Monday, October 11, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 11 October 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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I have lost a total of 75lb from my 115lb goal from the fattest city in America

Yep I’m from Mcallen Texas Little background… I’ve been fat my whole life from a serious of events dad passing away stress depression school etc.. I’m 21 and in 2020 I signed up for community college but failed horribly due to depression but I tried and well failed god knows I gave it my all…. So I decided for my health my well-being to take 2021 off to heal myself let go and rebuild myself anew I have a fire in me to change for the better not for me but for my future children my mother and everyone else who wants to see me do better…

I started mid to late February doing zero to no cardio depending on a calorie deficit and strength training only to build my physique.

Im 6’3 started at above 335lb currently 260lb goal is 220lb good amount of muscle on my frame from high school football to now..

The start was a bit rocky I thought cardio was everything and eating very little was the key I quickly corrected myself before it was too late watching YouTube videos about body building really hooked me in and now I’m counting calories hitting the gym 5 days a week with sat and sun for cardio 2k calories a day with 160g-200g of protein every single day I’m not well off financially so it’s the best I can do

With my goal being 220lb I only have 3 months left for my weight loss journey quite literally entering 2022 as someone brand new

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Sunday, October 10, 2021

Is it time for me to let go of weight loss? I’m not determined. Why am I holding onto something I know I’m not going to do? Will I ever be ready?

I want to be (ready)… sometimes the stars align and you feel ready, I know it exists because it happened to me once before. I’m guessing most of the time though, there is no such thing as “ready” and you just push on through not knowing what the fuck you’re doing but somehow making it there, to your goal or at least somewhere close to it.

I have 15 pounds to go until I get to a healthy weight, and 22-28 pounds until my ideal range of weight. I realize I’m not currently determined though… but at the same time I DO want to change. I know it’s not going to happen. Without determination does anything happen?

Do you think one day I’ll be ready to lose this excess weight? It’s really weighing down on me, mentally and physically. But I know getting rid of it takes lots of hard work and I’m unable to give that right now. And that sucks. And you know, admitting that I won’t lose weight is a big step for me… Ive hung on to this desire to lose weight for a very long time… maybe it’s time to let it go and revisit it later. But I’m really not sure. Which is why I need you all’s advice.

I know the small things I could do… just to feel good and for my health that won’t lead to weight loss (the thing that I want) unless I’m in a calorie deficit. And I find sometimes just the thought of it all overwhelms me, the thought of conquering my eating disorder, getting better, and losing weight. Living a better life… being a better me… it’s overwhelming, and frustrating.

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I didn’t realize how depressed I was until I decided to change my lifestyle and lose weight.

Something silly but I’ve started exercising and dieting. Nothing hardcore like keto but just small lifestyle changes. I’ve only lost 7 pounds in three weeks but wow. It’s incredible how much better I feel.

I didn’t realize how badly I was depressed until the fog started lifting. I actually started working on my Silk and Sonder journal I’ve neglected for two months.

I am doing self care habits like brushing and flossing and showering daily. I have enough energy to make my bed in the morning. I didn’t realize how much I had fallen until I started picking myself back up.

So I don’t feel bad about not losing weight quickly. The best part about diet and exercise at least for me, is finally getting a winning handle on my depression.

The weight loss is following I’m sure. Just a simple little post but I wanted to share since I’m finally feeling things again, like ambition and motivation.

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I am going to be flying soon for the first time in my life. I am still on my weight loss journey and super nervous about flying and fitting in the seats.

Just a super awkward question all around. At my highest weight I was near 500 pounds. I am now about 300 pounds. I have been super proud of myself and am showing no signs of slowing down. But now is coming time where I am going to be traveling. I cannot afford first class so I am going to be flying basic economy. I am flying united and it seems the seat sizes across my flights are going to be about 17 inches. From measuring some seats around here and there I have found some chairs that seem to be 17 inches which I fit into just fine. But I still can't shake the nervous feeling. I am also fairly tall at 6'0. My aunt and my sister got me nervous as they said they barely fit in the seats and they are both average weight for their heights.

I figured this would be the best place to post because a lot of people can be rude in other places and just say "buy a second seat fatty" or something and obviously I don't have money to just throw around to buy a second seat. This trip is important to me for a few reasons without going into personal details so it's not something I can just not do as well.

I am more than confident I will be fine with the seatbelt with the extender which I know all airlines offer I am just afraid of fitting in the seat. I am likely overthinking it but I figured I would post here.

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Feeling like I'm conquering my emotional eating finally and it's making such a difference

I've always been an emotional eater. Food was my best friend. Ate myself to obesity and insulin resistance, no problem. Breaking that habit has been something I've struggled with for a long time, but I finally feeling like I'm making mental progress! I've lost 35 lbs, and feel like this has been the most crucial part of that. I cannot overstate how important it is to work on your emotions and feelings and thought processes around eating, as well as just coming up with a diet.

I couldn't stick to any diets before, because I didn't want to. I just wanted to eat. I had to make myself understand that it's okay, it's normal to want to eat when I'm stressed out or just generally feeling my feelings, but that I need to find different coping mechanisms, and I need to not see food as my go-to comfort blanket. It's not easy, for sure, there's been a lot of introspection, but if the results of that are going to be my weight loss actually working, I'm willing to do it!

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Start of a journey

Hi everybody,

I've been lurking here for a while reading all of your amazing success stories!

I started reading CICO information on here, and after rebounding from unsuccessful attempts earlier to lose weight (3 month Juice cleanse, corporate weight loss programs & strict macro control) I decided this might finally work for me.

To give some background I've been overweight a large majority of my life, however after moving to a new country a little over two years ago, I had no access to a scale and was enjoying trying new foods, engaging in social activity of drinking and restaurants and especially during the pandemic, a very sedentary life. Well, my wife recently bought a bathroom scale and I though to myself I must have gained a few pounds since moving - stepping on the scales and seeing 325lbs is quite jarring. I'm 6'3 and 31 years old - if I don't do something now things could spiral quite quickly... (When i moved I weighed roughly 270).

So fast forward to today, it's been a month (Since 09/09/2021) since I started CICO, I've tried to stick to 1500 calories (the TDEE calculator, as flawed as it is shows a requirement roughly of 3,458 and therefore a deficit or around 1950 calories per day). To do this I've been buying pre-packed meals from our local supermarket and relying on their calorie indications, tracking through MyFitnessPal and also started exercising. We've also totally cut out soda and moved to water and things like LaCroix selzer (beer has also completely gone from my diet, difficult but manageable).

So a month in and I stepped on the scales and I'm 298 lbs, a loss of 28 lbs in a month, I understand that this figure will slow as I move forward but I wanted to post to say thank you for all of your stories, all of your troubles that you share and all of the hard work you've done that have been so relevant to me and have made me begin.

It's been two years since I've seen my overseas family due to the pandemic, and it looks like it will be another 9 months before I see them again, I'm aiming for 220 before then, lower if possible with a goal weight of 200 lbs.

Here comes the question I have for the community - Buying pre-packed fresh meals isn't cheap, especially for two people each day, I enjoy cooking and like to think of myself as quite good at it. I'm worried about portion sizing, wastage and with a busy work schedule, slacking on counting ingredients and weighing everything that we put into meals. For those of you with a similar transition from pre-made meals to home cooked, how did you deal with this, I'm unable to see myself being able to create a lasagna for two with 550 calories each, similar to what I currently eat? I'm not getting hungry currently as the food I'm eating is delicious, I'm able to buy small snack packs of cranberry, nuts and cheese that total 100 calories which keep me satisfied between meals. I worry that moving away from what I'm doing will cause me to revert back to old habits, but it's much more expensive to do what we're currently doing. I also worry about eventual maintenance as I would need to increase the calorific intake which would equate to more money.

Thank you for reading this long post I appreciate the whole community and good luck on your journeys!

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