Saturday, February 11, 2023

Confidence while overweight

I just made a comment about this topic in another sub, and it gave me the idea to post about it here. I find it very difficult to still feel attractive even though I need to lose a good 30 lbs (maybe more). Growing up, it was always pounded into my head to NEVER “get fat” as if my life would be over if I did. I am 42F and that perfectionistic attitude still haunts me. The worst thing is the depression and self-sabotage that ensues. I am not as bad as I used to be in that department, but still need to improve a little.

What are your tips for still feeling attractive before you hit your weight loss goal, and not letting the extra weight bring you down?

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Lost 4 pounds in a week!

I know losing 4 pounds is not much, but for the first time I have been eating things I enjoy and found alternatives for my weight loss. Having my colleague who is also losing weight and discussing better snacks and motivating each other has motivated me. As well as the advice people have been giving on here. And I feel a lot less doubtful of making this lifestyle change. I also love veggies, so I try to include veggies in my diet with something I like. I hate tracking calories, but that has for sure helped me know what or how much of something I am entering in to my meals. When I originally lost weight, I ate nothing and did a lot of fasting, worked out 4 days a week, and was just so unhappy. The only time I would eat junk was when I would go out with friends. I loved how I looked, but it came at a huge price. I realized how unhappy that made me during the pandemic and stopped working out. Everything I hate had no taste in it and I thought that was how weight loss worked. And I actually feel happier. Seeing that I lost 4 pounds this week really motivates me to keep doin it. I wanted to share with everyone what I am doing. Right now I am not actively working out, but I plan to start right now doing walks and when I feel like it, going to the gym. Because I am not really used to going to the gym at this time. Right now I am just focusing on fixing my diet, so I can keep it consistent for when I hit the gym. Right now I am currently consuming 1,500 calories. That is where I feel most comfortable, I am 5"2" and it feels attainable and not as extreme.

Snacks I eat when I have that sugar itch that I love:

Trader Joes: Anabar Fruity Cereal Crunch

Whole Foods NUGO Peanut Cluster Stronger

Made Good Krispy Treat Bar

Kind Chewy Granola Bars -Don't eat this too much or at all, but have it as a go to for lower calorie since the bars are only 100 calories per bar.

Amazon- Keto Cheese Cake flavored powder for my shakes

When I have coffee in the morning

Whole Foods Collagen Creamer Mocha Powder

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I an extremely anxious about my health

I am 17, i weigh around 198lbs/90kgs and I’ve been recently trying to lose weight. My BMI tells me that I’m considered severely obese. I do not have health problems at the moment, and I’ve been this heavy for almost a year only. I used to weigh 10 kgs less a year ago, but I struggle with multiple mental illnesses and stress eating has been very present in my life (2022 was one of the hardest years mentally, if not the worst year of my life so far).

Anyways I’ve been recently healing, and I have been constantly going to the gym. I’m for once truly happy, which hasn’t happened since years and years but I am so scared for my physical health. I’m scared of still developing diabetes, I’m scared of the really high cholesterol I have and I’m overall scared that even tho I am going to put in the effort, It’s already too late for me because I messed up real bad.

This may sound dramatic I know, but I have major anxiety about this stuff and you guys also know that overthinking is a huge part of a weight loss journey.

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What is keeping you from changing your eating habits or getting in shape?

Im a dietitian and want to put together a free webinar/resources to help people who struggle with weight loss.

If you have been trying to lose weight/eat better/get in shape, what is keeping you stuck?

-motivation?
-lack of time?
-feeling overwhelmed?
-not seeing any results so then giving up?
-feeling like its too hard?
-lack of community + support?

On the flipside, if you've successfully lose weight and have kept it off--what would you say is the #1 or 2 things that really contributed to your success?

Thanks in advance!

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First time cutting - seeking advice with a few questions

Hey LoseIt,

I'll try keep it simple.

Context: 27 M / CW: 84kg (~185lb) / ~ 5'8.

Activity: Go to gym 4x a week (hypertrophy Upper-Lower type split ; used to do a focus on powerlifting but have since moved).

Dieting: I made a commitment to start cutting (downloading MFP and tracking 'most' of my food) around 3 weeks ago; so say 22-Jan-2023. I believe my weight prior to this was anywhere from 85-87kg (coming from the new year festive season), but most likely within the 86-87kg region - unfortunately I didn't have a concrete measuring.

I didn't really bother testing out my TDEE and just jumped straight into a 2k calorie intake from that Jan date. The reason why is because I recall i used to track around 2-2.5k cals on a previous weight loss log history. Nonetheless, I think it seems to have some results as I'm in the 84kg region (uppers and unders) from a year high of 86-87kg (to be conservative).

I know that water weight and hormones due to dieting skews the game a bit, so a lot of these numbers may need to be taken with some skepticism.

Q1) Any real dramas with just starting at a ~2k caloric intake? I gather that the scale and gym performance will be the tell-tale sign if it's genuinely too low. Given that it has been 3 weeks and the scale hasn't severely dropped too much, then I presume it's a nice rough start. The caveat is if it starts to stall (which leads to my next question), then am I at risk of already having a somewhat low caloric intake for a 85kg male?

Q2) During this 3 week process, I find the scale oscillates a lot - some days are higher and then lower. I understand that we should be tracking a 7-day moving average (which I have), however I had thought most of the fluctuations after the onset would have largely stabilised and I'd see consistent loss. The alternative is how long do I give myself to allow for the 'Woosh' effect? Say I am on the right path and will it just suddenly come later with a sharp drop ? (which is what today's 84kg felt like as I used to be closer to the 85kg region).

Q3) The reason why I said 'most' foods were being tracked was that I sort of omit the low cal greens. Things like lettuce etc. However, if I tend to eat A LOT of them, then I'll guesstimate an aggregate weight of that lettuce (As an example) and log it in. But for big carbs and big meats, I'll obviously track them as they'll be the real heavy hitters in accumulating calories. I usually stop around 1.8k cals to account for oils and other condiments (I eat in an asian household where I usually have some of my mum's cooking, but for most meats I will cook and track myself). As such, this gives around a 10% buffer for oils/condiments etc. Noting that we don't typically eat thick condiments anyway - instead opt for things like soy sauce, etc.

Q4) My goal is to lose 10kg (~22lbs), but i also have a self imposed deadline around mid-May in terms of timing. So my goal is to try shed a reasonable amount of weight until May but not lose too much muscle - perhaps just a slow and steady approach works best [would likely result in 2lb loss a month] ? And as such, the amount of weight loss in itself is just arbitrary?

Thank you

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Can potatoes really help with weight loss?

I apologize if this has been asked here previously

I am a male, 181m and 85kg (about 180lb). I've been struggling with losing weight for sometime now even though I have really cut back on my food intake. Most times my dinners are mostly vegetables and whole wheat pasta, however I read an article about how the actor Robert Pattinson was on a strict Potato diet and lost a lot of weight. I would like to know if there's any truth to this and if there is, what amount of Potato would be good to stick to ( 200lbs, 300lbs?) Also can sweet potatoes be used or does it have to be the plain white potatoes? Can I have vegetables like Lettuce, carrots,cabbage along with potatoes?

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I will not weigh myself for a month - challenge

Dear All,

I have been a lurker here for a while. I would like to lose 10 -15 pounds tops. But since tracking calories, working out and weighing myself, I have been gaining weight. I think I overdid-it for myself. I'm going on a vacation in a month so I decided to only focus on what I can do: workout consistently, sleep well and manage a bit more protein, but no calorie goal or weight loss goal.

I would like to focus on how these changes make me feel rather than numbers for now. It might change later tho.

Also: thank you for this sub!

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