Sunday, November 11, 2018

Researchers: Another confusing claim!

Another day, another headline tells us higher fat content makes mice fat! Or maybe it doesn’t? Or maybe it’s only mice?

Some might think that the researchers are just making names for themselves. Or, that it was a double-blind study and thoroughly peer reviewed so it’s unassailable. Others will say That the journalists covering the study aren’t treating it fairly, or completely. Or that the study is, or isn’t, repeatable. And on and on.

Information, countering information, disinformation, agendas, counter agendas...it’s enough to make you want to give up and stay fat.

But guess what? If you’re on this forum, you’ve found the antidote. The truth. The truth about successful weight loss is CICO + patience + ups and downs + support. It is trial and error, constant re-dedication, humility, and small victories.

And no one will make any money off of you. You will learn moderation and control. And you will learn about how to love and forgive yourself over a long period of time.

Edits made for clarity.

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[Vent] "You should now find a partner"

Good morning (at least in my time zone).

This isn't directly about my weight loss, I just need a place to vent and I'm sorry if this is not the appropriate sub.

Long story short: I was overweight since I was a teenager (I'm mid 30s now), started losing weight at the beginning of the year with 130kg and I'm around 73kg for more than a month now. I'm happy about my weightloss and I'm really looking forward to the results of my last checkup (they'll come in tomorrow), so that's not the issue here. What is, is a discussion I had with a neighbour yesterday. I know that I'm overthinking this, but my head spins and I want to simply write it down somewhere and try to get this out of my mind.

So I have been single for a very long time and my last relationship ended badly, due to severe differences when it comes to having children. I had an FWB for years, but that also ended badly as she started to push it towards a relationship (she knew from day one, that it's never going to happen). I'm like 95% of the time happy being a single. I gives me a lot of freedom, I have my own cozy place, a nice job and a steady income and I can do whatever I want with my free time. But there are some moments (like this morning) when I think, that waking up besides somebody who makes me smile would be a nice thing too.

But back to this discussion I had: I was just taking the trash out and an old lady started talking to me. She was asking if it's really me, as she haven't seen me for months and I look so different. We had the usual talk about my method, how long it took, the benefits and the side effects, so just the usual smalltalk. All of a sudden she started talking about meeting women. It's a bit weird to begin with: She has no idea if I have a partner and it could also be, that my interest is not only in women, but yeah, it was just some casual smalltalk. She then started saying things like "Oh, you'll now easily find a partner and start a family"... I know she said this because she wants to be nice, BUT IT FUCKING HURTS! Yes it might be absolutely true, that it's easier to attract others when you're in shape, but that's not all. My social life is shit as I have abandoned it for several years because of work(ing abroad). I'm slowly getting back into it but it's not very easy and sometimes really frustrating.

My godmother said something similar some weeks ago, she always calls my weightloss a "project" and said "Your next project should be finding a girlfriend"...

It's not directly related, it's not that easy, it's not like I'm not trying and it's none of your business... AND IT HURTS.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 11 November 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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What were/are the most frustrating aspects of losing weight for you, and how did/do you overcome them?

I am really curious about this question — it seems like everyone is struggling with slightly different aspects of weight loss. Sharing our frustrations with one another does a few things in my opinion:

  1. Different people have different solutions to the same problems from which we can learn from.

  2. Being aware of potential pitfalls and challenges makes it easier to overcome them once we’ll face them.

  3. Writing about your challenges forces you to think through and verbalise the challenge and if you dig a little deeper, the root of the problem. Take it one step further and you can think about creative ways how to solve it.

For me, gaining momentum is the most frustrating part. Once I hit my macros, ditched the sugar etc. for a couple of days it is smooth sailing but getting there is always a bit of a struggle. I haven’t found a great solution for this yet (streak apps don’t work). I might try rewarding myself disproportionally for getting the first week right, knowing that afterwards I won’t need a reward as big anymore as I identify the value of staying on track.

Besides this, spontaneity is a bit of a frustration for me. Sometimes I won’t be home in time or leave to a social gathering or so after work and I’m out of food. Not having snacks with me at all times that I can track from a calorie standpoint sometimes throws me off.

What are your frustrations? And how do you solve them?

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Saturday, November 10, 2018

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Sunday, 11 November 2018

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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Experiencing disordered eating

Since Labor Day, I have lost 18.2 lbs. Initially, I really felt like I was just making better, healthier choices. However, some things have happened since then and I'm now eating in a very disordered way.

I tend to eat once or twice per day, maybe not what normal people would consider proper meals. A couple times in the last month, I've gone over 24 hours without eating.

I recognize that my weight loss progress is technically coming at a safe pace (less than 2lbs/week), but I don't want my weight to go into freefall.

I want to feel like I'm not alone in this, so I hope this is a safe space to discuss such topics.

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SV? More like life victory. Thank you r/loseit

Firstly, please remove this post if i've messed it up accidentally, just as I had been under the impression that I had somehow 'accidentally' made it to 81kg (178lbs) by my 22nd year (portion control and I did not see eye to eye). I thought I was succeeding to be healthier and lose weight for years, eating vegetables and drinking vodka (rather than sugary premixes) and steering clear of wheat and dairy due to IBS (still sadly a non-negotiable).

Thirty days ago, feeling heavy and unhappy, I saw an r/loseit post make it to r/all. Rather cynically, I checked the sidebar information and questioned how someone could sanely count calories. Thirty days later, I am counting calories daily - I have become one of the 'crazy' people that I used to shake my head at. Why? Because at 8kg lighter (-17lbs) I can see that I can eat what I want (within my calorie limit) and still lose weight. Because now I am "no longer "bulimic (30 days of not forcing myself to throw up 'bad' foods, even though I accept this illness will be a continual burden), and I believe I am on my way to mending my relationship with food (as well as my body).

Overall, spending 5 mins a day to input my food into myfitnesspal has already put me in a better mental and physical state. Funnily enough, my IBS has not flared up the entire time, which was almost unfathomable to me thirty days ago. Also, for anyone out there justifying their bulimia - please seek help. You deserve to have peace. I've still got some way to go with my weight loss, but I feel free knowing this change is more of a longterm lifestyle one that can only make me healthier. Good luck!

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