi-tasking lives, stress is almost unavoidable. And that’s not always a bad thing. Stress can be a positive force to help you stay focused and energized. Persistent daily stress, however, can lead to emotional or stress eating and make it harder for you to lose weight. How does that kind of stress affect you and what can you do about it? Here’s what you need to know.

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The Stress Effect and Weight Loss

stressed out woman sitting on couch

Our bodies developed stress responses to prepare us to deal with outside threats and dangerous situations. When trouble arises, we produce adrenaline, which elevates our heart rate and gives us a burst of energy that fuels our “flight or fight” reactions, says Harvard Health Publishing. After the danger is over, the adrenaline wears off and we return to normal.

These days, much of our stress is driven by internal conditions—demands from work and family, worries about money or our health and concerns about what’s going on in the world around us. When we are stressed for days on end, our bodies produce a hormone called cortisol. According to the American Journal of Epidemiology, “women with high waist/hip ratios, regardless of body mass index, were more likely to display higher stress-induced cortisol levels.” Women with high stress-induced cortisol levels have also been shown to eat more snack food. Researchers also state, “chronically elevated cortisol levels, and high cortisol levels are associated with abdominal obesity in both nonhuman primates and humans.”

Stress also affects our daily choices. Many of us turn to food for comfort, eating even when we’re not hungry. What’s worse, stress can lead to emotional eating, causing us to indulge in foods that are high in fat, sugar or both, according to several studies cited in a report by Harvard Health Publishing. Cortisol can lead to increased appetite and sugar cravings, as well as changes in your metabolism, making it difficult to lose weight. Stressed out people also are more likely to drink alcohol, often in larger quantities. Alcohol comes with lots of calories but no nourishment, and it breaks down your resistance to unhealthy food options.

Stress tends to disrupt our sleep, too. According to the National Sleep Foundation, “Two hormones that help regulate hunger—ghrelin and leptin—are affected by sleep: Ghrelin stimulates appetite, while leptin decreases it. When the body is sleep-deprived, the level of ghrelin spikes, while the level of leptin falls, leading to an increase in hunger.” This means that missing out on shuteye can lead to overeating and weight gain.

How to Stress Less

Eliminating stress from your life isn’t easy but you can take steps to reduce it and help yourself feel and look better. You can try simple steps to reduce stress, like getting more sleep, drinking less alcohol or coffee, meditation and regular exercise.

Stay active.

woman exercising on a yoga mat at home to help stress

You’re probably already aware that regular, low-impact aerobic exercise speeds up your metabolism, which helps you shed extra pounds faster. That’s why we recommend at least 30 minutes of physical activity each day on the Nutrisystem weight loss plan. However, light physical activity can also reduce the negative effects of stress, says Mayo Clinic. When you’re active, you burn off nervous energy and your body produces a dose of mood-lifting endorphins. Exercise can also help you to sleep more soundly. Walking briskly for 30 minutes daily—or three 10-minute walks—is enough activity to help you reduce stress and boost weight-loss.

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Try meditation.

A woman meditating outdoors on a yoga mat to help stress

Many people find that setting aside time each day to focus on their breathing, quiet their thoughts and release tension helps ease stress. If sitting still isn’t comfortable for you, you might want to try Tai Chi, an easy-to-learn practice that is like meditation in motion. Check out YouTube for videos on meditation and Tai Chi.

Eat well and practice mindful eating.

A man cooking with healthy fresh produce to help stress

You can’t control the outside world. However, you can do one thing each day to feel good and get ready to face whatever happens. “Good nutrition is an important stress management tool. When our bodies are poorly fed, stress takes an even greater toll on our health. Nutrition and stress are interlinked,” says The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. They recommend eating regularly throughout the day to keep your blood sugar levels stable, as well as eating healthy omega-3 fats, plenty of vegetables, high-fiber foods and healthy snacks filled with protein and fiber.

Start by planning healthy meals that fuel your body with all the nutrients it needs. Fill up your grocery list with fresh, non-starchy vegetables, lean proteins and high-fiber options to complement your healthy Nutrisystem meal plan. Remember to eat regularly and keep your meals and snacks spaced out every two to three hours. Remind yourself that even on the roughest days, you’re still on your way to a healthier, happier you.

*Always speak with your doctor if you are feeling overly stressed.

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i am actually losing weight for the first time in my life and i don’t know how to deal with it but i am so happy

hi! so i‘m a 20 year old girl and ever since i got into middle school i wanted to look like a stereotypical supermodel (silly, i know). i went to a school that focused on dance, ballet in particular, and as any of you who did ballet will know that the bullying and toxicity in that environment is brutal. i used to constantly get bullied and excluded for being weird and fat (even though i was never more than 5kg overweight) so because of that and some other messed up reasons i naturally developed an ed and have been struggling with that over the past eight years. i went vegan for ethical reasons at 16 which made me lose those 5 extra kilos and ever since then i‘ve been losing and gaining the same 3-4kg in the healthy weight range but it’s never been substantial.

after years of therapy and learning to love myself it somehow clicked this year. i don’t look at myself in the mirror with disgust anymore, i don’t hate my body, i don’t see food as a reward or punishment anymore and exercise is something that just makes sense for some reason. i’m now at the lowest weight i’ve ever been with my height (181cm/73kg) and i just keep on losing. i feel like it could actually be possible for me to achieve that “supermodel body” and it kinda scares me. i don’t think that i need that body type to be happy or beautiful anymore, i already am happy and beautiful. however i still want to look like that. (mainly just to see how that version of myself that i’ve dreamed of for years would actually look like ngl hahaha)

so why am i scared of that? is it the lose skin? no, it’ll just bounce back since i’m still young and i’m really not losing that much.

is it that i’m scared i’ll become a bully myself? no, i have so much love in me and have forgiven all people who’ve wronged me in some way before so i don’t hold any anger anymore. plus i don’t think anyone should ever be bullied, especially not for their looks.

scared of losing my “safety blanket”? nope, don’t need that anymore. scared that i won’t be able to recognize myself? no, not that either.

i’ve thought through every single possible reason and the only conclusion i came to is that some little part of me still believes that i don’t deserve to look like i want to look. and that’s okay. today i will choose to be kind to that part, to be kind to myself because i deserve everything i’ve ever dreamed of. i am not worthless and neither are you.

this was just me rambling for a bit and i know this post doesn’t really offer much advice but i hope that some of you can take something away from it.

weight loss is such a hard journey and it can put you through absolute hell mentally and emotionally, no matter how much or little you want to lose. you are so incredibly strong for even just being here and i believe in you. you are amazing, incredible and beautiful. i truly hope you can choose to be kind to yourself for today as well, because you truly deserve it. you deserve the world!

sorry for formatting i’m on my phone and i really don’t like capitalized letters lol

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I'm at the end of my 100 pound weight loss journey and my excess skin is coming off soon! Here's some advice about the surgery to other big losers who might be contemplating it themselves.

So the title says most of it anyway. I'm a big loser like many people here and about to get a tummy tuck/abdominoplasty. I've done a lot of legwork with the process and wanted to share some of the pitfalls and successes I've had in terms of planning the surgery, finding a surgeon, costs/paying for surgery, and even how to determine if you should have the surgery (IMHO).

As a precursor, know that you're actually ready. Are you at your goal weight or a healthy weight? Has your weight been stable (i.e. 1-2 years min)? Do you know what it is you want to accomplish with a tummy tuck? Is what you're seeing actually loose skin or simply excess fat? Does what you see bother you enough you'd want to undergo surgery to correct it?

If you're still obese and considering getting the tummy tuck, please keep going until you reach a normal BMI. You owe it to yourself and a tummy tuck is not going to reveal a magical body underneath. IMO if you've lost enough weight to have loose skin, you 100% have the capacity to get to a truly healthy weight. If you still find yourself binging or emotional eating despite being at a healthy weight - this was huge for me - you also need to ask yourself if it's the right time. If your weight loss was less dramatic, is what you're seeing really loose skin? A tummy tuck scar can be 8" or around your hips. Is it worth going under the knife for that?

So after that disclaimer, tips for surgery...

  1. Shop surgeons. I ended up getting 4 consults and paid $300 - $150 of which was non-refundable. Absolutely glad I did it. You pay a consult fee and it's applied to the surgery if you go with that surgeon; if not, you lose it. Seeing 4 doctors let me know whose prices were in line and whose weren't - I'll get more to that soon. Seeing 4 doctors also let know which tummy tuck to decide on (e.g. mini, standard, extended, body lift/belt lipectomy). It's never bad to have a second opinion, if only to confirm. And one of the doctors I was appalled by so...
  2. Plan. Taking medical leave through work, applying for Short Term Disability (if applicable), arranging for a caretaker, medical followups - all take a lot of time. Your back-to-work time might be anywhere from 2-8 weeks depending on your procedure. If you're only getting loose skin removed (panniculectomy) with liposuction (included in the procedure cost), you're looking at a few weeks recovery - this is for all the big losers. If you're getting abdominal muscle repair, you'll be out much longer - this is primarily women from childbirth. You'll need a caretaker for your first week or two. Meal prep is a good thing.
  3. Consider all the costs and how you'll pay. I'm in the U.S. and my procedure is being performed domestically. My 4 quotes in a major Northeastern city as of late 2020 average slightly under $11k for abdominoplasty without muscle repair in a surgical center. Doctors' offices will frequently give you the option of having the procedure in a surgery center or a hospital. Regardless of the decision, the procedure is outpatient and lasts about 3-4 hours. A surgery center will cost anywhere from $1k-$2k less than the hospital. Abdominoplasty with muscle repair will cost more. Insurance will not cover your procedure. You realistically cannot obtain pre-authorization before your surgery either, unless you want to fight for it years ahead of time. Insurance will only cover panniculectomies (loose skin removal) in cases of EXTREME weight loss that include skin irritations leading to chronic infection. Quality of life considerations do not come into play. Most plastic surgeon's offices are not set up for medical insurance billing and will tell you upfront they will help you with whatever documentation you'll need, but that the fight is yours.

The biggest expense besides the surgery is lost pay. I'm fortunate in that my Short Term Disability policy covers all elective surgeries. Most seem like they don't, but it doesn't hurt to inquire. STD pays a fraction of your average wage after you've been out of work for a certain amount of days (the benefit doesn't start immediately).

I hope this next part helps people, because it's shaved thousands of dollars off my total costs had I not done otherwise. (I didn't invent capitalism.)

I recognize that this piece won't help everyone. The surgery itself is obviously a stretch purchase for the vast majority of folks. Here's what I'd recommend if your situation is similar to mine.

I saved for the entire procedure (including lost pay) and was going to pay in cash, but I'm paying with credit cards instead. If you have good credit and can afford the surgery outright, consider doing the same. Don't get 0% financing or financing through the doctor's office. This has helped me shave about $3k from my total bill.

Credit card sign up offers are golden. You might get an offer that reads, "Spend $1,000 in the first month, get $200 cashback!" or something similar. They're all the same; spend money X in 90 days and get reward Y.

I put all of my regular expenses on credit cards anyway - easier to track, I get rewards, better purchase protection. I spend $2k a month on average. But to be clear, I pay everything in full each month, so I carry no balance. So if you're planning a $11k surgery and have credit card expenses of $2k per month like me, you're looking at $17k in 90 days. How many credit cards can I sign up for then? I got 6 with an 800 credit score, but in theory anything about 750 should be fine. With all my bonus offers, minus a few with annual fees, I netted a little under $2,000.

Running multiple credit cards is going to result in multiple hard inquiries. This typically hurts people's credit. I did NOT hurt mine. This is why:

Credit score formulas are complicated and opaque, but basically you're judged off of different metrics with different degrees of importance. Paying on time is by far number one with something like number of accounts coming in last. Another key aspect is your utilization ratio. Basically, the less of your available credit you use (outstanding amounts/all credit card spending limits), the better your score. Even with 6 hard inquiries on my credit, my score did not go down. The credit limits on my new cards caused my utilization to plummet, offsetting the dip from the inquiries (evidently). YMMV.

I did all the applications online in rapid fire and got instant approvals. This part helps A LOT. I link all my bills through PayPal. Pay for your recurring bills through PayPal and set up a new card as the default. Pay for all your physical purchases on this card until you hit the minimum spend amount and then pay off the card entirely. Repeat this process for the next card and the next until your surgery. Once your surgery fees are due - typically two weeks prior to surgery - ask the surgeon to split the cost among your remaining cards that still need to hit the minimum to receive the bonus. With proper planning and financials, you shouldn't have to pay a dime in interest.

For me, STD benefits are direct deposit and eligible for new account bonuses in the same way credit cards are, "Make X amount in direct deposits in 90 days and receive reward Y!". The online portal that administers my benefits is insanely easy with direct deposit, I can actually set up multiple accounts with defined contributions per week. So I opened up 5 checking accounts with a $200 average bonus for $500 direct deposits in 90 days (or $2,500 in 90 days for all 5 total). $100 per week from STD benefits into each account will cover me after 5 weeks, for an additional bonus of $1,000.

Total "savings" of $3k. The pitfalls to watch out for are making sure you aren't paying monthly fees on the checking accounts or annual fees on the credit cards. Also, pay your entire statement off. If you were gonna pay upfront, you already have the money.

Tangent: I've learned a lot about credit cards and checking accounts too. They're definitely not all created equal. If you find a financial product you like, stick with it and don't just cancel once you've gotten your intro bonus. Similarly, don't hold onto a bad product; you tried it and it didn't work out. Don't feel bad, it's competition among banks looking for your money.

Good luck, losers.

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I'm a diet soda addict and I can't stop. Advices?

I've lost over 88 lbs in the past 2 years and a half. I'm still trying to lose the last 15 pounds even though it's been a struggle. I became a diet coke Addict last year and I've been drinking it non stop every single day. I'm talking about 2 full bottles a day. Lately my urge to Binge has been through the roof, I watch eating videos to curb my hunger, I dream about what I would eat if I could binge all day and I believe that diet soda is what's causing all of it. However I can't stop it. If I don't have it in my house I go crazy, I wake up in the middle of the night wanting something sweet and when I have nothing to snack on or my soda to drink I lose my sh*t. It's like a drug addiction but it's messing with my weight loss journey and controls my life. Please feel free to share some tips or anything that could help.

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Finally starting to see progress!

Hi there! So I am new to this subreddit and I just wanted to share how my weight loss journey started and how things are going.

In May of 2020, I (24F, 5'6") was diagnosed with a metabolic/hormonal condition called PCOS. I was at a fairly normal weight for my height back in high school, but it progressively got worse throughout college. I figured it was just due to the stress and lack of sleep, but after getting my diagnosis it made a lot more sense since weight gain is one of the main symptoms of the condition. Throughout most of my time in college, I was roughly 238 lbs and would fluctuate +/-2 lbs. I tried to work out when I could in between my classes and job, but nothing was really working. When I got my diagnosis last year that's when I realized I really needed to do something about it, especially since my condition puts me at risk for type 2 diabetes (which I already had a risk of genetically since my mom has it).

Anyways, over the past year since the diagnosis, I started to make small changes in my eating habits such as switching from my refined carb intake to whole grains, reducing my sugar intake, eating more protein and healthy fats, etc. I also started to walk every day and swim a couple of times a week. When I followed up with my doctor in October, I had dropped down to 231. It honestly didn't feel like much, but my doctor commended me for it. I then started working a job that requires a lot of walking and lifting (I work in a special ed classroom as an assistant, it definitely keeps me active). I kept up with what I was doing but slacked during December because our classroom had to quarantine and the pool I swam at closed.

I got back on it in February and joined a gym thanks to a discount, and got two free sessions with a personal trainer (I can't afford to buy a program unfortunately), but in the first session, he showed me some resistance exercises I can do in addition to my swimming and other cardio. The first one focused on upper body exercises, the second one when I have it will focus on lower body and abs. I will get to keep meeting with the trainer monthly but just as a check-in about my goals since I'm not doing a program. I've also started going to a yoga class once a week and am really enjoying it as well.

As for my progress, I just weighed myself at the gym yesterday and I dropped down to 224.6 lbs! I was so happy, I've officially lost about 14 lbs since my diagnosis and I'm going to keep working hard at it so I can get my BMI below 30! And this also feels amazing because a shirt that used to be a bit snug on me, fits better now than it used to! So I know that it's working and I just wanted to share with you all. PCOS is known to make it difficult for women who have it to lose weight and the solutions for dealing with the symptoms associated with are also variable, I'm glad that I've finally found something that is working! :D So even if you are struggling and/or have a condition like this, there is hope, don't give up!

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Saturday, March 6, 2021

I have no idea how to lose weight

Hi, i’m a long time watcher on this sub but i have never posted. I am a female (5’7) 160lb and i play basketball high level. I am not a very fat looking woman but i am too chubby that the scouts for college told me i need to drop 20lb for them to consider me for a scholarship.

The problem is i have no idea how to lose weight at all. When i try to follow basic rules such as CICO i just get hungry and binge eat. I need this scholarship and i am certain i would get it if i could drop this extra weight, so i was hoping you could drop any tips or things that have helped you for someone at the start of their weight loss journey.

also please excuse my poor english as this is not my first language and i have struggled with it for a while.

any tips would be great!

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